Dennis Quaid Vs Cedars-Sinai Medical Center

Here are the legal details: Case Type: Civil Petition – Other (General Jurisdiction) Case#: BS118282 CASE NAME: DENNIS QUAID ET AL VS CEDARS-SINAI MEDICAL CENTER Parties: CEDARS-SINAI MEDICAL CENTER – Def/Res,QUAID DENNIS – PL/PET,QUAID KIMBERLY – PL/PET Attorneys: PIVO KENNETH R. ESQ. – Attorney for PL/PET Date Filed: 12/15/2008

From the Los Angeles Times:

Dennis Quaid and his wife Kimberly reached a settlement with Cedars-Sinai Medical Center for $750,000 over a medication error last year that nearly killed the couple’s twin infants, according to papers filed Monday in Los Angeles County Superior Court.

Nurses at the hospital mistakenly gave twins Thomas Boone and Zoe Grace 1,000 times the recommended dose of the blood thinner heparin, leaving them vulnerable to uncontrolled bleeding and leaving them, for a time, in critical condition.

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Jewish Philanthropy Devasted By Bernie Madoff

From the Jerusalem Post:

At least $600 million in Jewish charitable funds have been wiped out by the collapse of Bernard Madoff’s Wall Street investment firm, a partial review by The Jerusalem Post revealed Monday.

Yet much is still hidden about what may amount to the most spectacular financial disaster to hit Jewish life since the Great Depression, with unconfirmed losses totaling up to $1.5 billion.

Furthermore, the Post’s figures do not include billions of dollars lost to individual and family investors, many of whom were the primary donors to Jewish schools, synagogues and communal charities.

The Madoff scandal erupted last Thursday when the 70-year-old financier was arrested on a single count of securities fraud at his Park Avenue home after being turned in by his sons.

Prosecutors contend that Madoff, who is free on a $10 million bond, told employees of Bernard L. Madoff Investment Securities that he had lost as much as $50 billion in investor funds and reportedly described his operation as "a giant Ponzi scheme."

For the worldwide Jewish community, the fact that the man at the heart of what may be Wall Street’s worst-ever fraud was an active member of the community could be the worst news yet in a bad recession period. Not only could Madoff’s alleged dishonesty increase anti-Semitic feeling in a time of worldwide economic downturn, said many Jewish leaders, but his close involvement with the Jewish community has exposed vast amounts of Jewish communal assets to his scheme.

Most of the Jewish leaders reached by the Post on Monday said they did not yet know the extent of the damage to their own organizations because they were still checking with their major donors and reviewing their investment portfolios to determine their exposure to Madoff’s scheme.

Some organizations, however, already know they have been hit, with many of them hit hard. Reports are surfacing that Yeshiva University has lost far more than a reported estimate of $100m. from its endowment fund, though the university declined to respond to an explicit query about the rumor.

The American Jewish Congress also declined to respond to a query about reports that a majority of its endowment has been lost, a loss that would threaten the organization’s survival.

From the Los Angeles Times:

The more than 30 organizations and individuals around the world identified so far as victims of the alleged deception are a diverse lot. But the disclosures by Southland Jewish organizations suggest a so-called affinity scam, in which members of a perpetrator’s ethnic or religious group are targeted.

The losses at the charitable organizations came to light as they began notifying their boards of directors, donors and recipients.

"In a word, it’s a catastrophe — by far the biggest Jewish story of the year," said Rob Eshman, editor in chief of the Los Angeles-based Jewish Journal.

The Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles said it lost $6.4 million — about 11% of its endowment — as a result of Madoff’s alleged fraud.

"People here are very sad, they’re very shocked. They’re trying to understand what exactly did happen," said John R. Fishel, the federation’s president.

Los Angeles real estate financier Richard Ziman, a member of the group’s board, called Madoff’s alleged crimes astounding.

"There is no greater shanda than stealing from friends, family and those who gave him such trust and confidence," Ziman said, using a Yiddish term for disgrace. "It makes this country look as though we have allowed the unregulated world of investment to take control."

The organization, which says it funds humanitarian, social service and Jewish educational programs in Southern California, Israel and other parts of the world, didn’t have a direct relationship with Madoff. Rather, it invested its $60-million endowment through the Jewish Community Foundation of Los Angeles, a nonprofit asset manager for local charities and philanthropists.

"No one I know knew Madoff," Fishel said.

Stanley P. Gold, the chairman of the federation’s board, was in London on Monday and couldn’t be reached for comment. Gold is chief executive of Shamrock Holdings Inc., a privately owned Burbank investment company.

The federation’s loss represented more than a third of the $18-million Madoff-related loss disclosed by the Jewish Community Foundation. The investment was held in a common portfolio of endowments of a number of charities and synagogues. As a result of the bear market and the Madoff debacle, that portfolio’s value has dwindled from $280 million at the beginning of the year to about $205 million, the foundation said. It added that the assets it managed on behalf of individual donors were not invested with Madoff.

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Will You Be My Mommy?

I just watched the 2003 movie Peter Pan.

I was struck by this group of lost boys asking a cute girl, "Will you be my mommy?"

I identify with that. I like to ask girls I date the same question. Many of them think me weird for it, but at least I’m being honest (as honest as a dog humping your leg).

