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Are Modern Orthodox Girls Just For Practice?

Heshy Fried writes on FrumSatire.net:

They say that shiksas are for practice but if you really think about it, Modern Orthodox Girls are for practice, at least they are when you enter the world of folks who think that marrying a girl frummer than them will make them more frum

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Finding An Orthodox Wife

A young man converting to Judaism tells me: “The problem I have is that most orthodox women (90% +???) won’t recognize a ger (a convert to Judaism) unless he has an RCA-approved conversion.”

I don’t think that’s true. Unless you want to be chareidi, you’ll be fine in Orthodox life with an LA Beit Din or non-RCA approved conversion to Judaism.

If you do want to be chareidi, getting that initial Orthodox conversion to Judaism, even if it is not approved by the RCA, will make your life 100% easier.

Any Orthodox non-charedi girl who tells you that your LA Beit Din conversion is not good enough is just feeding you a line to get rid of you.

I remember at LimmudLA a man asking about his wife’s conversion status with Rabbi Michael Melchior. The wife had done a non-RCA approved Orthodox conversion to Judaism. Should he worry? Rabbi Melchior told him not to worry.

People worry too much.

Jeff emails: “Believe it or not, my experience with Jewish dating has been mainly limited to the internet! I have used sites like www.frumster.com and www.jdate.com. Your telling me that a Rabbi Rue conversion is generally good enough for most modern orthodox women puts things in perspective. I was rejected by several women on these sites because my conversion was not RCC. However, I never ran a control. What I mean by a “control” is an experiment which would see whether ALL girls using internet dating are this selective. I guess it’s very easy to make an excuse when using online dating, because all it takes is a mouse click. The other issue is that the kind of frum girl who is using internet dating probably couldn’t find a Jewish man in her local community anyway.”

Few orthodox women will take you seriously until you have finished an Ortho conversion.

Also, you will most likely marry a fellow convert…rather than a woman FFB (frum from birth). You’ll have more in common.

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Beards No Longer Markers Of Moral Superiority

Adam comments: “You claim to speak from a position of authority on judaism by saying “take it from me, i have a beard”… well put, but are you aware that theres a whole subculture of homosexuals known as the bear gays who also sport beards? beards are no longer markers of moral superiority. also, osama bin laden, richard karn, etc.”

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Tagged.com Creates Social Havoc

Report:

Shelly emails: I am doing some research on tagged as I want to expose what a scam site it is
I am new on youtube and basically clueless how to do most things on here and my profile is a work in progress AND I have a ton of info on tagged
all I wanted to do was to give you this video.
it shows that NY state attorney general cuomo recently sued tagged over doing exactly what you posted in your video
I am pretty sure you are not a member on tagged but if you are please contact me. I mean you can write to me anyway lol. I only mean if you are still on tagged I would like to give you more info on just what a scam site it really is but some how I get the feeling you already know that
I hope that video shows you that you are not the only one who got upset by the unethical way tagged does its business
and I told you I am new here so if you already got this video posted I am the dummy who does not yet know how to get around on youtube
been too busy busting tagged to expose it for what it really is
tagged IS a scam site lol
I was recently hit from tagged from the inside (someone inside of tagged) these idiots posted f#cking nigerian scammer all over my profile when I began to uncover scam rings on there. I am on this site looking for others who have info. someone has to stop this site and I am just one person but I know that there are people out on the net that are searching for some of the answers I have with me.

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The End Of Jewish Blogging?

Orthodox Rabbi Gil Student blogs:

Blog posts are opinion pieces. In the old days, before blogs became more mainstream, you could express your opinions freely. If I thought a rabbi wrote an article demonstrating ignorance and dishonesty with sources, I showed that it was the case (albeit with nicer words). I can’t do that anymore. The old blog crowd had thick skins. The new blog crowd includes people who are highly sensitive and will complain.

Instead of criticizing ill-conceived articles, I usually just ignore them because otherwise I will get an angry e-mail from the author or one of his students. Then I will get an e-mail from one of his colleagues asking me to reconsider his arguments with a more open mind. Who has time for those discussions? Even if I am wrong, people are allowed to be incorrect every once in a while.

