How The Alexander Technique Can Help You Learn A Foreign Language

Robert Rickover tells Harriet Anderson: “When learning a foreign language, there are pronunciations that are usually foreign. I wish I’d had Alexander lessons when I was taking French in high school. It would’ve saved me a world of grief.”

Harriet: “First, as learning to learn. Learning a transferable skill. Learning to unlearn and learning to relearn. When we learn a foreign language as adults, we’ve been imprinted with our mother tongue. So it is important to unlearn the muscle patterns which make for specific pronunciation.

“The Technique can help us learn new muscle patterns to make new sounds.”

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Did Fred Astaire Get Bored?

In this podcast, Alexander teacher Amy Ward Brimmer talks to Robert Rickover about how the Technique can help with boredom.

Robert: “One aspect of boredom is not being in the moment and self-aware but being in some other state.”

Amy: “Whenever I’ve been aware and in the present moment, there’s always been a whole lot going on. Boredom is being disconnected from the present moment. Boredom is the way we shut off.”

“Whenever I’m bored, I’m collapsing. I’m pulling down and in on myself. Alexander work gives me the opportunity to wake up and to notice how am I breathing?”

Robert: “I notice kids fiddling in a bored way with their iPhones or electronic equipment. They’re trying to find something to engage them. They often exhibit the worst aspects of their posture at that point. Curled over.”

Amy: “Kids lying around the house will say, I’m bored.”

Robert: “Just look at their bodies when they say that.”

Amy: “Just completely slumped. Almost defeated.”

“My response as a parent to that ‘I’m bored’ complaint is to offer activities. That never works.

“Boredom is a form of resistance to what is.”

Robert: “If you look at Fred Astaire in movies, he’s totally present. It would be interesting to ask Fred Astaire if he ever got bored.”

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Black women heavier, happier with their bodies

The Washington Post reports: “According to a recent poll, black women are heavier than their white counterparts, but they also report having appreciably higher levels of self-esteem.”

That’s super-duper, but if you’re heavy, every movement will take more effort. You won’t look as attractive. Other people will be more likely to shun you than if you were normal-sized. Your health will be impaired along with your social standing. You’ll have a harder time getting and keeping a man.

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Why Is Change So Slow In Alexander Lessons?

When I started taking Alexander Technique lessons in 2008, I became frustrated that change was so slow.

I remained frustrated for a couple of years until I finally felt at ease.

In this podcast, Alexander teachers Robert Rickover and Eileen Troberman discuss the rate of change.

A 20 year old kid asked Marj Barstow why did he have to keep coming back to workshops. Why couldn’t he just get it more quickly? And Marj told him, your body couldn’t take it.

Eileen: “People can not change fast.”

“We recognize ourselves by our tension. Our tension patterns are what feels like us to us. Without that, we don’t feel like us. It takes a while to realize that that is not us, it is just tension.”

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Torah Talk! Parashat Tetzaveh (Exodus 27:20-30:10)

Rabbi Rabbs, Luke Ford (Levi Ben Avraham) discuss this week’s Torah portion. They also tackle whether or not the rabbi is gay. The rabbi’s parents believe so. Do straight men watch the Oscars? Luke says no.
Is illegally downloading movies morally acceptable? What does the Torah say? Is it theft?
What type of people talk in shul? The difference in shul etiquette between relative newcomers (converts, baalei teshuva) and those who are Orthodox from birth (FFB). How to score at shul vs. getting the score in shul.

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Alexander Exercise For Amazing Orgasms!

Just kidding! There’s no such exercise as far as I know.

How am I, a humble Alexander teacher, going to compete with videos like this?

The path of the righteous is a lonely one.

Maybe I could prescribe active rest before lovemaking and talk about how it draws energy up your body and opens your heart and rejuvenates your cells and increases your vitality, blah, blah.

In this podcast, Alexander teacher Constance Clare Newman talks about how Alexander can stimulate your love life. But she’s about the only Alexander teacher who will talk publicly about such a sexy topic. While the politics of Alexander teachers tends to lean left, we’re quite conservative in the way we speak about our work. Alexander Technique has no legal standing (unlike the practice of law and medicine) and thus Alexander teachers tend to be insecure and careful about their public image. You’re not going to find Alexander teachers promising cures or recommending tantric exercises for amazing orgasms.

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Boom!

An Alexander teacher emails: “Alexander Teachers Spend Raucous Afternoon Validating Each Other” is really excellent writing. How the hell did you keep this kind of righteous commentary stuffed for three years of training? Did no one suspect that they had a “suicide bomber” in their midst?

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How The Alexander Technique Can Help To Release Wrinkles

When you tense your face, you make wrinkles. Your brow gets all furrowed and the skin around your eyes and lips becomes tight and scarecrowy.

By contrast, when you release unnecessary tension and let go of postures of your face, you can become alive to the moment. When you read one of my witty blog posts, for instance, your face will light up and you will rejoice to be alive.