The other thing I liked about the flick was the teaching that every time you say, "I don’t believe in fairies", a fairy dies.

I was struck by the wholesome beauty of the mommy in this movie, played by actress Olivia Williams. I needed to see more of her. I found her very comforting and wanted to get lost in her wholesome goodness. So I looked through Google images to get a better look at the woman I’d like to be my mommy. I found some very nice ones. Mum’s the word.

Olivia, if you would just tuck me into bed each night, I’d be totally fine in the morning. I’d never need to degrade anyone ever again. I’d be cured. I’d be the best of boys. I wouldn’t be lost anymore. I’d grow up. I really would. If only you’d be my mommy.

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If You Think Bernie Madoff’s Ponzo Scheme Is Bad, Then You Should Be Outraged At America’s Social Security System

Our social security system is a ponzi scheme. People get paid off when they retire far more money than they have invested.

How does the government do it? By taxing the people coming into the work force to pay off those retiring. It is a ponzi scheme.

When President Bush tried to do something about it, the Democrats rebelled. They wouldn’t even touch the retirement age. They said everything is fine. In essence, the Democrats said America’s Social Security Ponzi scheme is fine.

This was the topic on hour two of Dennis Prager’s radio show today.

Prager said he has little interest in corruption and little interest in scandal but he finds himself riveted by this Bernie Madoff story because for decades this guy fooled almost everybody.

What lesson can we learn? That there are con men who can con almost anybody. Most people have good antenae for fraud but some people can look you in the eye and lie and you won’t realize it.

Dennis says he’s been hurt by the economic downturn, that he bought his home at the height of Southern California’s real estate bubble (2005?) and it has now lost much of its value.

NB posts: I am framing and posting this in the men’s room next to the trading room, so that the Young Turks regain some sense of connection to the source of all the capital they are flinging around the Great Casino That Is Wall Street. They have lost all sense of their fiduciary responsibility to widows, orphans and charities, and think they are all trading "proprietary capital" of the firm that has magically fallen from heaven, pays them enormous income and bonuses when they bet correctly on Red, and conveniently provides a job down the street at JPMorgan or Goldman Sachs when it occasionally goes wrong and they need a new job — particularly when their losses occurred "concurrently to everyone elses", which has already become the new Wall Street marketing buzz phrase for 2009.

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What Could Be Better Than Obeying The Rabbis?

From my live cam chat:

HymenRothofMiami: Christian music and art helps bring Christians closer to Christ
HymenRothofMiami: Jewish music just bores.
HymenRothofMiami: And there is no Jewish art
HymenRothofMiami: Love this music…shiksas singing their love of Jesus.
HymenRothofMiami: Better that than listening to a rabbi shokeling his obedience to the Rabbinate

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Movie Producer Lynda Obst

I talk to Lynda Obst by phone Dec. 1, 2008.

Luke: "How did the election affect things around you? I assume most of your peers were happier the day after."

Lynda: "We’re all in a much better mood than we might have been, given how horrible the economy is. We’re all drastically affected by the economy and yet we’re such Obama-maniacs that we are more optimistic than we otherwise would’ve been. I think we would all have been in a gigantic crashing depression if Obama had not won.

"In a zeitgeist way, there’s a sense of what might be Obama-type material. Optimistic things. Things that are unifying as opposed to divisive. Less dark."

Luke: "How did the Bush years affect your job?"

Lynda: "The economy’s in the toilet bowl. All producers were affected because there’s no liquidity and no debt. We’re all having to look in the same strange recesses for cash. The studios are looking in the same places we are in many cases. The Bush years weren’t kind to the motion picture industry, but at the same time the box office is solid. The movie industry is a good depression business but there are no loans coming through and the movie business lives entirely on debt. Each movie is a debt-structured proposition. So it’s been harder to get movies made. At the same time, a good script gets made. I’ve got a bunch of good scripts and I believe one or two will get made."

Luke: "Did our president affect the types of stories that were told over the past eight years?"

Lynda: "A lot of people tried to make political movies and they didn’t work."

Luke: "All those anti-Iraq war movies were a bunch of duds."

Lynda: "Yeah. They didn’t work. I think a lot of people were too depressed over a period of time to even muster up a good protest. They just wanted to laugh. It was really good for television. It was good for cable news. It was good for Jon Stewart. I think there was just a tremendous need for escapism. It wasn’t good for political movies. I think a lot of people will be studying that and figuring out what it means. It was good for documentaries. Big box office required big escape.

"This whole industry became more tent-pole driven. I worked to keep the $30-$40 million movie alive. I can make tent-pole movies. I’m working on two right now (Interstellar and H.I.V.E.). Studios rarely make $40 million movies anymore. I had a Warner Brothers executive tell me he’d rather make a $200 million movie than a $50 million movie."

Luke: "And the reason was?"

Lynda: "They feel safer making huge movies. That’s more the ethos right now. They can book them all over the world. They don’t know how to make money on a movie that won’t be booked in 2500 theaters."

Luke: "Was it weird that we had eight anti-Iraq war films and zero pro-Iraq war films? Is that an accurate perception of what happened?"

