Wisdom From Kids

This 11yo boy asks me at shul: “Do you have kids?”
Luke: “No.”
Boy: “Are you married?”
Luke: “No.”
Boy: “So you’re single.”
Luke: “Yes.”
Boy: “It’s lame to be single.”

I wasn’t bothered by the kid’s comment. I thought it was superb. I know I’m a freak in Orthodox Judaism, for many reasons including my bachelorhood.

Steve writes: “Single adults have no value in Orthodox Judaism. Is that a surprise for you?”

Every human being has value in God’s eyes, and consequently in the eyes of Orthodox Judaism. Is that a surprise to you?

I remember calling Dennis Prager’s radio show around 1996. He said something to me on air to the effect that if I never married, I should admit I was selfish. I think I responded, “Not necessarily. Life is complicated. Not every guy gets to marry, and it is not always his fault.”

If I hadn’t gotten so sick in my 20s, I probably would have married in my 20s. I emerged from six years of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome at age 27 with about two-thirds of normal health, and I had to limp through life, which is not a formula for getting married.

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Seeking The Thing That Will Make You Great

Remember how miserable I felt running my five marathons at age 12? Remember the misery of the first one, the Hidden Valley marathon, which took me four hours and 43 minutes and I was almost beaten by that 70-plus year old woman, Mavis Lindgren? It was hot and far and the terrain was unfamiliar and I hardly knew anyone and I ended up walking much of the last half of the race.

It was easy to cheat in my training and to tell myself I ran ten miles when really it was only seven, but there was no way to cheat in an official race. The race was laid out. It was just over 13 miles there and just over 13 miles back and that was all there was to it. There was no way to cheat.

Remember the rain, fog and cold of my second marathon, the Avenue of the Giants? We had to drive down there Saturday night, sleep in a strange place, and then race in the morning and make the long drive home.

Remember the killer hills of the San Francisco marathon? One mile, it was about mile 22, was uphill all the way. Remember running across the Bay Bridge and the Golden Gate Bridge? I’ve never felt so close to suicide. I just wanted to jump into the cold blue waters. Remember how much a kind word meant to me then? And now.

I was miserable because I was doing the thing that I hoped would make me great and it hurt so much and I hated it and I wasn’t particularly good at it, there was no way I was ever going to be great in running, and yet I kept slogging away for the attention. I felt trapped.

How many times in my life have I done this? I’ve sacrificed everything to be great at one thing only to find that I hate it and I’m not particularly good at it. It’s not what I expected. Where’s my runner’s high? Where are the endorphins?

So when did I have a better time running my marathons? I got my best time at the Sri Chinmoy race which I had to enter with another runner’s number because the marathon didn’t allow kids. I finished in four hours and 14 minutes and at the end, Sri Chimnoy was screaming the name of the female runner registered in my name, encouraging me on (he did that for every runner). I liked that they had water stations on every mile and the race was flat and there was lots of encouragement.

My favorite marathon was the Napa Valley marathon, near my home town. Many of my friends turned out to cheer. My classmate Lonnie sherman biked beside me the last eight miles of the race, offering kind words. I finished hard, with a long wild sprint to the line that got captured in a movie about the race.

Osgood-Schlatter’s disease ended my running at age 12. I didn’t pick it up again until 18 and then only periodically. I never particularly liked running but I liked it most when I did it around people I liked, and that was mainly at Pacific Union College (PUC), my home from 1977-1980 as well as the summers of 1982 and 1983. As I ran up and down the hills of PUC, people would call out to me. I liked that. It made me feel connected. Human connection is what life is all about and what I’ve missed most in my first 47 years. My memories of PUC are so filled with emotion. Compared to PUC, my years in Auburn (1980-1993) were dry and barren.

Just take the scenery of PUC compared to Auburn. PUC is much greener and moister. Auburn is hot and dry all summer and the grass dies and my soul withers outside the bosom of the Seventh-Day Adventist church (my family lived in Adventist colleges (Avondale and PUC) until I was 14).

I returned to running in my final year at Sierra Community College. In the fall of 1987, while taking 18-units and getting straight As, I ran a couple of times a week along a dusty trail. Then I’d finish off my work-out with 20 pull-ups and I looked forward to transferring to UCLA, where my life would truly begin. There I would shine and my talents would be recognized. I’d recapture the human connection I had at PUC but it wouldn’t be based on shared religion but on shared academic excellence.

