There is a well known teaching that appears several times in the Talmud and Midrash (JT Yoma 1:1, Yalkut Tehillim 886), which states that “any generation in which the Temple is not rebuilt, it is considered as if that generation had itself destroyed the Temple.” Certainly this would seem to be a rather severe judgment, for as the Sefat Emet points out, many generations containing many great and righteous people have passed without the Temple being rebuilt, and it would be fairly extreme to say of them that they had personally destroyed the Temple. Actually, it would be fairly harsh to say of any innocent people that they had committed crimes of such magnitude in a reckoning of a non-event, that is, in the Temple not being rebuilt. Thus, the question for us, is whether there is some other way to understand this teaching, that might perhaps give a whole new way of looking at the Jewish tradition of historical mourning?
To some extent, this question is provoked by some of the more standard approaches found in some Jewish popular writings. For example, in this week’s LA Jewish Journal, a Rabbi affiliated with one of the outreach programs writes:
“The fact that Tisha B’Av falls in the summer is not just a stroke of bad luck. Gd deliberately destroyed the Temple in the summer. Summer, when the world is outside their closed homes and offices, taking vacations, having fun. Summer, when there is the greatest propensity for calamity, because of our carefree attitudes…”
In other words, Tisha B’Av is not about remembering the trauma of war and destruction, not about the huge number of people murdered by an invading empire (some scholars estimate the number of dead during the second Temple destruction at about one million dead), not about human suffering at all, rather it serves the purpose, as, in this argument, does all religious practice, of being a divinely inspired “bummer” to prevent you from having too much “fun” “fun” being obviously be a pretty bad thing if Gd needs to make orphans of so many children just to be a killjoy. Thus, we can say that the answer to the questions of our relation to the history of human suffering is not to be found in this approach.
An answer to our initial Midrashic questionis proposed by the Sefat Emet, and answer that fits well into an approach to history in general presented by an almost Hasidic thinker, who was himself in the end a victim of the same class of tragedy commemorated by Tisha B’Av, Walter Benjamin. The Sefat Emet proposes that verb “rebuilt”; in the original quotation is not a one time affair. The rebuilding of the Temple, as it were, is a continuous process that transcends any one generation. Rather, he states: “…The merit of each generation adds a bit of building to the rebuilding of the Temple, and this building continues for all the years of the diaspora, as the prayer states, "who rebuilds Jerusalem" (in the Hebrew the verb is in the present tense).”
Thus, there is some contribution by every generation, and as the Sefat Emet himself extends the reading, there is a brick in the wall contributed by every individual.
We can universalize this teaching, with the help of Walter Benjamin. Benjamin, in his Theses on the Philosophy of History, argues that the role of history is one of rescue, where the injustice perpetuated on the victims of history can be identified, learned from, and thus prevented in the present and future, thus serving as a kind of redemption of the past. The victims “have a retroactive force and will constantly call in question every victory, past and present, of the rulers.” His approach to history “…wishes to retain that image of the past which unexpectedly appears to man singled out by history at a moment of danger… the Messiah comes not only as the redeemer, he comes as the subduer of Antichrist. Only that historian will have the gift of fanning the spark of hope in the past who is firmly convinced that even the dead will not be safe from the enemy if he wins…”
In summary, the goal of history, or for our purposes, the commemoration of historical events as a praxis, is meant to give meaning to, to rescue and redeem, the hopes and dreams of those who were trampled by the victorious, those ruling classes who are also those who generally get to write the “standard” histories. By remembering and commemorating them, we are “endowed with a weak messianic power, a power to which the past has a claim.”
Dr. Kirschbaum writes about the Torah portion beginning Deuteronomy:
When I taught this particular shiur in Jerusalem a few years ago, I reflected how religious society had responded in the aftermath of the Rabin assassination. Up until that point, there was the well known rhetoric of the religious right, that was so popular in the Dati Leumi world, the whole terrible “Rabin Boged” and the “Rodef” bit. Very few had the desire to stand up and challenge this establishment; even in Katamon, among all the spiritual Jewish meditation types these ultra right sentiments were common, partly, I think, because no one really took the ramifications seriously. It was the kind of infantile raving we were all used to hearing from high school rebbeim, all of us knowing that deep down they are “good guys” (those of us from the NY yeshiva world know what that phrase usually means), and it didn’t really mean anything- bogus tough talk from the disempowered. Then Yigal Amir murdered Yitzhak Rabin. Suddenly at that moment, it seems, people woke up. The legitimacy of more left wing diversity among the erstwhile monolithic Dati Leumi world became apparent, as seen in the rise of Carlebach minyanim, the descent of the centrality of Mercaz Harav and Gush Emunim in religious discourse, etc. This, I hoped, was a contemporary parallel of R. Zadok’s teaching. The next week someone from the shiur related that as a result of this teaching he was moved to take the bus over to Har Herzl and visit Rabin’s grave. This was the moment of which I am most proud in my teaching life.
