How To Spot Eating Disorders In Your Home

I’ve learned to my chagrin that eating disorders are increasingly present in the Orthodox community, though at a much lower rate than in the secular world.

I heard one theory I found fascinating — an eating disorder is often a desire to avoid growing up.

From a new book:

# Understand the illness you are dealing with (page 19)
# Differentiate the different types of Eating Disorders (page 23)
# How best to recover from the shock of finding out about your girl’s Eating Disorder (page 26)
# How to talk to your suffering daughter (page 32)
# How Dad can positively contribute to treatment and healing, and support your child (page 127)
# Understanding the risks and long-term effects of untreated Anorexia or Bulimia (page 35)
# Why Eating Disorders strike (page 49)
# Who is affected by Anorexia and Bulimia, and how to deal with it (page 50)
# Identifying the early warning signs of Eating Disorders (page 28)
# The questions to ask Medical Specialists (page 77)
# What your Doctor can do to help (page 78)
# When clinic treatment is required (page 88)
# How a dietitian can help restore some balance (page 80)
# Getting to the bottom of the causes and stress underlying your daughter’s illness (page 55)
# Explanations of specific treatments (page 90)
# An Action Plan for at-home treatment (page 112)
# How to communicate with your daughter while fighting the illness (page 143)
# How to demonstrate your love at every opportunity (page 127, 137 )
# What not to say when dealing with Anorexia and Bulimia (page 144)
# What makes a Hero Dad (page 135)
# Avoiding the tricks and pitfalls of Anorexia’s evil ‘cheats’ (page 163)
# Looking after yourself and your sanity during the illness (page 180)
# Show you how to plan and manage a positive approach to Eating Disorders at home (page 114)
# Find treatment for the illness best suited to your individual situation (page 90)
# Avoid the pitfalls of relying on GPs and the public hospital system (page 78)
# Prevent your family from being consumed by the illness too (page 191)
# Ultimately, save your daughter’s life! Click Here!

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Obama’s Bad Luck Bows

Simshalom emails: Remember when Barrack Hussein Obama bowed down to the Saudi king and the Japanese emperor?
See the 2 attached pics.
Now look at what’s happened to their countries!
Good thing he didn’t bow to Israel’s Netanyahu!
Have a HAPPY Purim!

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Learning The Social Mores Of Orthodox Judaism

Heshy Fried writes:

When I lived in Dallas, the kiruv folk over there had the social process down pat, this was because they had no competition and most of the people becoming frum would probably never live anywhere else and hence they didn’t have any outside influences. I remember how blown away I was at the amazing BT watching in their shul Ohr Torah, I saw older folks with black hats and peyos behind their ears standing with their feet apart during shemona esrei like folks who have no idea what they are doing. It was my first introduction to professional out of town kiruv. It’s almost reverse to the way converts do it. Converts usually start keeping mitzvos and Torah and then figure out that coming to shul in jeans or a mini skirt isn’t the way it’s done.

I’m not so sure I agree with teaching BT’s the art of social orthodoxy first, but to be honest it makes sense. First get them dressing like their counterparts, get those little kids wearing velvet yarmulkes with the little designs on them, the mother wearing expensive hair pieces and the father wearing a hat and naturally everything will fall into place, right?

I have found it interesting that although BT’s learn the art of outward social orthodoxy, they still flaunt large TV’s in their homes, have raunchy (according to yeshivish standards) magazines lying about their houses and usually still talk about their pasts in whist full ways like “oh dear it’s been a long time since we’ve had period sex, while eating bacon at a drive in on shabbos”.

