A Blast From High School

Wow, I guess I better go look at an old picture. All my curves are gone now. I think its all lumps!

Its funny how "stupid" we all are in our youth.

Teens continually doubt themselves, saying "they’ll never like me", "I’m not worthy" and just dream from afar. We don’t realize what opportunities we miss until we are too far down another road. Although I always remembered you, I wasn’t even sure you would remember who I was.

On the other side, teens think nothing bad will ever happen when they see all the statistics. "Oh, I would never get in an accident", "I won’t get hurt". So, they do dangerous things and become the next statistic.

Kids take all the wrong risks. They should risk a chance on people: take a chance to meet new people, start new relationships, break the social molds. Not the physical risks of new land speed records in a pickup truck or high dives off of bridges.

I told my son "never do anything you’ll regret, but never regret what you didn’t do" Take every opportunity that presents itself just don’t do things you would be ashamed of. But, he still doesn’t talk to the girl he likes and does stupid paintball games. Kids!!

This makes we want to see that movie about Benjamin Button. If only we had the wisdom of age when we had the energy of youth…

I am sorry to hear that your energy is gone. CFS is tough and you have had it so long! 1988! And it takes time to recognize, so you probably suffered for a long time. I knew a lady with CFS and she had a difficult time because there aren’t really tangible "symptoms" like some other diseases. People understand a cough, a sore, a lump. Its hard to grasp so one doesn’t always have the same support structure that someone with a more concrete illness has. I hope the acupuncture is helping. I don’t think she ever had anything that made a difference, but that was some time ago and she didn’t try acupuncture.

I always expected you to be a writer. 50k doesn’t seem too bad. Not wealthy but, Hey, its more than the average teacher makes! 😛 I only know one professional writer, and her big book is a computer text book. All her royalties come from college, business and the translation of the book into other languages for their schools and businesses. She still has a day job to pay the bills. I get the impression its a pretty tough field.

I am glad you found your faith. Sometimes, the one we are born into isn’t the one we can follow. And it can be very hard to chose a new path. Our relationship with God is very personal and has to touch our hearts. Sometimes its a long hike in the woods to work our way to the correct path. I have found myself caught in that misty, gray forest. It feels like I can’t see God for the church.

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Madonna Gets Her Tikkun Tweaked

I am available to do similar services for a very reasonable fee.

Gawker reports: Madonna sought counseling to be "less domineering" in relationships. But it had to be at a Kabbalah center, in New York, with this one elite rabbi, and absolutely no one else in the room. The rabbi "tweak[ed] her tikkun," like he was some kind of Yankee. Then Madonna had to start riding horses so she could dominate some other sort of living creature.

Say what you will about Observer publisher Jared Kushner‘s father Charles, like that he set his sister’s husband up with a prostitute, filmed it, and tried to blackmail him. Whatever. But Kushner’s grandmother? Killed actual Nazis. Possibly indirectly, in a kind of collective group effort. But still! [P6]

Khun emails: “Where can my wife obtain this counseling?”

Fred emails: I brought my Tikkun into my shop last week for a tune-up and an oil change. 

I imagine that Madanna lends new meaning to the term "high maintenance".  If she were still a practicing Catholic, she would insist on personal counseling sessions with the pope.  I’m surprised she hasn’t insisted on a face to face meeting with God to give him a list of demands.

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No, I Am Not Going To Text You Nude Photos Of Myself

Why not?

Because on his radio show today, Dennis Prager came out against sexting (texting nude photos of yourself).

I haven’t heard much of this show but I suspecting Prager will blame sexting on the breakdown of organized religion.

Dennis: "Teens bare all on phones has riveted my attention because of what it says about our society."

Teens bare all on phones rivets my attention for less lofty reasons.

I was once set up with a girl (just after Tishu B’Av 1999) who was just looking for a guy to tell her she was beautiful. I never did that for her but I did do other things for her. When we first conversed, it was online and she asked me to send her a photo of a part of myself. I did what she asked but I made sure that this particular part was generously covered by clothing.

I knew this would be what Dennis Prager would want me to do and I didn’t feel I could let him down by engaging in sexting outside of marriage.

Back in the dark ages of 1999, we didn’t have such exact terminology for the emailing of nude photos.

I am way ahead of Dennis Prager on this moral issue. I first warned my readership about this latest form of moral hazard about a month ago — two minutes after I first heard the term "sexting."

Dennis: "I find texting saves so much time. It is almost a diary of my life, I do it so much."