* I have the day off so I’m lying down, listening to my favorite music, and imagining myself going for a long jog, just like I did as a kid, and then writing out what comes up.

There’s definitely a big physiological and emotional reaction going on inside of me when I visualize myself running, doing pull-ups, working out, charging down the streets of my youth. I’m going to put more effort into learning about and using visualization. I can sense its power. Now I have to get disciplined and use it every day towards good ends.

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Turning Rambam & Solomon Schechter Into Fictional Characters

Obama’s latest directive on Iran; Paula Abdul’s bat mitzvah in Israel; a new film in Yiddish, “The Pin,” opens in NY and LA; the doors of the Cairo Geniza come to NY; “The Model Apartment” gets an Off-Broadway revival; author Dara Horn sits down to talk about her new novel, “A Guide for the Perplexed”; and more of this week’s Jewish news.

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LA Weekly: Latinos Get a Measly 1 in 25 Speaking Roles in Top Films

Jill Stewart of the LA Weekly writes on FB about this article: “There’s just no excuse for this. Hollywood studio heads, and TV executive producers in Los Angeles are as knuckle-dragging and backwards as the old hillbilly stereotype. But they live a lot nicer. For shame.”

Hollywood gives people what they want. The biggest movie going demographic is Hispanic teens but they show no interest in supporting Hispanic themes or characters. Their interests lie elsewhere. If there was a big hunger in the huge Hispanic audience for Hispanic characters in movies, Hispanics could create such movies, but there is no evident hunger in the Hispanic movie-going audience for Hispanic stories. Look at the movies Hispanics choose to patronize. They vote with their dollars.

The more people get to know Mexicans, the less interest they have in general in Latinos. Fair or not. In the 1980s, Central America was a big concern in the USA, but with the flood of illegal immigration, as soon as regular Americans hear a Mexican accent, they tune out. I’m not saying this is a good thing, I’m just saying that is what I see.

You can say many things about blacks, but boring is not one of them.

There are very few Latino lawyers and doctors and thought leaders. As Steve Sailer writes, there’s a giant Latino talent shortage.

Gregory Rodriguez wrote in the L.A. Times: “In Los Angeles, home to more Mexicans than any other city in the U.S., there is not one ethnic Mexican hospital, college, cemetery, or broad-based charity.” [“Mexican Americans Are Building No Walls,” February 29, 2004]

Jill: “Stereotypes live, too: Latinas were the most likely to be shown nude or in sexy attire.”

If you want stereotypes, look at Spanish-language TV which traffics far more in Latino stereotypes than regular Hollywood does. It’s far sexier material as well. Look at Beverly Hills Chihuaha, Mexican-Americans found it hilarious.

Jill: “What about the (94% male) execs in Hollywood insisting the world is mostly white — while call themselves the most open-minded and giving liberals? The Valley is among the most diverse places in the world. Where are my Indian, Thai and Latino neighbors, who are consistently excised from these executives’ dull world? They’re over on YouTube.”

I interviewed over 100 movie/TV producers for my book and they told me that with the exception of Will Smith and Denzel Washington, overseas audiences don’t generally want to see movies with blacks in lead roles.

Magazine covers of general interest magazines don’t put latinos, blacks, Thais, Indians on the cover and news magazines don’t give them much interest either. Why not? Because these topics don’t garner a wide audience, generally speaking, when compared to focusing on star whites like Tom Cruise, Julia Roberts, etc.

The LA Weekly article that spurred my blog post has so far failed to gain a single comment. Most people don’t care.

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Friday’s LAX Shooting

Why would LAX close down for more than six hours Friday after the shooter was taken into custody and thousands of people would have to sit in their planes for six hours and tens of thousands of people inconvenienced?

A law enforcement source says: “Investigation. Everything needs to be categorized and photoed. For serious cases like this, they’ll assign an officer to stand guard over a bullet casing for 2 hours so they can properly document it. They also comb for further clues, etc. take samples for DNA, fingerprints or other weapons.”

How could a shooter do his thing at LAX and there was no law enforcement response for many minutes? If the guy wanted to, he could’ve shot over a hundred people before the police finally got around to him. Why aren’t there armed guards throughout airports?

