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You Should Earn Self-Esteem By Doing Estimable Things

On his radio show today, Dennis Prager said: “That’s the only estimable coinage. The rest is counterfeit. Counterfeit self-esteem either produces narcissism or profound unhappiness when the day comes that I recognize it has been counterfeit.”

Caller: “We have a 14-year old girl and she is probably our biggest challenge. Any time we correct her, she accuses us of judging her.”

Dennis: “The next time your daughter says, ‘You’re judging me’, the answer is, ‘You’re correct. I am.’ What will she say then?

“Yes, I am judging you. And guess what, darling? Everyone you meet will judge you until the day you die. That is the human lot — to be judged. Just as you judge others. You didn’t choose everybody at school to be your friend. You judged who you think is nice, who you think is mean, who you think is fun, who you think is boring.

“Every one of us judge all the time. The problem is when we judge unfairly.

“It is just as important that we judge you as it is that we love you.”

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Marrying A Convert

It does not make sense to me why somebody Orthodox from birth would want to marry a convert or a baal teshuva (penitent). I figure the more you have in common, the better.

There tends to be a naive wide-eyed enthusiasm with converts and penitents while those Orthodox from birth have a more realistic attitude towards Judaism.

One has a very different mentality when one is born into Orthodox Judaism than when one embraces it later in life.

As far as status, being a convert has no status in Jewish life, nor should it. Being a baal teshuva has no status either.

Christianity celebrates penitents and converts. Jews don’t. Makes sense to me. If being an Orthodox Jew is such a great thing, then you’d want to primarily hang out with those who’ve been doing it their whole lives.

If somebody did just a non-Orthodox conversion, then they did not sacrifice as much to join the Jews and they’re not as interesting. They may be finer and kinder and smarter, but they’re not as provocative.

By the way, 90% of Orthodox Jews in America were born into Orthodox Judaism. There is no great wave of converts or penitents into Orthodox Judaism. Many come in for a while and then move out. It’s a demanding religion. It will never have mass appeal, neither to Jews nor to goyim.

Heshy Fried blogs:

Reasons to marry a convert:

You never have to spend yom tov with their family (maybe Christmas or Thanksgiving)

They are usually hotter than us Jews

They are probably already trained in tashmish hamitah

They have better manners

They can teach you about their former religion

They can give you a better understanding of the privileges of being a Jew

They won�t go crazy when they catch you looking at porn

They don�t look at every little thing as a �crisis�

They always have a good story about their conversion to tell

A lot of the time they are from somewhere weird and cool

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Woman Fired For Being Too Attractive

Dennis Prager says she was not fired for being too attractive. The bank fired her for dressing too provocatively. If she did dress immodestly and would not stop dressing immodestly, Dennis said he defended the bank’s actions.

Dennis said he did not find the clothing she wore in the recent news photos (in the New York Daily News) as too provocative.

“No woman has ever been fired for being too attractive,” said Prager.

The provocative photos at the bottom here come from the Village Voice.

Beth posts: “If those pics are examples of her workplace attire, they were right to fire her. Banks are notoriously conservative places to work. Our skirts couldn’t be shorter than one inch above the knee, and the concept of “work cleavage”?Forget about it. Twice I was spoken to about my attire, and it was way more conservative than this lady’s. Pencil skirts and stilettos can be normal business attire or they can be slutty, depending how they’re worn.”

Report:

NEW YORK: It is not a crime to be attractive or dress in well-cut business suits, but if you ask Debrahlee Lorenzana, 33, either can cost you your job. She claims in court papers that she was forced out of her $70,000-a-year Manhattan Citibank job because her male managers found her a

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Spike Lee

Dennis Prager on his radio show today: “I sat next to Spike Lee for five hours New York to LA. I don’t want to badmouth the guy but he didn’t say a word to the guy sitting next to him, me. Five hours sitting next to somebody and you usually say, “How are you doing?”

“But he talked a lot to the guy behind him about sports. I don’t like Spike Lee’s views but I like his movies.”

Dennis says: “I hate marijuana. I hate anything that screws around with your mind. If you can’t get high on life, I don’t want to make it legal for you to find a way to tune out of life. What good will it do to legalize marijuana? Will it end organized crime? The criminals won’t figure out an easier way to get you your stuff for cheap? If it would abolish organized crime, I would be for legalizing everything out there.”

Dennis says his two favorite movies are Casablanca and Groundhog Day. Dennis has watched Groundhog Day more often than any other movie. “You can’t move on in life until you grow up otherwise every day is repeated. That was the brilliance.”

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TV News on the Flotilla, and Obama Among the Jewish Stars

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Elizabeth Gilbert’s Warped Understanding Of The Bible

Elizabeth Gilbert wrote the bestseller Eat, Pray, Love.