The other day a chick texted me frequently but I never got them because she was texting my landline which doesn’t get texts.

Please don’t text my cell phone, folks. I don’t want to be subjected to temptation and it costs me 20c every time you do it.

FROM THE CINCINNATI ENQUIRER:

Teens here are taking nude photos of themselves or others, sending them on their cell phones or posting them online.

Some teens do it as a joke.

For others, it’s the new bold pickup line to get a date.

A year ago, a 19-year-old Goshen cheerleading coach was charged and prosecuted for a misdemeanor, contributing to the unruliness of a child, for taking a topless photo of herself and a 15-year-old girl. A Glen Este Middle School boy was taken to juvenile court during the last school year for taking explicit photos of his girlfriend.

The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy and CosmoGirl.com last month revealed results of a study that showed 20 percent of teens say they have sent or posted nude or semi-nude pictures or video of themselves.

The results don’t surprise local teens, school officials, police officers and others.

Are Cincy teens ahead on the ‘sexting’ trend?

"If I were to go through the cell phones in this building right now of 1,500 students, I would venture to say that half to two-thirds have indecent photos, either of themselves or somebody else in school," said Jim Brown, school resource officer at Glen Este High School.

Turpin High School Principal Peggy Johnson thinks that the results would be similar – about 50-50 – in her building.

According to the national study, most teens who send sexually suggestive content send to boyfriends or girlfriends, while others say they send such material to those they want to date or hook up with or to someone they only know online.

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Converting Children To Judaism

David writes on Hirhurim: "Based on Rabbi Broyde’s summary of Rabbis Kook and Elyashiv’s position, "that a bet din ought not to convert a child to Judaism unless it is nearly certain that the child will grow up to be religious," I’m not sure how that leads to invalidating a conversion after the fact. Would it not simply be the case that performing such a conversion was ill-advised (or even forbidden), but not necessarily legally invalid?"

Larry writes: "I also think that with all due respect R. Broyde is underestimating the emotional impact on gerim of never being able to finally be sure one’s conversion is accepted. This seems to me to be oppressing the ger in the classic sense."

Ari writes: "When Rambam was put into cherem by a group of rabbis, and then that group of rabbis was put into cherem by the Rambam’s followers, and then those people were put into cherem by others (etc., etc.), not a single person ever went after anyone else’s conversions. Despite the fact that most of the Jewish world was put into cherem by some other part of the Jewish world, everyone recognized that attacking someone’s conversions and trying to retroactively undo them would be a sure way to destroy us as a people."

HAGTBG posts:

I, for one, like the intellectual diversity within halacha, and am not at all certain that there is any problem here as a matter of halachic theory.

Well, thats really the point isn’t it. It’s person’s life. This is not some treatise: the real world is supposed to affect psak. R’ Broyde you know that far better then me. And part of an ideological push by the new powers within the Chief Rabbinate, a body with a legal status in Israel. Hardly theoretical. Why even go down this line of reasoning.

However, I see no reason to argue that Jewish law intrinsically mandates uniformity on standards of conversion (as it, for example, does on matters of Jewish divorce).

And here’s the contradiction in your statement that you pointed out yourself. One person’s non-Jewish ex is another person’s mamzer offspring. A major kula from a chumra.

At the end of the day its nice to talk about theory … and about how different jurisdictions have discretion.

This decision precisely undermines discretion. And not in a good, we have a centralized court system,yay, way. Far from it.

It is an argument that everything must be done by the most RW opinion (I don’t say machmir because this is a strictness that will create greater leniency.) It is an argument that America’s rabbis are subserviant to the Chief Rabbinate, or a small faction therein. Here you had at least two points where the man was certified as Jewish (at his conversion and his marriage) and they were both overturned. The verdict undermines different regions and rabbinic authorities.

Will a person have to go in fear from beit din to beit din their whole lives wondering if one will find some flaw in their conversion? Why stop at divorce? Why not judge his Judaism for financial disputes.

I have not heard anything about the initial conversion; maybe it was no good or maybe it was.

But I am aghast that a worldly member of the rabbinate tries to talk down yet another attack on the (North) American rabbinate’s integrity.

BTW, there is a solution if this story is as bad as it seems. Threaten to have the RCA and the BDA advocate dismantling the Chief Rabbinate in an Israeli PR campaign. And carry through if the CR doesn’t act reasonably. There’s little risk: the CR provides less to Orthodoxy, especially modern Orthodoxy, then you’d think.

