Rabbi Mordecai Gafni Update

How come so many Jews employ multiple names?

From The Awareness Center:

Over the last few years various individuals have been monitoring Rabbi Mordechai Gafni’s where abouts.  After fleeing Israel, Gafni took a brief respite in Boston, prior to moving to Salt Lake City, UT.  We notified law enforcement there, yet because the women in Israel were to afraid to file a police report, it was impossible for the Israeli police to file a red notice with Interpol.

We need your help to make sure all women and children in Salt Lake City aware of Gafni’s presence.  I’ve been told the picture above is very close to what he looks like today.  If anyone has more updated information and or a more recent picture of him, please forward it to The Awareness Center immediately at:  [email protected]

For more information about the case of Rabbi Mordechai Gafni go to:
http://www.theawarenesscenter.org/gafni_mordechai.html

Winiarz/Gafni grew up in the midwest, yet went to both high school and college in New York. After college he became a Rabbinical student at Yeshiva University, yet did not get his rabbinical ordination (smeicha) from YU.  Instead, Mordechai Gafni obtained his ordination from Rabbi Shlomo Riskin.  

In 2004, Rabbi Shlomo Riskin, the spiritual leader of the Israeli community of Efrat, was going to revoke the rabbinic ordination he gave Rabbi Winiarz/Gafni many years ago when they had a close rabbi-student relationship. When Gafni heard of Rabbi Riskin’s wishes, he wrote a letter "returning" his semicha to spare his former teacher any further embarrassment.

In the early 1980’s, when Mordechai was nineteen he sexually abused a thirteen-year-old girl in her home.  It wasn’t until many years later that Marc Gafni confessed to the molestation while being interviewed by Gary Rosenblatt, editor of the New York Jewish Week.  Marc stated: "I was a stupid kid and we were in love," the rabbi said. "She was 14 going on 35, and I never forced her."

In 1983 Mordechai Winiarz was married to his first wife. He was also a youth leader for a group called "JPSY" (Jewish Public School Youth). The group involved working with at risk teenagers.  It was during this time he was accused of molesting a fifteen-year-old girl and an attempted sexual…of a young adult woman.  At the time the rabbis accused him of cult like practices.  Both women went to various rabbis looking for help, yet nothing was done except he… [went] to Boca Raton, Florida.  

In 1991 he left the Unitied States to start a new life in Israel, changing his name to Mordechai Gafni.

In May, 2006 new allegations were made against …Rabbi Mordechai Gafni. This time the allegations were made by three women who filed a complaint with the police in Haifa (Israel). The new claims were of professional sexual misconduct / clergy sexual abuse.

Immediately after the charges were filed Rabbi Mordechai Gafni confessed and fled Israel for the United States. He first landed in Boston, MA, where it is believed he stayed with one of his many female friends. There were rumors that soon after arriving in Boston he continued on to Boulder, CO and stayed with a colleague and then moved on to Salt Lake City, Utah.

Marc Gafni is involved with the Buddhist community of Salt Lake City.  It is believed that he is in the process of trying to reinvent himself again as he did back in the 1980’s after the first allegations were made against him…

The Awareness Center is seeking justice for all of the survivors of Rabbi Mordechai Winiarz (past and present). If you have any information regarding the current location of Rabbi Marc Gafni please notify The Awareness Center, Inc.

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Woman <-------

I’ve had a live cam with a chat room for the past few months and I’ve learned to sniff out which chatters are female.

Women writes things like this:

me <—– chopped liver?
*gasp*
*giggle*
*hides eyes*

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I Almost Kill Rabbi Etshalom

Tuesday. 4:10 p.m. I’m driving north down Livonia and swinging left on to Pico Blvd.

The light is green.

I’m 20 yards behind an SUV that has turned left on Pico and headed west.

I’m traveling at about 10 mph.

I’ve had the day from hell. I’m looking forward to feeling this (comparatively) new van handle the curve and then zoom up the street.

