‘Waltz With Bashir’ – The Dialogue

I saw this movie at the Arclight Saturday night.

It was smart, profound and real.

My previous articles on Waltz are here and here.

I’m glad I bought my ticket Friday because the screening was sold out.

Afterwards, movie director Ari Folman spoke.

Interviewer: "Several years ago, at age 40, when you were looking to get of the Israeli reserve army…"

Ari: "You serve until age 50 in the reserves… I was not a big fighter in the reserves. I was a screenwriter. I was writing short instructional movies for TV, like how to defend yourself from the Iranian atomic attack in 60 seconds. I had this agreement with the army. I don’t have to wear a uniform. I don’t have to get out of bed. They can call me whenever they want. So you go to the hospital with your wife so she can give birth and they call you just as he is about to be born. There’s this house there and chemicals, give us 60 seconds. It’s always the wrong time. I told them, I want to get out.

"They said, ‘We’re having this experiment. If you go see the army’s therapist and tell them what you went through in your regular service, we will let you out. I went for it. After eight or ten sessions, I realized it was the first time I heard myself speak about what I went through during the service. The story was not that extraordinary. It was that it was so deep down suppressed. It was not that I had total amnesia. I had the main storyline, but there were black holes. Then I went out and discussed it with my best friends and I realized I knew nothing about what [they went through]. They were the same age."

Interviewer: "You had not kept touch with the soldiers you served with?"

Ari: "I cut ties with all people I served with. I made this decision at age 22. I decided to forget. I worked hard at it. And I did succeed."

"Repression is a great thing. It is a matter of survival."

Interviewer: "The filmmaking was enjoyable, the therapy not so much."

Ari: "The hardest thing was the decision to do the film. Once I made the decision, the film was not so hard."

"In the research, we had more than 100 testimonies… I went through nothing compared to all those other guys who contacted us after we put that ad on the internet. I consider myself lucky."

"It’s an animated film. It never was any other kind of film. Memories of war, subconscious, dreams, lost youth, everything. The only way to combine it into one smooth storyline was through animation."

Interviewer: "If you had, we probably wouldn’t be here."

Ari: "I wouldn’t, and you wouldn’t be here."

"If it would’ve been a classic documentary, you would see middle-aged men telling their memories from the war. Then you’d have to cover it with footage and you can’t find any footage that will resemble what they are talking about. Then if you make a big action war movie with the budget of an Israeli movie, well, it can be sad. There was not any other option."

Ari says the film has led to major discussion in Israel "but not the kind of political discussion I was expecting. I expected it to be immediately categorized as left-wing and anti-Zionist… None of that happened. The film became the darling of the establishment. Wherever I go, there are consuls waiting for me. They pay to send the film all over the world. They have receptions. It’s kind of weird considering how the IDF is shown. They support it for two reasons — it shows Israel is a pluralist country. Here’s a soldier who went to war and he can say whatever he wants. And then, at least in Europe, where people do know a lot of Middle Eastern politics, it is their first time to realize that the Israeli troops didn’t commit the massacres [of Sabrila and Chatilla]. This is propaganda the Israeli government couldn’t buy for money."

Interviewer: "There were eight production babies and three of them were yours."

Ari: "I was pretty busy."

"I wanted to dedicate this film to my sons but my wife wouldn’t let me. Why dedicate them a film with all those bodies at the end? Maybe one day you make a nice love story and you dedicate that to them? I did what she said."

"This is my anti-war declaration. I couldn’t phrase it in any different way. I really hope that when my boys grow up to see the film, there won’t be a lot to discuss about."

"It was complicated. I wanted to show war in a non-glorifying way. No bravery. No glory. No glam. Unlike a lot of American anti-war movies, they tell the kids, see the movie, you see war sucks, but the guys in the movie are really cool and they take it the wrong way and they say, ‘Oh, I want to be in Iraq. Just look at the guy in… Look at the bravery issues. Look at friendship.’

"On the other hand, I didn’t want to show the Israeli soldiers as victims, which is very popular now in Israel. They have this term — shoot and cry. This genre of Israeli movies about soldiers who have to go to war and shoot up other people and then they come back home and they cry. There were other victims on a different scale in this episode. It was complicated in terms of the narrative."

"There are nine interviews in the film and seven of them are the same guy. A couple of them at the last moment got cold feet and they didn’t appear for bizarre reasons. One guy didn’t want people to know he smokes pot. We had to bring in an actor. He listened to the original recordings and we invented a new face."

