I’m Live On My Cam For An Excruciatingly Personal Phone Call At 10 AM PST!

Join the fun.

QuixoticLass:  thing is, you can’t fake that
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QuixoticLass:  don’t you agree, emma?
Emma:  Fake being genuine?
Emma:  I guess not
Emma:  Your a happy bunny today Lukey
YourMoralLeader:  I’m with my friends!
Emma:  🙂
QuixoticLass:  Friends don’t let friends wear beige if it drains them of all color.
Lilithena:  I still can’t figure out what this is about
guest6:  can’t wait for the special phone call
Emma:  Hey Khun
KhunDiddy:  The gang’s all here I see
Emma:  How are you Khun?
KhunDiddy:  can’t stay long or the wife will yell at me
KhunDiddy:  Emma   my sweet
KhunDiddy:  how R U?
KhunDiddy:  Q Lass
Emma:  Fine thanks
KhunDiddy:  great to hear that
Emma:  😀
KhunDiddy:  Emma  R U falling more in love with Luke with each passing day?
KhunDiddy:  you need to come to the US of A and straighten our boy out
Emma:  Are you?
KhunDiddy:  hahahaaaaa
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KhunDiddy:  he doesn’t look as Gay as he did when I first met him
YourMoralLeader:  Khun’s been like a father to me
KhunDiddy:  hahahaaa
Emma:  lol
KhunDiddy:  he’s my wayward son…the son a never had
KhunDiddy:  the son who would be asking me to help him with the rent each month
ToTheSea:  Khun…….
Emma:  hahahaha
ToTheSea:  Are you aware that hovel is also a verb…..
KhunDiddy:  and I’d be advising him to get a REAL job which is what I do now
ToTheSea:  It means to provide shelter………
KhunDiddy:  Emma can you see Luke delivering your mail?
Emma:  ?
ToTheSea:  So, the question is there a noun…….ie a profession: hoveler….hovelling……
KhunDiddy:  Luke a Mailman with a snappy outfit on
KhunDiddy:  a jaunty cap
Emma:  Deff not my mailman
KhunDiddy:  How about Luke patrolling the border…catching illegal mexican?
Emma:  Nah
KhunDiddy:  Luke the border patrol officer?
Emma:  Nah
KhunDiddy:  NO?
Emma:  lol no
KhunDiddy:  well I guess he better stay where he is then
YourMoralLeader:  how about straight eye for the queer guy?
Emma:  Yep
Emma:  lmao
KhunDiddy:  LA Police?
KhunDiddy:  FBI
Emma:  hmm
Lilithena:  Why not the army?
Emma:  nope
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KhunDiddy:  Homeland Security?
Emma:  My sister was in the army
Lilithena:  The army needs good men
KhunDiddy:  ARMY..he’s too old
ToTheSea:  How about a bouncer?
QuietStorm:  good morning Luke
KhunDiddy:  bouncer hahaaaa
Emma:  He is fine as a writer
Lilithena:  The army takes men up to 40
ToTheSea:  jaunty
QuietStorm:  Hello emma
KhunDiddy:  Luke would be bounced out of the establishment by the patrons ahahaaaa
Emma:  Hey storm
QuietStorm:  what is going on this morning Emma?
Emma:  Nothing much storm
KhunDiddy:  opppps time for a nap
QuietStorm:  Morning Luke
QuietStorm:  is that your bed on the floor Luke?
KhunDiddy:  Q-las…what you say? why you so quiet?
KhunDiddy:  R U cooking up some Kugal?
QuixoticLass:  shhhh be vewwy vewwy qwiet
KhunDiddy:  why?
QuixoticLass:  I was talking to my boss and had to turn down the sound of YML yawning
KhunDiddy:  my wife went shopping I must take advantage to chat online
KhunDiddy:  hahahaa BOSS
KhunDiddy:  Q-lass must be the only one on here who has a job
KhunDiddy:  32 years younger
YourMoralLeader:  ok, emma’s only 23 years younger
QuixoticLass:  yes, gainfully employed for now
QuietStorm:  robbing the cradle
KhunDiddy:  She’s a nice girl…but she’s a hardcore Stalinist
KhunDiddy:  I robbed the JUngle.
QuixoticLass:  until they dismiss me for consorting with the enemy

 

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Sexual Abuse In The Ultra-Orthodox Community

Gadi Pickholz writes: "Go to the ynet and haaretz stories, they are much more detailed. Yediyot devoted SIX PAGES to Charedi Sexual Abuse yesterday. The Ministry of Social Affairs formally announced that they are "helpless" to stop the "rampant sexual abuse" in the orthodox communities. And you are silent????? Four separate ultra orthodox mothers dragged into courts on the same day with each story more appalling than the one before???? and in EACH CASE the Rabbis knew and elected not only not to tell anyone but not to do anything. In two cases they recommended the children remain with the mother rather than risk "losing them" to more modern orthodox community shelters, not even secular shelters."

