True Confessions Of An Alexander Technique Teacher

I have the worst confession for an Alexander Technique teacher — there have been many days over the past few weeks where I’ve had no will to go up (meaning to give myself the upward thinking direction that allows for freer movement). I’ve just been hunkering down. I say to myself, I should think up, and then I say, I just don’t have it in me. My get up and go got up and left.

So even during my worst days, I’ve been doing active rest and that has allowed me to let go of unnecessary tension and to thereby lengthen and widen. My mood tremendously affects my thinking and my freedom of movement which all in turn affect my mood.

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What Significance Did R. David Hartman Have To Judaism?

Now that Rabbi Hartman is dead, his constituency, the news media, is publishing flattering obituaries.

I’m wondering what was R. Hartman’s significance aside from headlines? He was undoubtedly a scholar, but to me he was an abstruse thinker like R. Yosef Baer Soloveitchik who had little real-world influence.

Historian Marc B. Shapiro replies to my email: “Yes he did [have significance]. He wrote valuable works that made an impact. The institute he established in Jerusalem has also had a great influence in many ways.”

Here’s a paragraph from a blog post by Orthodox Rabbi David Wolkenfeld on Hartman: “The quest by Jews, in the aftermath of the Enlightenment, to translate the message of Judaism into something with universal significance was, to Rabbi Hartman, a mistake. The Torah is not a universal book with universal significance to all people. Rather, the Torah should be understood as a particular book about the relationship between the Jewish people and God. One therefore cannot turn to the Torah for guidance about other nations, other religions, and their place in God’s universe. That just is not what the Torah is about.”

This is the opposite of Dennis Prager’s approach and, frankly, it seems like the opposite of common sense. How could a book only have meaning to one particular people?

Torah scholars such as Rabbi Hartman have contempt for guys like Dennis Prager and Joseph Telushkin who primarily toil in books about Torah, not Torah literature itself.

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I Live On $600 A Week

LA and New York are equally expensive, with LA more expensive to live than SF with its sky-high rents? I’ve lived on about $500 a week baseline for a decade (dropped my health insurance last March). I now pay $1000 a month for rent and utilities, so I am currently living on about $600 a week. This does not include when I splurged for Alexander Technique lessons, writing classes, physical therapy, Chinese herbs, dating. I eat tons of oatmeal, bananas, split peas, lentils to keep my food bill down and to lower my interest in food so I lose weight. I splurge $50 a month for protein power.

I have about ten credit cards from many of America’s finest lending institutions. In 2007, I had over $100,000 in available credit. Today, about $118 if you put all my cards together.

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Gays and the Boy Scouts

Dennis Prager H3 Thursday: “If you had a son in the Scouts and his Scoutmaster was openly gay would you be comfortable sending your son and his troop on the overnight with that Scoutmaster? If so, would you be okay with sending your daughter and her troop on an overnight with a male Scoutmaster?”

Dennis: “If gay Scoutmasters are admitted, a lot of people won’t put their kids into the Scouts. Not out of hatred of gays, but concern that Scout leaders would be a problem if they were gay. Not because all gays are pedophiles, but only men, straight or gay, have any proclivity to pedophilia. The issue is male sexuality, not gays.

“I know this is much too complex for the ACLU. They are so blinded by ideology and corrupted their ability to use common sense, that they don’t understand what I’ve said. As soon as they hear a word, a buzzer goes off. The left-wing brain is composed to respond on cue.”

How can you tell if your dog is happy? Its tail is low and wagging. A high tail wagging means energy. How can you tell if your dog loves you? If he licks your face. (Animal behaviorist on Dennis Prager 2/1)

On Feb. 1, Dennis said that he couldn’t recall witnessing a less impressive nominee to a cabinet position than Chuck Hagel. He doesn’t seem bright. He doesn’t seem to have command over defense issues.

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The Higher Education Bubble And Its Similarities To The Housing Bubble

From Pragertopia: “Prager H1: Dennis talks to Glenn Reynolds, professor of law at U. of Tennessee and founder of Instapundit, one of the most read conservative blogs on the Internet. His new short books for Encounter Broadsides are: The Higher Education Bubble and K-12 Implosion.”

Glenn: “Both of them are propped up by a lot of cheap government credit. In the case of the housing bubble, it was mortgages from Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac and various other federal programs like the Community Reinvestment Act and that led to the price being driven up until we reached the point where people couldn’t service the debt anymore and the bubble burst.”

