That Marriage Didn’t Last Long

On Adam Carolla’s podcast, Dennis Prager says: “One of my most embarrassing stories which might explain why that marriage didn’t last as long as it should have.

“A previous wife came home one day. She looked in pain. She had severe cuts and bruises on her arm. I asked, what happened?

“She said, I was walking in a parking lot and there was a window open and I was bit by a dog. And I said, ‘Bitten.'”

The marriage didn’t last much longer. “I can’t stand bad grammar,” says Dennis. “We all have our thing.”

Carolla’s podcast starts with Adam reading an ad for Adam & Eve’s thousands of adult products.

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Do You Want To Control Your Spouse’s Thoughts?

On his radio show today, Dennis Prager said: “The greatest Jewish philosopher and legalist, Maimonides, said that a Jew should never say, pig, eww, it’s disgusting. Rather, a Jew should say a pig sounds delicious, but God says no.

“Bacon smells good but I don’t eat it.

“I’m worried about spouses who want to control the other’s thoughts. If you wish to control your thoughts because you believe God wants you to, that I respect. But I don’t want to be married to anyone who tells me what to think. I want to be married to somebody who expects certain behavior from me, as I would of her, but I don’t tell my wife what to think and I don’t want her telling me what to think.

“I fight totalitarianism in the world and I don’t want totalitarianism in my marriage. ‘Honey, I don’t like the way you are thinking about that woman.’ Holy. I don’t want to go home.

“Do I treat you lovingly? Then let my thoughts be, honey.”

“I love liberty, love, and fidelity. They can all be balanced.”

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Rabbi Shmuley Boteach Does Not Back Down

Yesterday I blogged about the televised conflict about Hollywood Jews between the Orthodox rabbi and the Jewish convert to Catholicism.

Now Rabbi Boteach blogs:

Now Coren has shoved his foot far deeper into his mouth with a personal diatribe against me.

Personal insults are the last refuge of the intellectual coward.

All Coren had to do was apologize for these nauseating insinuations and remarks. Instead, he made the matter worse by complaining that I’m short, that my office had the temerity to request kosher food from the exalted Coren and his staff, and that I refused to exit his studio when he obnoxiously demanded that I exit the very moment the cameras stopped rolling. For good measure, he made sure to gratuitously insult Oprah and Michael Jackson for their mere associations with me, as well.

For the record, there is little I can do about my height, and I apologize to Coren for offending him with my diminutive appearance. Likewise, there is nothing I can do about being kosher. I will never give it up, no matter how much he attacks me for simply asking where I might obtain kosher food since I am not familiar with Toronto. And when Coren’s show asked me to take an early morning flight to Toronto – to talk about my new book Kosher Jesus – where I was traveling for my nephew’s wedding, my office simply asked if a kosher meal could be procured since I would not be eating the whole day and, as a kosher Jew, cannot buy food in most places. Even so, they told my assistant we would have to arrange and pay for it ourselves.

As for Coren’s libel that I threatened him with disclosure of his remarks about Jews and Hollywood, the paranoid claim is laughable given that he had just made his remarks about Jews on national TV in Canada.

It is absolutely true that I refused to leave his studio after his reprehensible treatment of me and his attempt to evict me just as soon as the interview concluded, demanding to see his superiors and finally meeting a man named Matt Wolf, executive producer of Sun TV’s prime time talk shows, who turned out to be quite a gentleman.

I make no apologies for my actions. I am somewhat who fights anti-Semitism and holds those who malign my people accountable. Coren can claim from here to kingdom come that he is a friend of the Jewish community, and that may be true. But that does not excuse his odious remarks. His comments about lack of Jewish appreciation for Christians and the connection between Jews and Hollywood are the very stuff of negative Jewish stereotypes and if he was not prepared to retract them – as Marlon Brando did years ago when he too insinuated on Larry King Live that Jews control Hollywood – then I will bring the matter to his superiors. And his claim that he was only speaking about ‘liberal’ Jews matters not a toss. For the record I am a Republican who is currently seeking our party’s nomination for Congress in New Jersey’s Ninth Congressional District. But I will stand with my people, whatever their political persuasion, and will not allow them to slandered.

As for the Jewish intern of whom he speaks, how sad that some Jews appear to turn the other cheek even when their people are maligned in order to remain in the good graces of superiors.

More troubling still is Coren’s praise for Pius XII and his attempt to hold the Jews accountable for misrepresenting this most ignominious of Popes. Indeed, Sun TV cut Coren’s remarks about Pius from their online post of the broadcast. Why? And why isn’t the interview posted unedited? The public has the right to see it in its entirety.