Ruth Eglash writes for The Jerusalem Report:

The scarf-covered heads of observant women shielding their identities from the media is becoming a common image in our national consciousness as each passing day we hear of more and more sickening child abuse stories from within our society, especially from inside the ultra-Orthodox community.

First it was the religious, Anglo-immigrant family in Jerusalem, where the mother stood accused of physically abusing her two young sons; next the burka-clad woman – apparently part of a Beit Shemesh religious cult – indicted Tuesday by the Jerusalem District Court for inflicting untold violence on six of her 12 children and allowing incest to continue unabated in her family.

These two gruesome cases were closely followed by reports of a Ramle couple, where the father routinely stubbed his cigarettes out on his children, and now the Netivot mother of eight, also observant, arrested Tuesday on suspicion of having sex with two of her sons, aged eight and 10.

Shocking, shocking and shocking.

What is happening to Israeli society and to the haredi community in particular, that people must hurt their children in this way? Has all sense of morality been lost? Have the ultra-Orthodox given up on the stringent family values they were once so proud of?

Secular people might even be wondering – when it suddenly seems as though every ultra-Orthodox person is abusing their kids – if something has gone wrong with the religious experiment.

But is there anything actually wrong?

Of course, one can neither ignore the terrible effects of physical and sexual abuse on these children, nor cast blame for the evils of certain individuals on outside sources, but do all these reports add up to a sudden rise in the number of children being abused? Could the explanation more likely be that we are just allowing the media to stir up our senses?

After all, their aim is to sell newspapers, and throughout history, humankind has always enjoyed a good public flogging, hasn’t it? Is it that these reports also give us the opportunity to cast our own moral judgments and make us feel good about our own lives?

If the answer to these questions is yes, then it is possible that we are in the midst of a "moral panic."

Coined in 1972 by sociologist Stanley Cohen, "moral panic" refers to the reaction of a population based on false or exaggerated perceptions that certain behavior – frequently by a minority group or subculture – is dangerous, deviant and poses a menace to society.

In his work, Cohen discussed the way in which the media amplifies these feelings, turning them into a national issue.

"We have to study [these reports] in more depth to determine if this is a moral panic situation," states Prof. Nachman Ben-Yehuda, from the Department of Sociology and Anthropology at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem, who has written extensively on the topic of moral panic both here and abroad.

"There has always been abuse of children," he continues, "So do these four or five cases mean there is more abuse, or that the abuse is gaining more media attention?"

According to Hannah Slutzky, national supervisor for child affairs at the Welfare and Social Services Ministry, there has been no official increase in the number of actual abuse cases, although the type of abuse might be becoming more extreme than in the past.

So that leaves us with the moral panic argument, which can best be illustrated by the 1993 murder of three-year-old James Bulger in Liverpool, England, by two 10-year-olds emulating scenes from the 1991 film Child’s Play 3.

While it was not the first time that children had killed other children, what made Bulger’s case into a classic example of moral panic was the national reaction to it and the role of the media in instigating that reaction.

At the time, the case was used by print and broadcast journalists to symbolize everything that was wrong with British society, from increasing levels of violence to the effects of television and movies on young children.

As the public debate increased, so the moral panic spread to academics and politicians who called for increased legislature and social policy on the subject.

When the debate on violence among children eventually slowed down and all talk of the phenomenon disappeared from the public sphere, did that mean child violence had been successfully stamped out? Certainly not – it still comes and goes just like any other hot issue.

"There are waves in media reporting," claims Prof. Tamar Liebes from the School of Communication at the Hebrew University. "And the same way these stories explode, they suddenly vanish again without much follow-up."

However, in the case of the current wave of public and media interest in child abuse stories, the obsession is unlikely to abate that quickly, observes Ben-Yehuda.

"My belief is that we will start to see experts and moral people call for a return to old ideas and values, suggest parenting classes and such – but of course, we’ve already been in that movie before."

And we will most likely see that movie again sometime in the future.

