Category Archives: Porous

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships By David Schnarch

More people have told me that they found this book particularly painful to read than any other book mentioned to me. It will rock your world, and not in a pleasant way. Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch has a strong … Continue reading

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Decoding FT Columnist Gideon Rachman

In David Pinsof’s Alliance Theory, Gideon Rachman is the High Priest of the Transatlantic Server. As the chief foreign affairs commentator for the Financial Times, he does not just report on geopolitics; he manages the Sacred Symbols of Global Stability … Continue reading

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Porous vs Buffered Identity

Are there any movies about times prior to the Enlightenment that vividly demonstrate porous identity? Which movies best embody buffered identity? ChatGPT says: Porous identity means the self is open to spirits, fate, curses, ancestors, God, demons. The boundary between … Continue reading

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Mark Halperin: For Millions Of Americans, The Election Of Donald Trump Is The Worst Thing To Ever Happen To Them.

The intensity of the reaction to Donald Trump suggests that for many Americans, the injury is primarily symbolic rather than material. When people describe his presidency as a personal catastrophe, they are often describing a collapse of the cultural hero … Continue reading

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Terror in Sydney: Analyzing the “Chanukah by the Sea” Massacre

01:00 Bondi shooting,https://www.nytimes.com/live/2025/12/14/world/sydney-bondi-beach-shooting03:00 Terror in Sydney: Analyzing the “Chanukah by the Sea” Massacre, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=16539704:00 Bondi terror video, https://x.com/ClayTravis/status/200019225984575521616:00 Live From Bondi’s Flourishing Jewish Community (11-24-21), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEYhQsNRAlM19:00 Live from Sydney, it’s Friday Morning Live! (11-19-21), https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m11xyqD9M_U35:00 When Billings, Montana celebrated Hanukkah, … Continue reading

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The Relational Imperative with Kenneth Gergen

On ChatGPT’s recommendation, I dove into the work of Kenneth J. Gergen. He wrote The Relational Imperative. He laments the individual focus of modernity but he seems completely oblivious to this reality is a consequence of liberalism and the Enlightenment. … Continue reading

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Why Are People So Emotionally Invested In Trump’s White House Renovations?

What matters most to me is outside of me. I largely matter to the extent I am part of something bigger than myself — such as being a part of the Jewish people, the American people, and a certain traditional … Continue reading

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Internal Pride Mirrors External Validation – You Can’t Generate Your Own Pride

From a 2018 paper: Invariances in the architecture of pride across small-scale societies It has been proposed that one key function of pride is to guide behavior in ways that would increase others’ valuation of the individual. To incline choice, … Continue reading

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How do Nathaniel Branden’s teachings about self-esteem map on to the buffered identity?

ChatGPT says: Nathaniel Branden’s work on self-esteem and Charles Taylor’s notion of the buffered identity can be mapped together in interesting ways—they both deal with how modern selves structure their experience of the world, but from different angles. 1. Branden’s … Continue reading

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