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The New Eden

From DennisPrager.com:

Tuesday, March 15, 2011 Radio Show
20110315 – 01 North Dakota, New Eden
Prager H1: Joel Kotkin writes about the prosperity in North Dakota, unlike that of almost any other state, and the reasons why…. Bill Maher insults the Koran and pays no price. Why? Because he’s on the Left… Dennis talks to Frank Luntz, renown pollster and Fox News analyst. His new book is Win: The Key Principles to Take Your Business from Ordinary to Extraordinary.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011 Radio Show
20110315 – 02 Japan Update
Prager H2: Dennis talks to two experts to get an update on the latest risks posed by the tsunami-damage nuclear plant in Japan. James Mahaffey senior research scientist at the Georgia Tech Research Institute and Jack Spencer, nuclear energy expert at the Heritage Foundation.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011 Radio Show
20110315 – 03 Ultimate Issues Hour: Capital Punishment
Prager H3: Capital punishment is the only law repeated in all five books of the Moses, the Torah. That’s how central it is to the Bible. It begins with Genesis 9:6. This is the seventh installment in Dennis’s Bible series.

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Alexandra Wallace Apologizes For Her Asians in the Library Video

The UCLA Daily Bruin reports:

Wallace contacted university police early Sunday evening after receiving numerous death threats via e-mail and phone, said UCPD spokeswoman Nancy Greenstein.

Police advised her to take a number of precautions and are currently working to ensure her safety, Greenstein said.

“If she’s received a death threat, I find that as deplorable as her original YouTube video. If this is the response of students on campus, we’ve got a lot of work to do,” said Robert Naples, associate vice chancellor and dean of students.

Within three days, the video provoked a tremendous response, both inside and outside the UCLA community.

Speaking Sunday night, a university spokesman called the video “repugnant.”

Wallace sent a statement to the Daily Bruin early Monday morning apologizing for her remarks.

“Clearly the original video posted by me was inappropriate,” she said in the statement. “I cannot explain what possessed me to approach the subject as I did, and if I could undo it, I would. I’d like to offer my apology to the entire UCLA campus. For those who cannot find it within them to accept my apology, I understand.”

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This week’s Torah portion (parasha) is Tzav (Leviticus 6:1-8:36)

I discuss the weekly Torah portion with Rabbi Rabbs every Monday at 7pm PST on my live cam and on YouTube.

Greg Leake emails: Hi Luke,

I think Alexandra Wallace should be punished. Why?

Because she’s been a very, very bad little girl.

As a consequence, I would feel it was my duty to implement long, lingering punishment except that I am a happily married man. Therefore, I’m afraid I will have to rely on you to implement whatever discipline is needed to restore ethical balance with this very naughty little girl.

On one of your posts earlier as you warmed up to Torah Talks, a couple of statement were made that I find questionable.

One that Judaism is practical, even prosaic, and two, that Christianity is a romantic approach to religion.

I have no doubt that Judaism is practical when seen from the point of view of hermeneutics. I imagine that the entire corpus of Judaism has great internal integrity relative to its own parts.

However, I will have to say that Judaism can be enormously impractical relative to the culture it finds itself in.

There is nothing practical about having to bypass cheaper, more pleasant digs because you are forced to move into a neighborhood near a synagogue.

There is nothing practical about having to dress in a fashion that automatically excludes employment in some areas.

It is not practical to find it necessary to bypass every possibility of eating if it’s not kosher. (Which even means excluding meals in health food stores where the entire selling point of the product is its purity, naturalness, and health.)

It is not practical to have to walk to shul. (What if you’re too old? What if it’s raining? no wonder Dennis Prager was content to drive.)

One could continue. Now I do not challenge that some of these precepts may be virtuous in their own way, particularly seen as part of the integrity of their own system. But frankly, I just could not list Judaism as being practical when seen in the context of the wider culture.

Also a word about the idea that Christianity is romanticism. You know, this claim might be borne out in a few places, but it starts from an assumption that Jesus bin Joseph was not divine. And naturally, as Christians believe that he was divine, an entirely different calibration would have to be made in order to accommodate the notion that Christianity was romantic. i would also say that you can’t look at theologians like Dietrich Bonhoffer and suggest there was anything romantic about his approach to G-d. As you know, he was the Protestant theologian who was captured for conspiring against the Nazis and then held briefly before he was executed. His last writings were down in his prison cell before the Nazis murdered him. Additionally, you can’t find romanticism in Paul Tillich, the first Protestant theologian to be kicked out of Germany by the Nazis for preaching against mistreatment of Jews up and down Germany. As a religious existentialist, his philosophy of religion was formed after having had a nervous breakdown when he was chaplain in World War I, watching the savagery of trench warfare.