Benny: “Hindsight is 20/20. Perhaps the shooter waited and watched to ensure no police officer was in the vicinity. Perhaps notification that a shooting took place took a little time because people were unsure and/or busy running. Or, we can raise taxes and put a cop every 20 feet…your choice.”

Benny, we spend billions for unionized “Homeland Security” and the TSA, which, from my experience, seems to be dominantly staffed by idiots x-raying grandmas and doing other useless work. Something is wrong.

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Broken-Hearted Over A Child He Never Met?

Fox sideline reporter Pam Oliver says today before the game that Adrian Peterson was “brokenhearted” over the death of his child three weeks ago. Brokenhearted over a kid he never met? Please. He was heartbroken for being outed for fathering as many as seven kids out of wedlock.

Jason Whitlock writes for ESPN: Just a few weeks ago, Vikings running back Adrian Peterson attended the funeral of his 2-year-old child and then played a football game days later. There was very little public objection to Peterson’s decision. Some people were reluctant to voice an authentic opinion. Still, others sympathized with Peterson’s plight. He had never met the child. He’d only learned that the boy was his two months before the mother’s live-in boyfriend allegedly beat or shook the toddler, causing severe brain injuries leading to his death. We subsequently learned that Peterson, who is unmarried, may have as many as seven children by five women, one of his exes recently told TMZ.

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Vicki Polin’s 1989 Oprah Appearance About Ritual Murder In The Jewish Community

I’m sure the powers that be will take down these videos quickly, but here you go for the moment, get ’em while they’re hot: Video 1 Video 2 Video 3

Vicki’s appearance begins 11 minutes into the second video and she’s called “Rachel”. At one point she says, “I want to point out that not all Jewish people sacrifice babies.”

Oprah: “I think we kinda know that. This is the first time I’ve heard of any Jewish people sacrificing babies.”

I’ve spoken to somebody close to Vicki’s family who says they’re horrified and sickened by her accusations.

Vicki still believes in the things she said in this TV appearance.

Here’s some background on Vicki Polin, a crusader against sexual abuse.

Rabbis such as Joseph Telushkin and Saul Berman portrayed us as joined at the hip.

Since 2004, I’ve been following Vicki Polin’s work with the Awareness Center.

She deserves to be the subject of an exhaustive biography.

She’s the best known face of the anti-sexual abuse movement in Jewish life.

Her detractors portray her as satanic. Her supporters are equally fervent.

I know many people who thinks she’s nuts. I don’t think she’s nuts. I think she’s formidable. But I can’t get my head around her 1989 appearance on Oprah.

Kitty Kelley writes about it in her new biography of Oprah. Vicki Polin is “Rachel.”

Vicki gave this story to Gary Rosenblatt (Editor of The Jewish Week) and Phil Jacobs (Editor of the Baltimore Jewish Times) in 2004 but neither of them published anything on it. I guess they didn’t think it was news. I finally broke the story on my blog on May 10, 2005 (after it was sent to me by Yori Yanover).

From page 201:

Broadcast on May 1, 1989, the show was titled “Mexican Satanic Cult Murders,” and during one segment Oprah presented a woman under the pseudonym of “Rachel” who was undergoing long-term psychiatric treatment for multiple personality disorder.

“As a child my next guest was also used in worshipping the devil, participated in human sacrifice rituals and cannibalism,” Oprah told her audience. “She is currently in extensive therapy, suffers from multiple personality disorder, meaning she’s blocked out many of the terrifying and painful memories of her childhood. Meet ‘Rachel’, who is also in disguise to protect her identity.”

“Rachel” said she had witnessed the ritual sacrifice of children and had been a victim of ritualistic abuse. “I was born into a family that believes in this.”

“And this is a — does everyone else think it’s a nice Jewish family?” asked Oprah, introducing “Rachel’s” religion. “From the outside you appear to be a nice Jewish girl…. And you are all worshipping the devil inside the home?”

“Right,” said the disturbed “Rachel.” “There’s other Jewish families across the country. It’s not just my own family.”

“Really? “And so who knows about it? Lots of people now.”

“I talked to a police detective in the Chicago area….”

“So when you were brought up in this kind of evilness did you just think it was normal?”

“Rachel” said she had blocked out a lot of the memories, but she remembered enough to say “there would be rituals in which babies would be sacrificed.” She later added, “Not all Jewish people sacrifice babies…. It’s not a typical thing.”