In her new book Committed, she writes on page 55:

…the Old Testament is such a family-centric, stranger abhorring, genealogical extravaganza… the driving narrative always concerns the progress and tribulations of the bloodline…

But the New Testament — which is to say, the arrival of Jesus Christ — invalidated all those old family loyalties to a degree that was truly socially revolutionary. Instead of perpetuating the tribal notion of “the chosen people against the world,” Jesus…taught that we are all chosen people, that we are all brothers and sisters united within one human family. Now, this was an utterly radical idea that could never possibly fly in a traditional tribal system. You cannot embrace a stranger as your brother, after all, unless you are willing to renounce your real biological brother, thus capsizing an ancient code that binds you in sacred obligation to your blood relatives while setting you in auto-opposition to the unclean outsider.

First. The Old Testament brought the idea of a universal creator God into the world. If all humanity has one father, then are we not all brothers? This is a gift of the Jews, not of Jesus Christ.

Second. The Old Testament is “stranger abhorring”? The Torah repeatedly commands, “You shall love the stranger because you were strangers in Egypt.”

The Torah created a system so that Jews could go around the world and bond with those who shared their values, Jew or non-Jew.

Jews have not been held back by fear of strangers, in dramatic contrast to the familism that dominates Christian South America, where people tend to only trust family. Jews have never suffered from familism.

Three. Gilbert claims that the narrative drive of the Old Testament is the progress of the bloodline, but the Old Testament keeps introducing prominent characters such as Ruth who are not part of the bloodline and yet it is from them that the Messiah will come.

Four. I fail to see anything that was socially revolutionary in the teachings of Jesus.

Five. The Old Testament did not put the Jew in “auto-opposition to the unclean outsider.” The Old Testament keeps enjoining, “Love the stranger.”

It seems clear that Elizabeth Gilbert holds primitive views of the Hebrew Bible.

Suzanne Venker writes:

We Greeks don’t feel comfortable sacrificing the Self upon the alter of Tradition; it just feels oppressive to us.

Ms. Gilbert’s Greek reference follows her analysis of politics in America. Rather than use the terms “conservative” and “liberal,” she uses the terms Greek vs. Hebrew.

The entire bedrock of Western culture is based on two rival worldviews — the Greek and the Hebrew — and whichever side you embrace more strongly determines to a large extent how you see life. The Greeks gave us our notions about democracy and equality and personal liberty and scientific reason and intellectual freedom and open-mindedness. The Greek take on life, therefore, is urban, sophisticated, and exploratory, always leaving plenty of room for doubt and debate.”

On the other hand, there is the Hebrew way of seeing the world. The Hebrew credo is clannish, patriarchal, authoritarian, moralistic, and suspicious of outsiders. Hebrew thinkers see the world as a clear play between good and evil, with God firmly on our side. Human actions are either right or wrong. There is no gray area. The collective is more important than happiness, and vows are inviolable.”

Liberals like Ms. Gilbert, by the way, are the reason media bias has become what it has. These folks truly, honestly believe their way of viewing the world is “sophisticated and open-minded” — and that people who are religious, or traditional, or who simply live by a set of principles (which is to say, most of America) aren’t “sophisticated,” “exploratory” or “intellectual.” This is a deep seated arrogance, bordering on disease. It’s one thing to believe you’re right and state your case (I do this all the time!) — and another to suggest you’re superior.

And this is my favorite passage from the book, as it truly sums up not just Ms. Gilbert — but every single modern liberal in existence:

My yearning to have everyone in the world be best friends, combined with my near pathological empathy for underdogs...”

According to Gilbert, the Hebrew credo is clannish, aka Jews stick together.

Here’s a good essay on this:

The stereotype that Jews are clannish, or that they tend to “stick together” also derives from the history of Jewish treatment by other ethnic groups.

…Jews developed clans and stuck together for one reason-persecution. Throughout the history of the Jewish population, they were constantly exiled and treated unfairly because they were different. After being exiled, is a group going to be allowed to reside with other ethnic groups? No. The Jews stuck together because they were forced to and most of the time had no other choice but to form ghettos and live in small quarters.

During World War II, Jews were forced into ghettos (often enclosed) and lived under miserable conditions. The Germans did this in order to control and segregate the Jews. The Nazis had created over 400 ghettos and due to such horrible conditions, disease and death spread rapidly. By 1942, all the ghettos were dissolved and the remaining Jews were sent to concentration, labor, or death camps. Would this not force a group to stick together and trust only themselves? How can it be said that being clannish is a stereotype when they were forced to live that way?

