Six Days Shomer Brit!

I realize I used to store up eroticized rage scenarios through the day to treasure during alone time. Now no treasuring. I wonder how this will change me? I went about 15 months in 1990-1991 as I got into Judaism.

Gary Wilson writes: “Scientists are discovering a neurochemical “hangover” after sexual satiety, which if overridden by more ejaculation, adversely affects mood and the ability to cope with stimulants. First we’ll look at the science; then we’ll consider what it might mean for those masturbating more frequently than they would have without Internet porn.”

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He Left It All On The Field

“If you keep writing as you’re writing, will you accomplish the things you want to accomplish in the rest of your life?” his therapist asked him.

He thought about that for a long time and finally, reluctantly, quietly, answered, “no.”

“I know we’ll talk about how I can modify my writing to fit my life, but I am more interested in fitting my life to my writing. When I have money, I go out in the evenings to writer gatherings and then I’m less vulnerable to feeling ostracized in Orthodox life. I have my writer community. When I have no money, I can’t drive anywhere, and I just go to shul. It’s free.”

“If you died tomorrow,” his therapist asked, “would you have accomplished what you wanted in life?”

“No,” he said. “I would not. That possibility fills me with ache, with loss. Those are the themes I’m driven to write about. I can write about happy things but they’re not what I vibrate to and therefore they have no power. In many senses, I have no choice but to write about what moves me — loss. Some people would call it negativity. Whatever you call it, that’s what moves me. That’s what gives me the energy to write. Writing is exhausting. Unless I’m moved, my writing doesn’t pack a punch and has no effect on the world.”

“I haven’t accomplished what I wanted in life. I haven’t married and I haven’t had children, but there are moments after I’ve poured everything out in a blog post that I lie back exhausted, having left everything I’ve got on the field of dreams. I’ve poured it all out. I’ve gone as deep as I can. I’ve been as honest as I can. I’ve given everything I can. And in those moments, I feel a deep sense of doing what I was put on earth to do. I’ve surrendered to my task, no matter what the consequences to my life.”

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Who Are The Richest Rabbis in Israel? Also: Shocking Vandalism at Yad Vashem

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LAT: Chabad of North Hollywood’s building-in-progress is too big for the neighborhood?

LAT: For two decades, Dee Tuntkavep has enjoyed a view of pine-shrouded Chandler Boulevard from the upstairs reading room of her Sherman Oaks home.

Now all she sees are concrete walls two stories high — the still-in-progress expansion of an Orthodox Jewish house of worship. In fact, plans for the upgraded Chabad of North Hollywood are for a structure nearly nine times the size of the prayer house it replaces.

On its website, the Chabad gives thanks: “Divine Providence has finally shined down on this long-awaited project.”

Litigation, however, has brought the project to a virtual halt.

Tuntkavep and dozens of other residents say the new building’s size — 12,000 square feet squeezed onto a 9,568-square-foot parcel zoned for residential — is just too big for the surrounding blocks of single-family homes, some starting at more than $1 million.

“It’s like a mountain,” Tuntkavep said. “How did this happen?”

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Silenced: How Apostasy and Blasphemy Codes are Choking Freedom Worldwide

Book description: The fatwa against Salman Rushdie and the 2005 Danish cartoon fracas awakened many people to the potency of blasphemy accusations in the Muslim world. Accusations and charges such as “blasphemy,” “apostasy,” “insulting Islam,” or “hurting Muslims’ religious feelings” pose a far greater danger than censorship of irreverent caricatures of Mohammad: they are increasingly used as key tools by authoritarian governments and extremist forces in the Muslim world to acquire and consolidate power. These charges, which draw on disputed interpretations of Islamic law and carry a traditional punishment of death, have proved effective in crushing or intimidating not only converts and heterodox groups, but also political and religious reformers. In fact, one reason for the recent growth of more repressive forms of Islam is their use of accusations of blasphemy, apostasy, and related charges to intimidate and silence their religious opponents and make any criticism of their own actions and ideas religiously suspect. The effect of such laws thus goes far beyond what might narrowly be called religious matters. This volume provides the first world survey of the range and effects of apostasy and blasphemy accusations in the contemporary Muslim world, in international organizations, and in the West. The authors argue that we need to understand the context, history, impact, and mechanics of the blasphemy phenomenon in modern Muslim societies and guidance on how to effectively respond.

The book covers the persecution of Muslims who convert to another religion or decide that they have become agnostic or atheists, as well as ‘heretics:’ those who are accused of claiming a prophet after Mohammed, such as Baha’is and Ahmadis. It also documents the political effects in Muslim societies of blasphemy and apostasy laws, as well as non-governmental fatwas and vigilante violence. It describes the cases of hundreds of victims, including political dissidents, religious reformers, journalists, writers, artists, movie makers, and religious minorities throughout the Muslim world.

