Why Scandals Still Scandalize

From the WSJ:

The scandals are as much about hypocrisy as sex, of course, but I would submit that the activities of these men are, if anything, more of a shock to the public’s sensibilities than they would have been 50 years ago. Take Mr. Vitter, for instance. Before the sexual revolution, a man with the congressman’s desires might well have had to resort to cavorting with women of ill repute. Prostitution was widespread and, as the recent book "Sin in the Second City" by Karen Abbott demonstrates, brothels were hardly hidden from public view. "The line of brothels and dives on State Street, from Van Buren to 22nd, was known as Satan’s mile," Ms. Abbott writes. There was even a "guide to neighborhood brothels titled ‘The Sporting and Club House Directory.’ " But it wasn’t just Chicago. Historic walking tours of cities from Charleston, S.C., to New York will inevitably include reference to the location of the old whorehouses. Everyone knew about them. And the politicians were frequent customers.

Today, most respectable citizens of New York and Chicago would be hard-pressed to tell a visitor where they could find such businesses. Why? In part, the demand for their wares has dwindled. Mr. Vitter and the rest of us live in an era where sex outside of marriage is pretty common, and sex before marriage is becoming universal. Sure, many people still frown on extramarital affairs, but one imagines that if Mr. Vitter had a Capitol Hill fling rather than purchased his companionship, his constituents might not be so disgusted. And, to be honest, in an era where sex is so widely available, Mr. Vitter also looks a little pathetic having to pay for his.

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Shalom Auslander’s beef with the Lord

From NY Mag:

You deleted your manuscript several times out of fear that God would strike down your family. What about now that it’s being published?
When I was writing it for myself, anything could happen and no one would know. Now it’s out there, so if He tries any shit, people are going to know. They’d be like, “Wow, he’s right, that Guy’s a dick.”

Do you resent Reform Jews who can be proud of their heritage without having had to endure the hard stuff?
[Reform Jews] are not necessarily going to burn their porn, as I did, but psychologically they’re doing the same thing.

 

So why not throw your hat in with Christopher Hitchens and become an atheism advocate?
I guess if you spin religion enough, it’s comforting to think God’s a decent guy. He’s not Archie Bunker, he’s Meathead.

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David Klinghoffer Interview

I call author David Klinghoffer Friday afternoon, August 31, 2007.

Here’s a partial transcript.

Luke: "How was the experience of writing this book different from the others?"

David: "I had to write faster. With my Abraham book, The Discovery of God, I did a lot more research. I write books on scholarly subjects but I’m really just a journalist. I couldn’t do the kind of research that a real scholar would do."

"It was harder in that there are more new insights. With the Abraham book, I was drawing on midrashim. My creative work was to tie them all up in a narrative. With the Jesus book I was relying on a lot of scholarly research that had been done before me and the creative work was drawing it into a narrative. Here I had to take some creative stabs on connections between the commandments because they are not specified in the traditional sources. That was uncharted territory."

"My next book was going to be called ‘Why God is a Republican.’ And every time I would mention that people would laugh. Now I can’t use that title because the organization I work for is a non-profit and we can’t be partisan. Now it is going to be called, ‘How Would God Vote?’"

"I write fast. I take risks. I’m sometimes surprised when people take great offense at things I wrote.

"Weakness? I’m writing about things that a scholar should be writing about and I am not a scholar. There’s always the danger of my being superficial and wrong."

Luke: "If you were offered a million dollar book contract but with the proviso that you could not criticize liberalism nor secularism, what would you write about?"

David: "I would write a novel about Judaism."

Luke: "What do you love about Seattle’s culture?"

David: "It’s a beautiful place. It’s gentle in many ways. You point out that it’s very secular and you queried why do I live here instead of Jerusalem. You speculated that I like secularism more than I admit."

"Being in a religious culture is a hothouse environment. Everybody’s looking at you. We live in a suburb where there’s a small shul as opposed to the main Jewish neighborhood called Seward Park where there are three large Orthodox synagogues. We chose not to live there in part that it is a hothouse. Everybody notices what you do and what you don’t do. Where we live there are more secular Jews. I guess you are right that it is inconsistent of me that I choose to live in such a secular area."

"It’s true that the place you’d think of as fun, beautiful cities to live in — Seattle, San Francisco, Los Angeles, New York, Boston — these are all blue cities. The cities in the red spectrum, be it Dallas, they are not places I’d run to live in. That is a mystery. I don’t have a solution."

