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Ban Dropped On Women Delivering Eulogies

From The Jerusalem Post:

A rabbi in northern Israel who came under attack for what some called blatant male chauvinism agreed this week to stop reproaching women for eulogizing their deceased loved ones.

Haim Adani, Rabbi of Elyachin, a town of about 3,000 residents located near Hadera, agreed to stop preaching against women who asked to eulogize their loved ones and to join in the funeral procession.

Adani changed his funeral policy after receiving a threatening letter from Attorney Aviad Hacohen, himself an Orthodox Jew. In the letter Hacohen, who represented Mordechai Avdiel, a member of Elyachin’s burial society, and others, warned Adani that he would take legal action unless the rabbi agreed to stop his gender-based discrimination.

In response to Hacohen’s letter, Adani wrote that he would stop reproaching women. "Just as it is a mitzva to warn people who are willing to listen, so too it is a mitzva not to warn people who refuse to listen," he said. In a telephone interview with The Jerusalem Post, Adani said that it caused a desecration of God’s name when women disregarded his calls not to eulogize or to join men in the funeral process.

"Over the years the residents of Elyachin have become less religious," said Adani. "Women are less willing to listen to me. So I plan to stop warning them." Adani said that he took special heed after Hacohen brought it to his attention that restricting women from eulogizing was illegal and constituted discrimination.

New Jersey Jewish News reports:

Is it time to take Jewish wisdom into the American marketplace of ideas? New York-based CLAL-The National Jewish Center for Jewish Learning and Leadership thinks so. And they’ve tapped Rebecca Sirbu, former director of JCC MetroWest’s Jewish Health and Healing Center, to head up their new project.

Known as Rabbis Without Borders, the project will train religious leaders to speak in settings outside of familiar Jewish institutions, including mass media and places where transdenominational and interfaith audiences gather.

The goal of the project is twofold: to reach Jews outside of traditional Jewish settings and to inject Jewish ideas into the general cultural conversation on spirituality and ethics.

The New York Times reports:

WHEN I heard that the writers Judith Shulevitz and Nicholas Lemann make a dairy Seder each year, I had my own four questions:

Why?

What do they make?

Does a rabbi say it counts?

Can they actually find Jews to eat it who aren’t convinced they’re lactose intolerant?

It would seem the answer to the last question is yes; one year they had 25 guests.

“We do it so Nick can have more fun cooking,” Ms. Shulevitz said recently. “In the Talmud it says to eat meat on a holiday because it’s joyous, but we don’t eat much meat. So we make the food we enjoy eating instead of the traditional. We emphasize joy over meat."

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Bais Yaakov Girls Gone Wild!

Heshy Fried writes:

"Bais Yaakov Girls Gone Wild" has been in my imagination since I was 15. I never thought there were any other sick yeshiva guys like myself, but I have been surprised again and again by the search traffic to my site and the random emails from horny Chassidim in Brooklyn who think that I hold the key to their frum porn adventures.

Several months ago I wrote about the Hot Chani phenomena sweeping through religious neighborhoods in the New York metro area. "Hot Chanis" are religious women who wear wigs but dress very scandalous with tight short skirts, hooker boots and lots of makeup. I posted an example and was flooded with emails from people seeking more pictures. I told them I was not in the porn business – but that they should take s stroll down any street in Flatbush if they wanted some Hot Chani action.

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Should The Orthodox Ordain Women?

Orthodox rabbi Gil Student writes:

On Sunday March 21st, 2009, Rabbi Avi Weiss conferred Yoreh Yoreh ordination on his congregational intern, Ms. Sara Hurwitz. The official certificate does not use the term rabbi but instead Rabbi Weiss invented a new term for this occasion – Maharat (Manhigah Hilchatit Ruchanit Toranit). Note also that Ms. Hurwitz has served for the past five years as a congregational intern and not as a rabbinic intern – the term rabbi is once again not being used. However, ordaining a woman in any way, even if not under the title rabbi, is a significant step in the Orthodox world. This is even more so the case when the ordainee serves in a synagogue pulpit.