I notice a big white guy on a bicycle on the north side of Pico at the crosswalk.

He disappears from my vision.

I turn into Pico through the crosswalk and suddenly I’m right on top of the big white guy.

It’s Rabbi Yitzchak Etshalom. He’s on a bike wearing a helmut, his tzitzit flying in the breeze, a look of surprise on his face competing with the awesome serenity that only comes through Torah study.

I bet he had just finished teaching the Rambam’s 13 essential principles of the Jewish faith and was praying that part of the service wherein one thanks G-d for His protection..

He turns awkwardly away from me and west on Pico.

He’s no Lance Armstrong and I’m no Danica Patrick.

I slam on my brakes. My hand rushes to my mouth and then waves imploringly in the air for him to forgive me.

"I’m sorry," I say into my air conditioning.

He gives me a gracious wave and peddles uphill.

Sheesh, if I have to kill a rabbi today, why can’t it be a Reform rabbi? Why does Rabbi Etshalom have to die for my sins?  He hosted me for a meal on a Jewish holiday 2001. He was my Torah teacher. He was wise and funny. He made a great team with Rabbi Adlerstein at the late lamented Project Next Step.

Why does Rabbi Etshalom have to (almost) die for my sins?

Oh, rabbis Cohen, Muskin, Weil and Union were right to eject me.

Wretched man that I am, who will deliver me from this burden of sin?

Just imagine if the last thing Rabbi Etshalom saw in his life was my sweaty semi-converted face?

Then nothing.

Just the void.

There is no Judge and there is no Justice.

For my iniquities, he was (almost) smitten. For my transgressions, he was (almost) run over by a car.

Surely he is G-d’s suffering servant as prophesied by Isaiah 53.

My feelings of shock slowly turn into relief as I drive behind him on Pico Blvd.

I’d sworn to follow him until his dying day, to sit in the dust and soak in his teachings, but this is takings things too far.

From behind his back, he gives me another gracious wave and turns left through two lanes of traffic heading east.

I zoom past.

"Oh, how horrid, how embarrassing, how shameful," I think, "but at least I’ll get a blog post out of it."

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Is Rubashkin Meat Kosher?

From today’s WSJ:

"The Jewish narrative for 2,000 years has predominantly been about our powerlessness as unprotected immigrants," says Shmuly Yanklowitz, co-founder of Uri L’Tzedek, a progressive Orthodox group. The allegations are "particularly embarrassing because of how deeply connected our religious and historical identity and universal moral mandate are to the plight of these workers."

One such worker, Joel Rucal, is a Guatemalan immigrant who worked on the chicken line before the raid. He says his mother, who also worked at the plant, was arrested and wears a monitoring device around her ankle. Mr. Rucal also listed alleged abuses in the plant including extra shifts without pay and sexual advances by supervisors.

"Sometimes we needed to use the bathroom and they didn’t allow us," says Mr. Rucal. "We were afraid to say anything because it was the only job we could get."

Agriprocessors, started by Aaron Rubashkin, a Hassidic Jew from Brooklyn, is best known for its kosher brands such as Aaron’s Best and bills itself the world’s largest processor of what’s called glatt kosher beef, which adheres to the strictest kosher standard. A statement issued by vice president Chaim Abrahams said the company had hired immigration and safety-compliance experts after the raid. An employee hotline was activated last Friday.

Rabbi WeissMandl, top supervisory rabbi for kosher certification at the plant, says: "We were not aware of any mistreatment of workers." However, he added, "we are not involved with cutting and packing…That’s not the kosher part."

But for Rabbi Morris Allen, kosher is about more than a process. The revelations at Agriprocessors have prompted the conservative rabbi from Mendota Heights, Minn., to call on consumers to avoid the company’s products. The 53-year-old is founder of a movement that advocates for animal and worker welfare in kashrut, food prepared in accordance with Jewish law.