"I don’t believe films can change the world. They can build bridges. You can’t change public opinion. I was talking to the head of Sony Studios yesterday. He couldn’t understand how the extreme majority of Israeli citizens could love this film and support what’s going on in Gaza every day. I told him this is typically Israeli. Yes, we think this film is essential because it shows you what war is, but sometimes we have to do what we have to do. Unfortunately, it did not change anything."

This is only the second animated Israeli movie. The first one was made in 1961 — Joseph and His Brothers.

There’s a question asking the director if there’s a comparison between the Holocaust and the massacres of Sabra and Chatilla.

Ari: "I have traveled with the film for eight months. Everywhere I go, except Israel, I get asked about the Holocaust. For us, the Holocaust is deep in the DNA. Not just for me, I come from an extreme hardcore Holocaust survivor family. We see footage of massacres, be it Sabra and Chatilla, Rwanda, Bosnia, and it will immediatey spark memory of the past. Never in the history of Israel was there such an outraged response, demonstrations, like the day after the Sabra and Chatilla massacres, although Israeli troops didn’t do it.

"If you ask yourself why, I tell you it was only because of the Holocaust. Immediately after the massacre, people realized that something really wrong went on there with the support and the collaboration of the Israeli government and the Christian regime. They were our allies. They wore IDF uniforms. The demonstrations were held because they couldn’t believe that people with out history could be related to the massacres of Sabra and Chatilla.

"Where the press and the public was obsessed with this comparison was Germany. They couldn’t understand it. Germany is the only territory where the film was distributed and it didn’t work. The Germans said, how could you? And no one came to see the film."

"The film does not compare Israelis with Nazis. Of course I wouldn’t compare Israelis with Nazis because I don’t think Israelis are Nazis."

"The eight months I’ve spent traveling with the film have been much more difficult than the four years I spent making the film, which were great fun."

"When Sony bought the film, I was told I would have to come over for the awards season. I didn’t know what that meant. Now I see there’s the NBA season, the NFL season and the awards season. Every few days there’s a game where I’m competing with the same films, the same directors, since Cannes. They win. I win. They’re really obsessed with prizes here. Every day there’s a new guild. I wake up and there’s a phone call from Israeli radio. "Congratulations, you won the guild of critic writers.’ Wow. It’s the hot season."

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Every Man Who Wants To Meet A Woman But Does Not Go To Yoga Is A Fool

The average yoga class has three women for every guy.

You can’t beat that.

Everyone seems to be nice in yoga. It’s a warm supportive non-judgmental environment.

People bliss out.

Women in yoga are vulnerable physically, socially and spiritually. Because it is a safe place, they have their defenses down. They say hi in a friendly way that they would not employ at a bar or on the street.

Don’t try hard to pick up chicks. Just be your best highest self. Explain that this is your first day/week/month in yoga and how you are eager to grow physically and spiritually. Chicks dig that kind of talk. Become hip to energy talk and chakra talk and bling bling about old souls. Drink the yogic tea and put your hand on your heart and greet everyone with a genuine "Satnam!"

Moses would want you to.

I brought Joey Kurtzman with me Monday night. He emails: "Hey, the class was awesome, I got worn out toward the end, which is good. Guru Singh really focused on limbering down the hamstrings and calves, which are my least limber muscles, so I’ve been working on that ever since. I’m definitely looking forward to next Tuesday, and might go again this upcoming Monday."

David Pescovitz writes:

Folk theories are assumptions or "common sense" things that people generally believe to be true. Over at Guruphiliac, my pal Jody Radzik presents a list of folk theories that he’s identified in guru-based spirituality and invites readers to contribute their own. It’s fun to see how folk theories can be used to get people to "buy in" (often literally) to almost any bullshit. Here are a few tools Jody says are in any "flimflamming, big-time guru’s" box:

• The folk theory of everything being connected
• The folk theory of ancient wisdom
• The folk theory of holiness
• The folk theory of sex being a loss to the spirit
• The folk theory of harmful technology
• The folk theory that only the heart knows what is true

Folk Theories Of Guru-Based Spirituality

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Where Did You Go Dennis Wilen?

He was in charge of web operations at the Jewish Journal but he lost his job last week.

He was my friend and my guide in love, life and Torah.

Oh well, I guess I’m back to leaning on Amalek.

Is this the Journal’s craiglist ad for a Dennis replacement?

Rob Eshman emails: "Luke: Nope, that’s not our ad. It reads: "Requirements: Knowledge about Judaism and the Jewish community" As any number of our critics would tell you, one mustn’t know ANYTHING about Judaism or the Jewish community in order to qualify for a job here."

