Tag Archives: Neil Strauss

What’s The Ideal Social Status And How Would I Know If I Had It?

I talk a lot about “social status” and people ask me what I mean. Social status is your place in the pecking order. When you walk into a room, do people seek you out or do they avoid you? Do … Continue reading

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Is It OK To Talk About Alexander Technique And Beauty?

Alexander teachers would benefit from publishing more before and after pictures. I like what Amira Alvarez does here. I was shocked by the before and after picture of Lulie Westfeld in her book on her Alexander journey. These kind of … Continue reading

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Men And Women From Broken Homes

I’ve never forgotten when pick-up artist Neil Strauss told me he wouldn’t date women from broken homes. They had too much psychological baggage. I was struck by that and thought back over my relationships and I remembered all the turbulence … Continue reading

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Price Of Sex Hits Record Lows

This rings true to me. I’ve never had much money. I used to live out of a 1977 Datsun stationwagon and I made it with half a dozen women in there in 1994. I wonder if part of this has … Continue reading

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How I Discovered The Alexander Technique

September, 2010 “What’s the matter, Luke?” asks the hostess at the end of the meal. “You haven’t said anything inappropriate all meal? We even have two single women here.” I am at Shabbos lunch with friends. I’ve known them for … Continue reading

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I’m Tired Of Dating Girls From Broken Homes

Pick-up artist and author Neil Strauss told me that he does not date women from broken homes. They don’t know how to love the opposite sex. I found that a fascinating insight. At the grand old age of 44, I … Continue reading

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The Blind Side

I love this movie. I identify with its big black protagonist. Like him, I’ve often felt lost. I often walk through the cold without a coat. I remember running up to Young Israel of Century City one Shabbos afternoon. It … Continue reading

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The New Dating Game

Charlotte Allen presents a distinctly conservative and feminine approach. She disses Neil Strauss’s book, which most people I know found a compelling read: Men, eager for replication, are naturally polygamous, while women are naturally monogamous

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Meeting The Tests Women Throw Your Way

I just read Orit Arfa‘s new ebook, “Survival of the S—test“. I wish she hadn’t used an obscenity as her title and theme. I’m not into the fecal. It’s not Jewish to muck around in that stuff. Oy, what will … Continue reading

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Is It OK To Lie To Pick Up Women?

Here are excerpts from an interview with Richard "Gambler" La Ruina, Europe’s premiere pick-up artist: I think I learnt many techniques from many different people. So all the people like Mystery, Neil Strauss, Tyler, but I would say I don?t … Continue reading

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