Category Archives: Personal

I’ve Never Dated An Orthodox Girl

I don’t fear so often these days that I’m losing control. Therapy is calming. I can bounce my life off someone sharp and get greater clarity. It also gives me accountability. My therapist names things I’m going through such as … Continue reading

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The Type Of Women I Fall For

The connection is usually swift. The women who turn me on are fast thinkers and fast speakers. They tend to be decisive, strong, formidable. Erudite. Capable. Our repartee is snappy because they love to laugh. I don’t have to explain … Continue reading

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My Blog Is My Lullaby

I write a lot of confessional blog posts before I fall asleep. It’s a habit that goes back to childhood. Sometimes at night, up until about the age of 10, I’d pull my mother aside and confess to various sins, … Continue reading

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My Thing

Is writing a pleasure? Sometimes, just like davening, but “pleasure” is not the primary word I’d use to describe my process. Rather, I’d say that writing is my thing. The Mafia have their thing. “Cosa Nostra” means “Our Thing.” I … Continue reading

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The Freak Brothers on fire! — Together again for the first time!!

Greg Leake emails: Hi Luke, It was a great show this week and was improved by Adolfo riding shotgun. Adolfo is from my part of the world (didn’t he grow up in Oklahoma?) and so I imagine he is trembling … Continue reading

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I Want To Connect To My Deepest Purpose

I want to make it big. I want to be huge. I want to feel full of purpose and passion. I want to get up every morning eager to tackle the day. I want to see the path ahead and … Continue reading

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I Don’t Know

We had already broken up three times in ten months when we first said, “I love you.” She said it first and launched our doomed winter of love. The day she gave me a hamper for my washing, she said, … Continue reading

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Freedom In The Air

Right after havdalah, he lit out for the Hollywood hills. Destination? A party! He’d removed his black undertaker suit but preserved his white cotton dress shirt. He added his best blue jeans, a black belt, black socks and his black … Continue reading

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I Want To Move To Hawaii

There are no Alexander Technique teachers in Hawaii. I’ll have the market all to myself. My mentors warn me against the move. They say there’s not a sufficient market there to support me in the style to which I have … Continue reading

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The Benefits I’ve Received From The Alexander Technique

I am just realizing how much stronger I am today than when I started my Alexander Technique teacher training program in January 2009. When I started the program, which lasts for three hours every day (36 weeks a year), I … Continue reading

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