I don’t know Rabbi Weiss or Ms. Hurwitz, and my thoughts here are not aimed at them personally but relate to the direction of the segment of the Orthodox community of which they are a part. What I see is support for the role of a woman in being ordained in rabbinic fashion and serving as a rabbi. This is a radical break with Jewish tradition. It is an intentional deviation from Minhag Yisrael, from the unanimous Orthodox view just 25 short years ago (and certainly prior to that). Regardless of what halakhic arguments can be offered on the relevant technical issues (on these issues, see this post: link which will be published in a revised and updated form in my forthcoming book, Posts Along The Way), we must remember that the Conservative movement also has halakhic arguments for its positions. What distinguishes the Orthodox from the Conservative is our allegiance to precedent and tradition. This latest deviation is part of a recent trend among self-identifying Orthodox Jews of deviating from traditional synagogue practices (why is the synagogue always first?).

Like the Reform in the nineteenth century and the Conservative in the twentieth, these recent deviations are accompanied with detailed halakhic justifications. But that does not mean that they are correct when they act to alter the fabric of religious society in ways that had previously been unthinkable. Nowhere to be heard are concerns about communal unity, misperceptions about halakhic malleability and the effects of this decision on the non-Orthodox. Nor is there discussion about the important question – “What next?” This seems to me to be a short-sighted and historically uninformed development.

Mike writes: 1) The Conservative movement’s slide away from halacha began well before ordaining women; permitting a desire to live in the suburbs to override chillul shabbos is as far from halacha as anything. Far further than women rabbis.

2) A great many of the practices raised by the early reformers in 19th century are now commonplace among the Orthodox. We all hear drush in the vernacular, both in the US and in Israel. Girls all learn Hebrew and TANAKH. Perhaps if some of the Orthodox had been quicker to adapt to societal change, the Reform would not have fallen so far from Torah; on the other hand, perhaps had they done so we would all have fallen away from Torah, chas v’shalom.

3) Since both Ms. Hurvitz and R. Weiss are committed to halacha, why do you say there is "no end in sight."? Halacha sets pretty clear bounds.

4) A hundred and 7 years ago Orthodox rabbis were (almost) universally opposed to Zionism and a state. The Rav ZT"L famously (His address to Mizrachi published as "Joseph and His Brethren") said that they were wrong; that the hasgacha pratis had ruled against them. Once me move beyond halacha, our decisions can only be judged in hindsight.

DAVE WRITES: If the right will be silent that’s only because Avi Weiss is a non-entity in their eyes. Just as few battle Reform or Conservative these days, Weiss’s latest innovations hardly create a tremor in the eyes of the rank and file Chareidi. He has long ago distinguished himself from them and since his approach hasn’t taken hold among anyone other than some on the far left-wing of the MO, it’s unlikely that they’ll care much. There may be a few articles lambasting him in the Yated or JO but don’t expect too much.

If anything, the onus is on the MO rabbis since Avi Weiss does occupy space at their table [even if they disagree with him] and it remains to see which approach they’ll take. My guess is that a few hardy souls will protest and the rest will dodge the issue as best as they’re able. It’s a third-rail issue for most and I can’t imagine too many who’ll stand up to him in the open.

RJM writes:
First of all, the point that distinguishes Orthodoxy from Conservative is not their attitude to precedent. It is their attitude to the halakhic system in general. Orthodoxy maintains that the principles of halakha are inviolable whereas Conservative believes they can still be changed to meet new circumstances, adapted to modern mores, etc., all in the name of halakhic evolution.

This does not imply that innovative theory and/or practice do not emerge in Orthodoxy; certainly there is plenty of hiddush, both theoretical and normative, to go around. What makes this legitimately Orthodox is that it is derived from the study and application of the traditional sources according to the traditional methodology.

