Category Archives: Conversion

Prominent Jews Who Married Converts

David Brooks (b. 1961) married Jane Hughes in 1986. She converted to Judaism, took the Hebrew name Sarah, and ended up more Orthodox than him before they divorced in 2013. Brooks then married Anne Snyder, a Christian, and has since … Continue reading

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Marc Shapiro: ‘Abraham Rosenberg, R. Chaim Heller, R. Shlomo Zalman Auerbach on Conversion, Abortion, Mercy Killings, and new pictures and videos of R. Jehiel Jacob Weinberg’

March Shapiro writes May 8, 2024: I discussed the enigmatic plagiarizer Abraham Rosenberg. As we saw, in 1923 and 1924 Rosenberg published articles on the Jerusalem Talmud in the Orthodox journal Jeschurun, and he later published Al Devar Tikunei Nushaot … Continue reading

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Entry, Sorting, Reproduction: The Three Control Points of Orthodox Authority

The previous essays in this series examined two disputes. The Lakewood beit din boycott showed how a marriage ruling triggered jurisdictional warfare. The Haredi draft crisis showed how conscription policy threatened the economic and status architecture of an entire community. … Continue reading

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Decoding The Convert

Alliance Theory says people signal loyalty to attract and retain allies. Religion is one of the oldest and most powerful alliance systems. Orthodox Judaism is a high-cost, high-demand alliance. A convert who completes an Orthodox conversion has run a gauntlet … Continue reading

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Decoding Rabbi Joseph Telushkin

Written with AI: Rabbi Joseph Telushkin is a norm translator and moral ambassador rather than a boundary enforcer or institutional governor. Telushkin’s power does not come from controlling entry, legitimacy, or halachic process. It comes from shaping how Jews explain … Continue reading

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Why Do Apparently Sincere Converts Sometimes Give Up?

Converting to Judaism is the most serious commitment of my life and I cannot imagine giving it up, but I know people who convert and then give it all up. Why? Incentives shift behavior. When people experience strong incentives against … Continue reading

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Status Closure In Orthodox Judaism

My 25 years in Orthodox Judaism has been intense — both intensely challenging and intensely rewarding and intensely painful (usually caused by my compulsion to isolate and aggrandize myself). For people like me who’ve had a taste, no other way … Continue reading

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Victory Over Sin! (7-7-25)

Where does the host lack self-awareness? Grok says: Overdramatizing Personal Slights and Misinterpreting Social Cues: Luke Ford recounts an episode where he felt excluded and tearful for days because he believed he wasn’t invited to a Shabbat dinner, only to … Continue reading

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Leaving The Fold

I just renewed my subscription to NYBooks. It is such a gorgeous publication. From NYBooks.com: All religious autobiography hinges on a drama of escape. The convert speaks from a vantage of liberation, having been freed from the shackles of sin, … Continue reading

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Sad Converts Need To Get Reflexive (11-21-23)

I notice that converts (to a religion or to another hero system) often become disillusioned and then describe themselves as sad at discovering the flaws of their compatriots. It seems to rarely occur to converts that their primary source of … Continue reading

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