‘His feuds were many and slashing’

I remember my therapist saying me after I had created another ruckus, “I don’t think you even want to change.”

From the New York Times, a review of a new book on historian Hugh Trevor-Roper:

Among his antagonists was Evelyn Waugh, who objected to Trevor-Roper’s put-downs of Roman Catholicism. Trevor-Roper’s sign-off to one of these feuds, in print, was: “May I recommend to Mr. Waugh a period of silent reading?” His takedown of a book by an Oxford colleague, Lawrence Stone, was described as one that “connoisseurs of intellectual terrorism still cherish to this day.” Another Oxford colleague, Maurice Bowra, once characterized him as “a robot, without human experience, with no girls, no real friends, no capacity for intimacy and no desire to like or be liked.” Trevor-Roper’s marriage to a woman 11 years his senior, Alexandra Henrietta Louisa Howard-Johnston, known as Xandra, did not entirely dispel rumors that he was gay.

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Even Rabbis Like Tim Tebow

I have never seen a phenomenon in sports like Tim Tebow.

And that he is such a genuinely good person is a bonus.

He reminds me a little bit of Steve Young who was the only professional athlete during my two years reporting on pro sports (1985-1987) to ask me my name.

The WSJ reports:

“Tebowing” is the brainchild of Jared Kleinstein, 24, a real-estate marketer in New York City who was raised in Denver, where he grew into a devoted sports fan. Mr. Kleinstein, who is Jewish, just wanted to pay tribute to the inspirational quarterback of his favorite team. He launched Tebowing.com from Manhattan in October, on the night after Mr. Tebow led the Broncos to victory over the Miami Dolphins.

“We were at a bar watching the game,” he says, “and when he came back to win, everybody was cheering like we won the Super Bowl, even though we had just beat the last-place team in the league.” Mr. Kleinstein noticed that as the Bronco players were jumping up and down on the sidelines, Mr. Tebow took a knee in prayer. He snapped a picture of himself and his friends doing the same, called it “Tebowing,” then created the site and sent it to eight people.

Within 48 hours, Mr. Kleinstein had been interviewed by this paper, CBS, Fox, ABC and other media outlets. The site has received millions of visits and page views in its short life. Mr. Kleinstein receives pictures of people Tebowing all day long, and often posts new pictures every hour.

With his site, Mr. Kleinstein says, “people found hope through a gesture,” noting a much-discussed photo that he posted of a young boy with an IV attached to his arm who wrote that he was “Tebowing while chemoing.” Mr. Kleinstein adds that a lot of support for the trend has come from rabbis. “It has made prayer in public something to not be ashamed of,” he says. “I think that crosses all religious boundaries.”

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How Is Alexander Technique Different From Chiropractic?

As I mention my new Alexander Technique teaching practice to my friends, they keep asking me how is this different from what chiropractors do.

That’s easy. A chiropractor fixes you. Does stuff to you. Cracks you. You are passive. You lie on a table. You receive his treatment.

I do none of that. I help you become aware of your habits (needless
compression, tension) that will lead you to a chiropractor and the
like.

Another friend asks: “Is the Alexander Technique a physical manipulation or a mental consultation?”

The Technique is cognitively directed movement. A way of noticing your
reactions to stimuli and letting go of the ones that don’t serve you
(usually reactions of unnecessary tension and compression). So it is
both physical and mental because all movement starts first in the
mind… Actors, musicians and people in performance are the most
likely to take lessons in it.

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Pre-Marital Sex Story Shakes Up YU

This controversy illustrates something I love about Orthodox Judaism — it makes more of life significant.

Most communities would not become aghast at a story about pre-marital sex, but in Orthodox Judaism it is a shanda.

Those Jews who take Orthodox Judaism seriously do not approve of pre-marital sex. Orthodox Judaism has standards and such behavior is outside of those standards.

By contrast with conservative Christians, however, Orthodox Jews do not regard sexual sins as the most serious sins. Pre-marital sex is no greater a sin than breaking the Sabbath or eating non-kosher food.

So Orthodox Judaism in this controversy both keeps its standards and keeps perspective.

I believe I know who wrote this story but I’m turning over a new leaf and I’m not outing her.

The New York Times reports:

It all started with a provocative, anonymous essay about premarital sex published by an online student newspaper on Monday, the kind of first-person tell-all that would probably pass without much mention at the average secular university.

A young woman narrates how she goes to a hotel, peels off her conservative clothes, slips on lace and sprays her “newly liberated skin with a noticeable amount of floral perfume.” Her lover comes to the room; they have a tryst. The next morning, she regrets what she has done.

But this essay was different, because it was written by an Orthodox woman and posted by a publication at Stern College for Women — part of Yeshiva University of Manhattan — where the writer says she is a student.

