I’m Thinking Of Trying Yoga

A friend suggests:

Yoga – My suggestion would be to:

  1. try Yogaworks – they have a two week special for new students, unlimited yoga for $30.    www.yogaworks.com


Take their level 1-2 classes, and don’t get discouraged after one lesson.  Try at least 3 or 4.  You may get hooked.

2.  Sacred Movement (wonderful), they’re having a one month unlimited special for new students for $50 (it doesn’t appear on their website, but if you go there and ask, you’ll find that they have it).  Same thing.  Take their level 1-2 classes.   http://www.exhalespa.com/locations/venice/

Of course you can do the two week yogaworks thing, and then the one month Sacred Movement thing, or vice versa, and then you can decide how you want to proceed.

When you go, make sure to take a towel, stretchy (but not loose) clothing, and don’t eat anything at least 2.5 hours before class.  They’ll give you a mat for the first time, or first few times, but you may ultimately want to buy one for yourself.

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Marc Gafni Vs. The Dark Side Of The Internet

This is a must-read blog post.

He writes:

The national enquirer which regularly engages in character assassination of the most vile kind, which deals out deathly doses of unlove, is read by millions of good Americans, standing at the counter picking up their groceries at Wal Mart. The national enquirer and other tabloids are carried by virtually all of the “all American apple pie super markets – and carried prominently and proudly. “Good people” own many of the supermarkets. The shoppers are certainly good people. So why is it that they all revel in reading what they know are at least partial and usually total lies about other people’s misfortune.

I don’t accept Gafni’s characterization of the National Enquirer. He doesn’t provide any examples of the paper getting anything wrong in the past 15 years. My journalist friends who look at the tabloid in a dispassionate way (such as Jill Stewart of the LA Weekly) tell me that it is now as accurate as any of the major media, including the New York Times.

Gafni has quoted to me Angelina Jolie’s comment that 95% of what the tabloids write about her and Brad Pitt are wrong. I don’t accept her assertion. I don’t believe she provided evidence for it.

I am not naive about the tabloids. I am well aware of their dark side. I did this interview with former tabloid reporter Marlise Elizabeth Kast. I republished this devastating essay on the National Enquirer by Rod Lurie.

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Nathans Closing, Cunin Threatens To Sue

Nathan’s (fast food place on Pico Blvd) has closed and will be replaced by a glatt kosher italian restaurant.

Chabad/Rabbi Cunin is suing the Arnall estate for $18 million. Cunin claims Roland Arnall promised him the amount. When it did not show up in the will, he was upset. Dawn Arnall’s response when he threatened a lawsuit–"take a number (considering all the subprime lawsuits)." Then again considering all the subprime lawsuits, he probably would not leave that amount.

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An Interview With Novelist Eva Etzioni-Halevy

We did this via email (her website is here and her new book is "The Triumph of Deborah"):

Q: How did you maintain your writing style despite years in academia? Normally academic writing ruins writers.



A: For me it was the other way around. I was engaged in academic writing for more years than I care to remember, and only when I became emeritus, did I switch over to the writing of biblical novels.

      Adopting the new writing style was an incredible culture shock, somewhat like immigrating into a new country. It must have been sitting inside me, but it took quite a few years and an incredible amount of drudgery to work it out, and I am still trying to improve and polish it and make it as authentic a reflection of biblical times as possible.  

Q: What is a feminist and are you one?

 

A: I will not try for a definition, because I think that there are as many types of feminism as there are feminists.

For my part, I am a feminist in the sense that I believe that women are strong, possibly stronger than men, but in a different manner. Men’s strength shows on the outside, while women look soft and at times fragile on the outside, but their strength lies inside them, in their capacity for endurance, for coping in the face of life’s vicissitudes.

I have learned a lot of this from the women of the Bible. These women lived in a male dominated society, in which they had few legal rights and were greatly disadvantaged. But they did not sit around bemoaning their fate. Instead (with few exceptions), they took destiny into their own hands and used their feminine strength to shape it to do their bidding and achieve what they wanted to achieve in life.

Deborah is a prime example. In an era when the lot of women was dismal, she succeeded in "breaking the glass ceiling." She became a national leader, and what we might today call a chief justice, and a chief rabbi, all wrapped in one. We know that she did all this without losing her femininity, since she refers to herself as "a mother in Israel," and this is the way I also described her in my novel.

In this sense, I believe that she can serve as a role model for present day women. Although the lot of women has improved, and in western societies they have attained legal equality, they are still far from gaining equality in practice. What we can learn from Deborah is that apart from struggling for better conditions, we can say to ourselves: "I am a strong person. Whatever is right for me, I can do it."