"These blue cities are new to secularism. The analogy I’d give is someone going off their medication. For the first few hours, the person may feel fine and concluded he never needed his meds."

"There’s a genteel quality to the better aspects of Seattle’s culture. Nordstroms could only have started in Seattle with their emphasis on customer service. But I didn’t move here for Seattle’s culture. It’s not like when you go to New York or L.A. and feel a buzz."

David’s favorite movies include The Last Emperor, Ferris Bueller’s Day Off, Lord of the Rings, and the Star Wars series.

"I listen to rock music all the time on the radio. It’s great for driving but I never listen to it at home. I don’t pay attention to the groups. I just turn on the radio and flip around to try to avoid commercials. If you mention the name of a song to me, it is almost certain that I wouldn’t recognize the name of the song but if you played it for me, I probably would recognize it."

Luke: "What did you think of Borat?"

David: "I thought it was funny but mean. The first half was hilarious. The second half I felt increasingly guilty yet enjoying it. It made fun of people who were trying to be helpful. It was cruel to people who weren’t bad enough to merit that kind of cruelty. Though I laughed throughout it, it was ugly movie."

Luke: "Would you agree to be interviewed by Borat?"

David: "No. Everyone knows that if Borat wants to interview you, it is to make a fool of you."

Luke: "Which part of life do you find most perplexing?"

David: "How to be a good husband."

He’s been married seven years.

Luke: "How has being a husband and father affected your thinking and writing?"

David: "I’ve been thinking about that in connection with our disagreement about gossip."

Luke: Some forms of gossip I view as completely reprehensible (those forms that do far more harm than good) and other forms of gossip as mixed (the good and harm are about equal) and some forms of gossip are good (those that do more good than harm).

David: "You’ve never been married and you don’t have kids."

Luke: "Correct."

David: "Have you ever held a real job, a 9-5 job?"

Luke: Yes. I’ve held various full-time jobs for three to six months each. I held part-time jobs for more than two years.

David: "Have you ever been part of a community that you felt committed to?"

Luke: "All of my life (with the exception of my years from age 18-26), I have been a part of a traditional religious community (before 18 it was Seventh-Day Adventist ones, from age 27 on it has been Jewish ones)."

David: "One way my life position has made me rethink gossip is that you understand what other people have to lose. With gossip you can destroy someone’s family and his role in the company and community. To understand what people have at stake, you have to experience this. You don’t just kill the one person. You kill his family, his wife, everyone connected with the irresponsible spread of gossip. It places a tremendous responsibility on the person who wants to spread information.

"Your argument is that where there’s smoke, there’s fire."

Luke: Sometimes where there’s smoke, there’s fire. When you transmit personal information, you have to balance the good with the harm before publishing. Sometimes transmitting gossip informs the unwary about something that could hurt them.

David: "I guess I’m placing more stress on the harm."

"People who have opted out of responsibilities and worries and concerns that other people have and treat those responsibilities lightly and then wear that fact proudly… It would be interesting to know if the people who run Jewish blogs that gossip, do they have anything at stake?"

Luke: "The more you have at stake, the more vulnerable you are, and the less you are in a position to write gossip."

David: "That’s my point. That drives me berserk."

Luke: "How important a role does gossip play in enforcing community norms?"

David: "It’s a two-edged sword. On the one hand, you can say it keeps people honest. At the same time, every time someone is caught doing something they shouldn’t and it is broadcast, it lowers the shock value of the thing reported. Before, the thing was so shocking that nobody would talk about it much less do it. Now it is being talked about all over and giggled at…"

Luke: "Why do you say that the media hold someone’s life in their hands? Someone could write that I am a child molester and I would still feel that my life is in my hands. Why would give the media that much power?"

David: "It does. Maybe that you’re a blogger and a lone ranger, you’re not married with kids, you’re not employed, you are invulnerable to being destroyed. You report things on yourself, you linked to something nasty someone had written about you that wasn’t true, and for you there’s no cost to that. It’s all part of being a blogger. It’s interesting to read. It costs you nothing. But you report the same thing about someone else and it costs them everything."

Luke: "Isn’t that because I’ve built up a thick skin and someone else hasn’t?"

David: "No. It’s because you’ve exempted yourself from responsibility for other people. Is there anyone for whom you are responsible?"

Luke: "I know that my writing profoundly affects the hundreds of people I write about."

David: "That’s different. They choose to read your blog."

Luke: "No. The people I write about [whether they read me or not]."

David: "Is there anyone who is inextricably bound to you?"

