Category Archives: Personal

When I check up on friends who are going through a tough time, occasionally I get paranoid responses along the lines of why do you want to know? So while I have stayed friends with them, I never again check … Continue reading →

I’ve come to see my Youtube show, podcast and blog as a conversation and therefore a type of relationship with my audience. This thing we’re doing is not primarily about information or entertainment, or arriving at definitive conclusions. It’s about … Continue reading →

We can only relate to people who at the same level of differentiation (emotional maturity) as ourselves. More than a decade ago, a woman blogged (and this gives an indication of the confused state of my life and psyche back … Continue reading →

If your ex is as bad as you say, then you are equally bad for having a relationship with him. If your ex is not as bad as you say, then you are deranged.