Chaim Amalek emails: "What do you suppose was the turning point, the place where you began withdrawing from the endless demands of Jewish orthodoxy? This might be a good topic for a book: "There and Back Again: Luke Ford Interviews Baalei Teshuva and Converts Who Rethought Their Relationship With Judaism""

Dennis Wilen came to my hovel in August 2007 to make this video:

I choose to remember Dennis in happier days, when he was standing on the beach on the Saturday night after Obama’s victory participating in LimmudLA’s healing havdala and he was surrounded by Orit Arfa and Danielle Berrin. That’s the way to go out in style!

Dennis posts on Facebook:

Dear Friends —

In case you missed a somewhat low-key message I posted around the Internets earlier this week, here’s an update on what’s going on with me.

JewishJournal.com laid me off on Friday, in the middle of my third year as Web Director.

Financial issues (it’s the economy, stupid!) were behind the layoff, and I am assured of good references for my work.

Indeed, I revived a dead site, increased traffic over 500% and moved JewishJournal.com into the modern world with blogs, audio and video, an actual CMS and 24/7 updates.

As a result, we won our first awards for online journalism from the L.A. Press Club, made our own headlines in the media (my naming of "Swindler’s List," the all-Madoff group blog, got me into ‘Variety’) and created an internationally-recognized

destination.

If you know of any executive positions for an internet strategist/web producer/web editor, please let me know.

Recommendations on LinkedIn.com would be cool as well.

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Jews Blockade LA’s Israeli Consulate

I wonder where these guys were when Hamas was sending rockets into Israel?

I suspect they only care when Jews fight back to defend themselves.

This is Israel’s first invasion that has nearly unanimous Israeli support.

The LA Times reports:

Demanding an end to military action in Gaza, eight to 10 Jewish activists chained themselves this morning to the Israeli Consulate building on Wilshire Boulevard.

Other activists who were not chained to the building walked in a circle outside the consulate, chanting: "Let Gaza live! End the siege now." One of the signs they carried read: "The Israeli consulate has been closed for war crimes."

Hannah Howard, a spokeswoman for the International Jewish Anti-Zionist Network, which is conducting the protest, said demonstrators chained themselves to the front steps of the building at 8:30 a.m. and that two others blocked the walkway. Several more stood in front of the driveway on Wilshire Boulevard to prevent cars from entering and exiting. About 50 protesters participated in the demonstration, she said.

“Jews will not allow the violence that is being done in our name to continue," Howard said. "Not all Jews are united in support of Israel. We [also] recognized the humanitarian crisis in Palestine.”

The consulate is on the 17th floor of the building at 6380 Wilshire Boulevard, and many other businesses have offices inside.

DANIELLE BERRIN REPORTS:

StandWithUs President Roz Rothstein also quickly came to the scene, called there by Consulate officials. StandWithUs has staged multiple pro-Israel rallies across the region since the conflict began, including one drawing between 2,000 and 3,000 supporter last Sunday at the Federal Building.
“I think we’ve got to make sure that everybody understands this is one-sided propaganda given without context, with exaggerated use of terminology especially, when they invoke terms like ‘apartheid,’” Rothstein said.

“They neglect to recognize Hamas’ double war crimes—launching rockets from civilian populations into civilian populations. All the people standing here today? It’s not even in their vocabulary.”

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Maybe The Bailout Worked?

I want to grind my teeth every time I think about the U.S. government bailing out banks, but this Washington Post article says the thing has worked:

Sure, you can question how the money was used — many of us have — but you can’t quarrel with the fact that a financial meltdown has been avoided as a direct result of the government’s extraordinary interventions. Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac are providing much-needed support to a mortgage market that would be shuttered without them. The orderly wind-down of AIG‘s book of credit-default swaps prevented the collapse of an enormous financial house of cards. Citigroup was prevented from becoming the next Lehman Brothers, while the balance sheets of the other big banks have been fortified with additional capital in expectation of further significant write-offs.

Who has benefited from all this? Every investor, every household and every business in the United States. You may not like the fact that, as a result of these actions, overpaid bankers were allowed to hang on to their jobs or preserve the value of their stock holdings. And you may be unhappy that the financial system remains in such fragile shape that it is still hard for some people and businesses to get loans they think they deserve. But let me assure you that things would have been a whole lot worse if these actions had not been taken.

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Depressing Russian Women

Chaim Amalek emails: I met this hot smart Russian woman last night, via, well you know what. On the one hand, I am impressed by how pretty, tall, and smart these Russian women are. On the other hand, they are very depressing. Russia is a ruined nation, so much so that hot young white women in Siberia are marrying Chinese men to provide them with food and shelter, as the Russian men are busy drinking themselves to death and are not economically productive. A stronger leader would have held the USSR together and followed the Chinese model of strong central control to make the shift over to free enterprise. I hope Obama does not prove to be America’s Gorbachev.