"We shouldn’t accept a standard of kashrut that is more concerned about the lung of a cow than the hand of a worker," he says. "Isn’t it important for us as Jews to care that our food isn’t just ritually kosher but ethically kosher, too?"

Rabbi Allen’s critics say that until wrongdoing is proven, no Jewish organization should condemn Agriprocessors or seek punishment for the company. Some Orthodox rabbis, who control the supervision of kosher plants, have charged the Conservative movement with hatching a plot to take over kosher certification. Some detractors also say that most Conservative Jews, who constitute the largest Jewish denomination, don’t even keep kosher.

Rabbi Allen first became concerned in March 2006 when he read an article in the Jewish press about poor conditions for Latino laborers at the Agriprocessors plant. With the blessing of the Conservative movement’s leadership, he formed a commission of inquiry and won Agriprocessors’ permission to visit the plant.

Rabbi Allen led a five-man team that included a Spanish-speaking rabbi, labor and immigration activists and an official from the United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism, representing Conservative congregations.
"We discovered things that were unbelievably painful," Rabbi Allen says. Among other allegations, he says pregnant women working on their feet all day were denied bathroom breaks; injured workers lacked proper medical care; and accounting machinations deprived workers of payment for all clocked hours.

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Rob Spallone Update

I call my friend Rob Spallone for the first time since last October.

Luke: "How’s it going?"

Rob: "It’s dead. What are you doing?"

Luke: "I’m blogging on Jewish stuff."

"Why are you still in it?"

Rob: "I’m not. I haven’t been in it for seven or eight months. I’m thinking of going to temple. Can you write about that on your blog?"

Luke: "What are you doing?"

Rob: "I’m trying to sell New York ices but I’m having difficulty with permits."

Luke: "Do you still have your agency?"

Rob: "I don’t deal with anything."

Luke: "Did you sell it?"

Rob: "No. There’s nothing to sell. Business is dead. Everybody you talk to is crying."

"You read the internet about the stuff?"

Luke: "No. I stopped as soon as I quit last October."

Rob: "You’re not allowed. Your eyes will fall out. You don’t speak to anybody?"

Luke: "I don’t."

Rob: "You heard about Max?"

Luke: "He got convicted?"

Rob: "Oh yeah.

"Remember Dick Miller? He killed himself. He moved back here from Prague in May. He was having health troubles. Saturday he blew his brains out.

"Everybody should do that. There’s nobody I talked to that has anything good to say."

Luke: "How do you like living in Northridge?"

Rob: "Nice. But I can’t afford it anymore. It’s brutal."

Luke: "And your girlfriend Leah?"

Rob: "She’s good."

Luke: "There’s no reason to be in the business unless you can make good money from it."

Rob: "That’s right and nobody is anymore, not even the big shots."

"Bob from Dane died. No talent are dead this week. They should all die. It’d be a happier Jewish place for you."

"You still have the Scooby Do van?"

Luke: "Yep. It’s no end of trouble."

"You still host your weekly poker game?"

Rob: "No. I play once in a blue moon."

Luke: "No gambling anymore?"

Rob: "No. I can’t afford it."

"If I don’t get this ice deal, I’m moving out of California."

Luke: "I’m a lot happier now I’m out."

Rob: "So am I. Headwise, for sure. But now it is money. It was an easy job. I made a lot of money. I didn’t do nothing. But now you’re not making any money, it hurts. I pay $12,000 a month in bills and I haven’t done anything in eight months."

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The Jewish Journal – Where Journalists Go To Die

USC professor Marty Kaplan now writes for the Jewish Journal.

Susan Freudenheim came from the Los Angeles Times.

Brad A. Greenberg came from the Los Angeles Daily News.

Bill Boyarsky came from the Los Angeles Times.

So after Rob Eshman (he has a weakness for great resumes) has chewed ’em up — just kidding Rob, you’re the nicest guy I know in journalism — where do they go?

Do they follow in Marc Ballon’s footsteps and become publicists?

Do they follow in Theresa Strasser’s footsteps and marry goyim?

