Is This Going To Make It Harder For Me To Date?

From the Scottish Sun:

Wannabe Scots actor found guilty of rape for secretly not using condom during sex in ‘stealthing’ conviction first

AN aspiring actor has become the first man in Scotland to be convicted of rape for secretly not using a condom during sex.

The historic case marks the first prosecution in Scotland of “stealthing” – removing or not using a condom during sex without a partner’s knowledge.

Campaigners have hailed the verdict as a major “landmark” in tackling the under-reported crime.

Luke Ford, 33, was found guilty on Friday of 18 charges of abusing seven female partners, including raping five of them and the attempted rape of another.

A trial at the High Court in Glasgow heard Ford terrorised the women over a 12-year period targeting them on dating apps before mounting a campaign of abuse.

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Feeling Strong

I told a bachelor friend that he looks like he’s feeling strong.

He replied, “Physically, but that masks a weakness. You and I know it’s the Modern Orthodox man supporting five kids who is strong. I’m just using fitness and whatever talent and packaging I have to help sell myself to have fun and to impress serious people. Men respect fitness. So it helps to rebuild your career.”

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Putting The Con In Conservative (5-14-23)

01:00 WSJ: Before His Killing, Tech Executive Bob Lee Led an Underground Life of Sex and Drugs
12:30 Hispanic Nazis
15:00 Why Are Right-Wing Radio Hosts Still Being Such Jerks About COVID?
32:00 2000 Mules REVIEW – A Dramatic but EMPTY Film, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6Haq0ak0ZU
51:00 Elliott Blatt joins
55:00 NPR funding

01:00 Living by Andrew Huberman
03:00 Analyzing CNN Townhall with Donald Trump
07:00 The Long Con in Conservatism, https://thebaffler.com/salvos/the-long-con
29:00 Claire Khaw’s one visit to an Orthodox shul
34:00 Right-wing death squads
37:30 The Flight 93 Election
38:50 The Proud Boys
41:30 The TRS-Proud Boys crossover
48:00 You can’t joke about that
53:00 Trump Townhall analysis
58:00 Feeling like we’re back in 2016
1:12:00 Curtis Yarvin & Vlad Davidzon | Should US help Ukraine?
1:35:00 WSJ: Get ready with me Tiktok

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The Lifestyle

Chuck Johnson wrote April 5 about Bob Lee’s murder: “Lee liked drugs. Lee bought drugs. Lee also liked orgies.”

Johnson was way ahead of the curve on this story.

May 14, 2023, the Wall Street Journal catches up:

Before His Killing, Tech Executive Bob Lee Led an Underground Life of Sex and Drugs

After the Cash App founder died in a stabbing, some were quick to blame San Francisco’s street violence. The truth was more shocking.

SAN FRANCISCO—In certain wealthy tech circles it is known as “The Lifestyle,” an underground party scene featuring recreational drug use and casual sex…

On the afternoon of April 3, a Monday, the partying took a dark turn. According to San Francisco prosecutors, Ms. Momeni’s older brother confronted Mr. Lee about her. Was she taking drugs or doing anything inappropriate, he wanted to know. Hours later the brother, Nima Momeni, stabbed Mr. Lee with a kitchen knife and left him to bleed out in the street, prosecutors alleged. Mr. Momeni, who was arrested on suspicion of murder, is being held without bail…

Libertine though it might seem, the party scene is governed by an unwritten code of conduct, said Devon Meyers, a friend of Mr. Lee who saw him a few days before he died. “There is still an understanding of consent and boundaries,” he said, adding that, if someone gets drunk and handsy, “they get excommunicated very quickly.”

…Mr. Momeni, the accused killer, was known to use drugs himself but wasn’t seen as part of the elite crowd… Acquaintances describe him as aloof and introverted, unlike his wealthy and glamorous sister, and prone to brood on the sidelines at parties….

