Taking Advantage of Women Thinking I’m Gay

A theater director writes in the February issue of a men’s sophisticate:

If people want to make assumptions, why not use it to my advantage? For instance, if a woman tinks you’re gay, she’s automatically more physical wiht you. Igave my future ex-wife (an actor) plenty of my famous back rubs before she figured out I wasn’t a fabulous gay man. In fact, she and a male cast member were taking bets on which of them was going to hook up with me first. …Allowing women to entertain this possibility not only makes me more approachable, it makes me more of a romantic challenge.

…These days, I try not to date actors. They’re crazy and demand constant attention. Women who work backstage, on the other hand, are a lot more down-to-earth.

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Miri Ben-Ari – The Israeli Hip-Hop Violinist

I just read an interview with this Israeli girl in the February issue of Penthouse.

From Wikipedia:

Miri Ben-Ari (born 1978), a Grammy Award winning violinist, originally from Israel. Her unique strings sound has revolutionized music by fusing classical, jazz, R&B and hip hop, creating a sound all her own.

Collaborating with Grammy award winning artists such as Kanye West, Jay-Z, Wyclef Jean, Alicia Keys, Wynton Marsalis, Britney Spears, Maroon 5, Patti Labelle, Brandy, Donna Summer, Janet Jackson and John Legend, Anthony Hamilton and Scarface, this classically trained musician has helped selling millions of records, being recognized as a pioneer.

Miri Ben-Ari who once studied under the late classical master Isaac Stern is today an “Apollo Legend”, also known as “The Hip Hop Violinist”(Universal Records). She has been recently the voice of “I Am What I Am” Reebok’s global print and TV advertising campaign, Pepsi and Coca Cola commercials and the voice of VH1 "Save the Music", promoting live music and music education across the US. She is currently working on a new humanitarian and educational campaign “Gedenk” (remember) dedicated to the Jewish Holocaust.

Miri is the featured violinist and writer for the 2007 film The Freedom Writers starring actress Hilary Swank, she is one of “Jewish Women International’s 10 Women To Watch of 2007” and won the JVIBE ward for the 2007 Best Israeli Artist. Her single "Symphony of Brotherhood" is the first Instrumental single ever to hit on the R&B/ Hip Hop charts, MTV and VH1.

In 2007 Miri Ben-Ari has appeared on "Sesame Street", Aventura’s “Sold Out at Madison Square Garden” concert and album, at Lincoln Center for “VH1 Save The Music Gala”, at Radio City Hall "Fashion Rocks" and “The Dream Concert” along side with Jennifer Lopez, Alicia Keys, Fergie, Usher, John Mayer, Mary J. Blige, Jennifer Hudson, Stevie Wonder, Aretha Franklin, Garth Brooks and Carlos Santana among others.

Miri Ben-Ari has been performing for Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton as a part of the 2008 presidential campaign.

Her most recent album, The Hip-Hop Violinist, was released on September 20, 2005.

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‘You Did The Same Thing To Jesus!’

I’ve put aside the sacred texts to produce this Jane Fonda-style workout video to the theme of Rocky.

Chaim Amalek writes:

If you were more entrepreneurial, you would be rich!
Think: baseball trading cards but with rabbis instead of sportsmen.
Think: a series of photos of homeless men.
Think: a table book with photos of the homeless mixed in with photos of the rabbinate.

Bob emails: "Am I the only one who pictures Luke as a demented Howar Hughes-type shut in? Cover his jowls with a long gray beard and fill the hovel full of jars of Luke’s own urine and he’s there."

Khunrum emails:

Luke, I believe we all applaud your new fitness regimen. Btw How many laps around The Hovel makes a mile?

You should walk in to the various shuls that have barred you, Camera of Death ON. You film them throwing you out. You remind them that they did the same thing to Jesus and you wouldn’t want to see them making another mistake. You ask Rabbi Weil if can recommend a decent stable where you might spend the night with your pregnant wife. You get the idea.

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‘Five Easy Decades: How Jack Nicholson Became the Biggest Movie Star in Modern Times’

I love this new book by Dennis McDougal and not just because I get a mention in the thank-you section.