Do they become bloggers?

Do they just kick the bucket?

Howard Blum went to the Jewish Journal from the LA Weekly and then moved to the LA Times.

Anybody who has a job at a newspaper should be grateful while it lasts.

I admit it — I used to hate the Jewish Journal.

When did that change? The day I interviewed Rob Eshman in 2004. I suddenly saw things from his perspective and all my hatred dissolved.

That happens to me a lot. I’ll hate someone. I’ll meet them. I’ll understand. I’ll become calm. Relatively.

 

I have way too much free floating rage.

At least it can make for good blogging.

I have this rage on a trigger. I try to surround myself with good souls because they make my madness disappear.

I’m about the most susceptible bloke around.

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I Want To Lease A Car

Anyone have any good advice for me? I don’t even know what type of car I want to lease. Just something cheap. [email protected]

I called up carsdirect.com. I said I didn’t know what type of car I wanted. They said they usually steer people towards the Honda Civic.

I decided on two doors rather than four doors (cheaper), decided on air conditioning and the stereo, and black for the color. I’ll put down $2500 and pay $200 a month for 36 months.

I’ve got good credit. I’ve never failed to repay a debt. I’m always on time with my payments. Only this year have I gone into credit card debt (for the first time since I emerged from it in 2000 — I wrote my first book while living on my credit cards in 1995-1996, stacking up a debt of $20,000 that took me four years to pay off).

The mileage limit is 12,000 a year.

Over the past 13 years with my van, I’ve driven less than 6,000 miles a year (and that includes a trip to Vancouver and back in 2001).

I wonder how much I’ll get on my trade-in considering I just put a used engine in (for $3,000).

I know I’ll definitely feel better about myself driving a nice car rather than a rusting junker.

Someone came over today to help me with my car troubles and I told her to "Go away and leave me alone! Go!"

I need to go into my cave to struggle with my problems. After a while, I’ll emerge and be more human.

But catch me in the middle of a crisis and I’m tunnel-visioned and not susceptible to suggestions.

Nor amenable to hugs.

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American Jewish Life Magazine Closes

I had no idea there was an American Jewish Life magazine but I am glad whenever Benyamin Cohen falls on his face.

I could pretend to be all objective and just report the news but Cohen was my worst experience while compiling my American Jewish Journalism book.

When I wouldn’t change his transcript from "sucks" to "stinks," he went on an online jihad against me.

Matthue Roth writes:

 American Jewish Life closed its doors for the last time this past week. Asked for a reason, editor (and, ultimately, the sole full-time employee) Benyamin Cohen told the Forward that "[u]nfortunately, this is just not the right economy for a print publication," and that, effectively, print media is dead.

…With all due respect to the recently departed, it seems like there’s still a space in this world for some Jewish magazines — the O-inspired Jewish Woman magazine is doing a fair job on that corner of the market, and Heeb and Guilt and Pleasure aren’t showing any signs of going anywhere. Meanwhile, former editor Benyamin Cohen isn’t moping around at the gravesite; he’s already at work hyping his next project, the memoir My Jesus Year, will be released in October.

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Michelle Obama Talks To The DNC’s Gay & Lesbian Leadership Council

From HughHewitt.com:

Michelle Obama’s speech last week was a completely candid and heartfelt declaration of Barack Obama true feelings on the subject of same sex marriage: He’s for it.  He is for the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act and against the California Marriage Amendment which would reverse the ruling of the California Supreme Court of last month and restore the definition of marriage limiting the institution to one man and one woman. 

Now this is a clear and significant divide between the two candidates, and not just on the issue of marriage, but also on the role of the courts.  If Obama is elected and he leads majorities in the House and Senate to repeal DOMA, eight judges in two states –California and Massachusetts– will have reversed 3,000 years of law and culture in the West.