Friends of Mr. Lee said he told them that he was casually sleeping with Ms. Momeni, 37. Before that, about three years ago, Mr. Lee, 43, was together with a woman that Mr. Momeni, 38, also had dated…

Mr. Lee… took ecstasy, ketamine, cocaine and attended all-night raves all around the world…

Once, a club offered to admit people for only $5 instead of $20 if they went in with no pants. Mr. Lee obliged…

Ms. Kerati, who met Mr. Lee at a private party in Acapulco, said that Mr. Lee had several girlfriends during that time and other women he was sleeping with, but that he was always respectful toward them….

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Conservatism: A Rediscovery

Samuel Goldman writes:

* Yoram Hazony’s Conservatism: A Rediscovery is a more personal book than its title suggests. As recounted in the fourth section, it tells the story of a sensitive young man who found in traditional religion, scholarly work, and nationalist politics a purpose for his life. Along the way, he married a loving wife, moved to a different land, and sired a goodly brood of children and grandchildren who bring him the comfort of a life well-lived already in middle-age. It is a beautiful story and a worthy example for the younger audience Hazony hopes to reach.

These circumstances are by no means discrediting. Every book is, to some extent, an autobiography of its writer, and Hazony deserves credit for telling his readers explicitly who he is and where he comes from. In addition to their honesty, these statements are consistent with Hazony’s epistemology, which emphasizes the limitation of any human perspective.

* Despite his admiration for the Anglo-American past, the core of Hazony’s conservatism is a form of Zionism built around an interpretation of the Hebrew Bible as the primary guide to modern politics. He even quotes with apparent approval a private remark by Irving Kristol that only Christians should be able to vote in a Christian nation on the same principle that only Jews should be allowed to vote in Israel.

* I would not mention the personal circumstances that produced this book if Hazony did not introduce them himself. But it is hard to resist the feeling that there is something odd about Americans, whether Christians or Jews, taking lessons from a writer who decided that America is not only the wrong place for him and his posterity but has also been on the wrong track for the majority of its past. The result here is difficult to reconcile with Hazony’s own defense of nationalism, which insists that different countries have different histories, resources, and needs, which cannot be reduced to broad ideological categories. Conservatism: A Rediscovery is a contribution to the rediscovery of certain forgotten American resources and prospects, but the search cannot stop there.

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Clap For Myself

From the 2012 book How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk:

Five minutes after the mother left, it became obvious that little Jonathan needed to head for the bathroom. When the teacher urged him to go, he mumbled unhappily, “Can’t.”
She asked, “Why not?”
“’Cause my Mommy isn’t here,” Jonathan explained. “She claps for me when I finish.”
The teacher thought for a moment. “Jonathan, you can go to the bathroom and then clap for yourself.”
Jonathan looked wide-eyed.
The teacher led him to the bathroom and waited. After a few minutes, from behind the closed door she heard the sound of applause.
Later that day the mother called her to say that the first words out of Jonathan’s mouth when he came home were “Mommy, I can clap for myself. I don’t need you anymore!”
“Would you believe it,” the teacher exclaimed to me, “The mother said she was actually depressed about this.”

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What A Time For A Town Hall! Trump Goes On CNN! (5-10-23)

02:00 Rich Lowry: Trump can’t lose, https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2023/05/10/trump-legal-scandals-2024-00096198?cid=apn
04:45 Tucker’s back, https://radixjournal.substack.com/p/hes-back-but-not-for-long
17:00 The online world can supplement or substitute for real life
18:30 Step 3, Part 2, with Allen Berger and Mary Gordon, https://youtu.be/ROGX_Jhv_FU?t=311
24:30 Step 4, Part 1, with Allen Berger, Thom Rutledge, and Mary Gordon, https://youtu.be/nGLNw1GmAGY?t=189
33:20 Step 4, Part 4, with Allen Berger and Thom Rutledge, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbM3jtA1ceM
34:30 Elliott Blatt joins
35:00 A course in miracles, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Course_in_Miracles
36:50 Ethan Ralph gets clean
42:00 Elliott’s rules for life
49:00 Dooovid joins

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Tucker Teams Up With Elon (5-9-23)

01:00 Axios: Tucker Carlson accuses Fox of fraud, contract breach, https://www.axios.com/2023/05/09/tucker-carlson-fox-news-letter-fraud
04:00 BP: TUCKER RETURNS: New Show On TWITTER As He SUES Fox News
09:00 Megyn Kelly: Leaked Tucker and DeSantis Videos
16:50 Dooovid joins
34:00 My Rules For Life, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=147702
1:13:30 The Making of a Murderer: Thoughts on the Hispanic Nazis, https://radixjournal.substack.com/p/the-making-of-a-murderer
1:45:00 What is mentally disturbed?