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Jewish Journal’s Jewrnalism Blog Wins No Prizes For Literary Merit

According to the blog: “Jewrnalism is a network of young Jewish citizen journalists from Central Eastern Europe and multimedia info-activism platform that will train those young amateur journalists to report on and promote the life and work of their Jewish communities. Jewrnalism offers Jewish educational institutions, tour groups, and Jewish websites up-to-date reporting (both video and print) about European Jewish life, alongside curricula and classroom guides.”

Its output is frequently horrendous. Somebody named Pavel Pustelik writes: “One of the highlights was a talk with two authors that focus on the problems of coexistence of Jews, Muslims and Christians in the Mediterranean area. David Abulafia from Cambridge University and Philip Mansel offered tremendously interesting talk on how peaceful the coexistence was and in what ways we can benefit from that. The room was full and two gentlemen have been delving in them peculiarities of Smyrna and Tel Aviv.”

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Women Hate Sluts

Most normal women hate sluts, porn stars, prostitutes, strippers, and beautiful women who show too much skin.

Why? Because these eye-catchers diminish the power of the average wife.

Much of a wife’s power is her ability to grant sex to her husband. If he can see what he wants elsewhere and imagine himself getting some, he’s not as needy for his wife’s body.

The Daily Mail reports:

Now women in the small northern Italian town of Bagnolo Mella have declared Le Cafe out of bounds to their menfolk – and 34-year-old Miss Maggi has become a national celebrity.
Yesterday she was a guest on the Italian equivalent of This Morning and said: ‘I don’t see what the problem is – it’s just a bit of harmless fun.
‘If the guys come here what can I do?
‘I know I have upset the women but that’s not my problem.
‘It’s not my fault if guys want to come and have a drink in my bar.’
She added that some customers were travelling up to 70 miles just to have a coffee in her bar.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2105339/Sexpresso-Wives-ban-husbands-visiting-Italian-cafe-busty-barmaid-serves-drinks-skimpy-outfits.html#ixzz1nIwRniX4

Is your girlfriend good wife material?

Does your girlfriend use sex as a weapon?

Believe it or not there are a ton of women out there who know that we as men want them in a sexual manner, DUH, but, they turn around and use it against us. It’s not fair to us, mainly because we become putty in their moisturized hands, but also because it shows a side of them we may not have noticed. The evil side.

A woman who would use sex against some she claims to care about and calls her boyfriend doesn’t care as much as a wife should. If you see her using your sexual encounters as a tool to get what she wants out of you, well then, have your fun but DO NOT put a ring on that finger!

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The Opposite Of Grace And Good Use

Check out this diver. Her head is rotating back on to the spine, compressing her whole torso.

Usually the performer with the freest neck and the least facial tension will do the best and get the highest scores.

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Reversing The Media Narrative

The news media have said for the past few weeks that Rick Santorum’s conservative views will alienate women.

The facts on the ground say otherwise.

The Washington Post reports: “…Santorum has grown more popular among women while talking about his opposition to abortion, his disapproval of birth control and his view that the federal government shouldn’t pay for prenatal screenings. A new Washington Post-ABC News poll shows not only that Santorum is doing better among GOP women than he was a few weeks ago, but also that he is less unpopular — and also less well known — among Democratic and independent women than his Republican rivals Mitt Romney and Newt Gingrich.”

People like people who are authentic. Mitt Romney has an authenticity problem. Newt Gingrich has an authenticity problem. Rick Santorum and Ron Paul have no authenticity problem.

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Journalism Is Rarely Sexy

I’ve spent most of my adult life mixing with journalists and the number of objectively sexy female journalists I’ve met are few.

When I talk to men in the profession, they tell me my experience is not rare.

Female journalists tend to not spend a lot of time on their appearance. I don’t know why. Probably has something to do with the hard work demanded of the print journalist. It is not a profession that is attractive to those who put great stock on their looks.

I’m talking here about print journalists. TV journalists are rarely journalists. They’re usually props. They rarely break news. They report the news other people uncover.

This column bemoans female journalists in D.C. going for the sexpot look on their Twitter pics.

That’s ridiculous. They are nowhere near the looks of the Fox News babes.

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Eyal Press Considers Courage in ‘Beautiful Souls’

Mark Oppenheimer writes in the New York Times about a new book:

Paul Grüninger was a state police officer in St. Gallen, in northeast Switzerland, who voted conservative and sang in the church choir. He was not a worldly man, nor given to fits of moral introspection. But before World War II he saved hundreds of Jewish refugees he met at the border. He stamped their arrival papers with dates just before Aug. 19, 1938, when tighter immigration restrictions had gone into effect. In 1939 he was caught and fired.

