So Now We’re Profiling?

Dennis Prager said near the end of his second hour today of his radio show: “The U.S. intensifies screening of travelers from 14 nations.”

He reads from the New York Times report.

“Apparently we are nationally profiling and religiously profiling.

“Isn’t that profiling? So all of the left-wing hullabaloo about profiling turns out to be nonsense?

“For all of my lifetime, the very notion that person X from background X might be more likely to commit a certain crime was considered racism. Not common sense. Racism. Now all of a sudden a dictate has gone out from the White House and it’s no longer racism.”

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Jews Conflicted On Immigration

Stephen Steinlight emails: This is the lengthy piece (a sure sign they know the story is important) that JTA ran today on CIS’s latest poll on the widening gulf separating the pulpit from the pews in America on immigration — or, to be more specific, the section that deals with American-Jewish opinion. The findings are enormously important and welcome: they suggest an historic shift in attitude within the American Jewish community, and a growing divide between ordinary American Jews and their putative leaders on immigration(the story does let Establishment spokespersons get away with murder on some of their claims in this regard). It shows the Jewish community, like the rest of America, is moving our way.

Forgive the self-congratulation, but I think the two Steves did just fine, especially given the fact that JTA is, ultimately, Pravda for the Jewish Establishment and however fair the reporter endeavored to be, the final slant was inevitable. But we had plenty of opportunity to score significant points, and I give the reporter credit for letting us say as much of our say as was published.

FROM JTA:

“We know that the Jewish community is not monolithic on this subject,” said Richard Foltin, the American Jewish Committee’s legislative director and counsel. “To the extent that it’s a fair representation, there’s a lot of education that needs to be done in the community.”

Rabbi David Saperstein, who directs the Reform movement’s Religious Action Center, said the leadership and the rank and file occasionally outpace one another on issues.

“It’s not unusual for leadership to take a more assertive position on the issues than the amcha,” he said, using the Hebrew term for the rank and file. “Sometimes the leadership is ahead, sometimes the grass roots is ahead — it usually averages out.”

Stephen Steinlight, a senior analyst with CIS who for six years has preached enforcement to Jewish audiences, said he couldn’t help but experience a degree of Schadenfreude at the results.

“I feel vindicated,” he said. “The survey signals a massive rejection against the worldview of the American Jewish establishment, which is monolithic. There’s not a single organization represented in the JCPA,” the Jewish Council for Public Affairs, the umbrella body for public policy groups, “that reflects these views.”

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Corruption In Jewish Law Courts

A.B. writes: I think that it is unanimously agreed that the state of Botei Din in the US is pathetic. Going to the Brooklyn Courts one comes across minyan after minyan of not only ultra Orthodox but even Chassidic Jews preferring to settle their disputes in goyshe court, or Arko’oys, as opposed to following the Halocho and going to Bais Din. In fact litigating in secular court is considered so severe that not only is the Plaintiff considered a desecrator of the A-mighty’s name and idolater, but even those who only offer moral support to the Plaintiff have the status of someone who is mechalel sheym shomayim.

What is it that causes purportedly G-d fearing Jews to break halocho with impunity and go to secular court? The answer is one word, CORRUPTION. It is obviously the corruption of the Plaintiff that is an issue here. But the overwelming issue is the CORRUPTION of the Botei Din and the Rabbinic Judges or Dayonim. They do so even pretend to follow Shulchan Oruch any longer.

Here is the basic problem. It is basic in Shulchan Oruch that a dayan may not get paid at all. However, it is permitted but seriously frowned upon, that a dayan may charge for his time with the proviso that what he charges is what he is otherwise capable of earning and that he actually has other work available to be done. Yet most daynim in the charedi world can barely speak English, could maybe get a rebbe job as alternative employment of at maximum $60k a year which translated to maybe $40 an hour, yet the Bais Din wants $300 per hour instead of $120 for the three dayonim. This is in complete violation of Jewish law, of basic morality, and one is in fact getting a bunch of crooks to judge one’s case if one uses such a Bais Din. Other egregious practices frequently employed by these Botei Din include favoring the rich and the powerful, again despicable conduct. They also allow a Toen or Rabbinic lawyer to represent the client, in complete disregard for Jewish law. These rabbinic lawyers teach the litigants how to lie in order to get the best verdicts for themselves. Some of these botei din ae so corrupt that they keep on postponing cases over and over again, making litigants come to court repeatedly purely to run up the bills of the litigants, including breaking to drink coffee or daven mincha.

What has gone from being a noble calling, has become a gutter profession of corrupt, heartless Judges selling themselves to the litigants and to the devil for easy money and quick riches. They are also prepared to issue false heterim or permission to go to secular court despite there being very stringent requirements in halocho, which is being abused all the time.

The modern orthodox courts are also guilty of severe despicable misconduct including using secular law as opposed to halocho to rule on disputes, especially when it comes to divorce. They also favor the woman completely and will issue completely fake seruvim against the man if he refuses to give his wife a get until she leaves secular court, which is the most basic fundamental of halocho. A longer article on this may follow subsequently.