As an Orthodox Jewish institution that teaches both Jewish and secular subjects, the university attracts many religious students who consider premarital sex — not just the act but even talking openly about it — well beyond the acceptable bounds of modesty. But it also enrolls students willing to push those limits.

The result was a week-long firestorm on campus that has highlighted the tension between Yeshiva University’s secular and religious identities in a place where sex is still considered a deeply private matter. After the essay was published, conservative students mobilized and complained to Stern College’s student council about the publication, The YU Beacon, produced jointly by students at Stern and at Yeshiva College, the university’s undergraduate school for men.

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Another Orthodox Jewish Sex Abuse Scandal In New York

The New York Post reports:

He looks like a movie star, but many members of Brooklyn’s Jewish community believe he is a monster.
Andrew Goodman, 27, who worked for Jewish social-service agencies, is charged with sexually abusing two Orthodox boys for years in Flatbush — one from age 11 to 15, the other from age 13 to 16.
Goodman filmed sex acts with the youngsters on a Web cam, according to the 144-count indictment, which alleges numerous violations since 2006. He has pleaded not guilty.
The handsome Goodman, who held parties in his home with liquor and child porn, also “threatened the life” of a boy who reported him to authorities, court papers and sources say.

Read more: http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/brooklyn/orthodox_sex_abuse_scandal_Vzaqd3TbKtikUv0h6b3clI#ixzz1gF7aZw55

Chaim Amalek comments: The abuse of children in the ultraorthodox world is systematic, and begins when neonates are 8 days old and perverted men known as “mohels” orally sodomize babies bleeding from freshly circumcised genitals. The practice is known as metzitzah b’peh (you can google this if you don’t believe me), and its morally degenerate character aside, it has been known to spread lethal herpetic infections to babies (the NY Daily News covered this a few years ago). Still, the city and state look the other way and refuse to bring any of the monster mohels who engage in this practice to justice.

Then the abuse continues, quite systematically, in the orthodox network of yeshivas, where jewish children are denied even the chance to master english. The rabbis understand that any secular education is a threat to their control over the Jews, so they receive virtually nothing beyond the sixth grade if that. This too, is contrary to state and city law, but neither Bloomberg nor Pataki nor the authorities in New jersey (home of the Lakewood Yeshiva) have been willing to do anything about it. (Some Jewish high schools are quite good, but I am speaking of the orthodox ones run in New Jersey and in New York that turn out hasids and other followers of various rabbinic cults).

The orthodox see themselves as above our laws. They engage in massive welfare fraud (as reported by the NY Times re New Square Village, Kiryas Joel, and other hasidic enclaves whose existence our laws should not even permit), they impose something like Sharia on public buses and attempt to do so even on sidewalks, all without a peep from cowardly Jews like Bloomberg or the other politicians. We don’t let Catholics or Muslims get away with this and neither should the hasids.

Kudos to the Post for daring to report this story. But there is much, much more corruption to uncover here, and it involves grand rabbis and top public officials who for years have looked the other way in violation of our laws. Long past time some light was shed on these black hatted perverts. Neither they nor their way of life belongs in any Western nation. Let them move to Israel or if they won’t go there (and many of them are fanatically anti-zionist), perhaps the Saudis or the Iranians will take them in.

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I Walked Around Pico-Robertson In Jeans Friday Night

Friday was my graduation day. I had a friend in from the Bay Area. I had my psycho-therapy. And I did not have much spare time.

So when my buddy came over at 5pm, I was still in my jeans. The Shabbos candles were burning. The split-pea soup was on the stove.

And we decided to go for a walk.

I think it is the first time I’ve walked around Pico-Robertson on Shabbat in jeans. It was weird. I felt totally uncomfortable. Normally I only wear a suit out on Shabbat to honor that day. Now I’ve gone all Israeli and informal.

Orthodox Jews walking by generally ignored me because we looked like goys.

I felt shy wishing people “Gut Shabbos” when I wasn’t dressed for the occasion.

I felt as guilty as I would if I were to drive around the neighborhood yelling out “Gut Shabbos”.

Driving is forbidden on the Shabbat according to Orthodox Jewish law. Walking around in jeans is not forbidden on the Sabbath but it is discouraged. Most Jews dress up more for synagogue on the Sabbath than do Christians for church on Sunday.

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What To Do When Your Life Breaks Down

* Free the neck. Think up through your torso. Let go of unnecessary tension.
* Lie down with the head supported comfortably with a book or two. Keep your knees up so your lower back can unclench. Think about the length and width of your torso. Think about your head gently releasing away from your torso. Think about your legs gently releasing away from your torso.
* The meaning of life is not a question that you ask life. It is a question that life asks you. What is life asking of you right now? As you let go of unnecessary muscular compression, you’ll think more clearly. You’ll see what you need to do.

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Friday Was My Graduation Day At The Alexander Training Institute Of Los Angeles

I’ve studied here for the past three years to learn how to teach Alexander Technique.