This is why I think that, while slippery slope arguments make sense and have in fact been borne out in the context of Reform and Conservative where the clear boundaries of the halakhic system have been lost, the same is not true in Orthodoxy where the binding force of halakha is an ever-present reality that will never be challenged or changed. This attitude toward halakha is part of the very definition of Orthodoxy, and one who does not subscribe to this basic notion would likely defect from the movement altogether.

In this case, we are speaking about the subject of women’s "ordination", and all I have heard from you is dogmatic pronouncements about a mistake and a deviation. In an uncharacteristically smug fashion,you talk about remembering and reinforcing "what we already know". You apparently see this development as a terrible tragedy for the Jewish people. As someone who has given much thought to these issues as well, and has arrived at a different view, I felt condescended and was saddened by your words.

It is noteworthy that you have not responded to the actual content of the arguments at hand. I take it from this, and from some of your other comments, that you agree that there is a halakhic basis for what Rabbi Weiss seeks to establish, and that your objections are primarily sociological in nature.

While I sympathize with your concerns, I believe that other changes that have occurred within the context of Orthodoxy – including those pertaining to women’s involvement in learning, Bat Mitzvah celebrations, etc. – have proven that adherence to the principles of Orthodoxy prevent slippery slope kinds of concerns from materializing.

I agree with your assessment that, in the end, silence is the solution. Just as with Bat Mitzvah and women studying Talmud, the concept of female Torah leaders will eventually become a widely accepted commonplace within certain sectors of the Orthodox world – except those, of course, that still avoid celebrating Bat Mitzvot and prohibit women from studying Talmud.

MICHAEL WRITES: All the traditional halakhic sources say we do not save a gentile on Shabbat, except for mishum eiva. Obviously, this means that on a desert island, we wouldn’t save the gentile. But would anyone stand by this today? R’ Aharon Lichtenstein says he’d break Shabbat and do teshuva later; R’ Shlomo Riskin and R’ Nachum Rabinovitch cherry-pick the RambaN; R’ Weinberg and many others (see R’ David Berger in "Egalitarian Ethos for a laundry list of gedolim; I will add R’ Yom Tov Schwarz in Einayim Lirot to the list) cherry-pick the Meiri; R’ Jakobovits uses darkhei-shalom-as-an-ethical-override in a manner highly reminiscent of R’ Berkovits; R’ Amital says that the will of G-d is that we save the gentile even if the halakhah says otherwise.

Surely women in Orthodoxy today must be treated as gentiles are; the sources say what they do, but we must have the perspicacity to recognize that this is outdated. We must be able to recognize as R’ Eliezer Berkovits did, that if korbanot (RambaM), yafet toar (Hazal), milhemet reshut (R’ Kook), goel haDam (Shadal), etc. are all concessions, then so too, the Torah’s laws on women are also concessions. We cannot erase the law, but we can creatively overcome it. For example, regarding gittin, we can use prenuptials to create kiddushei ta’ut, as R’ Dr. Michael Broyde has, following R’ Weinberg and R’ Ovadia Yosef.

I have a friend converting Conservative. She says she chose Conservative because of the egalitarianism, and I asked her, in other areas (kashrut, Shabbat, etc.), why not follow the Orthodox? She told me that if the Conservatives are right here, she’ll trust them across the board.

The difference with early Conservative is that whereas the right-wing of Conservative (i.e. the JTS Talmudic staff) was practically Orthodox, the left-wing was far from. It was only once the RA split from JTS, that Conservative really took a downturn. But I don’t think it is hard to decide whether R’ Avi Weiss is more like JTS or like the RA. I think we can trust R’ Weiss to not take this beyond halakhah; as R’ Weinberg said of R’ Berkovits, he may be radical, but he has tremendous yirat shama’im all the same. See also David Glasner’s words, regarding R’ Moshe Shmuel Glasner (the father of R’ Berkovits’s teacher) at http://www.math.psu.edu/glasner/…4/Dorrev7.html: "To critics, R. Moshe Shmuel seemed to be sanctioning the heretical views of Wissenschaft des Judentum and its American offspring, Conservative Judaism. But R. Moshe Shmuel’s commitment to halakha was absolute, and his conclusions, unlike those of the Wissenschaft des Judentum, rested exclusively on Talmudic and rabbinic sources."

