Category Archives: Addiction

How Do You Look At Women?

My married friend says that when he sees a woman, his first thought is not about relations (nor his second nor his third). He says that when he watches women’s soccer, he thinks about the play. “Nice pass” and that … Continue reading

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Stories Of Recovery

I love listening to stories of recovery. This one is share #40 from the unofficial Underearners Anonymous Dropbox. “Before this program, I was spiritually dead. I had no relationships that were not based on what can I get out of … Continue reading

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Incarceration Is Often The Best Answer

If people can’t handle their money/sex/alcohol/drugs/ etc, incarceration is usually the best answer to protect the community. Addicts not in recovery are a menace to themselves and to others. * A friend will no longer go to this 12-step meeting … Continue reading

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Why He Stopped Masturbating More Than 10 Years Ago

New York Post: The tide started to turn for me after about 90 days. That’s when I realized I was going entire days without thinking about how I wasn’t masturbating. I started to notice benefits, like I was being more … Continue reading

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‘Surrender’ In 12-Step Reminds Me Of ‘Inhibition’ In Alexander Technique

From the book How to Get Out of Debt, Stay Out of Debt, and Live Prosperously*: Based on the Proven Principles and Techniques of Debtors Anonymous: It is simply letting go of an old way of doing things in order … Continue reading

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