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The Tape & The Talmud

From the New York Times:

Four days before his first North American Boxing Federation title defense, Yuri Foreman sat in the basement of a Brooklyn brownstone studying Shulchan Aruch, the code of Jewish law. By early afternoon, he would be at Gleason’s Gym to train for his approaching bout with Saul Román, a power puncher from Mexico with 24 knockouts in 28 fights.

…Foreman’s endeavor has led to debate among some Jewish leaders.

Rabbi Joseph Potasnik, executive vice president of the New York Board of Rabbis, said Jewish principles would seem to put Foreman’s professional career at odds with his religious education. It is forbidden, the rabbi said, to injure yourself or another person. Rabbinic law also asks individuals to avoid situations of potential danger.

“He has to recognize there are certain issues he has to confront,” Potasnik said. “Doing what he’s doing is problematic, but all of life is problematic. That’s something he has to resolve, and I respect him for his commitment.”

But Rabbi Benjamin Blech, an assistant professor of the Talmud at Yeshiva University, said Foreman could help fight the belief that Jews were weak or could be bullied. When asked how he would react to the notion of a world champion boxing rabbi, Blech said, “I would be proud.”

He added: “Everything has a risk-and-reward factor. Does that mean he can’t go bungee jumping, get in a car or a plane?”

Foreman said his goal was not to injure himself or his opponent, but to win by outscoring competitors. And Arum, who described himself as an observant Jew, said rabbis have told him that Foreman’s studies and boxing were not in conflict.

Rabbi Pinson said that if Foreman had approached him as a young man, he would not have suggested a boxing career. Because Foreman was already accomplished in the sport, however, he said he would not dissuade him.

Foreman attempts to restrict his fights to weekdays.

If a bout lands on a Saturday, as was the case in June, he observes the Sabbath by remaining within walking distance of the arena. Wilson, his manager, said the sun had yet to set when HBO officials called for Foreman to make his way to the ring. He refused to do so.

“He pulled me into the corner,” Wilson recalled, “and said, ‘Please, let’s pray for five minutes.’ ”

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Two Shootings In South Robertson

The Los Angeles Times reports:

They had hoped to reclaim their neighborhood from violence. Scores of marchers walked through a section of the South Robertson area of Los Angeles with banners calling for an end to gangs and guns and urging other locals to join the fight against crime.

But just days later, residents of the Westside community have been shaken by fresh bloodshed in two separate shootings that left a 37-year-old resident dead and a transient wounded.

On Wednesday, Los Angeles police officials said they had no evidence of a link between Sunday’s march and the shootings, and downplayed fears of violence in the area.

But organizers of the event expressed concern that the shootings were related to the rally and complained that the area had been plagued by gang-related crime.

They said residents of the La Cienega Heights neighborhood, where the march took place, reported gang members taking posters left over from the event and scrawling anti-police messages on them. Then they shouted anti-police slogans to mock the earlier marchers.

"They were harassing the neighborhood," said Baila Romm, a member of the local community police advisory board that helped organize the rally and who lives nearby. "People are frightened because people are getting shot and killed. But [residents] don’t want us out of there. They want our support."

Romm said the march was part of an attempt to revive a neighborhood watch group in La Cienega Heights, which is near the 10 Freeway between La Cienega and Robertson boulevards.

About 70 marchers and police officers attended the event, stopping on street corners to call for residents to join them. About 30 residents signed up to become members of the neighborhood watch, but others kept their distance, Romm said.

"Some people were afraid to come out," she said. "The truth is, if you’re watching, they can’t commit crimes. . . . If the neighborhood is intimidated and shuts themselves in, they can continue doing it."

But a day after the march, a transient known to frequent the La Cienega Heights area was shot several times. On Tuesday evening, Rene Wilfredo Cortez’s body was discovered in a narrow pathway leading to the backyard of a home in the 1900 block of South Garth Avenue.

Lt. Ray Lombardo said Cortez had lived nearby with two sisters and a niece since arriving from El Salvador a year ago. He said detectives knew of no motive for the slaying.

The shootings reignited fears about crime in the area.

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Initial reports on Delice Bistro are outstanding

It is located at 8581 Pico Blvd, just west of La Cienega on the north side of the street.

It’s packed every night and people seem to leave there pleased.

Glatt Mart next to Eilat Market is now open to business. It looks big, clean and efficient.