Finally, it addresses the legal evolution toward new blasphemy laws in the West; the increasing use of laws on “toleration” in the West, which may become surrogate blasphemy laws; increasing pressure by Muslim governments to make Western countries and international organizations enforce laws to restrict speech; and the increasing use of violence to stifle expression in the West even in the absence of law.

“Islamists, claiming they want only respect for their religion, are imposing brutal punishments for apostasy and blasphemy in the non-Muslim as well as the Muslim world. In this eloquent and definitive work Marshall and Shea make a powerful case that for us to accommodate this, anywhere, would be disastrous–weakening truly moderate Muslims and those of us who support them, and seriously crippling our own freedoms of speech and religion.”– R. James Woolsey, Chairman, Foundation for Defense of Democracies; Former Director of Central Intelligence

“The book offers an extensive survey of blasphemy and its effects on Muslim societies and individuals, with a consideration of analogous developments in the contemporary West. The ad hoc way of enforcing blasphemy laws is placed in the framework of classical Islamic discussion where blasphemy is a function of state jurisdiction rather than simply of vigilante activism. As the book makes clear, evidence of arbitrary use of blasphemy is evidence also of contested state jurisdiction. This is a most valuable study.”
— Lamin Sanneh, D. Willis James Professor of Missions & World Christianity, Yale University

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In Paradisum

In paradisum deducant angeli
Perducant te Jerusalem
Te decet hymnus Deus in Zion
Et tibi in Jerusalem
Luceat eis et lux perpetua
Luceat eis Domine
Lux aeterna

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Seventh-Day Adventists Who Seem As Religious As Orthodox Jews

An Orthodox Jewish friend of mine is having trouble passing a particular test. So his Seventh-Day Adventist coworker advises him to fast. And if he can’t fast from food, he should go on a media fast.

“They’re like Orthodox Jews,” said my friend.

It shakes you up when you meet people who are as religious as you and as God-fearing but belong to a different religion.

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‘You’ve Put Me In A Very Awkward Position’

There are certain phrases I keep hearing throughout my life, such as “You’re not welcome here.” And then I appeal for help and I hear, “You’ve put me in a very awkward position.”

The themes of my life — provocation, estrangement, rejection, reconciliation — replay themselves endlessly. The record of my life is stuck on the turnstile.

Today was no different from Gavin Brown’s birthday party in second grade when I was not invited and then my friend’s mom intervened on my behalf and then the other kids let me know, “We didn’t want you here. We were forced.”

My therapist suggested I call my memoir, “The Uninvited.”

D. emails: I’ll put you in an awkward position, you little ponce!

Here we go again. My fair-dinkum lad — Sunny Jim as I call him — whinges and cries on his ridiculous “blog” that he’s “the uninvited.” There’s a reason for that, you bloody little cretin: You act like the back-end of a wombat and most people don’t like it. Stop making excuses for yourself and try to act like a normal, decent human being. Stop being a self-centered narcissist. Stop acting like a fair-dinkum sheila! I may be old, but I’m not too old to shove a cane toad in your mouth and give you a bloody wallop in the jaw with a cricket bat. And your email boyfriend Greg Leake? You go right ahead and take his advice to learn the manly art of boxing. There may be snow on my roof, but I’ll still knock you two poofters to the ground with one hand tied behind my back. That Mr. Leake writes you emails as if you were somebody who had something of value to say, boggles the mind. He’s a bigger drongo than you, mate. I tried to set you right when you were a wee little joey. Look how you’ve turned out. Go take a hard stare in a mirror, “Levi.” You’re a fraud, a layabout, a good-for-nothing excuse of a son. Now, your brother Paul? There’s a lad! If only I had throttled you at birth.

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Clear And Present Danger

Stephen Steinlight emails: We have reached a moment of political crisis. Our President has trampled on the Constitution and is making immigration policy as if he were out dictator. I urge all who care about fixing our broken immigration system, ending open-borders immigration, and, even more important, preserving our democratic rights and the integrity of the US Constitution to react with fury and disgust to the mass illegal amnesty President Obama announced Friday. I urge you to contact the White House so they can be in no doubt about the outrage of the American people.