Luke: "Not on an ongoing basis. Sometimes people are particularly vulnerable and I am the one who’s there for them."

David: "Someone who looks to you for support."

Luke: "A lot of people who are disenfranchised, who have a story they want to tell but don’t have the means. They feel beaten down by life. I get to tell their story. I went to dinner the other day with Marsha Plafkin. I told the story of her troubles with the University of Judaism….

"She said to me she would not have been able to get married without my telling of her story. That freed her to go on with her life. Prior to then, she felt so completely battered by life, she felt unable to carry on."

David: "I don’t know the story, but taking what you said at face value that’s great. But that’s different from what I’m talking about. If you were to disappear from the world tomorrow, her life goes on."

Luke: "Yeah, but if I had disappeared before telling her story, her life would not have gone on as it has, if we take what she said at face value."

David: "But if you disappeared right now…"

Luke: "But the other persons who I might help now…"

David: "Your relationship with them is purely hypothetical. Anyone you might help in the future, you don’t know who they are yet."

Luke: Some of them I do know who they are. I’ve taken down their story. I’ve started to check it. I just have not published it.

David: "You have to imagine yourself in the total existence of someone you are writing about. It’s harder for you to do that because you don’t have those kinds of responsibilities now."

Luke: "But as a conservative, don’t you believe in individual responsibility? You keep talking about the power of the media to destroy someone’s life. I would contend that a person has a fair amount to say in their own destiny and that a person who has some resources should not allow himself to be destroyed by some damaging report in the media."

David: "That’s naive. You can’t not let yourself be destroyed."

Luke: "Let’s say you are accused by a blogger of sexually molesting a 12-year old girl. And the allegation is true. That’s very damaging but I would contend that depending on how you handled it, you could carry on."

The proper way to handle such a thing would be to admit the truth and then plead for your sin to be balanced against the good things you’ve done in your life and point to evidence that shows you have changed from the person who did the evil.

David: "I guess."

Luke: "Let’s say you plagiarized three lengthy paragraphs in your new book. Normally, that would end your career as a writer. But I contend you could bounce back. It would destroy your career as you know it now but it would not have to destroy your life."

David: "Whatever someone does to me, deserved or undeserved, would deeply impact everyone connected with me."

Luke: "Let’s say a blogger has that information on you, should they publish it? Would you if the shoe was on the other foot?"

David: "I don’t think so. I’d email them privately and let him know that I’ve got his number and put some fear into him."

"People make careers out of jumping on someone’s mistake and using it to advance themselves."

Luke: "I think that works to the good."

David: "Whenever everyone is ganging up self-righteously on some guy who has everything to lose… Did you see my column for NRO about Larry Craig? Everyone jumping on this guy… Maybe I’m a contrarian."

Luke: "Are you a contrarian?"

David: "I guess you could say that I am."

Luke: "Wouldn’t that be part of the reason that you choose to live in blue areas?"

David: "Someone could say that… You could more readily explain it as a profound inconsistency in my whole argument. If what the Torah says in this parsha is true, then you would think that societies that are God-centered would prosper and be beautiful places to live and that places that are not God-centered would be pits. Anyone who takes the Torah seriously would have to ask themselves why is that not the case? Seattle is not a pit."

Luke: "Where would you be if you didn’t have secularism and liberalism to fulminate against?"

David laughs. "I guess I would be an archeologist."

We talk about Noah Feldman.

David: "I find something uninspiring about Modern Orthodoxy and I can kinda see why this guy might have felt unexcited by it."

Luke: "How often do you encounter anti-Semitism among right-wing Christians?"

David: "Never."

Luke: "Did you ever hear from Mel Gibson?"

David: "No."

Luke: "How do you recharge (aside from the predictable answers such as family, friends, Judaism, etc)?"

David: "I like to drink a screwdriver when I get home from work. I like to see the ocean. I like to see big bodies of water."

Our interview wanders.

David: "I’m always looking for a teacher. I’m always searching for a guru. Not just a living person, but a book. Then I’ll think, ‘Now I’ve found it. This is how I’m going to explain Judaism.’ And then I’ll read more and I’ll realize that doesn’t quite do it. I’m still trying to figure out an overall hashkafa (worldview) that satisfies me completely. I haven’t found that."

"The whole blog phenomena has things that are depressing. The internet has brought a lot of nastiness. There are things that I wish I’d never read about rabbis, whether they were true or not."

Luke: "It seems that when you go out into the world you are looking solely for evidence to support the Torah rather than ever challenge your understanding of the Torah?"