This is one more reason why it is quite obvious that Barack Obama is the most radical presidential nominee of a major party in American history.  I hope the McCain campaign and 527s simply put the facts before voters on this issue and do not allow the scorn of cultural elites who see no downside to such judicial imperialism mandating such radical changes deter them from publicizing the simple fact, attested to by Michelle Obama with perfect clarity, that Obama supports the imposition of same sex marriage from coast-to-coast. 

The audio:

From the DNC’s GLLC dinner in New York, Thursday, 6/26/08:

Michelle Obama – 1

Five years ago today, the Supreme Court delivered justice with the decision in Lawrence V. Texas. That case stated that same sex couples would never again be persecuted through the use of criminal law. And on Saturday, we recognized the anniversary of the day people stood up at Stonewall and said enough. These anniversaries remind us that no matter who we are or where we come from or what we look like, we are only here because of the brave efforts of those who came before us, that we are all only here because of those who marched and bled and died, from Selma to Stonewall in a pursuit of that more perfect union. That is the promise of this country.

Michelle Obama – 2

Because Barack is not new to the cause of the LGBT community. It has been a conviction of his career since he was first elected to public office. In his first year in the Illinois State Senate, Barack co-sponsored a bill amending the Illinois Human Rights Act to include protections of LGBT men and women. He worked on that bill for seven years, serving as the chief co-sponsor, and lobbying his colleagues to reject the political expedience of homophobia, and make LGBT equality a priority in our state.

Michelle Obama – 3

He’s led on gender-based violence with his work on the Illinois gender violence act, successfully reaching across the aisle to put in place the nation’s strongest law, giving the survivors of sexual assault or domestic violence legal remedy against their attacker. He joined his colleagues in fighting to include explicit protections for the LGBT community in that act. He lost that battle, but his efforts brought gender violence in the LGBT community into the political consciousness like never before.

Michelle Obama – 4

In 2004, after hearing from gay friends and supporters about the hurtful impact of DOMA, Barack went on record during his U.S. Senate race calling for its complete repeal. And as a U.S. Senator, he voted to protect our Constitution from the stain of discrimination by voting against the Federal Marriage Amendment.

Michelle Obama – 5

Barack’s record is clear. There is so much at stake in this election. The direction of our country hangs in the balance. And we face two clear choices in this race, sort of like what he faced in that church basement. We face the choice between the world as it is, and the world as it should be. And we have to ask ourselves in this election, are we willing to settle for the world as it is? Or are we willing to work for the world as it should be? And despite the extraordinary challenges we face today, we have one candidate who believes that the country is moving in the right direction, despite the inequalities created over eight years. And then there’s Barack Obama, the other guy. Barack believes that we must fight for the world as it should be, a world where together, we work to reverse discriminatory laws like DOMA and Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

Michelle Obama – 6

And that’s why he opposes all divisive and discriminatory constitutional amendments, whether it’s a proposed amendment to the California and Florida constitutions, or the U.S. Constitution, because the world as it is should be one that rejects discrimination of all kinds.

Michelle Obama – 7

It’s not just about positions that you take. It’s also about the leadership that you provide on these issues. Barack has the courage to talk to skeptical audiences, not just friendly ones. That’s why he told a crowd at a rally in Texas that gays and lesbians deserve equality. And you can imagine in Texas that that crowd got a little quiet. But Barack said, and I quote now, he said, "I’m A Christian, and I praise Jesus every Sunday." And then the crowd starting cheering. And then he said, "I hear people saying things that I don’t think are very Christian with respect to people who are gay and lesbian." And you know what? When he said that, the crowd kept cheering. That’s why he told Evangelicals at Rick Warren’s Saddleback Church that we need a renewed call to action on HIV and AIDS. That’s why he went to Ebeneezer Baptist Church, and he said that we need to get over homophobia in the African-American community, that if we’re honest with ourselves, we’ll embrace our gay brothers and sisters instead of scorning them. And that’s why he stood up in 2004 at the Democratic National Convention, and he told all of America that we refuse to be divided anymore. That’s the choice in this election.