Just as crucial, I urge you to contact elected Republican officials and any close to, with influence on, or working on Romney’s election team to deliver the following message in the clearest terms: President Obama has taken ethnic pandering to an all-time low and in doing so he has given Governor Romney an historic opportunity. Romney must show civic courage and double-down on his tough immigration policy and make a speech to the American people telling them the first duty of the President is to secure the life, liberty and livelihoods of American citizens — not abuse our Founding documents and political process to amnesty lawbreakers for political advantage. Romney must lambaste Obama for betraying American citizens during the worst period of unemployment since the Great Depression. He should not hesitate to define what Obama has done in blunt, accurate language: Obama has flouted the Democratic system and has chosen to play the role of dictator.

On Friday, President Obama issued an amnesty vastly larger in scale than the DREAM ACT he could not secure in Congress. Impatient with our system of democratic rule through our elected representatives, this post-American tin-horn tyrant has circumvented Congress, abused his limited power of administrative parole, and by Executive order has announced that MILLIONS of illegal aliens under the age of 31 can remain in America indefinitely. He will issue work permits to these permanently paroled lawbreakers that will allow them to unfairly compete for jobs with our 20 million unemployed Americans and create even higher hurdles for millions of American students graduating high school and college — people for whom he cares not a whit.

He appears utterly unfazed by the fact that he has shown open contempt for the Constitution of the United States. Law-making powers are given exclusively to Congress by the Constitution. All immigration policy powers are given to Congress alone. Granting de facto amnesty to millions of illegal aliens is an act beyond the authority of the President. He has heaped scorn on the Constitution and shown indifference to 20 million unemployed Americans.

If you believe in your country, you must take a few minutes and call the White House Comment Line at 202-456-1111 and express your indignation. Let the White House know that by granting this imperial amnesty Obama has destroyed his chances of re-election. If that number isn’t working, then call the White House switchboard at 202-456-1414.

Again, no not forget to contact every Republican that counts, every Republican with access to Governor Romney and convey the message that if he sticks to his tough position on immigration he can regard this election as won. Call and leave messages for your Republican member of Congress and your Republican Senators.

Only one thing can stop this monumentally ill-considered act from being suicidal for Obama: If Romney permits weak-kneed Republicans like Jeb Bush and others to pressure him to soften his stance on illegal immigration. If he wisely ignores their advice he will win 10 Independents for every Hispanic to whom Obama has pandered. He will also have a greatly enhanced chance of winning several Blue States in the Rust Belt as working voters defect from the Democrats and support his candidacy to protect their jobs from illegal aliens.

Please get to work and stay on the job. If we lose this battle we lose America.

Please believe me.

Very truly yours,

Stephen Steinlight

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Rabbi Meir Soloveichik’s Good Work For The Lord

Rabbi Meir Soloveichik was a scholar in residence at YICC about nine years ago, before he had his PhD.

Then, about four years ago, he was in residence one weekend at Bnai David-Judea.

This week he was in Los Angeles representing Yeshiva University, where he’s the director of the Straus Center for Torah and Western Thought.

Big whoopy doo, you say. Who cares?

Well, Rabbi Meir Soloveichik is not only American Orthodox Judaism’s leading public intellectual, he’s about American Orthodox Judaism’s only public intellectual. Which other Orthodox Jews speak from the Jewish tradition about the wider world in the esteemed intellectual publications?

Friday night, Rabbi Meir Soloveichik spoke at a home near Young Israel of North Beverly Hills about Adams, Jefferson and the Jews.

On Shabbos morning, he spoke at Beth Jacob about “Tebow and Tefilla.”

He opened with five minutes on why Tim Tebow matters. He’s the most public prayer in America today. There’s a website about his form of prayer — Tebowing.com.

Rabbi Meir Soloveichik said Ashkenazi Jews do their own form of Tebowing — Tachanun.

The rabbi listed several reasons why this form of prayer is important but I’ve forgotten them.

Rabbi Meir Soloveichik apparently believes that Tim Tebow will soon be the starting quarterback for the New York Jets.

The rabbi praised the way the quarterback was unafraid to pray publicly. The rabbi praised the quarterback’s charitable works, such as flying in sick kids to his games and meeting with them before and after the contests, often spending an hour after games and bringing his teammates with him.

Before mincha, Rabbi Meir Soloveichik spoke at YICC about the special relationship between Margaret Thatcher and Britain’s former Chief Rabbi Immanuel Jacobvits.

The rabbi said that a few years ago at a Hanukkah party at the White House, President Bush put his arm around him and said, “Thank you for your good work for the Lord.”

The rabbi doubted whether the president truly knew if the rabbi was doing good work for the Lord, but the rabbi is attempting to do good work for the Lord with his Straus Center for Torah and Western Thought. The rabbi said that Orthodox Jews should not just benefit from America, but give back to it from the wisdom of their tradition.

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