“I think we all know that,” said Oprah.

“I just wanted to point that out.”

“This is the first time I heard of any Jewish people sacrificing babies, but anyway — so you witnessed the sacrifice?” said Oprah.

“Right. When I was very young I was forced to participate in that, and…I had to sacrifice an infant.”

The phones at Harpo started jangling with hundreds of irate callers objecting to Oprah’s blithe acceptance of “Rachel’s” claims about Jews practicing devil worship. Television stations across the country — New York, Los Angeles, Houston, Cleveland, Washington D.C. — were inundated with furious calls. Within hours, Jewish groups rose up in condemnation, and Oprah’s show because a national news story. “We have grave concerns about both the lack of judgment and the insensitive manipulation of this woman, who is clearly mentally ill, in a manner which can only inflame the basest prejudices of ignorant people,” Rabbi David Saperstein of the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism told The New York Times.

Arthur J. Kropp, president of People for the American Way, a leading civil liberties organization, met with his board of directors in Washington, D.C. “There’s been a lot of concern about so-called trash television,” he said after reviewing the transcript of Oprah’s show. “She was the one who introduced the religion. I don’t think she introduced it to convey any correlation between the woman’s Jewishness and what she saw, but nevertheless Oprah did do it and that was careless.”

This wasn’t the first bad publicity Ooprah had ever received, but it was brutal because she was being criticized for offending sensibilities of race and religion, which she had always appeared to champion. It was an especially sorry position for a woman who had put herself forward as a “poor little ole nappy-headed colored chile” from the lynching state of Mississippi as a not-so-subtle reminder of the viciousness of bigotry. She now felt misunderstood by her accusers, but she also recognized that her career was in jeopardy.

“We are aware that the show has struck a nerve,” said Jeff Jacobs, then COO of Harpo Productions. He pointed out to the press that Oprah had said on the air that “Rachel” was one particular person talking about her particular situation. “And she was identified at the top of the show as being mentally disturbed,” he added, not commenting on why such a person would be allowed on the show in the first place. Recognizing the danger of a national boycott of The Oprah Winfrey Show and the potential loss of sponsors, which could spell financial ruin for everyone, Jacobs quickly offered to meet with Jewish leaders in Chicago to try to salvage the situation, but neither he nor Oprah offered a public apology. When reporters called, Jacobs said Oprah was “traveling” and “unavailable for comment.”

…Feeling battered by the bruising she was taking in the nation’s press over her devil-worship show, Oprah remained close to her condominium at Water Tower Place when she wasn’t working. Serendipitously, she happened to meet Harriet Brady (nee Bookey), another resident, in the lobby. Mrs. Brady, then seventy-two, was well known in Chicago’s Jewish community as a philanthropist. She approached Oprah to introduce herself, and then said kindly, “I think I can help you.”

Within hours she was on the phone to her good friend Abraham Lincoln Marovitz, a federal judge whose contacts extended into every segment of society. He agreed to help, and for the next week Judge Marovitz and Mrs. Brady worked on Oprah’s behalf to assemble a group of representatives from the region’s Jewish community to meet at Harriet Brady’s condominium to try to quell the raging controversy.

Oprah arrived at the meeting on May 9, 1989, with Debar DiMaio and two Jewish members of her senior staff, Jeffrey Jacobs and Ellen Rakieten. They sat down with Michael Kotzin, director of the Jewish Community Relations Council of Metropolitan Chicago; Jonathan Levine, midwest director of the American Jewish Committee; Barry Morrison, director of the Greater Chicago/Wisconsin Regional Office of the Anti-Defamation League of B’nai B’rith; Rabbi Herman Schaalman, president of the Chicago Board of Rabbis; Maynard Wishner, resident of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago; Judge Marovitz; and Mrs. Brady.

Oprah was sufficiently contrite and vowed never again to broadcast a show on devil worship. She agreed to reach out to B’nai B’rith, which fights anti-Semitism and racism, whenever her show focused on those subjects, and she promised to exercise better judgment in selecting her guests. The two sides came together over the next three days to work out two statements to be delivered to the press, which had been covering the story nearly every day. Oprah and her executive producer said, “We recognize that The Oprah Winfrey Show on May 1 could have contributed to the perpetuation and historical misconceptions and canards about Jews, and we regret any harm may have been done. We are aware of community and group sensibilities and will make every effort to ensure that our program will reflect that concern.”