DAVID WRITES: Gil,
I don’t understand your statement in the last paragraph to the effect that the Conservative movement’s allegiance to halakhah disintegrated after female ordination. In 1980 most Conservative Jews weren’t shomer mitzvot and I fail to see how female ordination was a turning point in terms of that movement’s relationship to halakhah. Did their teshuvot become worse after female ordination? Rabbi Halvini et. al. left the movement at that time not because the decision was worse per se than others but because they found the process was disrespectful to their rebbe, Saul Lieberman and they also felt the process lacked legitimacy even by Conservative standards (secular Hebrew literature professors at JTS were allowed to vote on admitting women to JTS etc.).

Many radical halakhic and hashkafic changes (e.g. the assimilation of Zionism into Orthodox halakhah and theology) can be assimilated by Orthodoxy if the change [1] has technical internal halakhic justification and [2] is accepted by a sizable portion of shomerei mitsvot. Conservative p’sak sometimes meets the first test but almost never meets the second (except for using grape juice for kiddush).

MAYA WRITES: Dear R. Student,

Just so you know, it is Ms. Hurwitz, not Mrs. She and her husband have different last names. Could you please correct. I know that Sara was a bit upset by R. Sperber’s calling her Mrs. in his letter to R. Weiss.

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News From Israel

Gadi Pickholz writes: See HaAretz p. 7 this morning: Jerusalem district court judge Tamar bar Asher-Zaban issues an injunction against new mintsnum in Jerusalem neighborhood of kiryat hayovel, at the request of meretz secular political party and with approval of mayors office and city attorney yossi havilio. Argument is that it creates a slippery slope of permitting modern orthodox families to infiltrate a secular neighborhood. "each must be kept from the other" in the words of the court ruling

Anglo and American Jews have no concept of true Judaism in action as they are protected by a democratic state with hundreds of years of rule of law and multiculturalism. The reality here and the fantasy on the other side of the planet are often night and day.

In a related story, Israel railways has decided to fire all Israeli Arab citizens employed as guards, which is the vast majority of guards, despite the laws against bigotry against Arab citizens of the state. Most have medals of valor from service on the IDF and national service in their youth.

Very troubling, but not nearly as troubling as the complete news blackout in American Jewish media as it does not conform with blanket cheerleading for Israel and, of course, the attendant fundraising.

Haaretz April 1, p8:

Totem starkman capital markets column

Here is the test case: shaya boymelgreen, whose group is slowly collapsing around him as it does not have enough cash to pay back the over nis 1 billion it owes banks and bondholders.

Like other Israeli tycoons, Boymelgreen bought real estate at the top of the market. But no one us doing anything to save him. No one cares about him because he is ultra orthodox American Jew who only recently moved his operations to Israel (Aliya). He has a foriegn accent and little presence here, he has no friends in the Israel Securities Authority, nor does he employ amy former senior officials; he is MOT connected to the court of netanyahu or Eini.

See HaAretz:

At the end of Hantke Street in Jerusalem there lives a monster, a huge, thorny monster, and from within its maw are three bright red tongues that for many years have been spewing little children into the sandbox below. The children are entertained by "Hamifletzet," the famed symbol of the Kiryat Hayovel neighborhood, but the adults are focused on other monsters, some real, others imagined.

One camp warns of "anti-Semitism," while the other of an "ultra-Orthodox takeover." Everyone is sure there will be a no-holds-barred battle, until one side emerges victorious and tranquility is restored.

The current war theater is a small, old house with cracked plaster walls and sealed shutters in the middle of the long, busy street. A few dozen young Haredim who recently moved into the area meet there in an apartment to pray on Shabbat. They have the permission of the apartment’s owner, who lives in the United States, and his Haredi tenant, and they follow the customs of the Lithuanian yeshivot.