David: "All of my writing is an experiment in trying to see if the Torah can be tested as a guide to life. I use the Torah as the primary guide to understanding reality. Relying on other sources for morality is fine for other people but that’s not what I’m trying to do."

"I’m happy to chalk what I don’t understand in Torah to my own inadequacies. As soon as you start saying the Torah is wrong about this, what sort of anchor is there for your moral thinking?"

"The link you sent me seem to have a lot of academic and journalistic thoughts about gossip that were more positive than Torah’s. That doesn’t fit with our understanding of gossip. There are positive things that gossip does just as you could think of positive things that unjust wars do. They help keep down the population, but that doesn’t mean it is OK to embark on unjust war."

Luke: "Often ‘lashon hara’ is used to try to shut down a discussion that needs to be had."

David: "Yes. Often. It does seem like if you followed strictly the Chofetz Chaim’s guidelines for what you can say, it would be hard to open your mouth, let alone to write a gossip blog."

"Gossip is sort of the equivalent of going to war."

Luke: "The news media under-reported the Roosevelt, JFK and LBJ administrations."

David: "The sort of culture that would have allowed us to talk frankly about JFK’s sexual adventures, there would have been consequences that spread throughout the culture. You’d be talking about a different culture, less gentle, more indifferent to hurting people like Richard Jewel… Making a decision [to report personal information] is like dropping a stone into a pool. You have no idea of the consequences."

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Back To You

In the fall of 2001, it seemed like everybody I knew in Pico-Robertson had turned their back on me.

But one man said, "I’ll give you a chance."

‘Nuff said.

I’m still standing
Better than I ever did
Feeling like a true survivor
Acting like a little kid

I’ve been down – I’ve been beat
I’ve been so tired-that I could not speak
I’ve been so lost that I could not see
I wanted things that were out of reach
Then I found you and you helped me through
And ya showed me what to do
And that’s why I’m comin back to you…

Like a star that guides a ship across the ocean
That’s how your love will take me home back to you
And if I wish upon that star – someday I’ll be where you are
I know that day is coming soon – ya, I’m coming back to you.
You’ve been alone, but ya did not show it
You’ve been in pain, but did not know it
Let me do what I needed to – you were there when I needed you
Mighta let you down, mighta messed you round
But ya never changed your point of view
And that’s why I’m comin back to you…

I’m coming back to you
I’m coming back to you
I’m coming back to you
That day is coming soon

I’m coming back to you

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Adas Torah – Up And Coming Orthodox Shul On Beverly Dr

It’s largely composed of the black-hatted offspring of such Modern Orthodox shuls as Beth Jacob and Young Israel of Century City.

Adas Torah is starting a kollel (where married men will study Torah full-time). Not sure how much of a stipend these scholars will receive, but I suspect it’ll be around $50,000 a year.

Adas Torah is the most talked about new shul in Pico-Robertson in many years.

Over at the Sephardi shul Mogen David on Foothill, the rabbi is leaving to start a Zionist K-6th grade school at Mogen David on Pico Blvd.

I hear the founder of Ameriquest will be forced by financial setbacks to drastically curtail his donations to Shalhevet.

Lou writes:

Your facts about the Adas-Torah-affiliated Kollel are basically correct.  But the story behind the story is far more intriguing.

This Kollel will be housed at Beth Jacob — one of the shuls whose black-hatted offspring, as you report, now attend AT.  How does one explain this sharing of facilities with a "competitor"?

You must first understand that this new Kollel, like Adas Torah, is a spin-off of a third, established, organization, the Los Angeles Kollel.  One of the Kollel’s leading rabbis, Rabbi Baruch Gradon, wishes to make inroads into the Pico-Robertson community.  Rabbi Gradon’s erudition, offered in a soft British brogue, is very appealing to the well-educated Pico-Robertson crowd.

Also, Rabbi Weil of Beth Jacob is a huge admirer of Rabbi Gradon.  Nothwithstanding the Kollel’s Lakewood affiliation, Rabbi Weil appreciates the intellectual gifts of the leaders of this venerable ultra-Orthodox institution.  In fact, this coming Shabbat, Beth Jacob will host the Executive Director of the Lakewood Yeshiva, Rabbi Aron Kotler, who shares the same name as his grandfather, who founded this flagship institution of the Yeshiva world.