Along came along a very great and noble individual. Rabbi Gestetner who is trying single handedly to slowly but surely clean up the despicable state of disrepute that the US Botei Din find themselves in. He has a Bais Din which firstly and foremostly costs nothing to go to to settle disputes, either financial or matrimonial. He also does not allow any Rabbinic Judges in is bais Din and everything follows Shulchan Oruch and no feminism is practiced by him.

He is universally disliked and feared because he is such a threat to the rabbinic bais din brothel like industry. Who would pay money for corruption when a Torah true Bais Din is available for no cost? Hence, he is condemned as being an extremist, old fashioned, pro man, anti secular etc. This is why Moses Kolodny prevents his daughter from going to the proper bais Din of Rabbi Gestetner, preferring instead to litigate with the Livingstone street court or Aryeh Ralbag.

There is a desperate campaign to prevent this grass roots movement against rabbinic corruption from succeeding. We can only wish that Justice will ultimately prevail over evil and all those fighting the Torah through their corrupt money making Botein Din will be exposed for the frauds they really are.

Here is an incomplete list of some of the biggest problems in the Bais Din industry.

1. Israel Belsky

2. Mendel Epstein

3. Peretz Steinberg

4. Aryeh Ralbag

5. Haim Kraus

6. Elimelech Zalman Lebowitz

7. Solomon Herbst

8. Tzvi / Hersh Meir Ginsberg

9. Osher Landau

10. Mordechai Wohlmark

11. Meir Landesman

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Jewish Las Vegas

I expect a Jewish newspaper to return to Las Vegas around Passover.

It will be called The Las Vegas Jewish Ink. It has no website yet.

“The Las Vegas Jewish Reporter” was closed by the local Federation last year.

Jewish Las Vegas is a feudal society. A few billionaires call the shots (some of the world’s wealthiest Jews live there, such as Sheldon Adelson of the Venetian) and the community is usually happy to follow their directions.

What troubles the Las Vegas Jewish Federation troubles most non-profits. There’s a lack of oversight. There’s not an engaged lay board. They’re not inspired and committed. They have no mission.

Casino operator Sheldon G. Adelson can write a $35 million check and start a Jewish day school in Las Vegas. It wasn’t a grassroots operation. It was top down.

It was all the don’s money and all the don’s way and serfs were only too happy for his generosity.

This reminds me of the difference between Stephen S. Wise temple (has the largest membership of any synagogue in the world last I knew) and Ohr HaTorah.

I used to go to Stephen S. Wise temple regularly for Shabbat between 1994-1997 (while also going regularly to Aish HaTorah). I loved it at both places.

Stephen S. Wise had a Sabbath morning program that started with a study session at 9am, followed by davening at 10am and lunch at noon.

Attendance at the study session was spotty. One Shabbat morning, one of the temple rabbis came in to conduct the study session and only a handful of people showed up. So it was decided top down to cancel the study session.

A lot of people got upset until Rabbi Tova August volunteered to lead the study session every Shabbat morning.

Towards the end of 1997, after this nastiness, I started going to Ohr HaTorah and though the Finleys ruled the roost, the temple was shot-through with enthusiasm and participation. It seemed like every member of the temple volunteered for some task (while almost all the work at Stephen S. Wise seemed to be done by the leadership and its employees).

The Happy Minyan, for instance, has leaders but it is still fundamentally a minyan where everybody shoulders the load.

YICC, by contrast, has a rabbi (Elazar Muskin) who is so hands on that he is also the shul’s executive director. Most shuls that size have two people doing those jobs.

So in Las Vegas, it’s not just the big shots seizing the power, the Adelsons and the Greenspuns etc, but the community cedes the power to them. It’s easier to give up responsibility. I know I don’t want to bother with too much volunteering. I want to concentrate on my blog and my love life.

The board of directors for the Jewish Federation of Las Vegas was chosen in a certain way. Then it was changed by the big shots. And the community went along because they were going to get a handout.

Given the level of in-fighting in the Las Vegas Jewish Federation, its very survival seems at stake. If things continue on their current course, if this story enters the mainstream news media, the Federation will dissolve because people will stop donating time and money. So what will replace it? Something better?

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Dennis Prager For President

During his second hour of his radio show today, Dennis Prager said: “If I ran for president, and I am actually thinking of doing so, I don’t expect to win but I would like to throw my hat in because I believe the number of Republicans who can inspire Americans to understand the great American calling is small. I wish it weren’t because I am not a political animal.”

In marketing terms, this is called “the reluctant hero.”

Think about the protagonist in Gladiator, Braveheart or The Patriot. These are reluctant heroes. They just want to stay home to be with their families. They don’t want to fight. They only fight because the bad guys give them no choice.