Unfortuately, there is still so much work to do. R. Ovadiah Yosef continues with his remarkable statements, and now, suddenly, there is a reawakening of violence from the religious right. Turning to other dark elements in religious society, I’m reminded of R. Avigdor Nebenzahl’s public shiur a year ago, which was printed up in its entirety in the Israeli press. He is a “revered figure”, thought of as a saint of the Dati Leumi (national religious) world, and his perashat hashavua book is very popular, found in many an educated Israeli dati home. In this speech, aside from the predictable wild eyed right wing polemic, he introduced some rabid racial statements, claiming that it is obvious to everyone that the Blacks are at the bottom of the human race, naturally justified by the curse of Noah to his son, Ham. I was, well, a bit stunned. When I commented on this to people at the Carlebach minyan (the full text of the sermon was posted on the wall of the synagogue) in Givat Shemuel, I got a lot of the old, well, you know, deep down he’s really a good person, and he didn’t really mean it like that, etc- the same justification so familiar from the pre-retzach Rabin days.
Perhaps at this time, just before perashat Devarim, at the time of Tisha B’av, we must demand from ourselves and our community a new kind of tochacha, a continued introspective presence. We must emerge out of thepersecuted position and take responsibility for our speech. We must learn to face each other, and the entire world, from a newly re-examined perspective, one which recognizes the intrinsic humanity of every human being, regardless of theological perspective, race, gender, or personal choices, de-emphasize socially problematic texts and perspectives, and re-emphasizes those that lead to solidarity with human suffering of all sorts among all peoples we come face to face with. I believe that this is the lesson of the book of Devarim; it was necessary at the birth of our nation just upon taking the responsibility of living in the Land, and it is no less relevant today. Perhaps, then, we will actualize the tochacha which leads to mutual respect, love, and the courage to strive for peace.
Kosher posts: i would assume that no agency would give a hasgacha for something served in a traif restaurant for fear of ma’arat ayin. If someone were to see someone with a kipah in a wendy’s, they might assume the entire menu to be kosher. Also, there is no one to check that they are not adding anything traif to the shakes. There was a time when milk in MA was traif due to the milk having had vitamin E made from shark oil to it.
This post on Failed Messiah is getting a lot of play in the blogosphere.
FM reports: “A Chabad rabbi is upset because a recruit asked to have his name removed from Chabad’s mailing list and won’t return the rabbi’s emails and text messages asking for an explanation. What does the Chabad rabbi do?”
My empathy here is with the rabbi. The rabbi has obviously had this man to his home many times, hosted him for many Sabbath and holiday meals, and now this man has asked to be removed from the Chabad mailing list.
So the rabbi wants to know why.
I get this.
If you’ve been hosted for meals, you have obligations to your host. To cut off relations with no explanation is classless.
I’m not saying that the congregant in this case is classless. I know nothing about his situation and I won’t judge him.
The most difficult writing I’ve ever done has been about my relationships with various rabbis. It was such a close bond. These guys really knew who I was. I shared some of the most intimate details of my life and they all did their best to help me to live up to the Torah’s requirements.
On countless occasions, I failed my rabbis and I failed to live up to the Torah. Instead, I wanted to do my own thing.
What’s a rabbi going to do when a congregant leaves? He won’t make public the congregant’s indiscretions. He would never leak a phone message to a blog. A rabbi wants to abide by Judaism’s strict dictates about preserving dignity.
Us bloggers tend to have much less concern with maintaining others’ dignity. We instead think about our own traffic, image, and prestige before we think about what Torah requires from us.
I totally understand blogging this rabbi’s upset phone call. I just feel sick about it. I feel sick about my own painful separations from various rabbis so I could do my own thing. I feel sick about the way I’ve needlessly sacrificed others’ dignity.
Here’s a partial list of the rabbis who’ve most influenced me:
I spent my morning with Josh Alan Friedman. We’ve walked a similar career path. He’s ten years older than me. What he says about his life today, I figure that’s going to be me in a few years.
In 1986, Josh published his classic Tales of Times Square. I’ve never published a classic.
I just finished watching the movie Mad Max, an Australian classic.
I first saw it in the fall of 1988 at UCLA with Sung, a tall cute Asian girl who knew my roommate. She was a good Christian girl and she was majoring in the sciences. I was really taken by her.
I was an atheist at the time and free to act on my desires.
I asked her out to the Australian film festival playing at UCLA. She said yes.
We both liked Mad Max and then we walked a mile back to our dorm, Rieber Hall.
It was near 11 p.m. There was the scent of star jasmine in the air. It was October. Our conversation flowed easily. So much seemed possible. I figured I’d spent a lifetime on university campuses and I’d marry a great girl like Sung.