During the ceremony Friday, my teacher Michael Frederick had me carry three times a brimming cup of water and throw it out to symbolize that the essence of the Technique is performing the tasks of daily life with poise.

The school had shrimp in my honor!

Julia Caulder was my first Alexander teacher.

My new Alexander website.

Robert Rickover: “Looks like Michael F. whispering the secret mantra, channeled directly from FM Alexander and available only to Certified Teachers of the Alexander Technique, and without which Primary Control cannot possibly be properly activated.”

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The Day Class Stopped

I was in seventh grade (at a Seventh-Day Adventist school, P.U.C. Elementary, in the Napa Valley) one morning. But there was no teacher. All the teachers were in a meeting.

I started getting nervous. I feared they were in a meeting about me.

I had decorated my side of a desk divider with photos of scantily clad women.

Hmm, maybe I made a mistake, I thought.

A student from another class eventually came in the room, walked over to me, and said the faculty were discussing what to do with me. I would make my life easier if I removed all the bathing beauties from my divider and replace them with something more anodyne.

And so I did and the problem went away.

But that situation keeps recurring in my life.

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Denying Climate Change

From the JewishJournal.com, Dennis Prager writes:

In my two columns (part 1 / part 2) on why thoughtful people might be skeptical about the apocalyptic global warming/climate change scenario, I addressed the issue with a seriousness and respect that Joey Green does not exhibit in his response. He apparently felt that sarcasm and put-downs comprise an adequate response. They don’t.

Nevertheless, the issue is too important not to respond. So here are responses to selected statements by Green:

1. “Dennis explained the main reason why he and ‘many thoughtful people’ remain skeptical that human activity produced global warming. . . .”

Green puts “thoughtful people” in quotation marks, as if it is impossible for thoughtful people to be skeptical of the four claims made by global warming advocates:

a) The Earth’s temperature is rising rapidly and dangerously.

b) It is doing so because of man-made emissions of carbon dioxide.

c) The result will be a worldwide catastrophe — including unprecedented rising of the sea level leading to inundated coastal countries and cities; similarly unprecedented droughts leading to wars for water; and extraordinarily severe and numerous hurricanes making landfall.

d) Therefore industrialized nations must immediately and drastically curtail use of fossil fuels by imposing high taxes on their use and vast government spending on “green” technology. In that way, fossil fuels, the engine of mankind’s unprecedented economic prosperity and technological progress, will be abandoned. Industrialized nations must also transfer hundreds of billions, ultimately trillions, of dollars to poor nations to compensate for the alleged destruction those nations will experience due to our failure to halt warming in time.

Remember, one must fully agree with each of the first three propositions. Skepticism regarding any one of the three means that man-made global warming is not the crisis it is purported to be. And then there would be no need for the fourth proposition.

Green, like most people on the left, doesn’t believe that thoughtful people can be skeptical about any of the propositions. So, allow me to restate:

Aside from dissent by many very distinguished scientists within the small community of climate scientists and elsewhere, common sense dictates skepticism.

For one thing, how do those who are so certain about global warming and about what will occur a half century from now explain the fact that long before there were any human beings, let alone man-made carbon emissions, the Earth experienced periods of far greater warming and intense freezing? Isn’t it obvious that there have been myriad reasons for far more dramatic climate change — none of which have anything to do with humans or carbon dioxide?

Second, are we really going to transform Western economies — nearly all of which are already burdened by unsustainable debt (caused overwhelmingly by entitlements owed by the welfare state) — based almost entirely on computer models?

Third, how do we know that warming is necessarily bad? When the world or portions of it have warmed in human history, it has usually been far more a blessing than a problem.

Fourth, very few of the global warming alarmists’ immediate predictions, or even descriptions of current developments, have been true. For example, one of the most frequent warnings by Al Gore and others has been that “climate change” — what happened to “global warming,” by the way? — will result in unprecedentedly severe and devastating hurricanes. Yet, this very week, on Dec. 4, the United States passed 2,232 days without being hit by a major (Category 3) hurricane — the longest period since 1906. Have you read that in your mainstream paper? Does it mean anything that yet another alarmist prediction has proved false? According to Roger Pielke Jr., professor of environmental studies at University of Colorado, the previous record of consecutive days without a major hurricane in the United States, 1900-1906, “will be shattered, with the days between intense hurricane landfalls likely to exceed 2,500 days.”

But to Green, professor Pielke cannot be among the “thoughtful people.” For Green, no skeptic, no matter how distinguished a scientist he may be, can be thoughtful.

Green is not alone, unfortunately. This is typical of how most on the left think. They are certain that people with whom they differ — on virtually any subject — cannot be thoughtful, or intelligent, or compassionate; only those on the left possess these traits.

For the record, as I note in almost all my columns, unlike Green, I believe that there are thoughtful people on both sides of this issue.

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