I suppose since the RCA has already placed itself under CR rule in the conversion area, it will bow again here, even though the CR is clueless about American Orthodoxy and the CR is hardly worthy of this authority.

I am not a convert but I can see how the wind blows and how my rabbis are there to protect me.

I have begun the process of documenting that my maternal line was considered Jewish for as far back as the records allow.

We all know the intermarriage rate is going to change things. Given how boldly the RCA defends its own, I suggest you all do the same and do your descendants a favor. If you want them considered Jewish.

TOBY KATZ WRITES:

Did you read what mycroft claimed? That a goy who had a Reform conversion and a goya who had a Reform conversion, if they had a Reform marriage, and subsequently divorced, would need a get before they could marry a Jew?!

They could live together for ten years or they could live together for a hundred years, two non-Jews who are married to each other NEVER need a get!

The chiddush here — which I actually believe must be a mistake on mycroft’s part — is that RYBS accepted Reform conversions as valid!

Otherwise why would he say they need a get if they get divorced?? They certainly don’t need a get in order to marry another non-Jew! so this seems to be saying that RYBS would have allowed a Reform convert to marry a Jew?! (Provided he had given a get to his first wife, who is also a Reform convert?!)

You have to know what’s plausible. RYBS could not possibly have accepted the validity of Reform conversions. No mikva, no circumcision? This person can marry a Jew as long as he gives his first wife a get? Or this non-Jewish woman can marry a Jew as long as she got a get from her non-Jewish first husband? Hello???

I know a woman who is a Reform convert and she said about her OWN conversion, "It was a farce." Those were her exact words. The Reform rabbi took her into his study, asked her a few questions, then took a certificate out of his drawer, signed it and handed it to her and said, "Congratulations, you’re a Jew." She expected something grander, some kind of ritual or prayer or blessing or SOMETHING. He signs a piece of paper and that’s her whole conversion?

Interestingly, this woman does consider herself to be Jewish because she lights candles every Friday night. I don’t know how many weeks in a row you have to do that in order to be a Jew in her mind, but there it is.

And you’re going to tell me that she is now a safek Jew and and if her husband (who of course is Jewish — or why would she have converted?) wants to divorce her and marry a Jew, he now has to give her a get?!

MYCROFT WRITES: Mrs. Katz and others read Tradition Fall 1994 page 14 in Archives for Subscribers to Tradition "The Rav’s opposition to moves which threatened the unity of the Jewish community also manifested itself in his attitudes towards non-Orthodox groups. He counselled against denying Conservative or Reform Rabbis the right to use communal mikvaJot for conversions. Moreover, he once instructed me that Reform conversions that were accompanied by circumcision and immersion in a mikve had to be treated as a saftk giyur. Accordingly, a get would be required to dissolve a marriage in which one of the partners previously underwent a Conservative or Reform conversion which conformed to the requirement of mila and tevila.)" Mrs Katz I never stated the Rav stated mikva and tvilah were not required. Of course, these Israel Rabbonim aren’t even choshed to a gerus performed byOrthodox Rabbis. And the Chareidi world is not one that politics rules.

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Rashi Could Do Things We Can’t

Lawrence Kaplan writes on Hirhurim: "If I understand the end of Rabbi Slifkin’s article correctly, he was seriously saying that Rashi was allowed to say that God is a body while we are not, and he understood full well the irony that a very similar statement is attributed to Rav Elyashiv re Rabbi Slifkin’s views. My understanding is that Rabbi Slifkin plans to return to this issue and explain why we are not allowed to say that God is corporeal even though Rashi was allowed to say it, and how this differs from Rav Elyashiv’s comments re Rabbi Slifkin’s views on the issue of authority of Hazal on matters of science and that of the age of the world."

“A number of years ago, Rabbi Dr. Nehemiah Polen gave a paper at an Association of Jewish Studies Conference also arguing, IIRC, that Rashi was a corporealist. I do not know if he ever published it.”

