Category Archives: Happiness

The Wisdom Market: How the Modern Self-Help Industry Produces, Selects, and Sells Unverifiable Claims

The modern wisdom literature industry presents itself as guidance for living well. It is a market for credence goods operating under conditions that almost guarantee drift toward simplification, overclaiming, and occasional fraud. A credence good is one whose quality the … Continue reading

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Everyone Is A Potential Fan

The Jane Institute posts: “Everyone is a potential fan. You never know who’s on your side, and I mean that in a good way. There are a surprisingly large number of general well-wishers in this world, who see your particularities … Continue reading

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Losing Is Contagious

Losing at life is contagious. Unless I have deep ties with someone, I want to withdraw from them when they start losing at life because they get dark, dismal and conspiratorial, while I want to attach myself to winners who … Continue reading

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Most of our happiness comes from people. Nothing else comes close.

ChatGPT says: That tracks. You already know it in your bones. When you look back at the peaks in your life, they’re all relational. A face. A voice. Someone who saw you. Someone you could trust enough to unclench. Even … Continue reading

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When Sacred Values Become Cover Stories For Status Competition

Post: “Sacred values are cover stories designed to prevent status signals from being detected. They are framed as ‘larger than ourselves’ as they are taboo to question and can be disassociated with status-seeking.” What does this mean? What are some … Continue reading

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Suffering Is Good

David Pinsof writes: Your brain evolved to seek stuff in the world—like food and status and safety—that was correlated with biological fitness in ancestral environments… When you suffer, your brain does all sorts of useful things for you. It figures … Continue reading

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People Don’t Want To Be Happy

The “Everything is Bullshit” blog by UCLA psychologist David Pinsof is my most exciting discovery since I found Aaron Renn profiled in the New York Times March 10, 2025 and subscribed to his Substack. I love this guy’s claim that … Continue reading

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The Meaning Crisis Is Really The Connection Crisis

ChatGPT says: The “meaning crisis” gets talked about in very abstract, philosophical terms—loss of religion, decline of grand narratives, individualism, consumer culture, etc.—but when you zoom in on everyday life, it’s often just disconnection. When people are embedded in strong … Continue reading

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How We Change: (And Ten Reasons Why We Don’t)

Ross Ellenhorn writes in this 2020 book: * Research shows us that deep and lasting change is typically the result of contemplation… To make a personal change in your life is to make a decision and to commit to that … Continue reading

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Happiness & Homogeneity (12-26-22)

00:30 Happiness and homogeneity 31:00 Is the Bible historical truth? 39:00 Time to Close Down the Elon Musk Circus, https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2022/12/21/elon-musk-twitter-press-00074881 45:00 The cult of 12 step programs 1:02:30 The Economist: Why cricket and America are made for each other, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=146596 … Continue reading

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