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Dexter Filkins – ‘The Forever War’

This book was one of the top five books published in 2008.

Here are my questions:

Hi Dexter,

As every civilian reader must tell you, I’m amazed you are still alive. I’m amazed more reporters have not been killed.

* What do you sense is the attitude towards the news media among Al Qaeda and ilk and why haven’t they killed more of you? They must see you as instrumental to their purposes and which means they must see you to some extent as impartial and non-American/British/ Australian?

* I am Jewish and dream of doing what you are doing. Are many of your reporter peers in Afghanistan/Iraq Jewish and does this pose additional threats to their safety (do they try to hide it?)?

* I assume you don’t engage in metaphysics about evil (am I wrong?). It seems to me from reading your book that evil exists and you have seen it. What does it look like? Does it leave a mark on the face of those who practice it? Or is "evil" just a religious thing?

Dexter Filkins replies to my questions:

Dear Luke:

Hi, sorry it’s taken me so long to get back to you. I am in Afghanistan and it’s hard here.

Thank you so much for your nice words about my book. I really grateful. And yes, I’m very lucky to still standing. I think I have gone through my nine lives more than a few times.

As to your questions:

1. On Al Qaeda–I am assuming you mean Al Qaeda in Iraq, which is a different animal than the HQ in Pakistan/Afghanistan. I don’t know what their attitude is towards the press. But they [could] hardly be more murderous—in general, of course, but also towards the press. More than 150 reporters have been killed in Iraq, making it the bloodiest war in its way ever. That is more than were killed in WWII and in Vietnam. We are targets.

2. Some of my colleagues are Jewish, yes. I can’t really speak for them but yes, in places like Iraq and Afghanistan, being Jewish, by itself, can be very dangerous indeed. But a lot of them are still here carrying on.

3. Well, as for evil, I am not sure I have seen the thing itself, but I have certainly seen what it does. I have been to car bombings and suicide bombings, and to the homes of families–American, Iraqi, Afghan–who have lost family and friends. Evil hurts people in every way it can. It is very sad to see.

I hope this helps. Thank you so much again.

Best,

Dexter

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Before Marrying Our Hero

Before Jane consents to marry our hapless hero, she must consider the following:

a) Poverty. Can she live in it indefinitely?
b) Ostracism. How many friends is she willing to lose due to Luke’s Aspeberger-induced idiosyncrasies.
c) Denial. She is marrying a man who loves yoga, seeks a massage therapist’s license and listens to Air Supply. In other words, a flaming homosexual.
d) Cunnilingus. Never again in her life.

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High School Memories

From a girl I was in love with throughout Placer High School (we graduated in June 1984):

I was cruising around Classmates and My Space, just thinking about some of the people I knew so long ago (and avoiding work) and came across you. Although some people from High School I have completely forgotten, you are one I remember quite well. Maybe because every time I dissect an earthworm I remember our dissection from Biology when you nearly cut it in half.

I always think about you and the paper. You always wrote what you thought. Made you quite the on-campus celebrity.

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Yoga Makes Me Feel On Top Of The World

I just went up to the Hollywood Hills for this shot:

Amalek emails: "OK, how flexible are you to begin with? How advanced is your class? What is the fit there?"

I am completely inflexible. I take all manner of classes. When I can’t do something, I just lie down and suck in energy from those who are doing. Yoga is a non-judgmental place. People tend to be much nicer inside a yoga center. It’s a great place to make friends, girlfriends and lovers.

The greatest pickup line in such places? Say, "This is my first day/week/month/ doing yoga." Then look amazed and in awe of your more advanced compatriots.

Amalek writes: "Is it too late, or might an intervention by Rabbi Muskin rope you back into the torah coral?"

I am still in, and I am never leaving, just varying the places I hang out…

Amalek responds: "In other words – accomplishing in the space of a few years what typically took American Jews generations to do: moving from rigorous orthodoxy to Conservative to ala carte Judaism. Also known as assimilating or becoming nominal, "cultural" jews."

Robert emails: "I did it for a while with a bunch of flatulent old hens. Not that arrousing…."

Amalek emails: You should have looked around the room and left immediately upon noting this. Luke, how many flatulent old hens are in your class? How did you happen to select this class from among all the ones out there for yoga? What is the mean age of the females in your class, and the breakdown between genders?

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