Almost A Female Orthodox Rabbi

From Hirhurim:

See the interviews with Sara Hurwitz, Blu Greenberg and Judith Hauptman in minutes 2 through 6. I’m still withholding my comments until further review:

Reb Yidl writes: "I don’t see how such half measures will please anyone on either side. To the right, her title is an inauthentic joke, and to the left it’s a patronizing 2nd class position."

Dov writes: "If anybody’s interested in the responsa:
http://www.hir.org/forms_2008/ Co…ara_Hurwitz.pdf"

Jaded Topaz writes: Dov,

The answer you provided in the link, notwithstanding the references to prophets, Queens and matriarchs, appears to be more about teaching and deciding halacha then it is about communal pulpit rabbi officiating at various life cycle related ceremonies.

It starts off with a reference to learning torah and knowledge of both Orach Chaim and Yoreh Dei-ah from outstanding torah scholars……

All of the women mentioned (aside from Prophet’s Queens and mothers of Judaism) either taught and or learned halachah.
(Why wasn’t Bruriah mentioned, she taught 300 halachos to torah scholars on a single cloudy day pesachim 62b)

Page 3 section 3 of the same answer you linked to in your comment, in a discussion concerning the prophet Devorah, other than a good starting argument for the establishment of female poskim and dayanim, I don’t understand the following passage:

“Bnei Yisrael accepted Devorah the prophetess upon them because of her prophecy, and any person whom the litigants in a trial accept upon them can arbitrate (be a dayan), even if that person is otherwise not eligible to be a judge. The Sefer haHinukh brings this down more extensively, saying: "The leaders of Israel accepted her upon them as a judge, and following them, every person accepted her judgments, for in self acceptance certainly anyone is kosher (????? ??? ???? ??????), for every condition in finances exists"- and the Hinukh says all this according to the position which forbids (mostly following the Yerushalmi Yoma 6:1), but according to those who permit (which were brought above in the first answer), there is no problem and no forbidden aspect in having a woman be a judge. This explanation of community acceptance was brought recently by one of the most stringent poskim in this area, the Rishon Letziyon and former Chief Rabbi, Rabbi Mordechai Eliyahu Shlit"a (Tehumin 7 (1986) pg. 518-9), who wrote that the acceptance by Am Yisrael of Devorah was due to her powers of prophecy and as a special instruction of the time (hora’at sha’a) (following the language of the Tosafot and not that of the Sefer haHinukh), but this is only in the case of leadership of an entire people, however a "specific community, organization or town, can accept upon them, in a majority decision, a woman as a head of a board, administration, and so on."

Firstly, we need to distinguish between prophet/judge that served an entire nation- accepted by leader & every person!/ chosen judges that served on bais dins (was it not the smallest towns that generally ended up choosing the smartest non-qualified judges when there were no qualified judges )and communal pulpit Rabbis serving specific geographic locales.

It’s also not clear what the Rishon Letziyon is basing his conclusive opinion on, specifically with regards to “specific community, organization or town”. The fact that Devorah was chosen by everyone, and one is allowed to choose any dayan (whether or not one manages to argue away posul la-eidus posul ladayanus) has nothing to do with choosing a female communal rabbi to officiate at life cycle ceremonies.

The bais din dayan choosing reference seems to suggest that Devorah functioned in the capacity of a Judge, at least in this particular argument, Its not clear what both references have to do with choosing a female communal leader and officiating rabbi. Unless the position is about poseik.

I would think the argument would be better off arguing the case of female dayanim.

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Immigration News

From CIS.org:

1. Blog: “Depression or Not, Immigration Continues Unabated”
2. Blog: “But Let’s Make Sure We Keep Those 97 Trucks Out”
3. Blog: “As Takoma Park Goes, So Goes Maine”
4. Video: Interviews with DHS principals
5. Blog: “Stimulus Jobs for Illegals 2.0”
6. Blog: “Paseo Del Norte, Part IV”
7. Op-ed: “Mexico Isn’t a Failed State—Yet”
8. Blog: “L.A. Times’ Sam Quinones on Immigration Coverage, Drug Cartels”
9. Blog: “Please Nominate This Woman!”
10. Video: Senior Research Fellow on FOX News
11. Op-ed: “Enforcement Pays”
12. Blog: “The Department of Man-Caused Disaster Risk Preparation?”
13. Op-ed: “Wages Will Go Even Lower”
14. Blog: “Gutierrez Wants Focus on Families”
15. Blog: “Voters Open to Militarizing the Border”
16. Backgrounder: The 2006 Swift Raids: Assessing the Impact of Immigration Enforcement Actions at Six Facilities”

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Christopher Hitchens Vs. Orthodox Jews

Christopher Hitchens pushes my buttons. I respect his rhetorical abilities, but I hate many of his views.