Elizabeth Gilbert writes: “Hebrew thinkers see the world as a clear play between good and evil, with God always firmly on our ‘our’ side.”

Has Elizabeth Gilbert ever read the Hebrew Bible? It is a record of the apostasy of Israel from God’s side. Isaiah 10:5 talks in God’s voice about Assyria being “the rod of my anger” against Israel.

Jews are the only group that has canonized its critics. We took our harshest critics — people like Moses and Isaiah and Jeremiah — and put them in our Bible. There is no other religious group that has done this.

Jordie Gerson writes for Jewcy:

Maureen Farrell at The New York Post and other critics have complained that the spiritual activity Gilbert recounts in “Pray” proves only that she’s self-absorbed, vapid, and irresponsible. Her record of her passage to India, they say, is the height of American self-help narcissism—a self-involvement distinctly at odds with ‘true’ religiosity.

This is a fast and dirty critique – and I don’t buy it. Buddhist practice, in my experience, doesn’t make us more self-involved, but less. If there’s any reason to be critical of Gilbert’s time in India, it’s not because she’s engaging with another faith —but because she doesn’t engage with the world around her. Which is why the Buddhist in me loved Eat, Pray,Love, but the Jew couldn’t get behind it.

Elizabeth Gilbert writes on another topic:

Married men live longer than single men; married men accumulate more wealth than single men; married men excel at their careers above single men; married men are far less likely to die a violent death than single men; married men report themselves to be much happier than single men; and married men suffer less from alcoholism, drug addiction, and depression than do single men….

There doesn’t seem to be anything, statistically speaking, that a man does not gain by getting married.

Dishearteningly, the reverse is not true. Modern married women do not fare better in life than their single counterparts. Married women in America do not live longer than single women; married women do not accumulate as much wealth as single women…; Married women are not as successful in their careers as single women. Married women are arguably less healthy than single women. Married women, until recently, were more likely to die a violent death than single women — usually, at the hands of their own husbands.

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I Was A Teenage Dirtbag

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Behind The GLBT Movement

When I can’t figure out whether a person is male or female, it disturbs me.

I like people who are clear and forthright in their identity. I like Jews who are Jewish and Christians who are Christian and women who are womanly. I don’t like dating women who want to be men.

I prefer women who dress in skirts rather than pants. I’m a traditionalist. Men on top. Stiff upper lip. Queen and country. Advance Australia Fair.

Dennis Prager writes:

In his just-published book, “How Pleasure Works,” Yale Professor of Psychology Paul Bloom, described by Harvard psychologist Steven Pinker, as “among the deepest thinkers and clearest writers on the science of mind today,” writes:

“Freud claimed ‘when you meet a human being, the first distinction you make is ‘male or female’ and you are accustomed to making the distinction with unhesitating certainty.’ This is true for me at least; I get e-mails from strangers with foreign names and when I can’t tell whether the sender is a man or a woman, it is oddly unsettling. It shouldn’t matter — I have no intention of mating with them — but it does. When we see a baby in a diaper, the first question that many of us ask is: Is this a boy or it is a girl?”

So, then, why the “T” in GLBT?

Because the Left seeks to obliterate the distinction between men and women. This distinction is considered to be a social construct. That is why, to this day, despite all the scientific evidence (as if that were needed) proving how different male and female brains are, many Leftwing academics still argue that boys play with trucks rather than with dolls because of sexist socialization; and girls play with dolls because of socialization.

And that is why, on the Left, changing the definition of marriage is only worth a shrug. Since there are no inherent differences between men and women, what difference could it possibly make whether a man marries a man or a woman, or whether a woman marries a man or a woman? Or if children have two fathers, two mothers, or a father and mother?

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Dennis Prager: Who Lost Turkey?

Over the past five years, Turkey, which has the second biggest army in NATO, has moved from an ally of the West to an ally of Iran.

I guess Turkey, along with more and more of the world, is aligning with Iran because they see more advantages to do that than to align with the United States.

Under Barack Obama, the U.S. beats up on its friends (Israel, England, etc) and sucks up to its enemies (Iran and much of the Islamic world).

Turkey has been part of NATO since its inception. Now it has a radical Islamic party in power. It’s trying to dismantle secular parts of Turkey and place the country in bed with Iran.

It was Turks that attacked the Israeli soldiers on the flotilla Monday.

I don’t think there’s any stomach in NATO to eject Turkey, but the Europeans must be worried, says Dore Gold (former Israel ambassador to the United Nations) on the Dennis Prager radio show today.

Israel has warned its citizens not to travel to Turkey. Until now, about 300,000 Israelis a year traveled to Turkey. No longer.
The Islamists in Turkey have switched the Army to their side.

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