“Although I have not studied it carefully, my iniitial impression of Rabbi Buchman;’s review essay is similar to Gil’s. True, some of Rabbi Buchmn’s argument strike me as special pleading – after all, there are limits as to how far one can go in blaming the “bukher setzer” for all of the errors Dr. Shapiro pointed out — other of his arguments seem to me to miss the legitimate differences between the approaches of halakhists and historians, and finally ye other of his arguments seem to me to treat the “academic” approach in an undifferentiated manner (this despite his legitimate criticisms of Dr. Shapiro for so treating the “traditionalist” approach). Still, many of his arguments strike as well founded. I think the teshuvah of the Rambam he cites re “shoreh be-mayyim” is very telling and exemplifies both the care with which the Rambam wrote the MT and the Rambam’s “lomdus” as well. I also think the focus has to be on the MT, and Dr. Shapiro’s referring to errors in the Perush ha-Mishnah just muddies the waters. I also found the lengthy statment of Prof. Twersky, zl, cited by Dr. Shapiro in support of the historical approach, to be problematic on a number of counts.”

LIM writes: "R. Slifkin is starting to irk me with this fruitless attempt to jump between the doorposts. Charedi Jews dont approve of his views, but better educated Jews do. Yet he keeps showing this weird tendency to validate the other side’s stance. Knock it off already."

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How To Achieve Victory Over Sin

Dennis Prager spoke about male sexual nature on his second hour Wednesday. "They were more open about male sexual nature in the Puritan age."

"Gay men have the same problem as straight men. Our sexual nature is variety oriented. It has nothing to do with the love of women in our lives or our values. Nature is nature. Another body. No matter how much he is in love. It has nothing to do with how much he loves his wife. Gay men want another male body and straight men want another female body."

"If your man denies this, he is either different from all other males or he is lying. This should not hurt you. Nature is nature but behavior is behavior. I am not justifying men having extra-marital affairs. The whole point of this hour is how not to have extra-marital affairs."

"This advice is for people with good marriages."

"Best advice for staying out of trouble — stay busy! Develop hobbies. Every minute you are fixing a car engine, for example, you are not out there looking at women."

"Number two — be with your wife as much as possible. As proof of this, when a guy takes a business trip far from home, that is when he is most susceptible to having an affair."

"Number three — think in stage two thinking. Think about the consequences."

"I define closeness as saying everything, whether it is a same-sex friend or opposite sex spouse."

"Every time something is hidden, there is less intimacy between two people. I don’t want guys to hide their sexual nature from their wives. Men are afraid for good reason to open up about what they really are sexually. It puts distance between two people when you hide part of yourself."

"Fourth suggestion. Wear a wedding band."

"Most women will not start up with a guy wearing a wedding ring. It helps him seeing it."

Orthodox Jewish men do not wear jewelry aka wedding rings.

Caller: Talk about your spouse at every opportunity, how important she is to you.

Dennis: "Good women battle their emotional natures. Good people battle their natures all the time."

"The more loving the nest, the less he will want to leave it."

"I want men to use their love of adventure and their ingenuity in other areas. Conquer some other mountain."

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Economist Tom Sowell On Dennis Prager’s Radio Show

Dennis: "I am about to speak about one of the clearest thinkers living. One of the top five…"

"Allen Estrin, my producer, said America would be different if every college kid read this book.

"The first edition of Applied Economics, I asked him if he had a department in charge of naming his books. I didn’t think that ‘Applied Economics’ juimped off the shelves at the bookstore. I thought ‘Tom Sowell’s Guide to Bikinis’ would be better. They now have a sexy subtitle — ‘Thinking Beyond Stage One.’ That is so riveting. I can’t wait for the third edition."

"You didn’t think beyond stage one."

Dennis and Tom agree that the world’s thinking is upside down on many issues including the Middle East.

Dennis: "Hillary’s number one agenda as secretary of state is to bring peace to the Middle East — the self-confidence that liberals have to change the world is one of their great virtues — and to combat global warming. Every day I read about a new record low in some part of the world."

Prager plays a clip from Senator John Kerry who repeatedly pronounces on the need for a profound commitment to combat climate change. Kerry says it is a national security threat.

Tom Sowell: "You can use the word ‘profound’ and that doesn’t stop it from being shallow."

Dennis: "When you hear the grave intonation of an important senator who believes what he just said when people like you and I are so aware that the whole edifice is false, how do you explain this?"

Tom: "We live in a world where there are people are crusade-happy. If it wasn’t global warming, it would be something else. Before it was global warming, it was the danger of a new ice age. As you get off the climate kick, it will be something else that will destroy us immediately unless we send more money to Washington and give them more power."

Dennis: "Why are some people crusade-happy? You and I don’t need to do that to be happy."