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach echoes many of my thoughts in his latest column in The Jerusalem Post:

To read Hitchens these days is to be transported to an alternate universe where religious Jews are often terrorists inspired by racist Jewish ideology that is fomented by their rabbis. Of course, those who live in the real world and who never read about Orthodox Jews setting off bombs in Bali and Baghdad might be a trifle confused by Hitchens’ regular rants against Judaism.

You should be. Most of the time he is simply fabricating, like this famous quote taken from his 2007 book God Is Not Great. "Dr. Baruch Goldstein… killed 27 worshipers… While serving as a physician in the Israeli army he had announced that he would not treat non-Jewish patients, such as Israeli Arabs, especially on the Sabbath. As it happens, he was obeying rabbinic law in declining to do this, as many Israeli religious courts have confirmed."

For this particular blood libel against Jewish courts Hitchens relied on a well-known hoax perpetrated by writer Israel Shahak, which was exposed as a fraud more than 40 years ago by Lord Immanuel Jakobovitz, chief rabbi of the British Commonwealth. This is the same Israel Shahak who once accused Jews of worshipping Satan. When I challenged Hitchens about his use of a well-known forgery, and when he could not cite a single other religious court to have ever ruled that a non-Jewish life could not be saved on the Sabbath, he wrote to me and agreed to amend the item in the next edition of his book.

He did not.

Now he is at it again, only this time he’s outdone himself. Writing in the March 23 edition of the Slate website, Hitchens argued that the religious settlers in Israel are preparing for a future where "Torah verses will also be found that make it permissible to murder secular Jews as well as Arabs" as they all coalesce together to make the West bank into an apocalyptic Jewish theocracy.

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Ultra-Orthodox Find Unorthodox Ways Of Screwing Around

Truly shocking news from the New York Post:

It seems everyone is cheating nowadays. Even Ultra-Orthodox Jews are flocking to a new site made for Kosher cheating:

Apparently God did not make the commandment “Thou shall not commit adultery” clear enough. Hundreds of Jewish men and women who want to cheat on their spouses are flocking to a new Web site for ultra-Orthodox Jews seeking heretical hookups. Shaindy.com — named for the founder’s first mistress — was launched March 19 by a modern Orthodox man from Midwood, Brooklyn, who says he got the idea from Hasids he met in chat rooms seeking adulterous action.

Roughly 350 members have signed up, said the site’s creator, Jerry, who refused to give his last name for fear of rabbinical retribution. He said 50 members paid the introductory fee of $99 for two years, while others have created free profiles. There have been another 200 inquiries from around the world. VIP member “ChanieS,” 34, lists her dating status as “married and miserable” and complains about her husband’s “hit and runs” in the bedroom. Her profile had 703 views last week. One 31-year-old male lists “oh those hose” and hot Orthodox ladies as his turn-ons. Rabbis, understandably, are enraged.

I thought us Jews were supposed to be a light unto the nations? Oy vey, what must the goyim think?

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MI-5

I was watching episode one of the third season of the BBC TV show MI-5.

The beautiful CIA agent in London, Christine Dale, was smacked across the face by her haughty British overlord.

I felt rising anger throughout my body. "Someone do that to me, and I’ll f— him up," I thought. "If I can’t beat him up physically, I have all my life and my blog to f— him up."

I had such a strong physical reaction to what was happening on my tele that I let myself free-associate and I went back to when I was a little nipper and I got knocked around quite a bit. I’d get slapped in anger and go flying across the room. I’d get spanked on my bare bottom until it was raw. That was the way we did things down under. When I got to California in 1977, I felt great relief that corporal punishment was forbidden in the schools. I was almost a teenager now and I didn’t get it from my folks anymore either.

I remember getting humiliated in high school in tenth grade. I wrote an article in the school newspaper about preferential treatment in the classroom for football players. A football coach and teacher brought me in front of his class and had me answer questions and then he just squashed me in front of everyone and I felt totally humiliated and I lost my best friend for about a year. The bloke, a non-football playing athlete, would no longer talk to me.

