What Goes On In A Typical Alexander Technique Lesson?

I charge $100 for a 45-minute lesson.

If my student is in pain, I’ll typically have him lie down and I’ll use my hands and my questions to help him notice patterns of unnecessary tension and to let them go.

Most of my work is helping the student to become aware of needless compression. Once he realizes how he’s scrunching himself, it is relatively easy to show him how to take up his full space in the world.

Some of our lesson will take place in a chair. We’ll learn together how the stimuli of folding and unfolding the limbs getting in and out distorts the head-neck-back relationship. I frequently notice that people hold their breath when they stand up and sit down. Often they go into a little bit of a startle pattern, compressing their necks and tipping their heads back, shortening and tightening their torso during this common activity. Most people only bend their knees when they have to, preferring compression and collapse into a chair. The older people get, the more these simple tasks of life become an ordeal.

Without becoming aware of our patterns of needless tension, most people become trapped in their own habits of useless compression.

I want my students to notice what they’re doing to themselves and to stop doing the things that are hurting them. For most of us, if we stop injuring ourselves and pulling down, we naturally bounce up and do the right thing.

Alexander Technique is less about learning new things to do than about learning what not to do.

Most transformational systems build upon where you are at. By contrast, Alexander Technique deconstructs your harmful habits.

I like to have my students walk and to bring their attention to what is going on with them. Many people tip to one side an inch or two. I help them to become aware of their habits and to move more gracefully.

For most people, graceful movement leads to graceful thinking and graceful feeling and graceful relationships with others. How many people do you know who are needlessly contorted in their movements but easy to be around?

Some of my students are actors or musicians or athletes. I like to watch as they do their thing and then I offer suggestions on how to do things more easily. I don’t need to know anything about throwing a javelin or playing an oboe to be able to spot patterns of needless tension and to help a student release them.

* How many lessons will I need?

Most people can learn the basics of the Technique in about five lessons. Becoming proficient usually takes dozens of lessons. Some people don’t make permanent changes without at least 30 lessons. Learning the Technique is like learning a foreign language. You can master the alphabet and a few phrases in a handful of lessons but fluency takes more study.

* How much does a lesson cost?

Most Alexander teachers charge between $50 and $150 per lesson (which will range from 30-60 minutes). I charge $100 for a 45-minute lesson.

I have a 24-hour cancellation policy.

If I come to you for the lesson, depending on how far you are from Beverly Hills, I charge from $25 (within 2 miles) to $100 extra.

* What should I wear?

Doesn’t really matter. I can work with anyone dressed in anything. Preferably, wear pants rather than a dress.

* Where can you take a lesson?

I can teach anywhere. I can teach the Technique anywhere, including walking down the street. Most of the time, I’ll teach in an office, working chiefly with the student in a chair and on a table.

* Will it hurt?

I’ve never heard of anyone getting hurt in an Alexander lesson. Alexander teachers have liability insurance premiums under $200 a year because our work is gentle and safe.

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Rabbis In Jeans

I just stepped outside my front door and across the street was the rabbi of a Conservative shul in Los Angeles. He wore blue jeans. It jarred me. I don’t think of rabbis as wearing jeans or telling dirty jokes or chewing gum in public. These behaviors don’t strike me as rabbinic.

I don’t recall seeing rabbis of major Orthodox congregations walking around in blue jeans or chewing gum. Orthodox rabbis have more decorum. The more religious the Jew, the better he dresses. Haredi Jews, for instance, don’t tend to walk around in shorts and t-shirts, not even in Los Angeles.

I remember seeing a female Conservative rabbi chewing gum in shul.

I think rabbis are supposed to models of higher behavior. They’re not supposed to be one of us.

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Was Steve Jobs Arab?

Dennis Prager writes: The press feels bad for the Arab world in general and for Arab-Americans in particular. The former is almost never in the news for anything positive, and the latter are deemed victims of xenophobia and Islamophobia. So if one of the giants of our age can be declared an Arab and an Arab-American, many in the media are only too delighted to do so.