Publishers Weekly says:

Taking on not just a legendary subject, but a legendarily private subject-refusing biographers and TV personalities, Nicholson prefers "the occasional magazine Q&A or quickie newspaper interview"-author and New York Times film writer McDougal (Privileged Son) has turned out a model biography: exhaustive, full of action, and startlingly illuminating. Nicholson-flamboyant yet guarded, outrageous yet articulate, charming yet polarizing-has marched to his own drummer for 50 years, heading up a parade of celebrated films and famous women, eliciting strong opinions in just about everyone; as such, McDougal presents an engrossing showcase of big films and bigger personalities. Following a modest, fatherless New Jersey childhood, Nicholson set out on a California odyssey that would require stamina, guts and luck, as "eking out a living" in the early sixties gave way to the career-making premier of Easy Rider: " ‘I had been around long enough to know while sitting in that audience, I had become a movie star.’ " Los Angeles plays a starring role, giving Nicholson his wild lifestyle, a loyal, eclectic roster of friends and a long-time neighbor in Marlon Brando. Digging up as many roles offstage as on-hardheaded businessman, softhearted friend, master of rude rejoinders, fanatical sports fan and poetic philosopher-McDougal makes Nicholson’s everyday life just as fascinating as his films, which also get considerable, thoughtful attention; in fact, McDougal’s research is so deep and detailed, his extensive chapter notes could make a fine book of their own.

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What’s Now Vs. What’s Next

My friend emails:

The Democratic party base is about what is next, not what is now. Contrast that with the Republicans who are about what is the past, not what is now. What is now is probably John Edwards and Rudy Giuliani – bona fide intelligent qualified candidates who can lead and convince people to go their way. They have led, Rudy in New York and John leading juries by the short hairs to grant him $25 million verdicts. Both are finished. The Republican party wants to look back – they want the safety of a McCain or the kind of predictability of an empty suit like Romney. As for the dems it is much more complex – clearly each of Hillary and Obama is what is next. On the one hand a woman president who represents the apotheosis of the liberal baby boomers. On the other hand, a black man right out of central casting who, if he is not shot before taking office, could probably make the peace between right and left, black and white and Britney and K-fed.

For the democratic base, namely, gays, blacks, feminists, unions, and teachers, it is a real challenging choice. Hillary is blessed and plagued by Bill. Money, apparently, can’t buy or rent the nomination. Obama is hobbled by his true lack of experience and his race – there is no question that he has no credentials to be president – and if you are an intellectually honest liberal, the moral of george W. bush is that experience matters. The other thing is that while liberals are willing to allow unqualified blacks in the door through affirmative action, governing is a whole separate matter. Tom Bradley could not get elected governor in California against a soporific Armenian, and Obama should not be permitted to be president, even against the post-menopausal and narcissistic Hillary.

Ultimately, the Hillary/Obama clash threatens the party’s chances in 2008. The party least divided tends to win and it is clear that the republicans are intent on uniting on someone, anyone, and GWB will open his fundraising prowess to get that person the $$$ to compete. Dems have to hope that super Tuesday is decisive, and my guess is that Hillary will pull NY and CA and then the white vote will flock to her.

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The news industry must break its habit of hiding its best editorial content if it is to use online to reverse its decline in readership

Robert Niles writes for OJR:

Everyday I check the website of the Pasadena Star-News. And every day, the front section of the website’s homepage is obscured by a pop-up widget urging me to take a survey about the site’s new design. Click the red "X" in the corner to close the widget window, and the op-up appears every time you return to the page. (If you click the button decling to take the survey, the window disappears for the remainder of your session.)

If I register with the LA Times website, the Times insists on spamming me with commercial e-mails for products about which I do not care. If I opt-out of the e-mails, the Times cancels my website registration. (Which is why I don’t have a Times website registration anymore, and read the site via BugMeNot. More about that in a moment.)

And let’s not forget the slew of pop-up, pop-under and screen take-over ads that accompany any visit to more newspaper websites than I am any longer able to count.

Again… ugh.

Yeah, well, publishers owe readers nothing also. There’s nothing wrong with publishers, like readers, acting completely in their own self-interest. For professional publishers, that’s usually going to mean squeezing every possible penny of profit from their operation, even if means doing all the ugly things Niles complains about. I’ve usually put my writing ahead of my economics, but then times get tough like now and I have to put my bottom line ahead of my writing. I hate using a lot of ads and pop-ups but I have to pay the rent. I’ll stop using intrusive ads at the point where they cost me more money than they bring in.