     
Q: How would you feel about the placement of your book in the romance genre?



A: There are romantic elements in THE TRIUMPH OF DEOBRAH. But there are also some non-romantic messages tucked away underneath its surface.

Apart from feminist messages on the strength of women (that of Deborah and the other female characters in the novel), there are also Jewish themes woven into it. Despite some sensuous scenes it is a deeply religious book. It takes us back to the roots of Judaism. In a rather painless way, so as not to bore readers, it conveys messages on the core values of Judaism and its struggle to establish itself and survive in the face of idol worship, or what we would today call assimilation.   

Q: How does living in Israel affect your writing?

 

A: There is a difficulty here, in the sense that I am writing in English, mainly for an American audience. I have a problem reaching out across the ocean to my potential readers.

      But this is more than made up for by the fact that I live "on location" so to speak and derive inspiration from the land in which the plots I describe actually took place. I have gone to the places in which the stories are set, and this has fired my imagination.

      For instance, I have twice visited King Jabin’s castle in Hazor. Although it lies in ruins now, one can still see the stairs leading up to it, the entrance hall, the throne hall, and so on. So I could visualize how and where some of the scenes of my novel actually took place, and describe the setting more accurately than I could otherwise have done. 

Q: Is Judaism a patriarchal religion and if so, is this bad?



A: Judaism has its roots in a patriarchal society, and hence, not surprisingly, many of its laws are patriarchal. Instead of saying that this is bad, I would say that it is changing, but too slowly. So much has been written about this, that there is no point in my adding to it. However, I will make two related points.

First, there is a strong feminist movement among orthodox women in Israel, by the name of "Kolech" (your voice). It faces great difficulties, but it is also making some headway, so let us hope for its success. 

            Second, there is at least one non-patriarchal and progressive aspect in Judaism. By Torah law, which was also incorporated into the later Halachah, sex in marriage is not the right of the man, but that of the woman.

            After one of the talks I gave in the States about my novels a (reform) rabbi cam up to me and said: "Jewish women are forever complaining on how hard their lot is. But actually the lot of Jewish men is much harder. A Jewish wife can always say to her husband, ‘Not tonight, dear, I have a headache.’ But a Jewish husband is not allowed to say that, he always has to be obliging."  

Q: Do you agree with Orthodoxy’s separate roles for each sex system?

 

A: Certainly not. For instance, talking about the synagogue service: I am Shomereth Mitzvoth myself and member of a modern orthodox congregation, but I resent being concealed behind a curtain. I am full of admiration for the manner in which Conservative and Reform congregations have achieved equality for women, and I feel regretful for having to go to one of their shuls to be able to kiss the Torah.



Q: What do you find most surprising about the way regular people in Israel lead their lives today?



What I find most surprising, is that regular people live regular lives. Israel faces existential threats from the north (Hizbullah) the north-east (Syria and Iran), the east (Fatah) and the south (Hamass), all of which are numerically greatly superior, and armed to the teeth.

            Yet people live normally, enjoying their lives with their families and friends, just as people do elsewhere. To my mind, this is nothing short of a miracle.

Q: What are the most dramatic differences between the Biblical worldview and the Talmudic worldview? (I saw your blog where you said you wrote based on the Bible, not on Midrash.)

 

A: This question is several sizes too big on me. But I can say what I see as the most dramatic differences between the way in which the Bible describes its characters, and the manner in which these same characters are described by later interpreters, by Talmudic scholars and the Midrash. 

            I have great respect for them as learned biblical scholars, who helped keep Judaism alive for thousand of years. Nevertheless I take exception from the manner in which they describe biblical characters.

            In the Bible, the main characters (including women), and even the most exalted heroes and heroines, are described as rich, many-sided human beings, with strengths but also with weaknesses, some of which stem from their sexuality. In many cases, the later interpreters have "interpreted away" this sensuality, and turned the characters into one-dimensional, super-righteous personalities, which they were not meant to be originally.

            For instance, whether we like it or not, Moses is described in the Bible as having divorced his wife Ziporah, and taken another woman, a kushite or black woman (although Ziporah was later brought back to him by her father.). We know that he went for this other woman, because his brother and sister commented unfavorably about it. But the Midrash and most later interpreters could not accept that Moses was attracted to another woman, and argued that the kushite was actually his wife Ziporah. This, however, is clearly not what the scripture says. Moreover, if she were his wife, what was there for his siblings to gossip about?