Though the birth father played no role whatsoever in the life of Steve Jobs, article after article has been written about Jandali. That this has been motivated by a desire to label Steve Jobs an Arab-American is further proven by the fact that we read nothing of the birth mother — which is particularly noteworthy given that those who are preoccupied with blood parents are almost always more preoccupied with the identity of the birth mother than that of the birth father. But the poor woman is merely a white Anglo-Saxon Protestant, a member of the only American group that is granted no special status by the Politically Correct.

So a man whose only parents were WASPs and one of whose birth parents was a WASP is now declared an Arab. Google “Steve Jobs Arab” and you’ll get 86 million hits.

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Democrats Support The Occupy Wall Street Movement

On his radio show today, Dennis Prager praised Christopher Columbus and the European explorers who mapped the globe and opened it to civilization. “I salute Columbus’s courage. These explorers were unbelievable human beings. They are what astronauts were.”

“The Wall Street crowd are overwhelmingly funders of the Democratic party. Here is what you fund. The Democrats have aligned themselves with these people. The New York Times could not be more proud of these urinators and defecators. I hope they hang on there and make life miserable for these Wall Streeters who wouldn’t be caught dead giving to a conservative cause.”

The New York Times reported over the weekend:

Several businesses said they had no choice but to respond to the influx of protesters by closing bathrooms.

Mike Keane, who owns O’Hara’s Restaurant and Pub, said that the theft of soap and toilet paper had soared and that one protester had used the bathroom but had failed to properly use the toilet. Both Ms. Tzortzatos, owner of the Panini and Company Cafe, and Mr. Keane said the protesters rarely bought anything, yet hurled curses when they were told that only paying customers could use their bathrooms.

Steve Zamfotis, manager of another nearby store, Steve’s Pizza, said: “They are pests. They go to the bathroom and don’t even buy a cup of coffee.”

Mr. Zamfotis closed his bathroom after it repeatedly flooded from protesters’ bathing there.

Dennis: “I want you to compare this to the Tea Party people who demonstrate in a public place in far greater numbers than these people, clean up after themselves, and it is as if they were never there when they were gone. And they brought porterpotties.”

“Why do you think the organizers of these demonstrations neglected to bring portable toilets? They have the mentality the left instilled in them — you owe nobody anything.”

“Whenever I have used the public restroom of a restaurant, I have asked permission and when possible, I’ve bought something. They don’t exist to provide Dennis Prager a toilet, but the moment I say that, I’m not on the left.”

“The more the average American sees of the left, the better. The more they see of San Francisco, the better.”

“How many of the Occupy Wall Street protesters are married with kids? Most of these people have been taken care of all their lives and they’ve hit a bump in the road and they’re not being taken care of anymore.”

“The people in the Tea Party have responsible lives. They go back home and they take care of themselves first of all, their spouses, their children, in many cases parents, and their communities. Who do these people at Occupy Wall Street take care of? Do they lead productive lives?”

“I am proud to say to anyone who wants to know the difference between the left and the right — look at the Tea Party and look at the Occupy protesters.”

“Republicans needs to get video of these Occupy people and video of people who own stores in that area.”

Report: In a widely distributed pamphlet, “Welcome to Liberty Plaza: Home of Occupy Wall Street,” participants were instructed where to find relief. “After you’ve dined,” it reads, “feel free to refresh yourself in the restrooms of neighboring businesses like Burger King and McDonald’s without feeling obligated to buy anything.”

Dennis: “Knowledge is the friend of the right.”

“These protesters are peeing on Wall Street. That’s fine with me. I’m here to defend capitalism, not Wall Street. If Wall Street wants to give their money to people who urinate on them, fine with me.”

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This Week’s Torah Portion – Parshah V’Zot HaBerachah – Deuteronomy 33:1-34:12

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This week we study Parshah V’Zot HaBerachah – Deuteronomy 33:1-34:12. More.

Chabad: “The reason that the Torah ends as it does – by alluding to the breaking of the Tablets of the Covenant – is the same reason that we start over again once we’ve finished. Both ideas are rooted in the same principle; we never just finish up and move on. Just when we think we’ve reached the end – when we get to the very last line of the very last portion – we are reminded that the Tablets of the Covenant were once destroyed and had to be remade. So it is with our spiritual journey; there is never a completion, only the reminder that we always start again.”