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Attention Is Our Substitute For Love

From my live cam:

Mary: Maybe it’s the holidays but the extracarricular flirting is reaching critical mass.
Mary: And it’s fun and long-distance, so why stop?
Mary: But since nothing fun is right, it must be wrong.
Mary: Right?
YourMoralLeader: flirting on whose part?
YourMoralLeader: yeah, it is not good, drains your sexual essence
Mary: Others start it, I feed it.
Mary: And feed on it.
Mary: I absolutely live on adoration. I’m an addict. Attention is my drug of choice.
YourMoralLeader: Attention is our substitute for love
Mary: That’s just it, it’s not. It’s all part of it. I love and am loved but it’s never enough. I think “attention whore” is a pretty good descriptor. After all, people ‘pay’ attention, and the result is an almost sexual thrill. Or an actual sexual thrill, depending on the attention paid.

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Lost Journal Entry by Luke Ford

January 3

I’ve been having nightmares about the wallaby again, mate.

When one of those blasted buggers decides to have a go at you, there’s nothing you can do. They’re vicious creatures.

I stare into the wallaby’s black eyes. I’m deadly scared.

“I did it all to honk off my Dad!” I cry.

That’s when the wallaby starts kicking me. Kicking me to bloody pieces. Their back legs are spring-loaded; they’re like bands of steel, mate.

I squeal and begin to sob: “Nay…nay….”

My Dad always warned me I’d grow up to be a ponce. Is this my comeuppance for stealing Cocoa Krispies from the homeless and gloating over the sugary treats?

As the savage marsupial mounts me, I hear the voice of my Dad yelling “Sinkers or floaters today, boy? You’re nothing but a sinker in the bowl of life.”

I squeal like a girl as I awaken, choking on my protective mouth guard. I’ve got the fear, mate. The wallaby is coming for me.

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Operation Optimism

My New Jersey friend Alec Borenstein is an attorney and a life coach.

He has this Facebook group “Operation Optimism.”

“We’re constantly bombarded with negative imagery,” says Alec. “If you just watch the 11pm news, you will see that almost every story is about what we should be afraid of, what we should run from. All these different ways of closing ourselves off as people. With Operation Optimism, I want to create a community of people who focus on what is going well in the world.”

I interview Alec at my hovel on Sunday.

“We’re not going to be unreasonably optimistic,” he says. “The idea is to understand the reality of our situation and to change it, to move towards a more positive direction.”

“If you focus on what is going well in your life, you can change more effectively.”

Alec’s father Abraham is also an attorney as well as a Broadway producer.

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Immigration News

From CIS.org:

1. Backgrounder: A Bailout for Illegal Immigrants? Lessons from the Implementation of the 1986 IRCA Amnesty
2. Backgrounder: Religious Leaders vs. Members: An Examination of Contrasting Views on Immigration
3. Backgrounder: Immigration Policy in Free Societies: Are There Principles Involved or Is It All Politics?
4. Memorandum: Immigration-Related Provisions of Senate and House Health Reform Bills
5. Video: Three Years of Fraud in the U.S.: The Case of Manoj Kargudri
6. Blog: Marriage Fraud Bill–An Argument for a Targeted Approach to Immigration Reform
7. Blog: The American-Bashers Revisited
8. Blog: Dead on Arrival
9. Blog: Let’s Abolish the Casino Visas

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Afraid To Love

The call came in at 8:43 pm, Dec. 31.

He knew why she was calling then. She’d only be able to talk for a few minutes before she’d have to join her family for the new year. They were on the East Coast.

By calling now, she was fulfilling her obligation to return his call, she was holding up her end of the relationship, and she was getting away from talking to him for more than a few minutes.

When he picked her up at the airport at 11:10 pm Sunday, she said, “Can I drive?”

It threw him off. Traffic was dense. He wanted to get the show on the road.

“Get in,” he said.

She stood her ground. “Can I drive?”

“Why?” he said.

“I feel barfy,” she said. “I don’t think I can be a passenger without throwing up.”

He surrendered and let her drive. It was her car afterall.

“I’m going to need your help getting out of here,” she said. “I always get lost.”

As he explained it to her, he sat in the passenger seat and felt emasculated.

Five minutes before, he’d felt loving. Now he felt like a dick.

She was her chirpy chipper happy self. She was loving and affectionate. She was always like this after cutting off his dick.

He sat awkwardly and felt disconnected.

She stroked his thigh and said loving things.

He responded minimally.

“Are you OK?” she said. She could pick up something was wrong.

“You’ll want to get in the far left lane,” he said, “so you can take Airport to La Tijera and then to La Cienega.”

“Oh,” she said, “I just go straight to La Cienega.”

“Then why did you ask for my directions?” he thought.

It wasn’t until they were back at his place and the car was stopped that he could bring her into his arms and return her affection.

At therapy the next day, he found himself parroting lines from the book “Passionate Marriage.” He found it enormously amusing to have this new vocabulary.

“I don’t feel close to you today,” said his therapist. “You use the vocabulary to distance yourself from me.”

He told her about how much he was growing from staying in an unsafe relationship.

“What do you get out of an unsafe relationship?” she asked.

“I can leave at any time,” he said. “No hard feelings. I’m not losing anything. I’m with someone who has contempt for me. We’re not building anything. So I’m free to leave at any time with no regrets.”

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