Unemployed and broke, Grüninger — one of the four brave men and women whom Eyal Press profiles in “Beautiful Souls,” his inquiry into what sort of person does the right thing when everyone else is doing evil…

…Mr. Press’s case studies — there’s also a Serbian soldier who rescued Croatians about to be sent to detention, an elite Israeli officer who refused to serve in the West Bank, and a financial adviser who blew the whistle on her corrupt Texas firm — capture how the price of moral courage is often not dramatic condemnation, not the martyr’s posthumous exaltation, but a lifelong sentence to sit apart, with no chance for appeal. For example the Israeli soldier, Avner Wishnitzer, helped to spark a national debate about when it is appropriate to defy military orders, but for Mr. Press the more interesting fact is that the soldier’s own mother, even as she defended his choices, was a little embarrassed by him.

How is refusing to defend a tiny democratic state stuck in a sea of evil (Israel in the Middle East) moral courage? It is obscene to group this Avner Wishnitzer with those who saved lives.

The WSJ comments:

When the situation shifts to Israel, where Mr. Press’s family is originally from (he emigrated to the U.S. as a young child), the ground gets murkier. Here the exemplary man is Avner Wishnitzer, a former soldier in the most elite unit of the Israeli Defense Force who refuses to participate in West Bank actions against Palestinian civilians. The Hebrew expression yafeh nefesh, “beautiful soul,” (it is where the title of the book comes from) has a connotation of naïveté, like the English “bleeding heart.” Mr. Press finds justification for Mr. Wishnitzer’s decision in an Israeli court’s ruling that soldiers are required to disobey orders that are illegal—meaning, it seems, contrary to Jewish law.

The problem, of course, is in determining whose interpretation of the law is legitimate. Mr. Press is impatient with a settler who tells him that removing Jews from the settlements is “ethnic cleansing,” but he recognizes that the judgment is necessarily subjective. Yet he does not examine the ugly implications of his inclusion of Israel as an evil power to be resisted on a par with Nazi Germany. A similar question of equivalency occurs where Mr. Press justifiably praises the bravery of a Guantánamo Bay whistleblower but fails to acknowledge the potential complexities of the situation.

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How the Alexander Technique can help Premature and Brain-Injured Babies

Jennifer Kellow, an Alexander Technique teacher and Registered Nurse in Jersey City, New Jersey, talks about her work with with premature and brain-injured babies.”

Jennifer: “When I was learning Alexander Technique, I was working as a nurse in newborn intensive care… I found that the infants having trouble moving forward and getting better suddenly started to change when I was holding them and directing my own use. They started to eat if they couldn’t eat before. They started to sleep if they weren’t sleeping before. Even the cardiac babies were staying pink instead of having trouble keeping their circulation going. That’s what motivated me to become an Alexander teacher.

“I discovered that the use of myself, my own tension and stress, was being translated through my hands to these infants. That’s what happens to anyone handling infants. There was such a difference when I was able to bring myself to a more coordinated easy calm use of myself while I was in contact with the infants.”

“I got this reputation. They would give me the babies who were the sickest to see if I could turn them around.”

“I gave the infants mini Alexander lessons.”

“What was remarkable about the brain-injured infants was that they were always trying to move forward developmentally.”

“An infant with cerebral palsy, for instance, they might have trouble sitting up because of muscle spasms. They would try harder and they would end up throwing up their feeding, which would trick them into something else. When I would put my hands on them, I could get their whole system to calm down. Whatever they were trying to do, they could do.”

Robert Rickover: “You’re consciously preventing harmful physical patterns within your own body using the Alexander Technique, and with your hands on the baby that gets transferred to the baby, in the same way that an Alexander Technique lesson takes place.”

Jennifer: “Infants are wired for social interaction. If an infant is not well regulated, they’ll even stop breathing to stay in interaction with you. Everything else will go by the wayside to stay in interaction with you.”

“If the infant is distressed, they will distress the caretaker, who will use more tension without realizing it, then the caretaker is hands-on with that infant is translating that back to the infant, saying yes, keep going in that direction. Soon you almost have a battle of wills.”

“A person who knows Alexander Technique can be conscious of the response they are having to the baby and they can alter that response and go back to letting their neck be free, their head to go forward and up, and their torso to lengthen and widen. The baby will respond to that. You have a different feedback loop.”

Jennifer writes: “F.M. Alexander (1869-1955), the technique’s originator, suffered residual respiratory issues from his premature birth. While attempting to solve his problem of severe hoarseness and gasping when reciting as an actor, he discovered universal principles governing our coordination. Once he mastered these principles, he wrote, “I also became free from the throat and vocal trouble and from the respiratory and nasal difficulties issues with which I had been beset from birth.” (F.M. Alexander, The Use of the Self, 1932).”

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