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Why Dennis Prager Will Vote For John McCain

From townhall.com:

Last week, a conservative magazine reported that I would not vote for John McCain for president. The magazine based its claim on a column I had written in May 2007 about why I could not support John McCain for the Republican presidential nomination.

The magazine was wrong. Though I did not support Sen. McCain in the Republican primaries, the moment he became the presumptive Republican candidate I endorsed him wholeheartedly for president of the United States. Having not been a supporter from the outset, perhaps my endorsement of John McCain will carry more weight among conservatives who are still undecided about whether to vote for John McCain.



Cindy McCain, left, looks on as her husband, Republican presidential candidate Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., answers a reporters question after touring the Turbine Airfoil Design plant in Harrisburg, Penn., Monday, June 30, 2008. (AP Photo/LM Otero)

My bottom line is this: The gulf between John McCain and conservatives is miniscule compared to the gulf between John McCain and Barack Obama. This is true regarding virtually every issue of significance to America. The America that a President Barack Obama would shape, with the help of a Democratic Congress and a liberal Supreme Court, would be very dissimilar from the America shaped by a President John McCain.

Conservatives who will not vote for McCain are well-intentioned utopians. They are comparing McCain to a consistently conservative candidate. The reality, however, is that McCain is not running against a consistently conservative candidate. He is running against a consistently left-wing candidate. And America cannot afford to have its first leftist president ever. It can afford liberal presidents — such as Bill Clinton, or Jimmy Carter (who governed as a liberal but became a leftist after leaving the White House), or John F. Kennedy, or Lyndon Johnson, or Harry Truman — i.e., all the Democrats who have been president since World War II. But the Democratic Party has moved well to the left of liberalism. And Barack Obama is at the left of that left-wing party.

Furthermore, given the strong possibility of a Democratic House, a Democratic Senate, and a liberal Supreme Court for decades to come, given the number of Supreme Court appointments a Democratic president will be able to make, an Obama victory will move America more radically leftward than ever in its history.

That is why the argument that an Obama administration will be so destructive that Americans will reject the left and then elect a real conservative to undo the damage done in an Obama presidency is deeply flawed.

First of all, other than impeachment, there is no way to undo Supreme Court appointments, two or three of which a President Obama would likely make. And given how active most liberal judges are, it won’t matter much if the country has some conservative epiphany and then elects a Republican president and Congress. Because even if the Congress and the president will not pass liberal legislation, a liberal Supreme Court will. On almost any social issue that matters — the right to bear arms, late-term abortion, the definition of marriage, capital punishment, and many others — a liberal Supreme Court will rule on these issues, and there will be nothing that a post-Obama Republican president, even with a Republican congress, will be able to do about them.

Moreover, the argument that Americans will have a conservative epiphany after four years of an Obama presidency is predicated on America being greatly damaged by his policies. What kind of mindset welcomes such damage to the country it loves for the sake of potentially gaining politically after the damage is done? Is it, for example, really worth a considerably weakened economy (which Barack Obama’s tax and other economic policies would likely lead to), with its widespread suffering and unforeseeable social and political consequences, just to — hopefully — get a conservative into the White House four or eight years later?

And the damage won’t necessarily be undone. Even Ronald Reagan, the most popular conservative to ever serve as president, could not roll back most liberal creations. He never could get rid of the useless Department of Education, for example. Nor could a then-popular President George W. Bush do a thing about Social Security even when he had a Republican House and Senate. And how will Barack Obama’s successor undo the damage done to Iraq, the Middle East, the War on Islamic Terror, and the credibility of America’s assurances to allies once Iraq slides into chaos as a result of America’s precipitous withdrawal from Iraq?

Therefore, as well meaning and sincere as many conservatives are, this mode of thinking — let the country suffer under a left-wing president, Congress, and Supreme Court and then it will come to its conservative senses — will likely lead to a downward spiral from which it is hard to see the country escaping for a generation, if it is lucky. continued…

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