Tom: "Our colleges and universities are turning out more and more people who will not be able to feel fulfilled unless they are telling other people what to do. This is long-standing among intellectuals. A hundred years ago, this was eugenics. That if you didn’t allow them to set up various programs, then the low-IQ people would have more children and the national IQ would go down. Empirical studies show that the national IQ is going up. They were convinced on zero evidence. But it made them important. What we believe does not make us important. If you believe in judicial restraint, free market and the family, then you are just a guy who believes in judicial restraint, free market, and the family. You’re nothing. But if you believe in social justice, you are one of the anointed."

Dennis: "Every study shows that conservatives are more happy than liberals. I don’t think it is liberalism that makes people less happy and conservatism that makes people more happy. It is that the happier person is less likely to be a liberal. We don’t need to change the world to be happy."

Tom: "One of the crusades that is going on is that intellectuals feel it is their job to bring meaning to the meaningless lives of ordinary people. I don’t know that a mother who holds a newborn baby in her arms feels that her life is meaningless. There are all sorts of people who don’t need this hype to be happy."

Dennis: "Or they are religious. They get meaning from something other than politics."

Tom: "If you believe you are among the anointed, you feel not only a right but a duty to impose this on the lesser people around you. If you live in a place like San Francisco which is solidly to the left they are constantly thinking up new rules. You can’t leave your leaves on the curb more than a certain time, you’ll get hit with a big fine."

"There are laws about what kind of light bulbs you can use. New ideas coming up every day."

A caller criticizes Dennis Prager for sacrificing his libertarian ideals to go to war around the world to create democracy.

Dennis: "I supported the war in Iraq once it was engaged in. Before we went in, I was ambivalent for all sorts of reasons. Once we went in, we had to win. Even if I supported it from the outset, that’s it. Everybody has some crusade. You want people to be nice or we want smaller government. The difference is that liberals want to control your life far more than we do. I don’t have any agenda in this case beyond getting rid of a particular evil known as Islamic terror. We don’t have a choice. Beyond that, Tom Sowell and I want less power."

Tom: "In the case of Saddam Hussein, I don’t think a war on terror would have had any credibility if it didn’t do something about him. He was thumbing his nose at us and shooting at American planes with impugnity indefinitely. Nobody but the United States could do anything about it. One of the dividends was that Qaddafi stopped his nuclear program once he saw American troops pulling Saddam Hussein out of a hole in the ground. He wondered if he was going to be next.

"That Saddam Hussein at that given moment did not have weapons of mass destruction… Twenty or thirty years from now, when historians look back at it, they will think, such a trivial point. Hitler didn’t have a nuclear weapon when we started the Manhattan Project but he was looking to get one. We realized we had better get one first."

Dennis Prager: "Pay your kids to read ‘Applied Economics.’ I’m a big believer that you can’t raise kids without bribery so you might as well do something good for them."

"What is stage one thinking?"

Tom: "You think only about the immediate consequences about what you do and you don’t worry about what the repercussions will be. There are so many examples. What are the stage one effects of promoting more people having home ownership? What are the repercussions of doing this? We are now suffering those repercussions and showing no signs that it was the thoughtless pursuit of a desirable goal that got us into this mess in the first place."

Dennis: You cite a New York Times report that interest-only mortgages represented more than 40% of all mortgages issued in many major American cities.

Tom: "What is truly galling is seeing some of the key players who created this mess — Barney Frank, Chris Dodd — acting like they are rescuing us when they are the problem."

Dennis: "These are the architects of the idea that Fannie Mae, Freddie Mac and private banks have to give more lines to people who otherwise wouldn’t qualify, such as the poor and minorities."

"If you could have dessert with the new president of the United States, what one issue would you raise?"

Tom: "A nuclear Iran. A nuclear Iran means nuclear-armed terrorists who can not be deterred because they are willing to commit suicide. That will change for all time the history of the United States and Western Civilization. That he and Hillary will chitchat with these people and talk them out of it, it would be funny if it were not so historically tragic."

Dennis: "I happen to be a bit optimistic…because hell hath no fury like a liberal scorned. They will learn who Iran is. There is no one angrier than a dissed liberal and they will be dissed. Take a look on the internet. Yesterday, pictures of Barack Obama were burned in Iran."

"Wall Street takes these lousy loans, bankers who are supposed to be brilliant, and they lump them in with better securities and then the rating agencies give these things triple A ratings, it seems across the board there’s been a fall."

Tom: "Sainthood and infallibility are not common in Washington or Wall Street."

Dennis: "What do you think about the stimulus plan?"