What the worshippers describe as an innocent assembly has become another chapter in the bitter battle between ultra-Orthodox and secular. Now, for the first time, the dispute will be adjudicated in court.

Haaretz April 1, p8:

It’s impossible to understand why the new prime minister and his swollen cabinet are even engaging with the stupid recommendation by the "100 days team" to save the tycoons using our money. It’s even harder to understand why Histadrut labor federation chairman Ofer Eini, supposedly the savior of savers, is promoting the cause of rescuing the tycoons.

Don’t believe the gobbledygook being pushed by some of the media: Rescuing the tycoons will not reduce poverty, stimulate the economy or save jobs.

The companies that are in desperate financial straits because of their bond repayments employ almost no one. And even if one tycoon is forced to sell off a company or give up shares, nothing will happen to those workers.

So why is the entire economic establishment busy day and night with the bailout plans? Because those who are pushing it are well-connected, in tight with the ruling powers, or think the ancien regime, where a few billionaires controlled everything, should continue. And how do we know that the good of the economy is not really the true desire of Ram Caspi, Eliezer Fishman, Zohar Goshen and all the others pushing the bailouts?

Here is a test case: Shaya Boymelgreen, whose group is slowly collapsing around him as it does not have enough cash to pay back the over NIS 1 billion it owes banks and bondholders.

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Following the Guru

I tell my friend that I start every day with a cold shower and 30 minutes of stretching and chanting as Guru Singh instructs.

Joe: "Guru Singh? My friend used to follow him. And now he has ten contempt of court rulings levied against him, that’s five days in jail for each count. He has a warrant out for his arrest.

"Two years ago, I was in his car and he was playing a Guru SIngh CD and telling me, ‘This is the way. This is the path to peace.’

"The guy was a hedge fund manager. He ran an account worth $120 million.

"He has three restraining orders against him for three years each.

"The cops came to his place because he was with this Chinese hooker and he didn’t have enough money to pay her. So her pimp came over and beat him up. The neighbors heard the commotion and called the cops.

"The cops arrived to find him lying buck naked in the front yard. His place is filled with marijuana. He tells the cop he has a medical marijuana license. He tells them he’s an Auschwitz survivor.

"He’s 56 years old. He has a shaved head.

"When his landlord went to expel him from the apartment, he got high and at 4 am climbed on his landlord’s house and screamed he was going to f— him in the ass.

"When people ask him where he’s from, he says ‘Egypt. I’m a direct descendant of Moses.’"

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Is Kundalini Yoga Dangerous For Your Health?

I went to Kundalini Yoga to get happier and healthier. If I get holier too, that’s a bonus.

Overall, I’ve been very happy with my journey. I feel happier and healthier.

The past five days, I’ve been obsessed with reading all the critical articles on Kundalini Yoga at the website of cult-buster RickRoss. I think everyone interested in the topic should listen to both sides — those who venerate this yoga and those who say it is dangerous to body, mind, and soul.

I’ve tweaked my right knee a few times doing Kundalini Yoga, particularly the frog poses. It could be that I was doing them wrong or that I launched into poses that my body was not ready for.

According to this essay, such yoga can be dangerous to your health:

Anatomically, the only way you can squat and execute the move is to allow the knees out over the toes. For every inch the knee (patella) is out over the toe, you will put five times your body weight on the knee–and surrounding ligaments/muscle.

Also–this position will sandwich the femur (thighbone) and tibia (shinbone)–possibly pulling the knee joint apart ( patella from the socket), which stretches over the ligaments at the joint. Now add to this the ballistic pumping up/down motion for six to nine minutes–several hundred times. Also the complication of the hands folded on the head and you just might have added a compression to the cervical through increased weight. The "frog pose" is actually old-fashion deep-knee bends, which are now on almost every banned exercise list. This exercise could cause a knee injury.