I was always a frail kid. I hated fights. I hated it when other kids beat up on me or dunked me underwater and held me there till I thought I would drown.

I got knocked around just like Christine Dale and between all those beatings, I resolved that when I got big, I’d find ways to take care of myself so that if anyone would try to needlessly hurt me, I could defend myself. Or if they got to me, I’d have ways to get revenge.

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The War Of The Sexes

Here’s a summary of one of Dennis Prager’s March 18 show: "Dennis opens up the lines for questions on the general subject of male female differences. Issues raised include: why do men objectify women; is the Playboy culture to blame for why so many men aren’t willing to commit to a woman; how does a woman handle a man who makes her feel uncomfortable; should husbands and wives romance their spouses after marriage."

Dennis got a heartbreaking call from someone identifying himself as Ken in New York: "Dennis, the last two women’s phone calls are a perfect dovetail for my question to you. Please help me formulate my question. I’m sitting here listening and I’m actually crying because I realized I called in just to ask a basic question about women, I realized how pervasive the titillation thing, the softcore porn, has played an effect in my life to the destruction of my marriage and to the dissolution of my family. I grew up in the Playboy era where it was natural to have Playboy books when you went to the barber. When I went to get my first haircut, it was all Playboy books. Then Penthouse came out. Even my grandparents had the magazine. Porn came in. I was programmed as a male to only look at women as sex objects. I’ve never been able to bridge that gap. It was in my marriage that I had to deal with a real live three-dimensional woman. I wasn’t up to the task. Aside from the fact that I’m bipolar and that I suffer from depression and the circumstances of my life growing up, my wife just divorced me after 20 years. That was three years ago. I haven’t had sex in years. And so I’m walking around angry and sullen and depressed repelling women. My original question to your screener was, what do women want? Do they want me to send the signal that I find them desirable? Or do I do the thing that I’ve always done and just be a perfect gentleman? And then I have no sex because I don’t send out the signal? I don’t want to be this angry guy. All during the last ten years of my marriage which were absolutely miserable, I just dreamed of pornographic fantasies being with numerous women and being a player and single. And that was going to bring my happiness.

"Once the marriage was over, I realized, wow, that is not what I want. Now that I have the opportunity to go on the internet and swing and do all this stuff, it’s the last thing I want. My fantasy now is to meet a woman who I can actually reveal every part of me to without fear of being rejected or judged."

The man chokes up.

Dennis: "What do you do for a living?"

Ken: "I have my own business. I’m a children’s educator. I’m my own employee."

Dennis: "Are you making a living?"

Ken: "Yeah."

"I’m renting a basement apartment somewhere. I’m not a player. I don’t have money."

After the break, Dennis said there are any number of men who have seen such magazines as Penthouse and have had beautiful marriages and many men who have never seen the magazines have had horrible marriages. "I don’t like it when people blame outside things."

"At your age, in your mid-forties, living in a basement apartment is going to be a challenge in attracting women. She’s going to want to see a more stable life, a life that has shown more that has been accomplished. There are a lot of things you have to work through."

Ken calls back to say he feels humiliated.

Dennis: "I never [humiliate]."

Butch up, Ken!

Austin in Anchorage says: "Nowadays it appears that women, I’ve had it happen to me personally, that women, once they get their husband, no longer maintain the effort to stay thin and beautiful. Men are automatically supposed to love them no matter what. Is that wrong for men to want their wives to stay beautiful?"

Dennis: "I can’t think of anything more wrong than trying to look your best to catch a man, catch a man, and then not trying to look your best again."

"People should date while they are married just as they dated before marriage. They should never take the other for granted, not for one second."

"If what you describe is accurate, you have to say, ‘You have cheated me. You took me for granted. You deceived me. You advertised yourself as X and then when I bought the product, I got Y."

"Nobody should think that no matter how they act, they have tenure in marriage."

Dennis then got a call from a woman taking him to task.

DP: "If the man is decent, he knows whether she is trying to look her best."

"You should act like you have to earn the love of your spouse every day of your marriage. Taking your spouse’s love for granted is a prescription for disaster."

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Marine Corp Killer

A protagonist in Evan Wright’s book "Generation Kill" is a Jewish sergeant named Brad Colbert.

I picked up the book after watching the HBO miniseries.

Evan writes on page 2: "Though he considers himself a "Marine Corps Killer," he’s also a nerd who listens to Barry Manilow, Air Supply and practically all the music of the 1980s except rap."