            Or, take the case of Deborah and Barak, described in my novel. The Bible tells us that on his behest she went off with him to another part of the country, including his hometown. Yet she was a married woman and there is nothing to indicate that husband Lapidoth accompanied them. So when they were away with no husband in sight, it is unlikely that they sat around saying Tehilim together, hence this is not what I made them do in my novel.

One interpreter tried to solve the "difficulty" by claiming that Deborah was actually married to Barak, which is glaringly in contradiction to what the scripture says.

To my mind, this is a shame. The Bible is good enough as it is, and none of its aspects need to be interpreted away. Hence I based my novels directly on the Bible, as it has been written, not as it has been reinterpreted.

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Carmody & Co. Excellence and Beauty

As many of you may already know, I love a place that combines good deals with great merchandise. Not an easy feat, considering most stores compromise one or both of the two, while placing no premium on service. None. And yet, there is an oasis for shoppers who want a store that embodies all the wonderful principles of a seemingly bygone era: professional staff, great merchandise, discretion and loyalty. The latter is virtually extinct in our world of big box retailers and clueless salespeople. All the more reason for me to return to Carmody & Co. (www.carmodynco.comat 121 East Union Street in Pasadena, 626-795-2924.

Carmody & Co. is a top notch gift and paper goods store, an inviting boutique that I have visited and strongly recommend. Right now, the store has excellent invitations for all those end of summer events, BBQs and pool parties, while also carrying an incredible array of USC and UCLA (Trojan and Bruin fans, rejoice: Carmody has everything you need) entertainment accessories: beverage totes, cups, flip-flops, plates and tailgate invitations. The store additionally carries superb back-to-school stuff, from file folders, pencil cases, papers pads and more. Carmody & Co. rocks!

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My Lost & Found Life

 I am very selective when it comes to recommending novels, resisting anything that smacks of the latest must read or is now darling of book clubs everywhere. That stuff – and by "that stuff," I mean the literary detritus that makes its way from blockbuster to Blockbuster, film adaptation following only months after the release of some heavily publicized book – all of it leaves me pining for a sudden bout of illiteracy. Or a stroke, which would accomplish the same thing. Thankfully, I recently discovered a novel that makes me proud to be a reader; the book reaffirms my belief that good authors need not write in obscurity. All of which is to say, Melodie Bowsher (www.melodiebowsher.com) is a writer of exceptional talent and grace.

Her latest novel, My Lost and Found Life, involves a character named Ashley Mitchell who goes from a life of glamor to a world of criminal suspicion and family disruption. Bowsher’s narrative devices – and I won’t spoil the fun by revealing too much – make the story intriguing and transformative: we develop a personal interest in Ashley, and learn about the redemptive powers of friends and life itself — all set in one of my favorite cities, San Francisco. Bowsher writes beautifully, combining great dialogue with superb timing. Her book deserves your attention. Buy it!

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The Jewish Channel

From the New York Times:

In the beginning, when Elie Singer created the Jewish Channel, he saw that it was good. But the cable companies were without vision.

Frankly, they had heard the whole megillah before, what with attempts like Mosaic TV, Chai TV and JTV to establish cable channels about Jewish life and culture. “But the people who tried to do it before either didn’t know enough about television or didn’t know about the U.S. market,” said Mr. Singer, 38, chief executive of the Jewish Channel, which recently became available in the New York area. “One of the first questions I was asked by cable operators is, ‘What makes you think you can succeed?’ ”

Ultimately, Mr. Singer prevailed, in part because of his job background in ethnic television. The Jewish Channel — a premium offering, at about $5 a month — has been available on Cablevision since September, on Time Warner since early June and on Verizon Fios since mid-July.

The channel’s estimated 20,000 subscribers, most of them in the metropolitan New York area, can choose from programming categories like “Israel”; “history and remembrance,” which deals largely with the Holocaust; and “American Jewry,” which includes documentaries about Jews in the California Gold Rush and other memorable periods.

The channel, which has been labeled the “Jewish HBO,” relies mostly on pre-existing content. Original programming includes “Inside the Issues,” a monthly Charlie Rose-style program produced in partnership with The Jewish Daily Forward, (a newspaper and Web site), and “Rabbis Roundtable,” a group of Reform, Conservative and Orthodox spiritual leaders who convene each month to debate controversial issues like Barack Obama’s loyalty to the Rev. Jeremiah A. Wright Jr., interfaith marriage and Eliot Spitzer’s infidelity.

“I didn’t have high hopes” for the round table, Mr. Singer said. “I figured people had enough of their rabbis at their weekly or monthly or annual visits to the synagogue, but it’s become one of our most popular productions.”