“As newcomers looking at the Steps for the first time, many of us wondered what we were supposed to do once they were completed. The answer is that our recovery is never finished; it continues by beginning again. We remember that the life we now have was once in a state of apparent destruction, just as the Tablets containing the Word of G-d had been smashed. In our despair, we agreed to let go, and let G-d give us a new life. We learned to trust G-d. We cleaned house; and we repaired our relationships with others. The promises of the Program began to manifest in our lives. And finally, we “had a spiritual awakening as a result of these Steps.” But our spiritual awakening in Step 12 is not the end of our recovery. Our new-found faith and selflessness lead us to an even greater acceptance of the original powerlessness in Step One. Just as we initially admitted to G-d, we start over and surrender again. No matter how many times we have worked through the Steps, we never stop admitting that we are alcoholics and addicts. We admit again that our lives had been unmanageable; for it is with that admission that our renewed spiritual lives begin.”

* How come yeshivas don’t get into succah decorating? Rabbi Berel Wein writes: “In many climes there was no possibility of such decorations. In my youth I remember that in my father’s synagogue’s succah and in the yeshiva’s succah there were little or no decorations. And, they didn’t have much color or any pizzazz attached to them.”

* For how many people is Yom Kippur a spiritual high? What’s wrong with me? I never recall it as a big high. Eating afterwards and drinking and meeting girls, that’s a high. Rabbi Berel Wein writes: “Sukkot comes at the exact right time of the year, psychologically and emotionally speaking. If it were not for the advent of Sukkot and all of the preparations involved regarding this festival of joy and happiness, we would all be very depressed at having to climb down from the pinnacle of Yom Kippur to everyday mundane existence.”

* Rabbi Wein writes: “However, the intermediate days are not to be treated as ordinary workdays. Unnecessary work, work that is easily postponed till after the holidays, lawsuits and other contentious matters, etc. are all not to be pursued during Chol Hamoed. Therefore, in Israel and in many parts of the Diaspora, Chol Hamoed is a vacation and leisure time. Stores and offices are closed and entire families participate in touring, visiting friends and relatives and attending concerts and other forms of entertainment. On Chol Hamoed, holiday clothing and finery is worn and festive meals are served. It is a joyous and sweet time of the year for all concerned, especially for the children who are free of school and their routines for the week.”

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Echoes Of Eden

Here’s a review on Rabbi Ari Kahn’s new book:

Every essay addresses a new topic. This genre has been done a thousand times over yet R. Kahn’s contribution is remarkably original. Using midrash, both from standard and kabbalistic texts, he psychologizes the biblical characters, looking into their motivations and reactions, and symbolizes them, attributing to them philosophical and theological significance beyond their personal identities, and with all that usually finds a message relevant to today.

On the section of Noach, writers find fertile ground when dealing with the sinning majority, the saving of Noach, his downfall or the tower of Bavel. R. Kahn, in his first essay, asks who Noach’s wife was. The answer, Rashi (Gen. 4:22) tells us, is Na’amah. R. Kahn devotes an essay to exploring her heritage, which requires investigating various family tree passages and using midrash and kabbalistic texts to complete her ancestry. When R. Kahn is done, we see a continuation of the Kayin-Hevel episode through the generations and we learn why so many people have names similar to Hevel. Na’amah was the daughter of Lemekh and his trophy-wife Tzillah; she was the culmination of Kayin’s family line. Yet despite her ancestry and upbringing — “born in hedonism and selfishness, heir to the dubious legacy of violence passed down from Kayin” — she became Noach’s righteous wife who was worthy of saving, unique among people. After learning about the post-Adam generations and Cham’s violation of Noach after the Flood, we understand Na’amah’s incredible story of teshuvah, overcoming her upbringing.

The story of Yosef and his brothers in Egypt is full of difficult conversations. Accusations of spying and theft are met with non-parallel answers that serve as weak defenses. On close reading, it is hard to understand the flow of discussion. R. Kahn resolves this by positing that Yosef had a plan and was manipulating his brothers in order to elicit specific brotherly reactions. Carefully reading the text and getting into Yosef’s brain, R. Kahn shows how each step in the conversation leads to the next until Yosef is overwhelmed with emotion and reveals his identity. Yosef was not looking to exact revenge on his brothers but to remind them that there was someone they had forgotten; he wanted them to seek him. Unfortunately, they never did.