Tom: "It will stimulate inflation when it goes into effect."

"If you plan on building a new bridge, don’t plan on doing it this decade [due to environmental impact reports and the like]."

"All of this [stimulus] stuff was tried during the Jimmy Carter administration."

Dennis: "What do you recommend?"

Tom: "I recommend what they will never do — nothing. The politician has to be seen as active to show his concern and his compassion."

Dennis: "Were you opposed to the $700 billion bailout?"

Tom: "Not initially… These institutions create the credit that fuel demand… Now there’s a huge pot of money that politicians are running around with…"

Dennis: "What’s a trillion dollar deficit?"

Tom: "A trillion seconds ago, no one could read or write… If you put that much money into the system, you’ll get hyper-inflation or stiff medicine like Paul Volker imposed."

"On a number of campuses, it is common for people to refer to a ‘Teacher of the Year’ award as the kiss of death for a new teacher [wanting tenure]. Good teaching takes a lot of time. You’re not going to do that and turn out scholarly articles."

Dennis: "What are you working on now?"

Tom: "A book on the role of intellectuals in Western society."

Question: "How will your book differe from Paul Johnson’s?"

Tom: "Mine will not be as charitable."

Tom Sowell writes for Townhall.com:

Since everybody seems to be criticizing Israel for its military response to the rockets being fired into their country from the Gaza strip, let me add my criticisms as well. The Israelis traded land for peace, but they have never gotten the peace, so they should take back the land.

Maybe a couple of generations of Palestinians in Gaza living in peace under Israeli occupation and a couple of generations of the occupation troops squelching the terrorists– "militants" for those of you who are squeamish– would set up conditions where the Palestinians would be free to vote on whether they would like to remain occupied or to have their own state– minus terrorists and their rockets.

Casualty totals alone should be enough to show that the Palestinian people are the biggest losers from the current situation, where the terrorists among them, firing rockets into Israel, can bring devastating retaliatory strikes.

Why don’t the Palestinians vote for some representatives who would make a lasting peace with Israel? Because any such candidates would be killed by the terrorists long before election day, so nobody volunteers for that dangerous role.

We don’t know what the Palestinians really want– and won’t know as long as they are ruled by Hamas, Hezbollah and the like.

Whatever the benefits of peace for the Palestinian population, what are the terrorists going to do in peacetime? Become librarians and furniture salesmen?

So-called "world opinion" has been a largely negative factor in this situation. Nothing is easier than for people living in peace and safety in Paris or Rome to call for a "cease fire" after the Israelis retaliate against people who are firing rockets into their country.

The time to cease fire was before the rockets were fired.

What do calls for "cease fire" and "negotiations" do? They lower the price of launching attacks. This is true not only in the Middle East but in other parts of the world as well.

During the Vietnam war, when American clergymen were crying out "Stop the bombing!" they paid little attention to the fact that bombing pauses made it easier for North Vietnam to move more ammunition into South Vietnam to kill both South Vietnamese and Americans.

After Argentina invaded the Falkland Islands, if British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher had heeded calls for a "cease fire," that would have simply lowered the price to be paid by the Argentine government for their invasion. Continued…

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Yavneh Board Chair David Rubin

Jane emails: "You have guts to take on David Rubin. He is one of the most powerful orthodox Jews in LA. Based on the research you have compiled it seems that he has his hands full. But – have you investigated the earlier issues he was involved with that involved “Guaranteed Investment Contracts” and his contrived municipal bond deals where he made money and everyone else lost? Read the excellent NY Times article that will come up when you Google him. Interesting that no one mentions his partner, Zev Wolmark – Hancock Park resident and Kollel Member. He knows everything there is to know."

Bloomberg reports:

The Justice Department asked for information from as far back as 1992, including files on guaranteed investment contracts and other financial products, such as derivatives. A derivative is a financial contract whose value is derived from tradable securities or linked to events such as interest-rate changes.

Investigators also subpoenaed three firms that advise local governments on derivatives and evaluate bids for guaranteed investment contracts: Beverly Hills, California-based CDR Financial Products Inc., Pottstown, Pennsylvania-based Investment Management Advisory Group Inc. and Sound Capital Management of Eden Prairie, Minnesota.

All three said in statements that they are cooperating with the investigation and defended their work.

The municipal finance industry was rocked by scandals in the 1990s, including a probe of influence peddling concerning so- called pay to play, in which banks gave public officials campaign contributions to win no-bid contracts. There was also the controversy over yield burning, in which banks and brokers overcharged local governments for Treasury bond investments.