While I could ignore the e-mails, sometimes they come from people who are too important to ignore — people I respect highly for one reason or another. And some people even call me at home or at work, trying to make me squirm until I change my post. Who wants that? (For the record, I find those calls so off-putting that I usually become entrenched and refuse to budge. A phone call is the best way to get me to refuse your blog-related request.)

I have not noticed a change. When you write something that affects people, you will get feedback and pressure in direct relationship to the importance of what you write. I started getting death threats in 1997.

I found that over the years, people got smarter in how they reacted to me. It became more and more rare for people to call me up to yell at me. People probed for my weaknesses and when they found them, they used them to get back at me.

It’s been many years since people bothered me about my blog. I find that few people are willing to confront me directly. They either reason with me very nicely or they leave me alone.

I’m not married. I don’t have kids. I don’t have one shul that I hold sacred. I don’t have one source of income. I’ve created a life where I can pretty much say what I want on my blog.

Here’s an amusing excerpt from my Jewish Journal profile in 2007: “Multiple rabbis contacted by The Journal declined to comment; not only that, they didn

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Shaarei Tefillah Fight On Purim

On Purim, community activist Max Kessler circulated a petition at Shaarei Tefila (a Modern Orthodox shul in Hancock Park) to keep the rabbi. President Aaron Kin took this as an affront, and ordered Max Kessler to stop circulating the petition. Aaron Kin wanted the rabbi out. Kessler refused to listen. Kin got physical with Kessler and Kessler hit back. Today, Aaron Kin fired the Rabbi and ordered him to leave the shul, warning him that if he steps foot in the shul again, the Rabbi will be escorted out by security.

Here’s some background on this dispute.

Sharei Tefillah

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If Orthodoxy Has Moved Right, Why Are Jewish Women Wearing Pants In Teaneck?

Rabbi Gil Student says that the ordination of a woman by Rabbi Avi Weiss has shaken Modern Orthodoxy like no issue he’s ever seen.

He writes: “Good to know that “one source in Rabbi Weiss

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Dennis Prager Cruises

DennisPragerCruises.com.

Khunrum emails: “Finally a Job Opportunity for Luke, Cabin Boy.”

“Tell you the truth I’d rather take my chances on the Titanic.”

Chaim Amalek emails: “Luke is to Prager what “Mark’s Friggin Stern” web site is to the Howard Stern show. A lot of pointless effort and a waste of time that he will one day wish he had directed to more profitable ventures.”

Bob emails: Here it is loyal lukeford.net readers! The update to day one of Dennis Prager’s Listener Cruise:

9:15 DP dines at the breakfast buffet: scrambled eggs, bagel, small orange juice

10:45 Hysteria breaks out as DP wins the Limbo contest!

12:20 DP has light lunch of turkey/swiss sandwich, small salad w/ italian dressing, Diet Coke

1:30 DP reads Dan Brown’s The Lost Symbol and dozes on lower deck

2:40 DP scratches left buttocks

6:30 DP dines at Captain’s table. (note: DP experiences light intestinal discomfort after eating the escargot)

7:45 DP leads conga line around upper decks

8:30 Lights Out. Another exciting day finishes on the Dennis Prager Listener Cruise

Here’s a 9:28 youtube clips from DP’s 2009 cruise to Africa. Lets experience the magic together…

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Mr President

Did you notice how during the healthcare summit yesterday all the politicians called Barack Obama “Mr. President” but Barack called all the other politicians by their first names?

On his radio show yesterday, Dennis Prager said he knows many politicians well but he never calls them by their first name in public. He knows many clergy well but in public he calls them “Pastor” or “Father” or “Rabbi”.

When the president said to John McCain, “We’re not campaigning anymore”, it was a demeaning response. It was saying that your points are not worthy of rebuttal. Your criticisms are just “talking points”.

Dennis: “During this segment, it’s just been the president speaking. I don’t know why the Democrats are there. They’re just flowers. Decorating.”

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