I don’t have a position on all this because I don’t know much (neither about this yoga nor about exercise). I know that after paying for a few acupuncture sessions on my tweaked right knee, I will henceforth abandon frog poses. I have also abandoned most breath work — a fundamental part of Kundalini Yoga — because I can’t do it without violating what I learn in Alexander Technique. I also have to abstain from certain yoga poses because I can’t pull them off without tightening my neck and narrowing my back and shoulders, cardinal sins in Alexander Technique.

I love all my yoga teachers and they all seem careful to teach in a way that helps their students and not exposes them to harm.

A Kundalini Yoga teacher can’t make up his own exercises nor teach anything that violates Yogi Bhajan’s precepts.

I talked about these lofty issues with Marc Germain on Talk Radio One Tuesday night.

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For A Man Who Despises TV, Dennis Prager Goes To Great Lengths To Appear On TV

Dennis Prager often writes and speaks about how much he despises television.

Yet yesterday on his radio show, Dennis Prager talked about how he flew in to New York to do the [Sean] Hannity show.

Dennis spoke on the show about his new book on male sexual nature, tentatively titled "Your Husband Is Not A Pervert."

I assume Prager was on the show for fewer than 10 minutes. Hannity’s viewership tops out at just over two million. Prager was one of three panelists during his time on this show.

That’s a long flight and a lot of bother to reach a relatively small audience (compared with network shows).

Prager is working on several books at once. Don’t hold your breath for them to be published any time soon.

I’ve heard Prager say on air that he does almost every television show he’s invited on to get his values to more people and to bring them in to his radio show and writings.

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Orthodox Women Rabbis

Moshe responds to the argument that there is no objection in Jewish law to a woman becoming a rabbi:

You mention the Rav, which is ironic since it’s well documented that he objected to women even being shul president, let alone clergy. Rav Moshe allowed a woman to be a mashgiach only for dire need (a widow with no other means of support) but explicitly states that all things being equal, women should not have such leadership roles (serarah). In light of these very legitimate concerns, it is astounding that you can categorically declare female rabbis to be "not halachikly problematic at all" (!)

Moreover, one thing that concerns me is, when did we become halachik fundamentalists to the point that only the letter of the law counts? Is there not a general spirit of the law, and in specific with regards to women’s issues? How do you deal with the meta issues that a woman rabbi could not even be a witness at a wedding she performs, can not count in the minyan she ministers to, etc. Isn’t there a disconnect there? Even the Conservative writings on this dealt with those meta issues!

And finally, and I mean this sincerely and respectfully, I notice you refer to your article as a "teshuva". What do you consider to be the standard at which an article becomes canonized as an official "teshuva", meaning it’s invested with authority and communities can rely on it. Do you consider yourself a posek? Must one even consult a recognized posek before acting on something lemaaseh, or is it enough that an argument feel compelling to those who wish to follow it? I ask these questions not sarcastically, but only because I think the answer to the above questions is a litmus test of sorts to determine a general halchik philosophy.

Finally, your description of Hurwitz as not a militant feminist and as committed to Orthodoxy is circular. Since you don’t consider women rabbis anti-orthodox, it follows that she’s not anti-orthodox. I disagree. I think her willingness to act in a way which is not approved by single major Orthodox organization (OU, RCA, Agudah, young israel, YU, religious zionist, hasidic, sefardic, whatever) or by a single recognized orthodox authority by definition does make her a militant who absolutely does stand opposed to establishment Orthodoxy.

Charles Hall writes:

"Of course I would never daven in that shul."

A lot of others do. It has the largest beit knesset in the community, it is packed every Shabat, and is approximately tied with the Riverdale Jewish Center for the largest membership of any congregation in the Bronx (and that includes the non-Orthodox congregations). This after Rabbi Weiss started in the basement of an apartment building 36 years ago. It is actually one of the major kiruv success stories in American Judaism, as hundreds of families have come to Torah through his efforts. Something is working.