Out of View

Local governments are required to solicit bids for guaranteed investment contracts. They rely on brokers such as CDR, which deal with the banks and provide documents certifying that the bidding is fair. States and cities only use competitive bidding for bond sales 20 percent of the time, down from 74 percent three decades ago.

“The way that these folks have operated, largely by telephone and largely out of public view, are not as transparent as they might be,” said Patrick Born, chief financial officer of Minneapolis and the head of the debt committee of the Chicago- based Government Finance Officers Association. “And it’s certainly possible that when you don’t have transparency you can have abuses.”

HERE’S A REPORT FROM SANTA FE:

The colorful history of CDR: Bloomberg.com, which has reported on the company for years, interviewed founder and chief executive officer David Rubin in 2006 in an article that mentions New Mexico, the GRIP project and the Richardson contributions.

Bloomberg quoted Rubin saying that CDR has advised clients on more than $158 billion in transactions since it was founded in 1986. The article said CDR has "advised local governments on more than $17 billion of derivatives since 2003."

The company originally was called "Chambers, Dunhill, Rubin and Co." — even though there was nobody named Chambers or Dunhill involved with the firm. Rubin "picked those names because he liked the sound of them together," Bloomberg reported.

Bloomberg also noted that the company "is being investigated by the IRS for possibly profiting from deals at the expense of U.S. taxpayers. According to IRS letters obtained from the cities of Atlanta and Fargo, N.D., and an internal memo from the state of Wisconsin, CDR may have colluded with Bank of America Corp., Bear Stearns Cos. and other companies to make improper fees by selling municipalities unneeded contracts or mispricing investment deals."

In April 2001, Bloomberg, citing court documents from a federal corruption trial, reported that CDR hired Philadelphia lawyer Ron White, who was chief fundraiser for Mayor John Street. The company paid White a $5,000 retainer to help CDR win work with the city.

"Rubin donated $15,000 to Street’s election committee from December 2000 to June 2003, the records show," Bloomberg reported. "In addition, CDR gave White three tickets to the 2003 Super Bowl game in San Diego and also provided a limousine ride to the stadium. White brought Philadelphia Treasurer Corey Kemp to the event."

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The Long Ride Home From LimmudLA

My earlier report. (Complete Video)

On the ride home, Joey Kurtzman says he used to drive an ambulance and was "trained in the art of defensive driving."

Joey: "I chose the Journalistic Ethics class for the purest of reasons. It was just a lovely coincidence [that Danielle Berrin gave it]. A lovely young woman."

Luke: "Tall, slender, blonde, gracious. Beautiful manners. A real credit to the Jews. It makes me proud to be a Jew."

Joey: "She’s a sterotype-buster. She’s lovely and well-spoken and she had a confident-assertiveness about her."

Luke: "And she did a good job. I was totally ready to rip her if she didn’t do a good job. I’d say she’s all looks but she’s shallow but I couldn’t say that tonight."

Joey: "She’s kinda ballsy. She opened by discussing this unpleasant sexual thingy with the director [Brett Ratner]. When she starts with that, you’re thinking, oh we’re in LA and the first thing we hear is about how a director hit on her, but as she ended up relating it, it was an important issue and she handled it with sophistication."

Luke: "It’s her best piece of writing. It was funny, brave, ballsy. And most important of all, it was compelling to read. And it was a compelling way to bring up this topic of hard-hitting Jewish journalism. Danielle Berrin is not this hyper-accomplished 55 year old fat man who’d just come from Afghanistan…"

"I want to know what was the horrible thing that Brett Ratner did that she didn’t expose."

Joey: "She said he talked about the kind of things he’d like to do with her."

Luke: "I wonder if they were purely intellectual."

We go over Coldwater Canyon.

Luke: "The light is green. We can go."

Joey: "Luke is an anxious passenger…"

Luke: "I had this girlfriend I’d bully when she drove. She was passive. We almost got into a lot of accidents because her nerves would be shot from my bullying. Now I get into other people’s cars and I’ve got all these bullying habits ingrained in me."

Joey: "You can feel free to do that with me. I won’t get rattled."

Luke: "My favorite type of women are masculine women. I don’t like beards and excessive muscles, I like socially-adjusted accomplished women, women who are different from me. Hard strong tough women. Not tortured artist blogger types. Now I find myself bullying chicks ten times as tough as I am and it is silly and futile."