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Spend Passover In Egypt

I’m leading a rebel tour:

I’m live on my cam:

matisyahu:  I saw a Canadian documentary called ‘GIve me your Soul’ which I  think should have included more of your comments
YourMoralLeader:  yep
matisyahu:  Bryan Adams
matisyahu:  Canadian content!
matisyahu:  why did you leave lukeisback?
YourMoralLeader:  porned out
matisyahu:  I understand
YourMoralLeader:  what work do you do?
matisyahu:  I am a civil servant… work for territorial government
matisyahu:  I have to tell you Luke…. I appreciate your works and will continue to read your comments
matisyahu:  I hope this is not weird … like misty for me…. sorry… if I come across
matisyahu:  I wanted to be Jew like you
matisyahu:  but I am not
matisyahu:  tell me if this is true
matisyahu:  Christopher Hitchens says that Orthodox Jewish men
matisyahu:  say ‘thank you Lord for not making me a woman or goyim’
YourMoralLeader:  yes
YourMoralLeader:  so did socrates
guest128:  hi it is colguy3
YourMoralLeader:  hey man
YourMoralLeader:  col, ur a porn star?
guest128:  yes are you going to try to convert me or something
YourMoralLeader:  lol
YourMoralLeader:  should I?
guest128:  no
YourMoralLeader:  how did you get into porn?
guest128:  new a few people
guest128:  mandingo is my neighbor
YourMoralLeader:  ahh
guest128:  and i go to the same gym as mr marcus
matisyahu:  Luke, how are you doing?
User guest126 changed their name to Sam.
Sam:  How is the blogging going moneywise?
YourMoralLeader:  bad
YourMoralLeader:  up to $10 a day off adsense, must 5x that
Sam:  Im surprised cuz I know a lot of people read you
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YourMoralLeader:  thanks man, i’ll figure it out
User Sam changed their name to Sammy.
Sammy:  Luke couldn’t you fit a small bed or at least an army cot in there?
YourMoralLeader:  i like the floor
YourMoralLeader:  the ladies dont
YourMoralLeader:  got any good stories?
Sammy:  masocist
YourMoralLeader:  true
Sammy:  this cam is fascinating.  I too have read you since 99-00
Sammy:  I saw yr grape juice lifting exercises before.  What else do you do to workout?
YourMoralLeader:  walk a couple of miles a day, if I do more, I get a CFS relapse
YourMoralLeader:  i used to run marathons
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YourMoralLeader:  yo maven
guest129:  nice beard and its not even omer time yet
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matisyahu:  Bubeleh, what is the matter?
maven:  the chaptzem ad for passover is a hoot.
matisyahu:  Zol zein!
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maven:  and i think you are influencing me musically. Last night I downloaded an ABBA album
YourMoralLeader:  lol
maven:  yes, both voulez vouz and supertrooper…
maven:  what are you working on now?
YourMoralLeader:  my "cheap hotels blog"
maven:   i didn’t know you had one. Couldnt find any in Europe with the weak dollar
maven:  cheap hotels, that is.
YourMoralLeader:  http://cheaphotelsnews.blogspot.com/
maven:  oh, do you list the Days Inn in NYC, the famous one?
YourMoralLeader:  dunno
maven:  you know, David Pattersons meeting place
maven:  so teach me something new spiritually. I need a thrill before going to bed.
YourMoralLeader:  lol
Sammy:  you mentioned yellow fever.  Do you prefer Asian chicks? Is that what you meant?
YourMoralLeader:  i dont prefer
YourMoralLeader:  but I do enjoy
YourMoralLeader:  I dabble
Sammy:  Don’t worry I am on yr wavelength
YourMoralLeader:  no, this is great
Sammy:  Actually Pac Islanders most of all
matisyahu:  ????
YourMoralLeader:  cool
Sammy:  Luke I plan on marrying at about 40.  So you and I aren’t too far off. 
Sammy:  I have the sensation like you can see me.  I bet most do too
maven:  This is great surrealism. I’m thinking about the big picture, and this guy’s trying to get you going on about Filipino girls.
joe:  and everyone knows that asian girls like yeshiva guys, in my kippa wearing days I was an asian magnet
Sammy:  Filipinas – gods gift to mankind
Sammy:  I tend to get along w/ filipinas more than other types
joe:  When we were in yeshiva we thought that would make a great script for a film.
Sammy:  Do you think any erotic stuff short of porn can be moral/have benefit to society?
Sammy:  say nonsexual nudity?
YourMoralLeader:  doubtful
YourMoralLeader:  that bloke who travels the world shoooting 5000 naked people at  a time, he’s done good work
Sammy:  I don’t like him but how about playboy- sinful even at that level?