Lynda: "I think that is an accurate perception. The guess was that if there was only a small audience for an anti-Iraq war film, there was an even smaller audience for a pro-Iraq war film. You also have a liberal bias here. Historically, that was probably the same thing in the Vietnam war too. Though you had pro-Vietnam movies, you had more anti-Vietnam movies. They did better though. The Green Berets did well. You’re always going to find a little bit of liberal bias in Hollywood. Maybe more than a little. It was hard to find a good pro-Iraq script. You could probably find a pro-let’s-go-find-Osama-Bin-Laden-In-Afghanistan script. You could probably get that made. That was a more unified opinion. I haven’t read a terrific pro-Iraq script. I don’t know that you couldn’t get it made if one existed. Once the anti-Iraq movies started flopping, the chances of a pro-one getting made were slim. It would be hard without special interest backing."

Luke: "How easy is it to get a message movie out?"

Lynda: "Really hard. People don’t really like political movies. You need a person who’s really dedicated to a point of view and then they need to get a backer who are equally committed to that point of view. A studio is going to want to water down that point of view. Then you get movies like State of Play (2009) that has no point of view and is just sort of an action piece.

"The most political movie I ever made was The Siege (written by Lawrence Wright, later author of the best seller The Looming Tower: Al Qaeda and the Road to 9/11). It presaged 9/11. I don’t think that could’ve gotten made if Ed Zwick hadn’t slipped it to Denzel. Fox had had so much trouble with the terrorist movie that preceded it.

"The Siege was political but you couldn’t tell if it was right or left because it was both. The Left jumped on our bones. Everybody jumped on our bones. We were attacked for being Jews by the Anti-Arab-Discrimination league. We had to do reshoots under assumed names. The Times came down against us. It was a wild assortment of people who came down against us. It’s not pleasant for studios to get in the middle of a political fray. They prefer not to. They don’t like bomb threats. It tends to be more of an independent venture or a Lions Gate venture. A movie that gets picked up and needs reviews. It requires a dedicated set of filmmakers to get a movie made, like Che (2008), which is a full-on ideological love project.

"In this country, the movie audience is not really political. I’ve learned over time that movies are not ideological, they’re emotional. It’s hard to get ideas across in movies. That’s not the point of the American movie industry. This is not an auteur ideological industry. Battle of Algiers would not have come out of America. It’s like trying to get a ball rolled up a hill that wasn’t designed for it."

Luke: "When as a producer have you been glad for controversy around one of your projects?"

Lynda: "Never."

She laughs. "Never. We love buzz, we don’t like controversy. Maybe if you have a documentary, you like controversy. Maybe if you’re Borat, you like controversy. It’s something I talk to Ricky Gervais about because he likes controversy. He’s our next release. We don’t like controversy, we like buzz."

Luke: "Would that be true for 99% of your peers?"

Lynda: "Yes. Unless they’re nuts."

Luke: "Where do you think The Siege succeeded and where do you think it did not succeed?"

Lynda: "It succeeded in the first two-thirds. And greatly. It succeeded in being able to show the atmosphere in New York between the two World Trade Center bombings. It was an astonishing time, a period of time that allowed for 9/11 to occur when Sheik Raman had cells in Brooklyn of Arab terrorists and we were so oblivious. I remember one of my Orthodox friends called me on 9/11 and said, ‘Wake up, Lynda. Your movie is on but it’s worse.’

"I think it didn’t succeed in its exaggeration of the Bruce Willis character, which we needed to inflate dramatically for narrative purposes.

"But it gave a lot of complexity to the blowback issue of Afghanistan, which we’re still living with. That we had armed the Mujahideen and left them there. We forgot and they didn’t. I loved the Tony Shalhoub character, the FBI agent who was Arab and stuck between two worlds."

Luke: "There was a part in The Siege where they were discussing the morality of torturing people."

Lynda: "That was a bit ahead of its time."

Luke: "Was it too on the nose?"

Lynda: "I loved that speech [by Denzel Washington’s character]. We’re still forming that argument in the same terms. If you use their methods, then they win. I don’t know a better way to phrase that argument. I have this designation I make in screenplays, ‘OTN’ meaning too On The Nose, which I use liberally. The difference for me in something ringing On The Nose and something not ringing On The Nose is if it is narratively earned. If it is not narratively earned, then it glares at you more. It’s more bald. That scene was so narratively earned… I found it eloquent. It’s hard to be oblique about torture."

Luke: "How is mothering like producing and vice versa?"

Lynda laughs. "I always talk about that. You’re taking care of everyone. You’re the chief nurse and cook. I can’t cook but I’m very much in charge of menus. The caterer is one of the first and most important decisions I make because the crew knows how you care about them by the quality of the food they’re getting. You always have to make sure there’s a hospital and a medic. You nurture and take care of your cast and crew. You are responsible for people’s well-being and if things go awry, it’s your fault. You have to know where the weak links are and anticipate them. You need to know a company’s strengths and weaknesses."

Luke: "How is what you’re doing different from 20 years ago?"

Lynda: "It’s the same but it’s harder. There are less movies being made. There are more people trying to do it. There are fewer chances being taken. The idea that there are no good weekends to open a movie. All of them are crowded with too many big movies. There used to be slots that were more open when people still went to the movies, now the only weekends like that are really dead ones, like July 4 (which is crowded anyway as the kids are out) or early Jan, etc. All April is crowded, Feb 14, etc all October through December.