Joey: "You’re attracted to those you can learn from. If that’s who they are, they’ll tell you what’s up."

Luke: "They’re just kinda amused."

"Have you ever had people who were so desperate to be in your life that they let you bully them? When people let me bully them, I bully them."

"I remember there was this chubby chick who liked me in fifth grade. I kicked her until she cried. And she said, ‘I love you. One day you will find out what it is like to love someone and have them kick you.’

"I would leave tacks on her chair with the pointy end up.

"I’d go left here."

Joey: "Yes."

Luke: "I’d leave tacks on her chair so she’d sit on them with her fat little tush. Tears would spring to her eyes. I kicked her and I left tacks on her desk because she liked me."

Joey: "That’s women. The more the guy is emotionall unavailable, the more desperately they want him. The women I find most enchanting are the women who are often emotionally unavailable. I hope you don’t beat yourself up over that. Attraction is messy. It is a typical human thing. People take the liberties they can."

Luke: "I remember confessing things like this in therapy and I’d blush and be all wrecked and ashamed and she’d say, ‘Luke, you were eleven years old.’ Oh, OK.

"But I am still ashamed and I still carry it with me."

Joey: "Why? You’re ashamed in the present?"

Luke: "I see Danielle Berrin and I know I’ve written cruelly about her at times and I feel like the guy who thumbtacks on a girl’s desk and kicked her and how I bullied a past girlfriend and then I think I may have bullied [Danielle and Esther Kustanowitz and Amy Klein etc] on my website and I feel ashamed. [It’s all connected.] On the other hand, I don’t regret anything I’ve written. I think it was true and accurate, but it feels emotionally like bullying. It’s like picking on a defenseless kid. Danielle Berrin is not going to be writing anything vicious."

Joey: "She’s a strong woman who knows how to look after her own business."

"I had this inflated sense of my own emotional power over other people. I had to get over it. Joey, they’ve got a whole universe and you’re just a tiny part of it. It’s not an excuse to be a jerk but I had to learn humility. I had to get over my own terror of hurting someone."

"The tragedy of very nice guys is that they end up thinking all women are whores because they don’t want to sleep with them. They end up the most embittered. ‘I was a nice guy. I didn’t do anything but try to anticipate what she wanted and throw it at her. And she went off and f—ed someone else. What a whore.’"

We’re at Wilshire on Rexford.

Luke: "I’d go straight."

"You don’t recall a whole bunch of rejections from attractive women that continue to haunt your psyche?"

Joey: "It’s possible I’m in denial."

"Even men who don’t harbor feelings of revenge can find pornography quite enticing."

Luke: "We were talking to a guy tonight who was doing his PhD in pornography and he claimed he’s never looked at pornography. I don’t understand. I think every guy has to have some fetish…that will send him over the edge. Maybe he hasn’t been exposed to it and lucky for him."

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Happiness Strategies

I just got back from therapy. I was the happiest my therp has seen me. I’m doing yoga and Alexander Technique and acupuncture. I’m making new friends. I’m going out on adventures. I talk to beautiful women every day (and some fatties as well just to be nice). I embody goodness and kindness and inner peace. I meditate every day. I go to shul and daven and study Torah. I listen to Dennis Prager and read great books and talk to friends.

I love these suggestions from Slate.com:

1. Do a good deed.

2. Make small gestures of good citizenship. Bring your old magazines to the gym so other people can read them. Offer directions to someone who looks lost. Sign up to be an organ donor. My current favorite: picking up trash that other people have left on the subway.

3. Keep a resolution. Not only will you benefit from exercising or cleaning out your garage, you’ll also get a boost from the mere fact that you made a commitment and stuck to it.

4. Become an expert. There’s great satisfaction in mastery. Pick a subject that interests you and dig in deep: the American Revolution, Photoshop, knife techniques. This can be hard, because learning something new can also make you feel frustrated and stupid, but if you push through, you’ll give yourself a huge boost.

5. Boost your energy. Studies show that when you’re feeling energetic, you’re much more likely to feel good about yourself. Most important: Get enough sleep. If you need an emergency energy fix, take a quick 10-minute walk (outside, if possible, where sunlight will also stimulate your brain), listen to some great music, or talk to a friend.

6. Challenge yourself physically. This strategy doesn’t work for me, but I know that many people feel great after parasailing, white-water rafting, bungee jumping, or roller coaster riding. For the less daring, a great run, bike ride, or spinning class can do the trick.

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