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Dressing Up Women Like Torah Scrolls

From my live cam chat: Guest124: "If I met a woman wearing one of those dresses, I’d love to get hagbah (to lift the Torah high)."

Jay Michaelson writes:

Last night’s hottie-filled fashion show debuting Hasidic Levi Okunov’s spring collection was, despite the shvitzing of a hundred Heebs packed into an auditorium, very cool. Kudos to Andy Ingall and the JuMu staff for turning what is often a highly un-cool space into a place where it seemed like something new and sexy was actually happening in real time. Kudos to Melissa Shiff for trancing us out to digital mandalas made of Hebrew letters and sacred objects. And kudos to whoever bought the free vodka.

But mostly, kudos to Levi Okunov himself, interviewed elsewhere on this site, and ably profiled by Jennifer Bleyer on Nextbook, who fused his Hasidic background and his audo-didactic fashion sensibility to create work that could’ve been novelty, could’ve been irony, but actually was art. Would that the vanity projects of some absurdly-funded Jewish narcissists were as careful to avoid the easy temptations of kitsch. What’s the difference? Whereas aint-it-cool cultural kitsch is just a snide in-joke, Levi Okunov is actually trying to say something, to make something new.

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Violence In La Cienega Heights

 Date: Wed, 2 Apr 2008 17:13:42 -0700
 From: [email protected]
 To: [email protected]
 Subject: [SORO NC Be The Change] Violence in La Cienega Heights
 
 Dear Members of the South Robertson Community,
 
 We are saddened to report that last night at approximately 10:35 PM
 the police responded to shots being fired at the corner of Garth and
 Guthrie. According to the LAPD a Hispanic male was pronounced dead at
 1979 S Garth. As of now the identify of the man is not being released
 until family has been notified.
 
 The violence within La Cienega Heights is of great concern to the
 South Robertson Neighborhoods Council.
 
 On April 10th at 7pm we will be co-sponsoring a community meeting
 addressing the violence within La Cienega Heights. We are expecting
 the meeting to also be sponsored by the WLAPD, CPAB, The City Attorney
 Office and CD 10. The location is still to be determined.
 
 During times like these, we need to unite as a community. This
 senseless murder needs to bring us together, not separate us.
 
 If you are concerned about the violence in La Cienega Heights please
 attend the meeting on April 10th. Together we can improve SORO.
 
 Also, if you would like to get more involved in your community, you
 are encouraged to attend the next General Board Meeting of the South
 Robertson Neighborhood Council. The meeting will take place on
 Wednesday, April 9, 2008, 7:00 pm at Hamilton Senior High School –
 Cafeteria, 2955 S Robertson Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90034.
 
 
 —
 Victoria Karan
 President
 South Robertson Neighborhoods Council
 P.O. Box 35836
 Los Angeles, CA 90035
 www.soronc.org
 310.854.2224
 [email protected]
 
 Subscribe to the SORO NC Mailing List to receive community updates:
 http://soronc.org/mailman/listinfo/bethechange_soronc.org

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Young Israel Of North Beverly Hills Can’t Find A Rabbi

Per member, it is probably the richest synagogue in Los Angeles, but there are only about 50 member families.

Rabbi Shalom Tendler used to preside.

Rabbi Alan Kalinsky from the Orthodox Union is YINBH’s temporary rabbi.

Nobody can afford to live in the area on less than $200,000 a year.

It would cost YINBH about $6,000 a year per member to get a good rabbi.

Gadi Pickholz writes: “Once again, your facts are completely nonsensical, not simply wrong. YINBH is one the wealthiest congregations in the country, and could have any rabbi it desires well within budget. The pulpit is reserved for David Brafman, now completing his post ordination studies in Israel at YU’s Gruss Kolel. He is Jaime Sohacheski’s son in law, and Jaime pays the bills at YINBH. He is the son of Ben Brafman of Lawrence, Long Island, one of the most famous defense attorneys for the mafioso in New York.”

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What Happened To The RCC’s Proposed Boycott Of Kehilla of Los Angeles (Agudath Yisrael) Functions?

The RCC (Rabbinical Council of California) competes with Rabbi Teichman for certifying foods and places as kosher.

The competition is bitter.

RCC rabbis were talking about boycotting functions where the caterers were certified by Rabbi Teichman.

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