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Rex Morgan Out Of The Closet

What’s going on with this comic strip?

According to the syndicator:

Created in 1948 by the late Dr. Nicholas P. Dallis, a psychiatrist from Scottsdale, Arizona, Rex Morgan M.D. continues to be the quintessential family practice physician.

Dr. Dallis created Rex Morgan not only as an exciting and entertaining comic strip, but also as an educational tool: a comic strip that would heighten the awareness of readers about the importance of modern medicine.

Over the years we have seen Rex deal with the compelling medical and social issues of our times — drug abuse, domestic violence, HIV/AIDS, tuberculosis, diabetes, organ transplants, adoption and sexual harassment, just to name a few. There have been more than a few documented cases in which readers were actually able to identify illnesses in themselves from information presented in Rex Morgan M.D.

The strip’s realism has made it a valuable resource for health care professionals around the country. The Leahy Foundation used a Rex Morgan series on epilepsy as a teaching tool for professionals and students at Harvard University. The Cuyahoga County Witness/Victim Service Center Family Violence Program in New York used a Rex Morgan segment in its handbook for battered women.

Rex Morgan M.D. appears in over 300 newspapers nationwide, and with an estimated 30 million readers every day in the United States and 14 foreign countries, Rex continues to be one of the most well known and best-loved physicians in the world.

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Luke Ford Has Lost His Mind!

Bornyo writes on XPT: "He’s giving away his biggest selling book for FREE! Go to www.lukeford.net When you get the popup asking for your email addy fill it out. You’ll get an email linking to the free pdf file of "XXX-Communicated: A Rebel Without a Shul" Why Luke? Why why why?"

Jim writes: "I’ve been wanting to check this out, but not enough to pay for it."

Bornyo writes: "Ditto. I bought "Lives on the Edge", but I’d never read this one. Maybe he is opposed to collecting royalties derived from porn."

Jim posts: "He could always donate the royalties to charity. On second thought, he is a charity case. Never mind."

Have writes: "Maybe he just wants someone, anyone to read it. I’m sure it was a lot of work to write."

NitneLiun writes Holly: "That was a wonderful mental image until I remembered you were Luke’s main squeeze for a time."

Holly replies: "According to him. Not in my world."

NitneLiun writes: "He may not have been your main squeeze but you were his. We’ve all seen the pics (remember wearing his gray underwear?) and your posts in which you admitted having a fling with him. Don’t make me dig back through the archives to find them."

Holly replies: "Hey I’m not denying anything… it is a time in my life that will haunt me forever! But you know, I don’t regret it. I don’t regret anything I’ve done in my life because it led me to where I am today, and that’s in a good place."

K1ng writes: "Holly, are you saying that your relationship with Luke was the "hitting rock bottom" moment that forced you to address the problems in your life?"

Holly replies: "I don’t want to say that Luke was the defining factor in me hitting rock bottom, but that was the moment in my life that yes, I hit my bottom. As much as it may have seemed that Luke treated me badly on his blog, I wasn’t exactly good to him either — and for that I actually owe him an apology."

Dean writes: "Ironically while being with Luke is considered to be your "rock bottom" his being with you should be considered his crowning achievement."

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What You Have To Believe To Be A Republican Today

Dennis Prager responds:

1. "Saddam was a good guy when Reagan armed him, a bad guy when Bush’s daddy made war on him, a good guy when Cheney did business with him and a bad guy when Bush needed a ‘we can’t find Bin Laden.’"

Response: Saddam Hussein was always considered a bad guy by anyone with a working moral compass, and that included Democratic President Bill Clinton and his administration. The main reason that President Ronald Reagan armed Saddam Hussein was so as to enable Saddam to fight against Iran so that Iran would not be the dominant power in the Muslim Middle East. Arming an evil man to fight another evil man does not make the former less of an evil man. America aided Stalin’s genocidal Communist Soviet Union in order for him to better fight against Hitler. And after World War II, America aided some former Nazis in order to be able to fight Stalin. That is moral wisdom, not hypocrisy.

2. "Trade with Cuba is wrong because the country is communist, but trade with China and Vietnam is vital to a spirit of international harmony."