All very interesting, but there is also an element of BJ-YICC rivalry going on here.  Adas Torah is perceived as a break-away from YICC, not as a break-away from BJ (which YICC was, a generation ago).  The BJ offspring who attend AT left BJ long ago, when Rabbis Lamm and Weiss were at the helm.  Now they are leaving YICC.  Comes along Rabbi Weil, steers BJ to the right, accepts (and possibly encourages) a Lakewood-affiliated outpost in Pico-Robertson, and tells these young families who left YICC for something more serious:  We support the goals of Adas Torah.  And you can always consider Beth Jacob your second home.

Pretty clever.

I hear the kollel crowd hold themselves apart at Beth Jacob and have their own 7 a.m. minyan.

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Shabbos!

Towards the end of the Shabbat’s third meal, two of my friends decided to leave shul and walk home.

I wanted to say "Shabbos!" to them and start crying but feared I would not have the same power over them that the Chofetz Chaim once wielded on a Sabbath desecrator.

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Dennis Prager Hosts High Holiday Services

By Timithie Gould:

Conservative radio personality and Jewish figurehead Dennis Prager recently relocated to the foothills to be closer to his Glendale studio, but radio isn’t the only thing he plans on bringing to La Cañada.

“I will be conducting the High Holy Day ceremonies of Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur in La Cañada because no synagogue exists here right now,” Prager said. “I don’t want to promise to start a new synagogue, but if people are up in numbers and are committed, I don’t see why we shouldn’t consider it.”

Prager has long been affiliated with the Jewish faith, having been raised in a Jewish home in Brooklyn, New York.

In 1986, he co-authored a best-selling book, “The Nine Questions People Ask About Judaism,” that has become an essential go-to resource and introduction to the faith.

Prager has been working on bringing the holy day ceremonies to the foothills since his move two months ago. He was “totally aware of the lack of a formal Jewish community in La Cañada.”

“We are in truly unknown territory,” said Prager, who has previous experience conducting Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur ceremonies. “This is like going to Mongolia from a Jewish point of view.”

Prager met with Glendale Rabbi Simcha Backman before moving to La Cañada but was unable to come to conclusive numbers as to how many Jews reside in La Cañada or the surrounding communities.

“La Cañada is such a wonderful place,” Prager said, “and how many wonderful places don’t have synagogues?”

Though he emphasized that he is not promising to found or create a synagogue, Prager is motivated to create a Jewish community in his new home town.

“The immediate goal is to have a meaningful Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur,” Prager said, including that the ceremonies will be non-denominational and all-denominational.

Several possible locations have been discussed, but the time and place for the celebrations have yet to be set in stone.

Prager encourages all interested parties to email him for details at [email protected] or by calling (800) 225-8584.

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Am I A Chicken Swinger?

Chaim Amalek writes: "There is an article on kapporos in today’s NY Post and a few videos on the practice on youtube. Where do you stand on this practice – do you hold with RAMBAM, who declared it to be pagan in origin, or are a chicken swinger?"

I hold with the Rambam about chicken swinging and I hold with the Vilna Gaon opposing tashlich. I also don’t grab my tzitzit and kiss them repeatedly in the mornings during the recitation of the three paragraphs following the shma.

I don’t do all of the above for the same reason I like to get blowjobs (though I won’t let myself get them anymore because the Torah prohibits them) — they require no effort on my part.

I’m tired most of the time and I don’t like to expend effort on sex, women, religion or anything that does not gain me the maximum amount of attention (which gives me vital energy).

From NYPost.com:

August 31, 2007 — Rabbis in Brooklyn’s Orthodox Jewish and Hasidic communities are taking a hard look at an annual religious ceremony in which the faithful swing live chickens over their heads.

Called kapparot, the fowl-whirling event occurs each year between Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur – which take place next month – and is meant to transfer the sins of the believer to the chicken, which is then sacrificed.

But after a series of troubling incidents, in which birds were found improperly dumped after the ceremony, People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals has its feathers in a bunch.

They’ve been circulating a video showing the chickens being tossed around like garbage in filthy conditions after a ceremony.

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Shaarey Zedek Shul Review

Joe writes about the Valley shul:

Biggest Orthodox Synagogue in the Valley. Very crowded, lots of families and an average age in the 30s. Growing slowly, and the new building can hardly contain the membership.