“Tuitions rose to capture all that federal government money.”

“When you get out of college and you’ve got all that debt, it is debt you can’t get out of (even if you declare bankruptcy).”

“The three year requirement for law school was introduced a hundred years ago as a way to keep out the Jews.”

Dennis: “Why would that keep out the Jews? Because it was too expensive?”

Glenn: “Yeah. At the time, you had a lot of these smart Eastern European immigrants who were used to rabbinical argument and analyzing text but they didn’t have a lot of money so you had rules saying you had to go to law school for two years, and then three, and you couldn’t work…”

“Once people are lawyers, they find these barriers to entry much more conducive…”

REPORT: Brian Tamanaha, a professor of law at Washington University School of Law shines a light on the disaster that has become of law schools. His book titled Failing Law Schools, details the looming crisis that has become the legal profession. I have to give Professor Tamanaha credit. It has to take a lot of courage and integrity to call out his profession on their malpractice.

Starting with the structural aspects of legal education, the author states that at the turn of the 20th century legal education changed focus from an apprenticeship approach to learning the profession to the requirement of a bachelor’s degree and 3 years of law school. This was due to plain old xenophobia/racism. To keep Eastern Europeans, Jews, and other recent immigrant groups out of the legal field, a medieval style guild was created.

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What Kind Of Grandparent Has No Interest In Her Grandkids?

My dad’s parents were emotionally disconnected. They had little interest in their children and almost no interest in us grandkids. By contrast, my mother’s side of the family, the Booths, are warm and loving.

I grew up separated from my relatives because we lived so far away and because we were immersed in a counter-cultural religion (Seventh-Day Adventism). I may have met my granddad on my dad’s side only once and my grandma on dad’s side perhaps three times. We had no relationship. I grew up emotionally disconnected, just like them.

When a grandparent is so emotionally disconnected that she wants next to nothing to do with her grandkids, you just have to feel sorry for her. Relating to her is like trying to relate to a brick wall.

Another type of emotional disconnection I know well is when religious people are only interested in you if they think they can convert you. Everyone they meet is fodder for Christ (or Torah or Islam). (Dennis Prager)

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The Father Factor: Coming To Terms With Your Dad’s Emotional Legacy

Until I was 23, I had high regard for my father. Then I started listening to Dennis Prager and getting into Judaism and I stopped listening to my own dad and I dismissed his teachings. It’s challenging for me to watch him preach on Youtube. Dad didn’t change. I did.

When I watch him on Youtube, it’s not his words that interest me as much as his emotional through-line. I’m not interested in becoming Christian. I’m interested in understanding my father better and coming to peace with him and thereby myself.

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An Angel At My Table

I just watched this 1990 movie by Jane Campion about New Zealand novelist Janet Frame, who spent 8 yrs of her 20s in a loony bin mis-diagnosed with schizophrenia. Stories about mental illness make me uncomfortable. They strike too close to home! Janet Frame was voluntarily hospitalized at the Avondale mental facility, near which I grew up. The loonies used to walk past my friend’s house and they’d always be listening to radios. I figured that because they were loony, I could take advantage of them, so I tried to swap my undies for their radios, but they weren’t loony enough to go for this deal.

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Israel Admits Ethiopian Immigrants Were Injected With Birth Control Without Consent; How Ultra-Orthodox Schools Fail To Teach English

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My Therapist Says

My therapist noticed I had not done my homework — writing up a list of where I felt that my father had failed me and reading it to myself every day and noticing what comes up for me emotionally. She also noticed that I try to disengage from the topic of dad and to talk about anything else. I’m particularly gun shy of discussing my feelings about my father.

My therapist says that if I heal my relationship with my father and stop living in rebellion and rage, it will transform my life.

A big way my father showed love in my home was by cooking delicious savory treats almost every night (and sweet rice and oats for breakfast)!

My therapist says that if I organize my solo show, I will find it easier to emotionally connect to the words I’m saying because I won’t be casting around in my head for what comes next (which happened to me last night). By a generous estimate, I emotionally connected to my words about 30% of the time last night.

When I toss and turn at night, unable to sleep and consumed by worry, I try turning my life over to God and letting Him be the director. When that doesn’t work, I turn my life over to Netflix.

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