Now if you wanted to count as romantic the funny YouTube you posted of the Catholic girl believing that G-d was destroying Japan because they were atheists, I might give you some slack. (Some Japanese are atheists; many are Buddhists, and others practice Shintoism.)

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The Other Tsunami – Muslim Hatred Of Jews

Dennis Prager writes: It is very difficult to hate babies.

It takes a special person.

As morally wrong as it is to murder innocent adults, mankind seems to have a built-in revulsion against killing babies. If a baby does not evoke any tenderness, if a baby is regarded as worthy of being deliberately hurt or murdered, we know that we have encountered a degree of evil that few humans — even among murderers — can relate to.

That is why what Palestinian terrorists did to a Jewish family on the West Bank this past weekend deserves far more attention than it received. Normally Palestinian atrocities get little attention — certainly far less attention than an Israeli apartment building on the West Bank receives. But this particular atrocity got even less attention than usual because the world was focused on the terrible tsunami that hit Japan.
On Friday night, Palestinian terrorists slipped into a Jewish settlement, entered a home, and stabbed the father, the mother, and three of their children to death: an eleven-year-old, a four-year old, and a three-month-old baby.

In order to understand what those actions mean, a seemingly separate incident needs to be recalled: the prolonged sexual attack by up to 200 Egyptian men on Lara Logan, chief foreign-affairs correspondent for CBS News, in Tahrir Square, Cairo, a few weeks ago. It was reported that after stripping her naked and then molesting and beating her, the men kept shouting “Jew, Jew!”

The two incidents tell the same tale. In much of the Arab Muslim world, and some of the non-Arab Muslim world (such as Iran) today, “Jew” is not a person. “Jew” is not even merely the enemy. In fact, there is no parallel on earth to what “Jew” means to a hundred million, perhaps hundreds of millions of Muslims.

Think of any conflict in the world — Pakistan–India, China–Tibet, North Korea–South Korea, Tamil–Sinhalese. There are some deep hatreds there, and atrocities have been committed on one or both sides of each of those conflicts. But in none of those conflicts nor anywhere else is there something equivalent to what “Jew” means to millions of Muslims.

There really is only one historical parallel, and it, too, involved the word “Jew.” The Nazis also succeeded in fully dehumanizing the word “Jew.” Thus, for Nazism, it was as important (if not more so) to murder Jewish babies and children — often through as cruel a means as possible (being burned alive, buried alive, or thrown up in the air and impaled on bayonets) — as it was to murder Jewish adults.

The human being does not have to learn to hate. It seems to come pretty naturally. Nor does the human being have to learn to murder, steal, or rape. These, too, seem to be in the natural human repertoire of evils.

But the human being does have to learn to hate children and babies, and to regard the torture and murder of them as morally desirable acts. It takes years of work to undo normal protective human attitudes toward children.

That is precisely what the Nazis did and what significant parts of the Muslim world have done to the word “Jew.” To them, the Jew is not just sub-human, the Jew — and his or her children — is sub-animal.

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Endgame: The End of the Debt SuperCycle and How It Changes Everything

On his radio show today, Dennis Prager talks to John Mauldin, renowned financial expert and analyst. His free weekly e-newsletter, Thoughts from the Frontline, has over a million subscribers. His new book, already a best seller, is Endgame: The End of the Debt SuperCycle and How It Changes Everything

Dennis: “The [housing crisis and recession] was caused by banks being coerced into giving sub-prime loans to people who could not afford them.”