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My Rules For Life (5-8-23)

01:00 My Rules For Life, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=147702
22:30 Colin Liddell joins
25:30 WHO’S WHO IN THE DISSIDENT RIGHT: ANDY NOWICKI, https://neokrat.blogspot.com/2023/04/whos-who-in-dissident-right-andy-nowicki.html
30:00 Nick Fuentes
33:00 Milo
35:00 JASON KESSLER GRACEFULLY BOWS OUT OF METAPOLITICS AFTER WIGNATS FAIL TO BUY HIM A COMPUTER, https://neokrat.blogspot.com/2023/04/kessler-gracefully-bows-out.html
38:00 Steven Crowder
40:00 Tucker Carlson fired from Fox News
42:00 Nick Fuentes
43:45 JF Gariepy
44:25 Richard Spencer
49:00 Republican presidential primary
52:00 Democratic presidential primary
54:00 PM Rishi Sunak and British politics
57:00 Coach Red Pill arrested in Ukraine, https://neokrat.blogspot.com/2023/05/ukrainian-hair-police-arrest-foreigner.html
58:00 Ukraine war
1:02:30 China & Taiwan
1:05:00 Dennis Healy (Labor politician), https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Denis_Healey
1:10:40 Chuck Johnson
1:06:00 On Epistemic Black Holes. How Self-Sealing Belief Systems Develop and Evolve, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=147788
1:26:00 Megyn Kelly Reveals What’s Happening Behind-the-Scenes in War Between Fox News and Tucker Carlson, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2v4oZLwjx18&ab_channel=MegynKelly
1:30:00 Epistemic Sabotage, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=147766
1:37:00 The Israeli Mind: How the Israeli National Character Shapes Our World, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=147752
1:43:20 How to succeed in punditry, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vav-uo-S0UY
1:46:50 Elliott Blatt joins to discuss Chuck Johnson, https://twitter.com/JohnsonThought1
1:48:00 Richard Spencer
1:50:00 Mark Brahmin
1:51:30 Politics as a substitute drug
1:56:00 Richard Spencer on right wing death squads, https://twitter.com/RichardBSpencer/status/1655391944166764544
1:59:00 Dooovid joins
2:11:00 Can converts and half-Jews rise in the Jewish community?

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On Epistemic Black Holes. How Self-Sealing Belief Systems Develop and Evolve

Here are excerpts from a preprint of a 2023 philosophy paper:

* Here’s a sample of some extremely implausible and unfounded beliefs that are endorsed by many apparently sane and rational people even in the age of modern science: the Moon landing never happened but was staged in a Hollywood studio; extraterrestrial visitors have abducted people in their sleep and conducted sexual experiments on them; the 9/11 attacks were an inside job carried out by the Bush administration; all living creatures were created in their present form a couple of thousands years ago; the world is secretly run by a small clique of Satan-worshipping pedophiles (or by a super-race of extraterrestrial lizard beings); the vaccines against COVID-19 contain nano-tech microchips invented by Bill Gates in a plan for mind control and world domination; and the Earth is a flat disc surrounded by a wall of ice known as ‘Antarctica’.

* The analogy between belief systems and black holes was originally introduced by Stephen Law, who talked about “a bubble of belief that, while seductively easy to enter, can then be almost impossible to think your way out of again.”