Colbert won’t allow the singing of country music in his humvee. He does not like Aaron Tippin’s "Where the Stars and Stripes and the Eagles Fly."

He says, "That song is straight homosexual country music, Special Olympics-gay."

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Let’s Talk About Incest

Vicki Polin emails:

46% of all sex crimes committed against children occur in the home. The remaining 54% is made up of babysitters, teachers, doctors, therapists, scout leaders, camp counselors, neighbors, etc. It is only 2% of all cases involve a member of the clergy. Why is it that the Jewish news media seems to only want to bring attention to clergy abuse cases or those that involve a religious institution, when statistically these sorts of cases are only the tip of the iceberg? As a community we need to be addressing all forms of sex crimes, especially those committed against our children. We need to be reaching out to all survivors and not just those who were violated by clergy and or those connected to religious institutions.

Below is a case that involves incest in Italy. It is not uncommon for an incest survivor to continue to be abused by their offender(s) into adulthood. Many survivors don’t know how to get the abuse to stop. Many incest survivors may love their offender(s) as a parent, sibling, grandparent, aunt, uncle, etc. It’s not so straight forward as when a case occurs outside the home.

Can you imagine the embarrassment and shame that an incest survivor faces, especially when the abuse never stops? Incest is not a crime that is always violent. The offender(s) can be very caring, loving and nurturing. Incest survivors may think that having sexual relations with a parent is normal. It’s something they grew up with. Like in all cases involving sex crimes, sometimes there’s confusion because the act of sex can feel good. Survivors sometimes feel that their bodies betrayed them because they can not control the fact that they had an erection or orgasm. The survivor may have grown up feeling that they were special because their offender "made love to them". If they told anyone, they would no longer be "special".

When an incest survivor grows up in a home in which there is also emotional, psychological and physical abuse it may complicate things even more — especially when gentle glove incest is also mixed up in the equation.

When a child is being terrorized at home, they often feel that there is no one they can turn to for help. They often blame themselves for what is or has happened. It’s highly unlikely that an incest survivor will turn to the non-offending parent for help, especially when the abuse involves another parent. If an incest survivor discloses their abuse to anyone, they risk so much more then the survivors who are abused outside the home. Incest survivors risk loosing their families, their home, friends, schools and any sense of stability they might feel they have.

When your an incest survivor there may not be any other victims created by your perpetrator. I’ve spoken to so many incest survivors over the years who wanted their story to be published in a Jewish paper, yet were told that they need to find two other victims of the same offender for the paper to publish the stories. This is a very scary policy considering the majority of those who are sexually abused occur in the home and there’s a stronger likelihood that they may be the only victim by a particular perpetrator.

http://www.skynews.com.au/news/article.aspx?id=316400

Italian police say they have arrested a man for forcing his daughter to have sex with him for 25 years.

The 64-year-old junk vendor had allegedly raped his daughter, now 34, regularly since she was nine-years-old, deputy prosecutor Pietro Forno of the northern city of Turin told AFP.

He was arrested a few days ago, while his son has been in police custody since last month accused of raping his four daughters, Forno said.

Both the father and the son have strongly denied the allegations against them, the ANSA news agency reported.

Erroneous press reports, giving the older man’s victim the pseudonym Laura, earlier said he had imprisoned his daughter.

Fritzl received a life sentence last week for the repeated rape of his daughter over 24 years during which he kept her in an underground hideaway and fathered seven children with her.

Forno said Laura ‘was strictly speaking free, though she did nothing without her father, who completely dominated her psychologically’.

VICKI POLIN WRITES:

Addressing sexual violence in Jewish communities internationally has not been an easy task. It’s often very lonely and frustrating. Many of us connected to The Awareness Center (professionals and survivors) have been harassed, spit at, and shunned by community members, etc.

Unfortunately, too many “authority” in the Jewish orthodox world have been spreading all sorts of rumors regarding myself and those connected with our organization. The goal has been to divide and separate orthodox Jewish survivors from The Awareness Center and also from getting appropriate help from those who REALLY have the education, training and experience.

At first one would think it makes sense that the cultural differences in the orthodox world would need to address sex crimes differently then anyone else. What the religious leaders neglect to tell survivors is that The Awareness Center is made up of many survivors and professionals who are from orthodox backgrounds. It’s true, I did not grow up in an orthodox home and that I am no longer observant — yet what many of those who attack The Awareness Center fail to mention is that I did spend just under 10 years of my life living in the orthodox world.