Many young marrieds due to the relative affordability of homes in the area and the tendency of Valley kids to return home after marriage and the previous Rabbi and Rabbi’s wife really catering to the younger crowd. Has three minyons on shabbos with very different types of style:

8:00 – the early minyan – black hat, but a touch faux, a very noisy affair with horrible decorum, very good for guys who are black hat because they like to be seen in black hats and despise people who do not wear black hats. If you are black hat because you are serious, sit close to the center. If you want to futz around, sit towards the back. Tries to dominate the shul and is succeeding pretty much due to demographics of the larger families of the early minyan and the ability to put asses in the seats. A rabbi gives a speech about the laws against gossip, not some flimsy sermon on the portion of the week and how it relates to current events. It is downstairs in the social hall, which is the worst room because it is all "toe up" from constant use and the seating is on chairs, not traditional pews so people tend to meander around while davening. Fields the biggest crowd of males and kids (very few woman attendees, most are still in their shabbos robes taking care of the kids), and usually has the best food – most of the time it is a kiddush or sitdown and there is cholent (if your stomach can handle it at 10:00 a.m.). It is the most vibrant service in terms of the growth of the synagogue. I recommend you make a point to try this minyan. You will either swear by it or against it.

8:15 – the second minyan – held in a smaller room (about the size of a large classroom) a breakaway from the 8:00 for people who are black hat or non-black hat who want a more devotional service. No talking is allowed, and the Rabbi gives a very learned speech that sometimes does not make sense, but is still learned. Not for a casual visitor, more of an acquired taste, and the decorum is a vast improvement over the early minyan. If you went to yeshiva and liked the davening there (no melodies, no noise, but lots of bodies swaying, you will like it). A very small mini-kiddush afterwards and many of the attendees will learn with the Rabbi afterwards. About 5 women attend. Not quite sure how any of these guys get away with being absentee fathers for 3 hours plus on a saturday morning without telling their wives they are gambling addicts and have to play poker.

8:45 – the third minyan – this is the mainline service, replete with a cantor, a sermon from the head rabbi and a slightly older crowd. Very few black hats, mostly modern orthodox guys without the holier than thou chip on their shoulder. A while ago a Rabbi leading this service hectored the congregants to come earlier to the service, and one of the big guns in the synagogue took said Rabbi to the woodshed. A low key service, where guys tell dirty jokes, give stock tips and complain about their lives. Very few people will be talking about torah topics. The "evangelical" types of jews who are newly observant do not much like this minyan, there is very little fire and brimstone and too much chatting and gossiping. because less and less people are using this minyan, the food situation afterwards is paltry and there is often not a kiddush, just a mini kiddush.

Friendliness – Once you are in SZ, you have friends, but do not look to be invited for lunch just showing up off the street. There are lots of ways to get semi-involved – it is not like Young Israel of Century City where there is a committee on everything, but if you want to meet guys who learn torah, you can go to a class. You want to meet guys who play poker, hang out in the third minyan. You really have to make your own way at SZ, there is no outreach, and there is no need to do it. The membership grows a bit each year with no effort on anyone’s part.

Vibe – Again, it depends on which service you go to. Friday night services are actually the best in a way as there is only one service and it is packed (half of the woman’s section is closed and there must be 250 men praying. And it is very quiet and devotional. If you have kids, you cannot beat SZ because your kids have someone to play with, which might not be the case if you go to one of the offshoots in the Valley.

Singles – Very few. The singles there are either committed to be single, in the closet, or hideous. There are of course exceptions, but they prove the rule.

Rabbi – generally very good. The synagogue has had three in its existence. Rabbi Sugarman, very erudite but not too warm, but of high caliber intellect. Retired after about 30 years Next was Rabbi Aron Tendler, credited with growing the synagogue and brining a younger crowd (this might have happened anyways due to the affordable housing, but he certainly pushed the younger crowd to join and be active). Did about 20 years as associate Rabbi and 10 in the lead role. Left under a cloud regarding sexual misconduct issues. Rabbi Jonathan Rosenberg now, a superstar in the making.

Flaws – Lack of unity. Having three minyans means three shuls. They are just now starting to reunite behind a Rabbi and having a single fundraiser. Somewhat cliquish, which cannot be avoided, but you will find your clique. Somewhat unfriendly to the newcomer, but again, once you have arrived, you are family.

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KNBC’s Laurel Erickson Returns To Work

From ERSNews.com:

ERS News can confirm that KNBC-TV reporter Laurel Erickson is back on the job following her run-in with a Telemundo crewmember after a press conference with Los Angeles Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa on August 3rd 2007.

ERS exclusively broke the news about Erickson being disciplined by NBC over the incident. See below.

This photo taken this past Tuesday (8/27/07) shows a yellow jacket clad Erickson listening intently to a press conference involving the Mayor and LA Police Chief William Bratton concerning disaster preparedness in Los Angeles.

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