Alexander teacher Lindsay Newitter writes: “Imagine that you are making a bed and there is a wrinkle in the middle of the sheet. If you try to smooth it out with your hand, you’ll probably just end up moving the wrinkle around. (Think of lower back compression as analogous to the wrinkle). The most effective way to eliminate the wrinkle would be to tug on the ends of the sheet and take out the slack that is allowing for the wrinkle (think of releasing the tension in the neck that pulls the head down as pulling on an end of the sheet).”

Alexander teacher and classicist Dr. Frank Pierce Jones said at Tufts University in 1964: “In an aging population, postural change is almost always a change for the worse. Between 20 and 80 there is an increasing tendency for the stature to shorten, the waist to thicken, the chest to flatten, and the head to thrust forward and down… a gradual surrender of civilized man to the inexorable force of gravity…”

Two California Alexander teachers write:

Many people accept these deteriorating changes in their appearance as unavoidable. Others are relying on cosmetic surgery, fitness programs and equipment, supplements, spa treatments and weight loss programs to slow the effects of aging.
Yet, even after success with these programs, a person’s tension and misbalance can degrade appearance and disrupt healthy functioning.
Postural change is active rather than passive. Your muscles must contract to produce a change from good to bad posture. Due to stress, injury, unconscious or conscious learning, the disruptive contractions accumulate into a habit over many years. When this happens all the time and goes undetected, the result is poor posture and pain.

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Activate You! Alexander Technique Teacher Jennifer Mackerras Interviewed

Jennifer Mackerras writes the popular Alexander blog Activate You.

She’s from Armidale, Australia and now lives in Bristol, England. She has a PhD in Drama.

Here are some highlights:

Jennifer: “Most students when they walk through the door want to be given things to do to make whatever it is that hurts to stop hurting. What I want to do is to teach them the Alexander Technique, which will give them the tools to stop doing the things that caused the hurt in the first place. It’s a matter of finding the intersection between those two points.”

Luke: “I was shocked in my first lessons when my teacher [Julia Caulder] asked me, what are you thinking about? I was not thinking my directions. I was shocked that she could tell.”

Jennifer: “I learned early on that I shouldn’t teach friends. Friendship is a different transaction from a teacher-student transaction. It’s a different relationship. Some people don’t make the transition so easily.”

“I also learned early on to not give cut-price lessons. They’re either full-price or they’re free. When you cut the price of the lesson, you’re giving the message that you don’t need to take it so seriously because you’re not paying much for it. We are professional dealing with psycho-physical unity. We have undergone training. We know what we’re doing.”

“What I do is not medicine and is not related to medicine. The Alexander Technique does not cure anything.”

Jennifer blogs:

It is a common experience of Alexander technique students to feel more ‘alive’ after a lesson. They often report feeling more awake, more alert, lighter, and somehow more able to concentrate on tasks. So why does this happen?

The secret lies in the stuff we do to ourselves – unnecessary muscular activity.

FM Alexander noticed in himself, and subsequently in others, that it was something that he was doing in the way he went about activities that was causing his problems – the problems that led him to create the work we call the Alexander Technique. He noticed defects in the way he was using himself.

And in his first book, Alexander noted that when defects in the poise of the body are present, “the condition thus evidenced is the result of an undue rigidity of parts of the muscular mechanisms … Which are forced to perform duties other than those intended by nature.” In other words, if we are experiencing problems, it is likely that some of our muscles are working far too hard, and probably in ways that they are not designed to do.

So it makes sense that if we are using more muscular activity than we need, and using the wrong muscles anyway, that we would start to feel fatigued.

This is why feeling an increase in energy is a common experience in Alexander Technique lessons. Students not only decrease the work done by their muscles, but they work out for themselves (with the teacher’s assistance) the most effective way of carrying out the activity they are working on. They work out which muscles they need to use, and then experience using just those muscles, doing just the right amount of work.

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I Did Not Watch ‘The Artist’

I’m not into silent films and I’m not into black and white films. So when The Artist came along, a black and white silent film, I gave it the big skip.

I also skipped the movies about how wondrous it is to cross-dress (Albert Nobbs) and how exciting it is to be gay (Beginners).

I like color and excitement and dialogue. If I wanted a silent film, I’d watch some old Charlie Chaplin. If I wanted to be gay, I’d just do it.

I have no interest in watching the Oscars. I’m a straight male. The only time I did that sort of nonsense was years ago when a hot girl invited me.

A few days before, I’d tried to make out with her in a synagogue parking lot. Then at the party, I tried to get her into the closet for a grope.

I completely struck out, which was just as well for my soul.

It turned out she was more into animal rescue than men.

A friend of mine went out with her soon after and got her back to her place one evening. He came away from the experience without a kiss or a cuddle but with a massive number of fleas.

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