It saddens me a great deal that a group of people would act in such a way to divide and separate Jewish survivors. One of the first things I was taught when I went to Neve (a women’s seminary in Jerusalem) is that “A Jew is a Jew is a Jew”. If we go back to the time of Nazi Germany, we all would have been sent to the ovens together. The Nazi’s would not care if someone was orthodox, conservative, traditional, Reform, Jewish Renewal or unaffiliated.

If a house was on fire in orthodox community, the owner of the home and their neighbors wouldn’t think twice of what to do. They would call 911 immediately. I don’t know of one person who would consult with their local orthodox rabbi to get permission. When one suspects that a child is at risk of harm or suspect a child is being neglected we should all consider ourselves to be mandated reporters. One should call either the state child protection hot-line or your local police.

I have to admit that I have become cynical over the last eight years of running The Awareness Center. No matter how long one works with a given community I don’t think I will ever be able to understand is why so many “orthodox survivors” continue to buy in to the illusion that is being created by the same individuals who are covering up sex crimes and hide sexual predators. Orthodox survivors deserve the same civil rights and protections as the rest of society. It’s so frustrating to watch them blindly trust individuals who care more about their assets or that of the organizations they are connected to — then they do about their children. Thinking about this send chills up and down my spine.

As one survivor stated “most of the Orthodox Jewish community sees Vicki Polin as a pariah, because they prefer to deny the problem and keep their heads in the sand.”

While consulting with the executive director of another organization regarding the harassment and extortion attempts those of us connected to The Awareness Center experience — she referred to the treatment as being similar to the early days of the women’s movement. She reminded me of the suffering that heroic women as “the Susan B. Anthony, endured. She even referred to me as being “The Susan B. Anthony for Jewish survivors of sexual violence”. I have to admit I was extremely flattered, yet I know that I’m far from accomplishing as much as Susan, nor have I ever come close to the hardship that Susan or the other suffragist experienced.

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Did I Join A Cult And Not Even Know It? II

When I asked Chaim Amalek, he said: "You joined a cult years ago and didn’t even know it."

So I’m in shul Friday night piously studying the week’s Torah portion in the Artscroll Stone Chumash and found this culty commentary on verse three about offering an unblemished male cow as an elevation offering, something I do every Tuesday: "The completely healthy state of an offering symbolizes that when a Jew seeks to come closer to God, he should do so with all of his faculties, with nothing omitted, nothing missing. In exchange the Torah promises a life in which even pain and death lose their sting (R. Shimshon Raphael Hirsch)."

That last sentence got to me and I asked four religious Jews around me if they agreed with it. Does leading a Torah life cause pain and death to lose their sting? They all agreed it did.

I think that’s nuts.

It’s just the sort of stuff that I hated about Christianity. "Jesus Christ provided victory over death, blah blah blah."

I asked one bloke if I punched him right then, would he not feel pain? "No," he said. "[My mate and] I had three shots of vodka before I came here."

Bloody Hell!

Here’s a little more Artscroll commentary on verse three: "No one can be coerced to bring an offering. If someone is required to bring one but refuses to do so, the court may coerce him until he expresses his willingness. Rambam explains the seemingly incongruous  course of action that someone can be "coerced" to be "willing." The Jewish soul always wants to do the right thing, but external influences and temptations cloud a person’s judgment. The coercion applied by the court merely counters those external influences and allows the esential goodness of the soul to come through."

That sounds like culty Orwellian double-talk to me.

Here’s a RickRoss.com collection of articles about culty forms of Orthodox Judaism.

Is Aish Ha Torah and Ohr Somayach a cult?

I hold Rick Ross and Aish Ha Torah in high regard so I have no dog in this fight.

Rick Ross writes:

Both Aish and Ohr have generated serious and repeated complaints from Jewish families including Orthodox Jewish families. Based upon those complaints and statements made by those influenced by Aish and Ohr, much like the above quoted member of this board, I would not recommend Aish or Ohr to anyone under any circumstnces.

Aish uses "Shabbat" as something like a lure to get unwary Jews to "experience" what they want and then draw them deeper into their layered programs.

The ultimate goal of Aish and Ohr is to bring Reform and Conservative Jews out of their respective denominations and into their version of ultra-Orthodox Judaism. And though this recruitiment goal is usually not realized it nevertheless reflects thier intention.