"I think her willingness to act in a way which is not approved by single major Orthodox organization (OU, RCA, Agudah, young israel, YU, religious zionist, hasidic, sefardic, whatever) or by a single recognized orthodox authority by definition does make her a militant who absolutely does stand opposed to establishment Orthodoxy."

Excuse me, but do you know M’Hurwitz? Have you ever spoken with her? Can you cite an action of hers that is contrary to halachah? Or any thing that she has said or written?

And is being "militant" asur? There have been times in our history when a bit more militancy might have served us well. Remember that if "establishment Orthodoxy" had had its way we would not have a State of Israel, and it also failed to act effectively in Europe prior to the Shoah.

And M’Hurwitz continues to be employed by a congregation that is a member of the OU in good standing.

‘Do you think that synaogues that have "maharat" positions will next allow mixed minyanim? ‘

I have never asked either M’Hurwitz or R’Weiss their positions on this issue, but there is no "mixed minyan" at the Hebrew Institute of Riverdale.

"But Ashkenazim *do* have to worry about it. And that includes HIR and most American Jews."

Currently there are about three times as many members of Reform synagogues in the US as there are Orthodox Jews. While the Conservative movement has been imploding, there are now 200 more Reform congregations than there were a generation ago. Reform is now the largest Jewish "movement" in the US for the first time since the 1880s. (Maybe we don’t have to "worry" about this, but it is a fact nevertheless.)

Lisa, a lesbian and an Orthodox Jew, writes: "My objection to Ms. Hurwitz’s title of "mashgicha ruchanit", which she held up until recently, was not that there was anything wrong with her serving in that capacity. It was the sure knowledge that it was only a first step. With this "maharat" business being the second step, and "rabbi" being the endgame. This pushing of the envelope is detrimental to Judaism."

Lisa blogs:

This is in response to the article "Woman leading Women of the Wall," in your Nov. 14 issue. I am a Jewish woman who enjoys going to women’s prayer groups. I enjoy being able to read Torah and participate in ways that would be inappropriate in an Orthodox synagogue. And yet I am unalterably and vehemently opposed to the group known as the Women of the Wall.

I want to take this opportunity to explain why I oppose the Women of the Wall, and why I believe others should oppose them. And why it is not only "right wing, ultra-Orthodox" Jews who are offended by this group. In Tractate Yevamot 13b, we learn that even though the School of Hillel and the School of Shammai had different legal views of what constituted illegitimacy, they were able to marry between the communities. Why? Because each community would let the other know who among them would be considered illegitimate by the other.

They did not stand on their own pride and insist that only their view could possibly be correct, but rather showed respect even for the view they thought was wrong. There are authorities in Jewish law who support women’s prayer groups. There are likewise authorities who oppose these groups. Each side has ample support and backing in Jewish law, and each side is as legitimate in their views as the School of Hillel and the School of Shammai were in their views of illegitimacy. When such differing views exist in Jewish law, each side is completely entitled to live according to their own views. They are not, however, entitled to try and force their views on those who hold by the opposing side. For someone who opposes women’s prayer groups to barge into a private home where such a group is being held and try to break it up would be unconscionable. But for someone who supports them to hold a women’s prayer group in a communal location like the Western Wall, where they know it will offend others, is every bit as wrong.

Change does not come in Judaism by demonstrations and marches. Traditional Jews believe that the Torah we keep is the same Torah given by G-d more than thirty three centuries ago. It is not ours to give up on, or give in on, just because someone is pressuring us.

This is entirely aside from the habit the Women of the Wall have of staging media events by inviting the press to what they know will result in a confrontation. Creating strife among Jews for the sole purpose of trying to force acceptance of one’s views is not the Jewish way. It has never been the Jewish way.