* Epistemic black holes can also be regarded as special cases of ‘unfalsifiable’ theories…

* “conspiracy theories” refer to a class of unfounded and implausible theories that are held in the absence of good evidence. Examples include the belief that the moon landing was staged in a Hollywood studio, that 9/11 was an inside job perpetrated by the Bush administration, or that the Sandy Hook school shooting was staged with paid actors as part of a gun control campaign. It also includes broader conspiratorial worldviews that explain all or most historical events as resulting from the intentions of a small cadre of invisible actors, such as the Elders of Zion, the Rothschilds, or the Illuminati…

* If you postulate the existence of intelligent agents working behind the scenes to cover up the evidence for their existence, then you have some reason to expect an absence of evidence for your theory, and even the discovery of (false) counterevidence.

* according to Hannah Arendt, the story of a global Jewish conspiracy benefited from the built-in and self-sealing notion that, the “more consistently a discussion of the Jewish question was avoided by all parties and organs of public opinion,” the more believers became convinced that “Jews were the true representatives of the powers that be” …

* If the Protocols had been an authentic document and if the Elders of Zion as portrayed there really existed, we would expect them to dissimulate the evidence for their secret plans. And if the Jews really controlled all the other parties behind the scenes, we would expect those parties to remain suspiciously silent on (or dismissive of) the “Jewish question.” In the 1905 introduction to the Protocols, the reader is warned not to be fooled by the absence of witnesses to corroborate the reality of the organization and their evil plans. In fact, such an absence of evidence is exactly what we should expect: “were it possible to prove this world-wide conspiracy by means of letters or by declarations of witnesses, […] the “mysteries of iniquity,” would by this very fact, be violated. To prove itself, it has to remain unmolested till the day of its incarnation in the “son of perdition” […].”

* Even today, a full century after having been debunked, the Protocols are still being regularly reprinted, disseminated and discussed as an authentic document, now predominantly in the Islamic world, but also elsewhere.
A similar self-sealing logic can be observed with many other popular conspiracy theories. When the 9/11 Commission, set up by the U.S. Congress, published its final 585-page report in 2004, reviewing half a million documents and detailing the responsibility of Al Qaeda and the failures of U.S. intelligence agencies in excruciating detail, conspiracy theorists were hardly impressed. After all, if the U.S. government had itself staged the attack as a false flag operation, in order to create a pretext for invading Iraq and Afghanistan, we would expect them to fabricate a sham report full of false evidence and distortions.
An initially credible conspiracy hypothesis about a specific historical event (such as the murder of John F. Kennedy) may degenerate into an epistemic black hole when it ends up attributing superhuman powers and intelligence to some unseen conspirators working behind the scenes.

* …important strands within the world religions of Islam and Christianity conceive of God as secretly working behind the scenes, even covering up the evidence for his own existence. In the Bible, for instance, God is sometimes portrayed as deliberately hiding from human beings, as in this complaint from the Book of Isaiah: “Truly, thou art a God who hidest thyself” (Isaiah 45:15). Many Christians believe that, after creating the universe, God has (mostly) retreated from the world. This conception of God, which is known as deus absconditus or the problem of divine hiddenness (Schellenberg, 2006), is a recurring theme in the Christian tradition (Philipse, 2012, pp. 302-309). God seems to be not just invisible to the human senses—which is understandable given that he is immaterial and bodiless—but remains elusive even to those who actively seek him. Events that are apparently at odds with the notion of a hidden divine plan are often explained away by arguing that “God moves in mysterious ways”…

* Theologians and ordinary believers have developed different justifications for divine hiddenness, the most dominant of which is that it is a test of faith (Murray, 1993; Schellenberg, 2006). If God revealed himself for all the world to see, it would be too easy to believe in his existence. By keeping out of sight and leaving the evidence for his existence inconclusive or ambiguous, God can separate the unbelievers and doubters from those with true faith. Similar ideas can be found in the Quran, where God explains at some point that, though he generally supports the community of righteous believers in their fight against the infidels, he will not always grant them victory on the battlefield. Rather, he will allow for some occasional defeats and setbacks, in order to test the strength of their faith. A related response to the problem of divine hiddenness is that God wants to give us morally significant free will, and that revealing himself in any manifest way would take away that freedom (Swinburne, 2004). Whatever the rationale for divine hiddenness, what it comes down to is a form of divine deception (Nieminen, Boudry, Ryökäs, & Mustonen, 2017): God could clearly reveal himself to us, or at least leave evidence for his existence, but he decided to stay out of sight and even cover up his tracks.
In light of these features, a number of authors have recently pointed out the epistemological similarities between theism and conspiracy theories (Edis, 2019; Keeley, 2007). As these authors admit, however, monotheism cannot strictly speaking be regarded as a conspiracy theory because, by definition, God is a unified and single agent who has no-one to conspire with. Indeed, as Keeley (2007) has argued, God has “no need to conspire with anybody to bring about Providence according to His wishes” (Keeley, 2007, p. 140), because he is by definition all-powerful and all-knowing. Only fallible humans need to collaborate with others to carry out elaborate and complex forms of deception.