Aish and Ohr will insist, much like other fundamentalists, that their version of Judaism isn’t a version at all, but rather "true Torah Judaism."

Aish/Ohr has repeatedly been accused of "brainwashing" American Jewish tourists in Isreel. These are typically young people, that started out on vacation and were instead sucked into Aish/Ohr. These recruits then often gave up school, work, previously set goals and relationships to study at times for years with Aish/Ohr and stayed in Israel.

Recruiting was often done at the Western Wall and began with a simple invitation to a dinner or "Shabbat."

Families should be aware of all this before sending their kids to Israel for any programs or vacations.

Some of the most hateful and nasty emails I have ever received from any group mentioned on the Ross Institute database have been from Aish and Ohr participants, which have denounced other Jews (e.g. Reform and Conservative) and have expressed often extreme, bigoted and even violent sentiments.

RICHARD M. GREEN WRITES: I spent a few Sabbaths at Aish and they are very slick. The food is good, the facilities including the dorms are basically well-maintained but I can tell you it’s a numbers game.

…Rick,
You were quite correct to tell me that the kiruv organizations are essentially flops. It’s true.
On one video that I had of Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach, Shlomo said that “If they get 100 people to listen to an outreach worker and 2 remain Jewish, the kiruv organizations consider it a success.”
Shlomo went on the decry “professional outreach.” He said, “Have you ever heard of someone being called a professional husband, wife or parent?” Shlomo claimed that if you do outreach you have to do it with all your heart and your heart has to ache for every Jew who doesn’t keep Shabbos.
Shlomo hated the term outreach – he used the term in-reach – and he also didn’t like the term Baal Teshuva. His reasoning was as follows. Shlomo claimed that all he wanted to do was to put people in touch with their innermost being.
When I was at Moshav Modi’in and when I was involved with Shlomo he never pushed me around. Other people on the Moshav did annoy me. Shlomo used to call me “Reuven the Holy Weightlifter”.
One person came up to me and said, “You don’t want to help us, do you?” when I couldn’t handle coming to yet another Shabbat service and I was lying in my room, dead tired from exhaustion as per going to a shul 4 times a day on the Sabbath. I felt that I was dealing with an idiot.
As I mentioned the term Baal Teshuva also rubbed him wrong. He said it seemed to promote the idea that people were doing something wrong and that now they were repentant and trying to turn their lives around. Shlomo claimed that all he was trying to do was put people in touch with their innermost being to bring out the divine spark (the so-called pintel yid) in every Jewish soul.
I confronted him once and he told me that he just does his thing and he hoped that people would follow him. He never laid any kind of trip on me at all.
You have to understand something about Shlomo – he was an extremely successful composer and he made a lot of money at it. Money, which he gave most of away. He really didn’t need to become the hippie rabbi or be an itinerant preacher. A lot of people had a hard time with him because he told all those really wild Chasidic tales and he was very spacey. It was difficult being associated with him because of his deviation from the normal way of orthodox life and thought.
The orthodox Jewish establishment treated Shlomo very well in his youth and as soon as his considerable intellectual gifts became apparent early on in his life and studies he was taken up by the crème de la crème of the yeshiva world. My take on him was that he wanted to share the love and respect that was shown to him with the rest of the world.
He got into Lakewood Yeshiva at the age of 15, he was a ben bayit (he was living with an upscale Jewish family who hosted him while he was at Lakewood) and he was groomed by some of the very best teachers the orthodoxy had.
Shlomo always maintained that the people who came back to the orthodoxy were the heroes, not him. He said he was “born to greatness”. It is claimed that he was descended from King David and he was taken care of at birth by extraordinary leaders. He wanted to share that with others.
I never saw anything insidious about what he was trying to do and although my father had issues with him and my Carlebach/Chabad connection, I found a hero and friend in him.

RICK ROSS WRITES: Yes my work began within the Jewish community regarding unethical prosyletizing targeting Jews.

I once worked for Jewish Family and Children’s Service and also the Bureau of Jewish Education in Phoenix, Arizona.

During the 1980s I served on national committees for the Reform Movment of Judaism, which is the largest Jewish denomination in the United States, officially called the Union of American Hebrew Congregations (UAHC).

Unethical proselytizing is wrong, whether its done by Christians, Jews, or anyone.

Missionaries should approach people openly and honestly, admitting their agenda from the beginning.