Lisa blogs Jan. 23, 2006:

JOFA had a conference here in Chicago. Now, I’m definitely a supporter of women’s davening groups (so long as they’re done according to halakha), but JOFA stands for a lot more than that. The Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance was founded by Blu Greenberg (of "Where there’s a rabbinic will, there’s a halakhic way" fame), wife of Yitz Greenberg (founder of CLAL, and the ostensibly Orthodox rabbi who publically declared that due to Hashem permitting the Holocaust, His commandments are no longer binding on us).

I attended part of this conference. Why? Well, my first reaction was that of course I wasn’t going to go. Why on earth would I add one more person to the headcount so that they could claim to be representative of Orthodox Jewish women?

Well, someone very close to me was going. And I knew she was going to have all sorts of things to say afterwards, and I decided that it’d be a lot better if I could hear what the people actually said, rather than a second-hand account.

This was a Very Bad Idea.

Mitch Morrison writes on Hirhurim: Lisa nails it… Halacha must always include meta-halacha. While something may be permissable the broader question is can what i permit today lead to something forbidden tomorrow. If, RJM, you say a woman rabbi, based on contemporary expectations of a pulpit rabbi, is permissable, that’s your position – and a lonely one within Orthodoxy. If you says it is forbidden then the question is do you see the role of Mora’at leading to something more down the line is this where the boundary is set.
I’ll offer what may be a poor example. My brother is a Traditional Conservative Rabbi. in his last shul, he would not let women hold a Sefer Torah on Simchat Torah because based on his constituents he feared many would say, "well, if i can hold a Sefer Torah, then i should be able to lein from the Torah in our shul." He didn’t want that. I remember he said to me, if i were in a Young Israel where boundaries are clearer, then i’d let them hold a Sefer Torah on Simchat Torah.
Again, it’s all about context and end games. If you, Avi Weiss, etc. feel a woman should be able to receive semicha and act as a pulpit rabbi with caveat on edut, then you should have the courage to say so. But right now, the move on SH – where her enhanced title is in the functions within a shul as opposed to say academia – presents a tightrope lacking steadiness.

LISA WRITES: I see the difference is with Avi Weiss declaring Hurwitz to be "clergy". Before he did that, it was a local matter at one shul. But he (and she) are a tail trying to wag the dog. I’m willing to bet that if you ask Hurwitz what she thinks about the whole Maharat thing, she’ll say something along the lines of, "I’m happy about it. It’s a good start."

When she was still a madricha ruchanit, she made it clear that she thought it was unfair that she couldn’t be a rabbi. I doubt she’s backed down from that position at all. Not to get all slippery-slope and domino about this, but that’s all this is. Is a step. And to the extent that they "get away with it", they’ll continue pushing the envelope further and further.

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A Bais Yaakov Girl Who Converted To Catholicism

Report: …Sara, a third year law student who lives in Michigan with her husband of five years, together with their young daughter and two pets. Sara is a former Bais Yaakov girl from a moderate yeshivish family who stopped being frum in her early twenties. She currently practices Elder Law in a free clinic and has worked in the past as a middle and high school teacher at Bais Yaakov.

…"I was once working on a paper having to do with the history of Jewish communities in fifteenth century Italy. In doing that work, I came across a shailah/tshuvah about mixed-gender dancing. I was shocked that in a fairly orthodox setting of several hundred years ago, mixed social dancing was widely accepted, for the purposes of encouraging suitable matches. This led me to other reading and eventually to question the system of halacha."

"Above all though, the thing I treasure most about my life that wasn’t possible in the frum community is that the schemes and plans and ambitions I formulate are not viewed with suspicion. I don’t have to worry about balancing everything against religion. My religion recognizes a greater diversity of human activity than frumkeit allows itself to recognize."

Lucy comments on XGH’s commentary: "You don’t mention that Sarah is happily married, a mom, attending law school, planning a career,still believes in g-d (albeit one with a son), maintains a relationship with her parents and those family who will let her do so and presumably is not an alcoholic or a drug addict. Her path may not be the typical one and it certainly is not the stereo-typical image some frummies like to convey of OTD (off the derech) people as lonely, loveless, godless,sex-addicted drug addicts."

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