* Once you adopt the hypothesis that an invisible (omnipotent) supernatural being is covering up the evidence for his own existence, it might become very hard to reason your way out of such a belief system.

* Freudian psychoanalysis has the same self-sealing quality as popular conspiracy theories about history or the witchcraft belief system in early modern Europe, in which absence of evidence or apparent counterevidence could always be interpreted in the theory’s own terms. When Freud was unable to find traces of a pathological complex or unconscious desire to account for a patient’s behavior, he was undeterred and treated this as a token of unconscious resistance. Since the unconscious was motivated to hide and disguise its dark secrets, it was not surprising to find an apparent lack of evidence. According to the same logic of deception, apparent refutations of the theory could be explained away with equal ease. In his clinical practice, Freud worked on the assumption that his patients harbored a secret and unconscious desire to disprove his own explanations, so as to avoid having to confront their own repressed desires. If a patient dismissed his psychoanalytic interpretations of their symptoms or dreams, he interpreted this as evidence of “resistance” or “denial”, as predicted by the theory (Cioffi, 1998). If the patient ceded to Freud and accepted his latest explanation, of course this also counted in favor of the theory, namely as an instance of resistance overcome through therapeutic pressure.

* Because of their self-sealing character, epistemic black holes are extremely resilient against external challenges in the form of counterevidence or skeptical questions. This strong resilience, however, comes at a steep cost: the belief systems suffers from a problem of arbitrariness, in the sense that the available evidence is always congruent with many different versions, and there is no rational way to adjudicate between them.

* the conceptual core structure of psychoanalysis provides a sort of empty shell into which any number of rival theoretical notions can be inserted. In particular, while Freud’s original theory centered around the Oedipus complex and the notion of infantile sexual desires, later theorists have developed the theory in widely divergent (and often incompatible) directions. Otto Rank’s version of psychoanalysis reduces virtually every psychological complex to the repressed birth trauma, Alfred Adler unearthed inferiority complexes everywhere, Melanie Klein introduced the notion of unconscious breast envy as a counterweight to penis envy, Carl Jung developed the theory of unconscious archetypes (anima, persona, shadow), and so forth (Macmillan, 1997).
In the absence of any evidential constraints for fixing the parameters of conspiracy explanations, the psychoanalytic movement has often been beset by irresolvable theoretical disputes and schisms. In the words of Frederick Crews (1998, p. xxx), the epistemological structure of psychoanalysis renders the development of the psychoanalytic movement “drastically centrifugal, spinning off ever more numerous, mutually excommunicating schools and cliques” (see also Gordin, 2012, p. 202).

* In the aftermath of the Second World War, however, Jews abruptly disappear from conspiracist literature (with the notable exception of Soviet Russia under Stalin). This had nothing to do with novel evidence, but with the almost universal abhorrence of Nazism. Most conspiracy theorists, even the ones who had promoted antisemitic conspiracies before the war, started to abandon or downplay the Jewish element and settled for other suitable culprits such as the CIA or FBI, a choice that reflected the ascent of the United States as the new global superpower. Other favorite targets became the United Nations and the Bilderberg group, a transnational organization of political leaders and other elites which holds annual conferences since 1954 and which, owing to its notorious privacy and secrecy, was an ideal target for conspiracy theorists. In short, this shift from Jews to other perpetrators did not reflect any novel evidence, but was driven by “changing social and political circumstances” (Byford, 2011, p. 97).

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