Category Archives: Addiction

Step One Of The Twelve Steps

Posted on July 5, 2012 by Luke Ford

I admitted that my life had become unmanageable. Step Two Step Three Step Four This took me many years to admit. Though I was rarely thrilled with my life, it never occurred to me to 12-step because I thought that … Continue reading →

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Six Days Shomer Brit!

Posted on June 18, 2012 by Luke Ford

I realize I used to store up eroticized rage scenarios through the day to treasure during alone time. Now no treasuring. I wonder how this will change me? I went about 15 months in 1990-1991 as I got into Judaism. … Continue reading →

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All Defects Of Character

Posted on June 10, 2012 by Luke Ford

Alcoholic Anonymous started 72 years ago yesterday. Step Six of the Twelve Steps is: “We’re entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.” I’ve not been able to surrender to this step yet. I have too many … Continue reading →

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Why Do Some Men Fetishize Cheerleaders?

Posted on April 6, 2012 by Luke Ford

I never had any cheerleaders when I was in school. Back then, I wasn’t the super-cool blogger that I am now. A few years ago, I had a girlfriend who could do cheerleading chants and dance moves. It was really … Continue reading →

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Masturbation And Sex Addiction

Posted on January 10, 2012 by Luke Ford

Joe* emails: “What do you think about masturbation? I still do it every night although my church friends tell me it should be avoided.” Sex addiction therapists recommend a three month break as part of a program to turn your … Continue reading →

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