Speaking on behalf of the Jewish community leaders, ADL representative Barry Morrison said, “We were all satisfied that Oprah Winfrey and her staff did not intend to offend anyone and that Oprah was genuinely sorry for any offense or misunderstanding. During the meeting, constructive recommendations were made and there was an extensive exchange of information which led to a greater understanding of Jewish perspective on the part of Oprah and her staff.”

Not everyone was pleased with the outcome. “It’s an inadequate response to the harm that may have been done on that broadcast,” said Phil Baum, associate executive director of the American Jewish Congress. “It’s not our sensitivities she ought to be concerned about. It’s a question of the integrity of her show. This apology cannot possibly reach anything like the people [7,680,000 homes, according to the A.C. Nielsen Company] who were exposed to these statements.”

Oprah refused to make an apology on her show or publicly comment on the program or the statements, but privately she embraced her two major defenders and kept Mrs. Brady and Judge Marovitz close to her for the rest of their lives. Both were invited to all her parties, and because of them she became more involved in Jewish causes.

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Bustin’ Down The Door

As a kid, I’d often make fun of other people and the less intelligent among them would respond by punching me. I always thought that was unfair. I only fought with words.

So I’ve watched a couple of surfing documentaries about the Australian invasion of the Hawaiian surfing scene in the 1970s. In 1975, for example, the Aussies won all the top spots in a Hawaiian competition and for the great sin of claiming in interviews that they were indeed the best surfers, better than the native Hawaiins, they got beat up, held hostage in their apartment, and death contracts were taken out on them by the native Hawaiians. Why? Because the Aussie’s had dissed the Hawaiian’s culture.

I say any culture that responds to criticism with physical violence is a culture that deserves to be disrespected.

From Wikipedia: “Bustin’ Down The Door is a 2008 documentary film chronicling the rise of professional surfing in the early 1970s. The film follows a group of young surfers from Australia and South Africa, including Shaun Tomson, Wayne ‘Rabbit’ Bartholomew, Ian Cairns, Mark Richards, Michael Tomson and Peter Townend, as they relocate to Hawaii encountering obstacles, turf wars and massive wipeouts along the way. Clashes with the locals, some of whom find the newcomers’ bravado to be insulting to Hawaiian culture, eventually culminate in death threats against the subjects of the film.”

Now I’m watching ESPN’s 30 for 30 documentary, HAWAIIAN: THE LEGEND OF EDDIE AIKAU.

ESPN: “The surfers who were pushing the hardest were a group of young Australians who were determined to break into the ranks at any cost.”

And for this their lives were in danger.

The Huffington Post comments: “In 1976, for instance, he [Eddie Aikau] was instrumental in easing tensions between Hawaiians and Australians when turf battles on the North Shore of Oahu intensified.”

So some native Hawaiians beat up Australians in retaliation for boasting, put out contracts for the Australians’ deaths, and this is just “tensions between Hawaiians and Australians.” On the one hand, you have a culture that boasts with words. On the other hand, you have a culture that inflicts physical violence in retaliation for words they don’t like. Why does this sound so familiar? Which culture is superior and which culture is inferior?

The ESPN documentary talks about an “almost forgotten Hawaiian culture.”

Nainoa Thompson, director of the Polynesian Voyaging Society, says: “The Hokulea [to sail to Tahiti and back, over 5,000 miles to prove how smart and pioneering the native Hawaiians were] was a conduit for hope, for healing that goes back to the crushing of the native Hawaiian people over the past 200 years. Hawaiian culture and language was pretty much outlawed in the public schools in 1926. Most schools in Hawaii clearly understood, don’t teach Hawaiian. It has no value. You have that stereotype that native Hawaiians are stupid and lazy. If you hear it long enough, you’re going to believe it and become it.”

Why would anyone believe such stereotypes?

Dr. Jonathan Osorio, professor at the “Hawaiian School of Knowledge”, says to ESPN: “We aren’t just the servants of tourists. We’re not just hula dancers smiling and loving to dance for you. We’re an angry people. We’re a warrior people.”

Gee, where have I heard this stuff before?

So to prove how smart they are, the native Hawaiians organize a voyage (on a boat built without plans) to Tahiti and back without instruments, three decades about Thor Heyerdahl pulled off a more impressive feat.