"The new random crazy rules in the mystery of the board game. I don’t think it was driven entirely by 13 year old boys when I started."

Luke: "Is the moviegoer any different today from 20 years ago?"

Lynda: "People believe it is driven by 13 year old boys and to a certain extent it is. The comic book craze seems to not be dying. That’s part of the 13 year old fanaticism. It’s harder to get a drama made than ever before. Some of my best movies would be very hard to make today (The Fisher King)."

Luke: "How many movies have you made that are not to your taste?"

Lynda: "None. Maybe Heartbreak Hotel, but I loved making it. I discovered Austin through Heartbreak Hotel. I probably would not have made a movie about kidnapping Elvis if it had been pitched to me. On the other hand, if Chris Columbus pitched me anything, I would do it."

"It takes so long to make a movie that the ones you tend not to love so much tend to fall out."

Luke: "How do your projects surprise you?"

Lynda: "I had no idea that Kate [Hudson] and Matthew [McConaughey] would have the chemistry they did in How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days. Matthew was a last minute choice. Kate was attached to the material all along. I kept trying to talk her into actors she didn’t want to play against. Matthew just happened in a meeting where the movie almost fell apart in Sherry Lansing’s office. The agent had pitched Matthew to me at the last minute before I went to the office. As the movie fell apart before my eyes in the meeting, I said, ‘What about Matthew [McConaughey]?’ I had no idea anybody would say yes. Kate said yes. Sherry said yes. We had to go out and make a deal with him. He had a lot of leverage at that point.

"It wasn’t until I saw the monitor on the first couple of days that I realized that they were so much fun together. They looked so great together. I didn’t know that Matthew could play urban and do that kind of verbose dialogue."

Luke: "What does it mean ‘to play urban’?"

Lynda: "He’s so Southern. He’s so Texas. And he was playing a New York Madison Avenue advertising executive.

"The chemistry was so good that Sherry arrived in the first week. You know that when the studio head arrives the first week just to hang out with the actors on the set that there’s surprising chemistry. Usually if you get a studio executive in the first six weeks it’s bad news. And it won’t be the chairman; they don’t give bad news.

"Usually other surprises are bad. Usually your job as a producer is to not get surprised, to prep the movie so well that there aren’t any surprises. Other surprises is that the director takes 75,000 more takes than you thought he would. Your cinematographer is slower than you knew."

Luke: "Do you feel that you have less creative freedom today than 25 years ago because of PC considerations?"

Lynda: "No. Well, yes, in some ways. We had much more creative freedom with Adventures in Babysitting (1987) to go into the city and run rampart in the city because parents weren’t as prickly then as they are now. Parents are like police now. They watch their kids so carefully and they’re all perfect and they all have 17 car seats and 900 devices that monitor them with GPSs wherever they go. They’d never let their kids alone in the city and if they did, the kids could never be in genuine danger where in the old Adventures in Babysitting the kids were in real danger chased by bad guys. The new Adventures in Babysitting will have to be tamer so the parents weren’t horrified. The old Adventures in Babysitting could be Touchstone while this one is Disney.

"Eighties movies were much more rad. You look at the John Hughes movies and you can’t make movies like that now where kids are smoking and wild and use language which we can’t use in PG13 movies. The eighties were the Grand Old Period, the GOP as it were, of teen movies and they were the greatest movies for that reason. As far as freedom to make movies, there was definitely more freedom that way."

Luke: "What about the theme that these are white kids going into a black area and they are scared to death because it is a black area?"

Lynda: "We were very careful about all that. They’re being chased by white people. Also, a black person was their best friend taking care of them. We over-balanced all that out. I was nothing if not an early civil rights advocate. We were very aware of all that. The chop shop was run by white people."

Luke: "It seems a little incongruous. This was a black area of town and you felt their visceral fear, these white kids being in a black area."

Lynda: "We wanted them to be afraid of the city and then discover that the city was friendly because that was my experience as a suburban Westchester kid. I ran away to the city all the time from Westchester. At my earliest opportunity, I was running to the city. I was 14 to go find Bob Dylan. The city was a great mystery and lure to me. I was careful not to make it a place of scary black people. I think it’s a place of the blues where there are spectacular black people who have a lot to teach you and spectacular white people and people in the hospital who will help you. The point of Adventures in Babysitting was that it seems scary but the people who seem scary turn out to be friendly and the people who are friendly turn out to be scary. Everything is the opposite of what it seems."

Luke: "You mention how you were reading Sun Tzu’s Art of War and that it seemed everyone was reading it at the time."

Lynda: "I think most Asian and Eastern philosophies have something to teach us, whether it is war or peace. I found brilliant things in the I-Ching (The Chinese Book of Changes). I’ve been reading that since college."

Luke: "Have you noticed any of your peers reacting to Joe Eszterhas finding God?"

Lynda: "I found it hilarious, but I feel that he’ll do anything for publicity. I feel that most everybody else doesn’t know who he is anymore. The degree to which this town moves quickly on to the next person, the next phenomenon, the next generation, is astonishing. Kids are twelve now and they don’t know who he is. The New York Times does as he’s copy, or wherever we read that article, but I haven’t heard a person talk about it. Jim Wiatt and I are about to have lunch. We’ll have a laugh about it. Maybe."