Response: For the left, the desire to normalize relations with Communist regimes has been a constant. Liberals who were not on the far left and conservatives alike fought some Communist regimes — militarily as in Vietnam and Korea, and economically as in Cuba — and normalized relations with some others. Mature people know that they have to pick and choose which evils can be fought and which cannot. Having said that, there are good arguments on both sides about whether to lift the embargo on Cuba since the fall of the Soviet Union.

3. "The United States should get out of the United Nations…"

Response: Very few Republicans advocate America getting out of the United Nations, but Republicans do regularly point out the UN’s dismal record on human rights — as when Sudan, a regime regarded even by most of the left as engaged in genocide, was made vice-chair (with Cuba) of the UN Human Rights Commission. The UN has failed virtually all victims of mass murder since its inception — including most recently those in the Rwanda genocide. The UN has done commendable work on some health matters, but otherwise it has been worse than morally worthless. The UN has become a haven for the cruelest regimes on earth. The left’s adulation of the UN is but one more example of its preference for institutions over fighting evil.

4. "A woman can’t be trusted with decisions about her own body, but multinational corporations can make decisions affecting all mankind without regulation."

Response: Unlike those on the left, many Republicans, not to mention medical science, view a human fetus as having its own body and not being a mere extension of a woman’s body. People can differ on the legality of early abortions — not every immoral action is necessarily illegal — but to belittle the killing of a human fetus for no medical reason as "a woman doing what she wants with her own body" is only one more example of the left’s broken moral compass.

5. "Jesus loves you, and shares your hatred of homosexuals and Hillary Clinton."

Response: No mainstream Republican or conservative has ever said that he or she, let alone Jesus, hates homosexuals. But because there is so much hatred on the left for Republicans and for religious conservatives, many on the left, like the writer of this list, constantly accuse Republicans and conservatives of being haters. It is usually projection.

6. "The best way to improve military morale is to praise the troops in speeches, while slashing veterans’ benefits and combat pay."

Response: There are many ways to improve military morale. One is to increase the military budget, not to slash it as the Clinton administration did; to honor military heroes during wartime, not to feature front page article after front page article about troops who murder when they come home, as The New York Times has been doing for weeks, or publish fraudulent articles, as the New Republic recently did, about our troops committing atrocities; and to allow the military to recruit on college campuses, something many liberal colleges ban.

7. "If condoms are kept out of schools, adolescents won’t have sex."

Response: While many Republicans believe that teenage sexual standards should be left to parents and not to schools, no mainstream Republican has ever argued, "If condoms are kept out of schools, adolescents won’t have sex." But many people, not just Republicans, think that teaching "safe sex" to middle schoolers sends a message to young minds that society assumes they will have sexual intercourse. And what society assumes usually happens. When society assumed teenagers should not have sex, they rarely had it. For generations before schools put condoms on bananas, there was far less teenage sex because society has a profound impact on teenage sexual behavior. The message in schools since then has often been that the only reason not to have sex at age 16 (or 15 or 14) is that you might get pregnant or contract a sexually transmitted disease. The portrayal of sex as almost exclusively a biological act has been one of contemporary liberalism’s greatest sins against young people.

8. "HMOs and insurance companies have the best interests of the public at heart." continued…

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What Percentage Of Orthodox Jews Take Their Cases To Secular Courts Rather Than Religious Courts?

A Jew is supposed to resolve his issues within the community and not look to the goyim and their legal system for redress.

I say, can’t we all get along? If you’ve got a problem with somebody, don’t sue him in either Jewish or goyisha court. Be a man, even if you’re a woman, and redress your grievances through my blog. It’s what G-d would want  you to do.

There are three principal reasons why a well-meaning pious Orthodox Jew might take his lawsuit with a fellow religious Jew to a secular court:

* He regards the Beit Din (Jewish Law Court) as corrupt. Traditionally, each litigant chooses one judge and then the two judges select a third judge. There’s been a lot of corruption. Women in particular have often been screwed. They’ve been counseled to patch things up with their husband rather than been granted a divorce and thick settlement.

* The case revolves around complex secular laws that few rabbis have expertise in.

* Kishke writes: "Where the Beis Din allows one party to take the case there, since the opposing party refuses the summons to Beis Din. In that case it’s not frowned upon at all (except by ignoramuses)."

Still, it is usually discouraged in Orthodox life to sue another frum Jew in secular court.

Rabbi Michael Broyde (at Emory University) is trying to restore the credibility of the Beit Din system.

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