I wonder if it is gauche to point out a Norwegian explorer who pulled off such a feat? “Kon-Tiki was the raft used by Norwegian explorer and writer Thor Heyerdahl in his 1947 expedition across the Pacific Ocean from South America to the Polynesian islands. It was named after the Inca sun god, Viracocha, for whom “Kon-Tiki” was said to be an old name. Kon-Tiki is also the name of Heyerdahl’s book; the Academy Award-winning documentary film chronicling his adventures; and the 2012 dramatised feature film nominated for the Academy Award for Best Foreign Language Film.”

From IMDB.com: “Legendary explorer Thor Heyerdal’s epic 4,300-mile crossing of the Pacific on a balsawood raft in 1947, in an effort prove that it was possible for South Americans to settle in Polynesia in pre-Columbian times.”

So to prove how smart they are, the Hokulea knowingly sails into a storm and is destroyed a few miles off the coast. The crew of 11 survives on a canoe and shoots off flares. Eddie takes a surfboard and paddles for help with the land about 12 miles away and he is never seen again.

A tourist on a plane sees the last flare shot off by the survivors and notifies a flight attendant who tells the pilot who circles around and notifies the Coast Guard who rescues these brave angry but frightened warriors out to prove the brilliance of native Hawaiian culture.

One Hawaiian says Eddie could not have lived with the humiliation of the Hokulea and it was better for him to end this way, paddling into legend.

The Hokulea made the trip to Tahiti in 29 days in 1980 and still sails back and forth to this day to prove a point about the greatness of Hawaiian culture.

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Mark Helprin Is A Hysteric

I enjoy author Mark Helprin (Dennis Prager’s radio producer Allen Estrin says Helprin is America’s greatest living novelist), but he keeps saying so many stupid things in such a histrionic manner that I regretfully conclude that while he should be appreciated, he can’t be trusted.

Mark Helprin is like flora and fauna. He deserves protection, nurturance and guidance.

Here he writes in the WSJ: “Prior to the Yom Kippur War of 1973, Israel was so intoxicated by its brilliant victories in 1967 that (substituting excessive confidence for military prudence) it was very nearly destroyed. After shattering Israel’s defenses, the Egyptian army halted only because of Israel’s nuclear deterrent, after which the tide of war turned only because of an extraordinary American resupply effort authorized by President Nixon, something that would hardly have been a certainty with a President Obama.”

The Egyptian Army in the Yom Kippur War halted in the Sinai for the first few days of the war so that it would not go beyond the range of its SAM (anti-aircraft) battery and be destroyed by the Israeli Air Force. Eventually, on day four of the war, the Egyptian army did advance beyond its anti-aircraft forces and got destroyed by the Israeli Air Force.

On what evidence does Helprin base his claim? I know of none. I think he just imagined it. He’s been told so much that he’s awesome that he probably believes it and he thinks that by purely deductive reason, he can understand how the world really works, even if there is no factual basis.

From Wikipedia: “Both Herzog and Shazly mentioned a failed Egyptian attack southward along the Gulf of Suez in the direction of Ras Sudar by the Egyptian 1st Mechanized Brigade. Leaving the safety of the SAM umbrella, the force was attacked by Israeli aircraft and suffered severe losses.”

Israel’s nuclear deterrent had nothing to do with it (unless I can see evidence to the contrary).

Israel is far more militarily integrated with the United States today than at any time in history, certainly far more so than during the Yom Kippur War. Israel is in a stronger position today than it has ever been in its history.

I don’t think Obama likes the Jews and Israel, but he understands what is in his self-interest. What do you get out of supporting the Islamic world over Israel? It does little for you and you’ll get destroyed by America’s intellectual class, which is in large part Jewish.

In an interview with Dennis Prager Oct. 31, 2013, Mark Helprin said he would no longer feel any loyalty to the United States if they drafted women to fight in the military. He would head into the hills.

I think drafting women into the military is a terrible idea but I wouldn’t abandon the US over it. That’s hysterical thinking that if this one thing doesn’t go my way, I’m out.

I’m going to keep reading Mark Helprin like I’ll keep reading Victor Davis Hansen, but I’m suspicious of both men (Hansen for faulting the US for playing a role in supporting Iraq against Iran in the 1980s when it was in the world’s interest for these two evil nations to destroy each other).