Later that night, I got real sick. When Sung visited my room a couple of days later, I said some things that were rather forward and I never had a chance with her again.
All I had was that one glorious evening sharing with her an Australian film, basking in the 1988 coolness of Australia in America, and I thought I could be happy.
In February of that year, I’d gotten a bad flu that had never gone away. I came to UCLA a month before classes started so I could see an endocrinologist in Santa Ana, Dr. Norman Beals.
My parents and I had high hopes he could make me well with his prescription of various vitamin and hormone supplements.
I was filled with testosterone and hope that fall at UCLA. It was my first time enrolled at a university. I believed I was going to be an academia star. I was away from my parents. I had great grades. I had knuckled down to my studies at long last. I had learned calculus. Everything seemed possible.
Sure, the quarter started off badly when I sprained my ankle playing touch football and I had to go around on crutches for a week, missing a lot of classes. Then there was the expensive rehab.
I had dreams that I was going to be well again. That the mysterious virus dragging me down would loosen its hold.
I had a part-time job at the magazine desk of the University Research Library.
I met a lot of girls that way. One in particular fascinated me.
I met her just the once.
I was working behind the magazine desk. She seemed French or something. Her top was loose and I could see inside. She wore a string around her wrist.
She liked my accent. We talked easily. I asked her for her phone number and she gave it to me.
I could totally nail this girl!
I’d never been with anyone like her. She was exotic and olive-skinned and fast.
And if I could only build up my strength, I would call her.
I never did build up my strength that quarter. I ended up quitting my job. I dropped all of my classes but one. I gave up on my doctor. I gave up on calling the exotic chick.
By June 1989, I had to give up UCLA and I would never return to university.
My time in the sun was brief. I had only the intimation of the things I had long dreamed of achieving. I had only a taste and then they were taken away.
So I watch Mad Max tonight and I remember when I dated great girls and felt my whole life was ahead of me. I remember the olive-skinned number at the URL magazine desk and how she’d given me her phone number and intimated she would give me much more. I remember that last gasp of youth when I thought I could throw away my unhappy childhood and make myself over as something wonderful.
I haven’t stayed in touch with anyone from UCLA that year. I spent most of it on my sick bed. People thought I was a quitter and they didn’t take much notice of me.
I wonder what happened to the girl. Did she age gracefully? I’ve dated 40 year old women who look like older versions of her, but I never got any of them when they were at their prime. Or when I was at mine.
Khunrum emails: “Rob, if you’ve ever seen Luke and Rabbi Rabbs (the Laurel and Hardy of Torah) on Luke’s spy cam, you’d know that no further training is needed in the clown department.”
On his radio show July 11, 2008, Dennis Prager says: “I am reading a book by a sociologist and he is speaking about how could the Holocaust happen. His big answer is bureaucracy. The larger the governmental bureaucracy, the more faceless things are.
“Why would we want that faceless bureaucracy to be the only place that has guns?”
A Christian man phones Dennis Prager’s radio show July 11, 2008: “I am a stay at home father. I have three young girls I stay home with. My wife has developed several friendships at work with individuals who are homosexual. I am concerned about inviting these friends into my home because of the example they might set for my children.”
Dennis: “You don’t have to worry. Unless they are exhibiting publicly erotic affection, I see zero issue. There is no reason for the kids not to see that. I’ll only be curious at a later age when they should be aware that such people exist and can be wonderful people. I see zero problem. In our extended family, we have a wonderful lesbian couple and they come over as often as possible.”
Father: “It may interfere with teaching my children that we disaprove of that lifestyle.”
Dennis: “The issue isn’t lifestyle, it’s specific acts. The children are not aware of a lifestyle, they are aware of two friends of the same sex coming over.”
“The notion of distinguishing, especially in these areas, between the sin and the sinner is also an important lesson for your children.”
The rabbi says that there is an age for children to learn about homosexuality and if you go earlier, it just won’t make any sense for them.
The rabbi talks about a junior at a yeshiva “when the Proposition 8 issue cropped up about a year and a half ago, he heard all kinds of things being said, including awful disgusting things, including from faculty members, and he stood alone.”
On his radio show yesterday, Dennis says: “The heart stinks as a guide to life. Stinks. It’s the worst. It is better to be guided by a ouija board than by your heart. I’d rather you had a tarot card reading to tell you what to do than let your heart determine what you do. The heart is wonderful for intimacy. For you love this piece of music rather than that one. It is perfectly fine if your heart determine what music you like, what food you like, what hairdo you have, let your heart determine it as long as you live.”
"This guy knows all the gossip, the ins and outs, the lashon hara of the Orthodox world. He’s an [expert] in... all the inner workings of the Orthodox world." (Rabbi Aaron Rakeffet-Rothkoff)