A JEWISH MOTHER WRITES:

In May of 1994 my 21 year old son graduated from a prestigious business school. In September of 1994 he started Law School at our state university, finishing his first year in May of 1995 on the Dean’s List. The first year of law school was very demanding and I encouraged him to take a trip during the summer. He chose to go to Israel, and decided to help pay his way by working in an army program for several weeks and to spend the rest of the time touring Israel and the surrounding countries.

Our religious background is Conservative and Reform Judaism. My son attended religious school, was Bar Mitzvah and then confirmed at the end of the tenth grade. I was enthusiastic about his trip to Israel–where it seemed things he had learned about his heritage would come alive.

While he was in Israel he was approached at the Western Wall by a man named Jeff Seidel–who asked him if he would like to have a "Shabbat (Sabbath) experience" with a Jewish family? My son trustingly said yes and was pulled into an experience that I believe included psychological techniques akin to "brainwashing"–designed to ultimately encourage him to leave his family and choose an isolated lifestyle within a closed community in Israel as an ultra-Orthodox Jew.

Jeff Seidel introduced my son to an organization named "Aish HaTorah", whose mission seems to include influencing Reform and Conservative Jewish young people to become ultra-Orthodox. This organization often targets Jewish youth traveling without their parents in Israel. They slowly lure them step-by-step into a radically different lifestyle–they (e.g. Mr. Seidel) never really fully disclosed the actual intent of their ultimate mission.

"Aish" [Ha Torah] begins by having lessons, which are attended by both young men and women to discuss general topics about Judaism. These initial topics discuss the happiness of being one of "God’s Chosen People" and are not controversial. The young person is often paired with another who has already been indoctrinated and that person may be instructed to become friends with the newcomer. The discussions gradually separate the men from the women–after these friendships have been developed the more serious indoctrination into the concept of "The True Torah" begins. Young people are often encouraged to change their way of dress to conform to their new "friends"–although they are told they do not have to change their dress "until they are ready". The clear implication is that–they will eventually be "ready".

At the end of the summer, my son called and said he did not want to return to law school–a goal he had set for himself and discussed for many years, but instead he now wanted to stay a while in Israel to "study Judaism". I did everything I could to get him to return home, but he was being told by Aish’s rabbis–"God" was more important to his future than his parents. By the time I could get to Israel, during December of 1995, I found my son dressed in a long black coat and hat, with a long beard–who could only talk about one topic–"THE TORAH". I could not convince him to return home.

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Jews Attracted To Kundilini Yoga

Kundilini Yoga doesn’t offer the enormous roadblocks that participation in Christianity throws up for a Jew, though Kundilini is plenty controversial.

I’ve seen numerous Orthodox Jews at Kundilini Yoga, not to mention many less observant Jews.

Mard Naman writes for New West in December 1980:

Toward the end of the quarter, she encouraged everyone to go to an upcoming tantric yoga session, conducted by 3HO leader, Yogi Bhajan. Tantric Yoga was so powerful, she said, that Yogi Bhajan was the only living master, the one person in the world qualified to teach it. Tantric Yoga wove together the energies of the male and female and was done in pairs. "No one", she added softly, "knows his way around a woman’s body like Yogi Bhajan". "How do you know?" I teased. "I know", she replied evenly. "He can go on for hours".

…Yogi Bhajan appeals to the same group of young Americans who flock to the Reverend Sun Myung Moon, or the Hare Krishna movement. Many come from middle-class and upper-middle-class backgrounds, and a surprising percent of them are Jewish. A lot of them used mind-expanding drugs prior to joining, but anyone who sticks with Yogi Bhajan is quickly broken of any such habits. Sikhs are, for the most part, young, idealistic and searching for that sense of family and spirituality that they can’t get elsewhere.

…The Sikhs own several houses in Arizona, mostly in Phoenix and Tucson and their attempts to buy houses are evidence of their attitude of upward mobility. So far, they’ve bought seven in the Robertson/Preuss area of Los Angeles. We’re slowly buying up the entire block", says regional director Krishna Kaur Khalsa. "When they see us coming they jack up the price." They also own houses Altadena, Fullerton, Long Beach, Pomona, south central LA, San Bernardino and San Diego. Some of these are single family dwellings, others are ashrams. And individuals own most of the ashrams. But Phil Hoskins, Yogi Bhajan’s chancellor and part-time legal adviser until he left the sect in 1976, says that although when he left most of this property seemed to be owned by individuals, a lot of it was actually owned by a clique of five or six top echelon women who were under Bhajan’s control.

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