The initial skepticism of cable operators has been matched by the misconceptions of friends and potential subscribers who assume that the channel is 24/7 Borscht Belt humor or mainstream fare like “Crossing Delancey” and “Schindler’s List.”

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Free Criminal Record Background Check

Brad Stone writes:

WANT to vet a baby sitter? Need to peek into the background of a prospective employee? Curious about the past of a potential date?

Last month, PeopleFinders, a 20-year-old company based in Sacramento, introduced CriminalSearches.com, a free service to satisfy those common impulses. The site, which is supported by ads, lets people search by name through criminal archives of all 50 states and 3,500 counties in the United States. In the process, it just might upset a sensitive social balance once preserved by the difficulty of obtaining public documents like criminal records.

Academics have a term for the old inaccessibility of records like those for criminal convictions: “practical obscurity.” Once upon a time, people in search of this data had to hire private investigators to navigate byzantine courthouses and rudimentary filing or computer systems, and to deal with often grim-faced legal clerks. In a way, the obstacles to getting criminal information maintained a valuable, ignorance-fueled civil peace. Convicts could start fresh after serving their time without strangers knowing their pasts, and there was little risk that unsophisticated researchers could confuse people with identical names.

Well, not anymore. The information on CriminalSearches.com is available to all comers. “Do you really know who people are?” the site blares in large script at the top of the page.

Databases of criminal convictions first moved online several years ago. But users of pay sites like Intelius.com and PeopleScanner.com had to enter their credit card numbers for access — often enough of an obstacle to discourage casual or improper inquiries.

According to Bryce Lane, president of PeopleFinders, the new site draws data directly from local courthouses and offers records of arrests and convictions in connection with everything from murder to minor infractions like blowing past a stop sign — at least for jurisdictions that include traffic violations in their criminal data. It also lets users view a map showing addresses and names of all those arrested or convicted of a crime in a specific neighborhood, and to place alerts that prompt e-mail when someone in their life gets busted or someone with a record moves in nearby.

“We are just trying to provide what’s already out there in an easier fashion, for free,” Mr. Lane said. “We think it’s pretty helpful to families.”

PeopleFinders, originally called Confi-Check, was founded in 1988 by Rob Miller, a former investigator for Intel. PeopleFinders has been selling records to consumers for the last decade and recently acquired a large public-records firm — Mr. Lane declines to say which one because the transaction was private — that allowed it to introduce the expanded free service.

Mr. Lane concedes that his site contains some mistakes. Every locale has its own computer system, he notes, and some are digitizing and updating records faster than others.

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The Novel As Biblical Interpretation

Author Eva Etzioni-Halevy writes:

Sometimes people ask me to what extent my biblical novels are based directly on the Scripture, and to what extent they are based on the Midrash (later stories that expand on the biblical text) and other later interpreters.

My answer is that my novels are based directly on the Bible, supplemented by my own imagination and identification, on the inspiration I derive from living "on location" in Israel, and the sense that this is how it really was.

As for the Midrash and other extra-biblical sources, I have great respect for them and their authors, great biblical scholars, who helped keep Judaism alive for thousands of yeas. Nevertheless, I did not use them as a basis for my novels. I believe that the biblical characters (including biblical women) are rich, many-sided very human beings, with strengths but also with weaknesses, some of which stem from their sexuality. In many cases, the later interpreters have interpreted away this sensuality and turned the characters into one-dimensional, over-righteous personalities, which they were not meant to be originally. To my mind, this is a shame. The Bible is good enough as it is, and none of its aspects need to be "interpreted away". Hence I based my novels directly on the Bible, as it has been written, not as it has been reinterpreted.

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Judging By The Student Comments On My Video Commentary, Shalhevet Parents Should Demand A Refund

Who teaches English at Shalhevet?

Judging by the comments left on my YouTube video about the school, many Shalhevet students lack both reading comprehension and writing skills.

Jonasman, who I assume is a student at Shalhevet, responds to my video blog:

you should be ashamed to show your face, your a disgrace to bloggers and your comments are not only unnecessary and inaccurate, but your a nobody, you live in britain, go to a pub and watch soccer you low life bum. going to this school is a privilege that you don’t recognize because your too dumb, so go bug off chap and if you want to make yourself useful, be positive and make the world a better place you schmuck

I was asking over Shabbat why Shalhevet was so popular with its students and Milken Community High School so unpopular? I’m told it’s because Milken is a college prep school and its students have to work much harder.

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