Luke: "It’s such a shocker."

Lynda: "From cigarette maniac to sex maniac to God maniac. He’s a crazy person. Whatever extreme will get him copy. Did you ever read the review I wrote of his Clinton book? The degree to which he identified himself with [Bill] Clinton was astonishing. He thought that he and Clinton were the same guy. His self-awareness level needs to be studied. I’m sure God loves him."

Luke: "Do you ever fantasize about doing a Julia Phillips?"

Lynda: "No. I’m not angry. She was very angry."

Luke: "What’s the difference between telling it all and being angry? I’m sure a part of you would like to tell it all?"

Lynda: "No. I have a book contract to do a book on where the business has gone the past eight years and why. That’s the sort of stuff I do. I have no desire to tell all about anyone. I’m not that interested in people except really good friends. I’m not that interested in anecdotes about other people. I’m too involved in my own work. Second, I don’t have any axes to grind. I’m more interested in the metaphysics of it and then figuring out how it survives without any money. That’s the only kind of book that I and the book industry want me to write."

Luke: "Some look at Julia Phillips’s book as brave. Some view it as trashy."

Lynda: "She didn’t have any other perspective but to strike out at the people who had let her down. She really let herself down. She was an incredibly talented person who ultimately was a drug addict. So what else was there for her to do?"

Luke: "There’s nothing like her book."

Lynda: "That’s for a specific reason. She was on [drugs]. And she was brilliant on crack. That gives you a specific book."

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Jewish Federation Statement Regarding Alleged Fraud by Bernard Madoff Investment Securities LLC

From the Jewish Federation of Los Angeles:

LOS ANGELES, Ca. (December 15, 2008)—The Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles has been advised by The Jewish Community Foundation of Los Angeles that it, together with a number of other major philanthropic institutions, as well as individuals and for profit investment companies, is included among those which have been victimized by an alleged fraud perpetrated by the New York based firm, Bernard Madoff Investment Securities LLC.

The Jewish Federation, together with other local charitable bodies, has for decades participated in a Common Investment Pool (CIP) managed by the Jewish Community Foundation. The CIP invests, with the input of professional advisors, significant funds on behalf of the Federation’s United Jewish Fund Endowment Fund in a range of investment classes and vehicles. Among these has been Bernard Madoff Investment Securities LLC

We have been informed by the Jewish Community Foundation that the Federation’s United Jewish Fund Endowment Fund may have sustained a loss of $6.4m as a result of the actions of Bernard Madoff Investment Securties LLC. This constitutes approximately 11% of Federation’s endowment funds as of December 2008.

Stanley Gold, Chairman of the Board of the Jewish Federation stated, "We are both shocked and saddened to learn of this alleged fraud. The Jewish Federation is exploring various options to fully understand its exposure as well as how this occurred. We intend to aggressively protect and recover as much of Federation’s investment with Bernard Madoff Securities LLC, as possible. We will take all necessary actions to assure this type of action so hurtful to those who depend on our charitable organization never happens again."

The Jewish Federation will continue to utilize the funds in the United Jewish Fund Endowment Fund to support its essential life saving work, at home and abroad, on behalf of the Los Angeles Jewish Community.

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‘The Shidduch Crisis: Causes and Cures’ by Psychologist Michael J. Salamon

I’m enjoying this book about finding a Jewish spouse. It has some great anecdotes, such as the one about a young man given the phone number for a young woman. When he dials, however, he finds the phone answered by her father who proceeds to grill him for 30 minutes. When the father’s done with the questioning, he says to the young man, "You can speak with my daughter now." The young man answered, "No, thank you" and hung up.

I love that!

A shadchan (matchmaker) to a mother of a young woman: "Does she wear a seatbelt in the car?"

Mother: "Of course."

Shachan: "Well, that could be a problem with this family."

Why would it be a problem? Because the seatbelt would accentuate the curve of her breasts and this could lead him to lose control of the wheel.

My friend Lewis was picked up after therapy by his mother.

"Cured yet?" she asked.

He replied, "Not till you’re dead."

Let’s talk about "fat potential." Too many of our fine young Jewish men talk about a woman’s dress size and her potential to gain weight once she marries and has children. In a Torah perspective, a woman’s looks are secondary to her moral character. I myself have no problem dating fatties.

Why do Orthodox Jews date outside the faith? Because it is easy. The pressure in Jewish life is just too intense. "What they are referring to is the interrogations that always seem to take place both before and during dating, along with the fear that they may not measure up to some standard that they see are arbitrary and irrelevant. They feel inadequate when faced with an unrealistic formula for acceptance that is impossible for most people to achieve. In their view a date should be a date, not an inquisition."

Unfortunately for me, the following is not true for Los Angeles (where there are many more single men than single women, the opposite situation from New York where most of our hot chicks go after graduating from YULA, Shalhevet, Bais Yaakov, etc):

FROM THE JERUSALEM POST, Dec. 20, 2005, by Stewart Weiss:

Men can date a much wider age-range of women; Jewish men tend to marry out in much greater numbers than women. Conversely, more females convert to Judaism than do men. Homosexuality takes many more men out of the pool than lesbianism.