John: “No. Banks weren’t coerced into it. They willingly greedily leapt into that process. Starting with local mortgages to the people in Europe and Asia buying those bonds, there was greed involved… Mortgage bankers, investment bankers, got bonuses [for the superior earnings that came with investing in risky bonds]. The Fed kept rates too low for too long. The ratings agencies were supposed to be the adults supervising the sandbox. There was nobody supervising the sandbox. The ratings agencies, for all intents and purposes, were handing out fake IDs at an underage teenage drinking party.”

Dennis: “The CRA?”

John: “That was a minor part. Greed was the issue.”

Dennis: “Human greed was in existence since Adam. The CRA was new.”

John: “You had investment bankers who could buy crap and sell it and make a 1.5% spread. Those are huge bonuses. And you could do that every week.”

Dennis: “Why did it begin when it began?”

John: “Low rates. Pensions and investors started reaching for yield. It was the confluence of a lot of things. The list of culprits is three pages long. We didn’t learn our lessons. We still haven’t put derivates on an exchange. My biggest worry is a European bank crisis affecting the U.S. Our banks have sold so many trillions of dollars of derivatives that look like they’re balanced but that derivative is only as good as the counter-party.”

Read on.

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The Bigotry Of Keith Ellison

On his radio today, Dennis Prager said: “If this article is accurate, then it was very wrong what the congressman did.”

“I have refrained from saying anything critical of Congressman Ellison because of the article I wrote years ago when he was first sworn in and sworn in on a Koran, and I wanted him to swear on a Bible rather than a Koran. I think I made a mistake. My reasoning was sound. My values were sound. My upshot was not sound. I said it at the time and I say it again today.

“I actually apologized to him in the halls of Congress. We met up. I apologized. He not only accepted by apology very graciously, he told me his mother is a big fan of the show. She listens every day.”

The National Review fact-checks the Muslim congressman:

New York Times, had scholarship funds named after him, was honored by Mayor Michael Bloomberg and Police Commissioner Ray Kelly (both of whom went barefoot to honor Muslim practice) at his funeral, and has been celebrated over and over again by the media.

The belief that Mohammed Salman Hamdani was a victim of anti-Muslim bigotry was never based in reality. It was manufactured by the Left as a rhetorical prop, exploited as a bludgeon against people who want to talk seriously about terrorism. If Hamdani was singled out for his faith, it would appear he was singled out for especially high honors. Most 9/11 victims were not half so celebrated as he was. Rather than suffering from apocryphal American anti-Muslim bigotry, Salman Hamdani appears to have benefited from America’s eager inclusiveness.

Americans have long seen Mohammed Salman Hamdani as a hero. Too bad Representative Ellison saw him only as a prop.

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Too Soon For Tsunami Jokes?

Gilbert Gotfried got fired for these jokes.

From Gilbert Gotftried’s twitter page:

Japan is really advanced. They don’t go to the beach. The beach comes to them.
6:29 AM Mar 13th via web
What do the japanese have in common with @howardstern? They’re both radio active.
1:36 PM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
Japan had put out this urgent plea….” PLEASE SEND US A FEW BIlLION RUBBER DUCKIES!!!!!”
1:05 PM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
Japan called me. They said “maybe those jokes are a hit in the US, but over here, they’re all sinking.
12:33 PM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
I fucked a girl in japan. She screamed “I feel the earth move and I’m getting wet.”
12:12 PM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
My book #rubberBallsAndLiquor was released in japan. It’s making quite a splash.
12:10 PM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
What does every Japanese person have in their apartment? Flood lights.
12:02 PM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
I asked a girl in Japan to have sex with me. She said “okay, but you’ll have to sleep in the wet spot.”
11:38 AM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
What do Japanese Jews like to eat? Hebrew National Tsunami.
11:23 AM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
I was talking to my Japanese real estate agent. I said “is there a school in this area.” She said “not now, but just wait.”
11:06 AM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
My Japanese doctor advised me to stay healthy I need 50 million gallons of water a day.
10:39 AM Mar 12th via Twitter for iPhone
I just split up with my girlfriend, but like the Japanese say, “They’ll be another one floating by any minute now.”

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