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Chabad Shuls Host The Most Diverse Crowd On Yom Kippur

In popular mythology, Yom Kippur is the holiest day of the Jewish calendar.

In most shuls, you have to be a member (or buy a special ticket) to attend these services. Most Jews only go to shul twice a year (Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur) and synagogues fund themselves by selling tickets to the High Holidays.

Chabad shuls are different. Any Jew can walk into a Chabad shul without buying a ticket. And he’ll be welcomed even if he’s wearing jeans and purple hair and sporting tattoos and earrings.

So in a typical Chabad shul on Yom Kippur, at least half the crowd will be the hardcore Chabadnik in his white kittel and tallis and he’ll be praying up a storm. The mood is more upbeat than a goy would suppose for this solemn occasion. The observant Jew rejoices in Yom Kippur and embraces what it stands for — personal transformation through the forgiveness of sin and a commitment to do better.

Chabad Jews tend to be happy Jews. For most observant Jews, observing the Torah seems to be more of a burden than a blessing. For Lubavitchers, it’s more of a joy than a burden.

So in a Chabad shul on Yom Kippur, the place will typically be packed. There tends to be much less personal space in Hasidic Judaism as opposed to the Litvish variety (which is usually more restrained). The believing Jew will be happy and joyous and clapping and shouting and swaying and getting into the occasion. And then about half the crowd will be secular Jews who are rarely in shul. They will typically wear jeans or other informal wear. They will wear those cheap nylon yarmulkes. They will be looking around to find the right page in the mahzor (High Holiday prayer book). Sometimes they’ll be checking their cell phones. They’ll typically look bored and put upon and it is obvious that they can’t wait to get out of there. That the prayers mean nothing to them but they’re just showing up out of obligation.

So you’ll look around and half the crowd will be passionate about the day and the other half could not care less.

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Republicans Have A Winner With The Occupy Wall Street Movement

Democratic leaders such as President Obama express sympathy for the aims of the Occupy movement. Republicans castigate it.

What are the aims of the Occupy movement? Forgiveness from all debt and other utopian ideas. It’s nonsense. It would upend the economy. These are leftist dreams that would bankrupt a society. Republicans should have a winner here. If they keep hammering away at the Occupy movement, common sense people will be sympathetic.

This Occupy movement is a divider. It divides those in reality from those who live in fantasy.

Herman Cain has led the way in castigating this crowd. The Los Angeles Times reports:

Republican presidential contender Herman Cain amplified his criticism Sunday of the growing Occupy Wall Street movement, calling the protesters “jealous’ Americans who “play the victim card” and want to “take somebody else’s” Cadillac.

Cain’s remarks, on CBS’ “Face the Nation,” came amidst an escalating war of words between Republicans and Democrats over the merits of the movement, which has spread from New York to other cities across the nation, including Washington and Los Angeles.

GOP politicians in recent days have stepped up their criticism of the protesters, with House Majority Leader Eric Cantor (R-Va.) calling them “mobs” who have pitted “Americans against Americans.”

But Cain, surging in popularity among many conservatives, seems to have had among the most virulent responses to the protests.

On CBS, Cain suggested that the rallies had been organized by labor unions to serve as a “distraction so that many people won’t focus on the failed policies of the Obama administration.”

The banking and financial services industries aren’t responsible for those policies, Cain said. “To protest Wall Street and the bankers is basically saying you’re anti-capitalism,” he said.

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What Is Food Insecurity?

On his show last week, Dennis Prager said (about the introduction of a new poverty-stricken muppet – whose family deals with food insecurity – to Sesame Street): “This is a new thing in America. Because there isn’t hunger, there is food insecurity where you are not sure where the next meals will come from. The left is totalitarian. The only thing that stops the left from its totalitarian desires is the right. That’s why they hate us. They would control everything in your life if they could, from the light bulb to whether or not there is a cookie monster on Sesame Street.”

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When Do You Introduce Your Kids To Someone You’re Dating?

On his show Friday, Dennis Prager said: “Only introduce when you are very serious. You don’t want to introduce dates to your kids on a revolving basis. If the kids are older, it doesn’t matter as much.”

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