While women crave commitment and seek to settle down, more and more men are content to date casually while avoiding any long-term, relationships. With the divorce rate hovering at 50%, many younger men are less than anxious to repeat their parents’ "mistake." Then there is the ebb and flow of population trends and baby booms.

"Populations tend to expand and contract throughout the generations," says statistician Steven Cohen, professor of Jewish social policy at HUC-JIR, "while male-female ratios change over the course of eras. There is no question that our generation is experiencing a clear numerical superiority of females over males."

…Jewish educators widely report that we are doing a much better job of educating and religiously sustaining our young women than our young men. So while the girls are either maintaining or increasing their spiritual level – attendance at women’s seminaries continues to grow apace – the boys tend to drop out of the Orthodox world in much higher numbers.

…And because it’s a "buyer’s market", I’ve even head anecdotes of men who ask their dates any question that comes to mind, from their father’s annual salary, to the girl’s – and her mother’s – personal measurements. More than one family has either hidden away or institutionalized a disabled or retarded child, so as not to scare off potential suitors. I’ve even heard that some parents offer men large sums of money to marry their daughters.

Dr. Salamon writes: "The shadchan wanted a picture of the girl’s grandmother. It seems that knowing the dress sizes of both the girl and her mother was not enough to assure a potential groom that the girl would not later become heavy because perhaps her mother lost weight for the sake of her daughter’ shidduch."

"It has been documented that in certain Chasidic groups, some young men actually faint when they are told what is expected of them sexually on their wedding night."

"The best predictor for success in relationships is similarity — of personality, emotional tone and personal outlook. Knowing whether a person will grow spiritually — as if there were a way to know the future! — or whether he or she is yeshivish modern or black hat does little to determine compatibility. Externals change, often very rapidly. Internal traits, such as personality, tend to change very little and last a lifetime."

"The more social exposure we have, the more likely we are to find a temperamentally similar, compatible partner."

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JTA & Duplicate Content

I got this email today from JTA.org:

Hey Luke,

I’m sure you remember me from my Jewschool days.

Just a heads up:  JTA’s pretty adamant about making sure that people don’t reprint our content in full if they’re not paying customers.  Part of that is our obligation as the copyright holder, the other is that the exclusivity of our content to our playing clients is the only thing currently keeping us in business.  Therefore, if you don’t want your hoster getting a DMCA takedown notice from our lawyer, if and when you link to JTA stories, you should really not quote more than a one or two paragraphs, otherwise it gets kind of problematic.  If you’d revise your Madoff post to reflect that, it’d be much appreciated.

Take care.


Daniel Sieradski
Director of Digital Media, JTA

Legally, JTA has an open-and-shut case. Here, I originally quoted nine paragraphs out of a 25-paragraph story. This does not qualify as "fair use." I stole their content.

I wonder how many of these emails JTA sends out. I suspect there are two likely reasons I was chosen to get this and neither of these reasons have to do with my quoting their nine paragraphs.

One, JTA not only reads me, they often use my content. For instance, in the story in question, JTA says: "In Los Angeles, the Jewish Community Foundation’s $238 million Common Investment Pool lost $18 million it had invested with Madoff, according to a letter sent out by the foundation." That information comes from me. I broke that story. As is usual with the mainstream media, JTA takes information broken by a smaller outlet without attribution.

I remember when producer Edgar J. Scherick died, the Los Angeles Times took quotes Edgar gave me on his death bed (well, quotes given to me within three months of his death) and used them — without attribution — in their obituary. This is a common form of theft by the MSM.

Second, it is likely that JTA monitors its sources of traffic and this morning my website was one of its major sources of traffic.

I wonder why JTA takes the time and expense to send out these notices while for-profit news operations do not? Does JTA as a charity have insights into making money that the big boys do not? How come I have never received one of these notices from the Los Angeles Times or the New York Times or Fox News, when I have quoted from them at least as liberally?

A source at JTA says: "That’s likely because you’re small fish for them. However the Jewish [world] is small enough and your traffic is high enough for you to threaten our papers. In fact that’s how I found out about your post. One of out papers alerted me."

This paper is clueless if they think my republishing nine paragraphs from JTA threatens them. First of all, their newspaper is hurt in Google by their own duplication of JTA content (even if it is done legally). Second, anyone who waits for a print edition of a newspaper to get this information is dying (as are those who rely upon such people to earn their living).

I wonder if in this respect JTA is clueless (it can be clueless and survive because it is subsidized). When I (or any website) duplicate content from JTA, one party is hurt. But it is not JTA. It is the duplicator who gets penalized by Google (reduced page rank, lower quality Adsense ads, lower search rankings, etc, I rank massively in Google because I publish so much original quality content). This is the reason the for-profit news media ignore bloggers duplicating their content. They don’t waste their money on legal threats that do them harm (ill will, reduced links and cooperation) and no good.

(I have received three cease-and-desists of this nature in eleven years of blogging. One from the Village Voice in 1998, one from the Baltimore Jewish Times in 2004 and one now from JTA.)

