Category Archives: Eroticized Rage

Indefensible: The Missing Truth about Steven Avery, Teresa Halbach, and Making a Murderer

I’ve changed my mind on this case. I now think that Steven Avery did it and that the compelling Netflix documentary Making a Murderer was deceitful. Wisconsin prosecutor Michael Griesbach writes in this 2016 book: Prison records corroborate the fact … Continue reading

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Eroticized Rage & The Massage Parlor Killer (3-17-21)

00:00 Police investigate suspect’s motive in Atlanta-area killings, https://apnews.com/article/georgia-massage-parlor-shootings-leave-8-dead-f3841a8e0215d3ab3d1f23d489b7af81 05:00 Perversion: The Erotic Form Of Hatred, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=130652 19:30 Eroticized RAGE- how to deal with it, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EW4XscDZH6A 22:30 Eroticized Rage, Sex Addiction, Love Addiction & The 12 Steps To Recovery, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPzqjdPmH4w … Continue reading

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Eroticized Rage

From Neil Strauss’s book The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships: “The payoff of anger is mastery, control, or power,” Lorraine continues. “So the anger makes you feel better and one up. And when you use sex to restore power … Continue reading

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The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships

As I open and start reading the new Neil Strauss book, I notice a lot of pages about Ingrid, his wife. A warning signal goes off in my head. Love made public rarely goes well for long. I fear he’s … Continue reading

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Narcissists Watch More Porn: Enter Eroticized Rage

Linda Hatch writes: For the narcissistic sex addict, compulsively seeking out pornography on the internet does more that just provide sexual arousal and gratification. Remember, the narcissist who cannot resist internet porn may be being triggered by an intense need … Continue reading

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Don’t Be Horrid, Horrid Boy!

Much of the time, I’m working hard to not say anything ugly. When I’m in the presence of someone good and holy, for instance, I keep telling myself, “Don’t say anything horrid, Horrid Boy.” What does this mean that I’m … Continue reading

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My One-Man Play ‘Eroticized Rage’

Here is my April 10 rehearsal with notes and revisions: Here is my debut performance Feb. 3 at Whitefire Theater in Sherman Oaks (13500 Ventura Blvd) as part of Solofest: Here is my March 2013 interview with artist David Choe. … Continue reading

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Talking Eroticized Rage With Yoshi Obyashi

Luke Ford goes on Yoshi Obyashi’s show 3/6/13 to talk to Joey Kurtzman and Lilit Arvahi about his one man play “Eroticized Rage” about sex and love addiction, eroticized rage, and the intimacy disorder that underlies such symptoms, the fundamental … Continue reading

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I Opened My Show Feb. 3

I debuted my solo show “Eroticized Rage” at Whitefire Theater in Sherman Oaks (13500 Ventura Blvd) as part of Solofest. My van broke down on the way to the theater. The tow driver was very nice and gave me a … Continue reading

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I Gave Up My Favorite Hobby

I would never have given up my favorite hobby if not for the challenge lain down by addiction specialist Brad Salzman. While battling my sex addiction demons, I greatly benefited from talking with therapist Brad Salzman (a mentch and an … Continue reading

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