JACK* EMAILS:

This column was published in the last month on Lew Rockwell.com.

This does mention that according to Russian intelligence the Syrians may have halted their attack for fear of a nuclear attack from Israel.

It also explains that the Israelis were able to successfully counterattack (and thus make Ariel Sharon’s reputation) by using U.S. aerial reconnaissance and intelligence to exploit a gap in the Egyptian lines.

Is Margolis right? Who knows? Maybe Helprin is correct. I do remember reading at the time of the 73 war in the B’nai Brith Messenger, then the leading Jewish newspaper in Los Angeles (although the liberals preferred Herb Brin’s Heritage) one of the columnists wrote that Israel had informed Egypt that if its army’s didn’t halt it would nuke the Aswan Dam. Who knows what his sources were? What you said, is certainly the conventional military understanding of what happened and it serves both Israeli and Egyptian purposes to stick to that story. If Margolis is correct that 20% of the Israeli air force was destroyed by Soviet surface to air missiles, it certainly would have made the Israelis wary of attacking from the air unless they were certain they were beyond the range of the missiles and they hadn’t been brought closer to the front.

Be that as it may be, Helprin, like so many others in the literary world, should stick to his knitting. Because his fiction is permeated with issues concerning morality, it is no surprise when he comments on society. However, he also views himself a strategist with some superior knowledge and understanding of real politik and real military concerns. He is deathly afraid that the U.S. can only remain the top dog as long as it is a military hegemon and fears that between budgetary cutbacks on new weapons, reducing forces on alert or deployed (especially Naval forces. He seems to be a strict disciple of Mahan) and a lack of will to field fighting forces but water them down in the name of social engineering, will lead to some sort of new Pearl Harbor from China which will either totally destroy (at worst) or subjugate us (at best)

Once you understand that that is his perspective, you can take his non fiction opinions on the world and the military with a grain of salt or cherry pick the parts you agree with.

I really do like Helprin but he is a unreconstructed romantic-his characters fall in love at first sight in many of his books and short stories. He also is fascinated by horses and is tremendously knowledgeable and opinionated about western art and architecture.

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Men Want One-Stop Shopping

Relationship expert (Understandmen.com) Alison Armstrong was on Dennis Prager’s radio show today. “Men want to be devoted to his mate and give her everything she desires. But his mate has to provide him with what he needs – admiration, nurturing, attention, validation, among other things.”

Alison: “Men are naturally devoted to one woman. It’s how they’re made. It’s how their brain works. It’s how they evaluate their expenditure of energy — to be devoted to one person.”

“It’s way more efficient to go to Walmart and get everything you need rather than to drive around to six different places. Men are efficient in that way.”

“You choose the one and then it is a matter of energy expenditure. It works better for the single-focused brain, which is created by testosterone, to have that one-stop shopping.”

“There’s a logical reason for a man to go to two places when he could go to just one place — when that one place stops stocking what he needs. We make our men shop elsewhere by being clueless to what he needs.”

“Women, do not create a conflict between what a man has to have and his integrity… When he finally breaks and goes to another source, his honor will have him be ashamed of it but it can stop him from doing it for only so long.”

“There are men who need variety and they will tell women right off that they need to shop around town… Women who’ve decided he’s the one, ignores that.”

Dennis: “Men ache to be devoted to one woman.”

Alison: “The testosterone creates single focus, that includes a single place to get what you need.”

“The masculine way of thinking is like a container so what you put in it, stays in it longer. If you did a good job of appreciating a man, that appreciation could last him for months. A woman’s brain is more like a sieve. We just leak. It’s diffuse awareness. It’s how come we can maintain connections. We need you to tell us we’re beautiful every day. We’re not a container that holds it.

“I don’t think women are naturally devoted. When a man commits himself to a woman, he buys the whole package. That’s just how she is.”

“A woman doesn’t do that. A woman commits one acceptance at a time. She doesn’t just buy the whole package. It’s one individual choice at a time. OK, he leaves his socks on the floor, I can live with that. He’s a motorcycle rider, I can live with that.”

“We have so many sources to meet our needs… All the attention. All the listening. We need to build a village for ourselves… We don’t see how devoted men are.”

“One woman can provide so much variety if she is just willing to play. That’s what dress-up, role-playing, hotel sex is all about.”

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