JTA is a non-profit organization. Its domain is JTA.org. The .org ending is for non-profits. When you read JTA — rarely a pleasant experience — you are constantly asked to donate. JTA is not a business as Sieradski claims above. It is an organization that could not exist without massive charity from the Jewish Federation and other sources. Some of the money I give to the Jewish Federation ends up funding JTA to send me (and other bloggers) cease-and-desists.

If JTA were a business as Sieradski claims, they would not be wasting their time with such narishkeit.

Most Jews who give money to the Federation to feed the homeless and resettle Jews in Israel and other worthy causes have no idea that their money also goes to subsidize JTA sending out such cease-and-desist letters and to Gary Rosenblatt‘s newspaper The Jewish Week (both Gary and the paper had to pay a huge fine for lying on their postage forms, then they never reported the matter in their publication, such sterling Jewish ethics deserve to be subsidized) and most other Jewish newspapers in America.

I wonder why JTA does not use Adsense on its site? Because, once again, it is too clueless? I bet if they did use Adsense, they’d bollix it up as the Jewish Journal does and make only pennies.

I generally avoid reading JTA’s website because it used to (and may still) prompt me to log-in to read stories. If JTA had a clue about the web, it would disable this and maximize its readership and its Adsense earnings.

A few months ago, JTA asked me for permission to use one of my photographs of Marc Gafni. I freely gave it and they used the photo. I know that JTA plunders my site for content and I plunder them. As the Talmud says, "one who says, what is mine is mine and what is yours is yours, is a rascal". (Pirkei Avot)

During the 30 minutes I spent writing this post, my Adsense earnings went up $3. Truly the Lord rewards the righteous (when I look at the world, I just see one big opportunity to give), while sinners, He smites with a mighty hand and forces them to ask for donations on every page.

FailedMessiah.com nails it:

After years of blogging I’ve come to the realization that it is absolutely necessary to archive some of the news articles referenced or quoted here.

Why?

Because, when going through older posts, I’ll click on links to stories in the Forward, Ha’aretz, the Jerusalem Post, etc., and find the links broken. The original articles are gone and sometimes cannot be found by search engines.

When I do notice these broken links I often do not have the time to search for the original article, find it, relink it and then republish the affected post.

I sometimes archive certain articles, often adding them to the extended body of posts that appears only when a link is click (or if entry to the post is through a direct link). Before the archived article, I normally have one or more links to the off-site version posted on Ha’aretz, say, or the Forward. And the posts are written to encourage clicking on those links. At other times I will make a PDF of the story and post that at the bottom of the post, after linking to the online version of the story as noted above. People rarely choose to read the PDF when the online version is available. The PDF serves primarily as a backup in case the news source braks the original link.

Ha’aretz and other publications make their money online by increasing the number of page views (hits) they have. This allows them to charge more for online ads.

Sites like FailedMessiah.com drive traffic to Ha’aretz, the Forward and other publications and also increase news outlets’ brand recognition. You’ll note my standard way of linking to a story is to write, "Ha’aretz reports," or "The Forward reports," meaning the paper’s brand name is on every page the story is on at least that one time and that there is one, and often more, link to the paper. This also boosts news outlets’ search engine scores, which also raises news outlets’ ad revenue. They benefit even if some of their articles are archived here.

I would prefer not to have to do this. But as long as these publications break their own links, there is no other way to be certain the information is available.

As opposed to certain Orthodox news blogs that lift dozens of articles from news sources in their entirety every day, and fill their own blogs with dozens of paid ads to boot, I hope to continue do this only for some stories that are in my judgment too important to risk loss.

I believe this clearly falls under the Fair Use Doctrine and is as such permissible use.

Here are links to news sources I often cite:

Israel
Jerusalem Post
Ha’aretz
Ynet

Jewish
The Forward
The New York Jewish Week

US
New York Times
Associated Press

As always, I encourage you to read these publications and to support them by encouraging others to read them. If possible, subscribe to them as well.

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Jewish Philanthropy Devastated By Bernie Madoff Scam

JTA reports:

Sources close to Yeshiva University, where Madoff served as treasurer of the board of trustees and chairman of the board of Y.U.’s Sy Syms School of Business until he resigned last week, said that the school has lost at least $100 million. But Y.U. officials declined to offer any specifics.

Just as the reverberations of the subprime mortgage collapse are still seen as contributing to the nation’s wider economic meltdown, philanthropic insiders say the fallout from Madoff’s scheme could be even greater. Philanthropy insiders note that Madoff and others heavily invested in his fraudulent fund were major supporters of a plethora of nonprofit organizations, served on their boards or advised those organizations on how to invest their money — in some cases placing large sums of the groups’ capital in Madoff’s hands.

From the New York Times:

He had come to move easily in the clubby Jewish world that iterates between New York City and its suburbs and southern satellites like Palm Beach.

Indeed, in the world of Jewish New York, where Mr. Madoff, 70, was raised and found success, he is largely still considered as a macher: a big-hearted big shot for whom philanthropy and family always intertwined with — and were equally as important as — finance.

Mr. Madoff, who attended but never finished law school, was already rich by his early 50s, largely due to his intuitive grasp of the centrality of computers to high finance, he once told Forbes magazine. In an era when many, if not most, transactions were conducted on the phone, he turned his company into a fully automated operation that could make trades in as little as four seconds flat.

And soon the Madoff name — if not quite the equal of the Tisch name, for example — carried a quiet power.

"The guy never flaunted anything,” said one longtime friend. “And that fit with his rate of return, which was never attention-grabbing, just solid 12-13 percent year in, year out."

The friend, a private investor who knows Mr. Madoff from the Palm Beach Country Club and from the Hamptons, said friends and investors had been calling nonstop since the arrest.

"The pain is just unbelievable,” the friend said. “He was part of the family for so many people. There was this quiet culture of people, slightly older-money, who maybe weren’t that interested in the market, who kept saying to each other, ‘Just give Bernie your money, you’ll be fine.’ "

That culture had perhaps its best expression at the half-dozen golf clubs he belonged to, ranging from the woody Old Oaks in Purchase, N.Y., to the Palm Beach Country Club in Florida.

“He and his wife were nice golfers,” said Denise Lefrak Calicchio, part of the Lefrak real estate family, who knew the Madoffs socially through several of their clubs. “He and his wife seemed lovely.”

With time, some wealthy investors even joined clubs in order to become part of Mr. Madoff’s investments, some who knew him said. It was considered a favor to be introduced to the man as a potential investor.

“There were people joining golf clubs just to get into his fund,” said one investor who declined to be named. “This guy was held in such high regard.”

A member of the Palm Beach club said the Madoffs did not socialize as much as other members did, nor did they fight as aggressively as others to keep up with the club’s more aerobic social climbers. They were well-liked, and did not appear to be part of the “blister pack,” as one club member put it, a term that refers to those who get blisters on their hands and feet from ascending social ladders.

“They seemed to stay apart from the herd,” the club member said. “They chose not to get into that social rat race.”

Mr. Madoff was, in fact, so popular with investors that he often turned away their money. After Barbara S. Fox, president of the Fox Residential Group in Manhattan, had sold his son, Andrew, an apartment, she pleaded with Mr. Madoff — unsuccessfully — to let her invest in the Madoff funds.

Rob Eshman’s tracking the story for the Jewish Journal:

In the wake of the scandal, Internet message boards are alive with anti-Semitic vitriol.
 
The web site dealbreaker.com provides a list of Madoff’s victims supplied by CNBC’s  David Faber:

  • Fund of Funds
  • European banks
  • remont Advisers
  • "market confidence"
  • JEWS

The comments on that page reveal the kind of anti-Semitic writing that scandals involving Jewish financiers unleash with clockwork precision.
 
A sampling:

  • LOL Jews!…
  • Looks like a lot of Jews might be converting to Muslim soon….in prison….
  • Now that the JEW has been thrown down the well, is our country free? LETS THROW A BIG PARTY!!!

The message boards at the web site Stormfront, where neo-Nazis go to play, is rife with comments like, "One of satan’s children doing what comes naturally."

Hey. If it’s small comfort the prosecutor in the case is Jewish, and it was Madoff’s sons who turned their crooked dad in.

Thousands of small Jewish investors who played by the rules and worked and saved are now financially ruined because of this man. For all but your garden variety bigots, one horrifically monstrously putrid apple doesn’t mean squat about the whole tree.

From my chat room:

Josh:  it’s been madoff all day at my office
Josh:  mofo, maybe the goyin are right, and we jews are responsible for all of the world’s ills
Josh:  that’s the price you pay for being the best at everything.
GermanDragon:  Good and bad people can be everywhere
Josh:  we are the best capitalists, we are the best communists
Josh:  we are the most righteosu, we are the most villainous
Josh:  we are the most god-fearing, we are the most atheistic
Josh:  i think we’d be better off aas a people if we moved closer to the mean
Josh:  no one gives too s**ts about the Swedes or the Portuguese
GermanDragon:  I don’t care which religion you are, which nationality
Josh:  it matters
OldManRivers:  In Scotland we have a saying- We’re all Jock Tamson’s bairns!
OldManRivers:  ie we’re all the same, just people, just people
Josh:  nonsense
Josh:  that’s just hogwash
GermanDragon:  Right, OldManRivers, we are all humans
OldManRivers:  No Josh- It is true that in scotland we have that saying!
Josh:  different cultures posess different values, which manifests itself in behavior
GermanDragon:  real values are interesting
OldManRivers:  True- But that implies difference thro’ influence
Josh:  absoulutely
Josh:  i’m a culturist, not a racist
Josh:  i believe certain cultures are superior to others
Josh:  if i adopt a black kid and raise him as a jew, he’d have jewish values and behave properly
Josh:  erkel, from family matter, was a bright young black role model, but was viewed as a joke
Josh:  carlton, from the fresh prince, was constantly mocked
Josh:  smart, ambitious, young black men are the object of ridicule in all black comedies
Josh:  when i was a kid my father would take me to shul (synagogue) and would point to people and say, "he’s a doctor, he’s a lawyer, he’s a professor."
Josh:  these same people would be mocked in the black community
Josh:  it’s called natural selection, and it’s a good thing, otherwise we never progress
OldManRivers:  Have we progressed Josh?
Josh:  we no longer sacrifice our children to moloch

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