Romanticize Your Life By Finding Your In-Group (5-3-23)

12:00 Surgeon General tackles loneliness, https://www.cnn.com/2023/05/02/health/murthy-loneliness-isolation/index.html
18:00 MSNBC: We need social connection for our survival: Surgeon General on risks of loneliness
25:00 The price of working from home
48:00 Julie Hartman goes down the rabbit hole with Dennis Prager, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=58r1MbuH9oM
49:00 Decoding Dennis Prager the guru, https://www.lukeford.net/Dennis/indexp2a.html
1:12:00 Guardian: Chimp Empire review – this epic tale of betrayal is like Succession, but with apes, https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2023/apr/19/chimp-empire-review-this-epic-tale-of-betrayal-is-like-succession-but-with-apes
1:22:00 When Vice was the future of news, https://unherd.com/2023/05/my-part-in-vices-downfall/
1:25:50 Chuck Johnson ahead of the curve on Vice, https://dailycaller.com/2013/07/03/vice-founder-famous-for-truth-telling-has-history-of-lies/
1:27:00 Roger Scruton on why intellectuals are on the left
1:31:00 NYT: Carlson’s Text That Alarmed Fox Leaders: ‘It’s Not How White Men Fight, https://www.nytimes.com/2023/05/02/business/media/tucker-carlson-text-message-white-men.html
1:35:00 Hollywood writers going on strike are forming powerful bonds with each other, https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2023-05-03/writers-strike-boom-bust-golden-age-gold-rush-column

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The Waco Warning (5-2-23)

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When you feel ignored…

I hate feeling ignored. It hurts. But it rarely drives me crazy.

I interpret being ignored, usually, as a loud answer to the bid I was making for someone’s attention. I don’t tend to stew over it. Instead, I think about how often I ignore others, and how people ignoring me are likely acting in their best interest. Then I think about how I can realign myself with reality so I don’t stay in this pain.

I sometimes bid twice for someone’s attention, but if that doesn’t happen, I almost never bid a third time. I digest the important information conveyed by being ignored (usually I have over-estimated my importance to the other person), and then I move on. There are plenty of people who are happy to respond to me. So I take time to reconnect with myself, mourn if necessary, soothe myself, and when I am at peace, I move back into the world.

I don’t hold a grudge against those who ignore me, because I know how often I ignore others. When people who once ignored me get back in touch, I usually respond positively. Sometimes that has taken more than 15 years. At age 56, I don’t cling much.

One of the sickest feelings I’ve had is when I’ve butted into conversations where I’m not wanted. I don’t think that has happened to me often over the past five years, but on the rare occasions it has, it’s a reminder that I’ve lost touch with reality, usually with a delusional sense of my own importance.

The more isolated I get, the more delusional I get, while the more connected I get, the better I get.

When I feel bad, such as when I’m feeling ignored, I no longer try to distract myself from the bad feeling. It’s usually telling me I’ve suffered a loss. I no longer seek to drown my sadness by blissing out with grandiose fantasies. I try to understand what I’ve learned from the setback and I grieve. Within a few hours, or days, I’m back to enjoying life with the people who enjoy me.

Men’s Health says April 5, 2023:

If you communicate with people throughout the day—basically, if you’re human—then you, like me, sometimes find yourself “following up,” “circling back,” and generally coming to terms with being ignored, especially considering all the other instances in your life in which you might go unheard. (No response to a “let’s reconnect” DM to an old friend; crickets when you ask your landlord to renew your lease; no answer from the doctor’s office, even three days later; hello, barista?) At a certain point, feeling invisible can begin to take a toll on your mental health.

In fact, Kipling D. Williams, Ph.D., a professor of psychological sciences at Purdue University, found that being ignored literally hurts—it triggers the same part of the brain that registers physical pain. Technically, you’re experiencing ostracism. You may think of ostracism as the stuff of black sheep and outcasts, but it basically means you’re being excluded from group dynamics or otherwise feeling ignored. The person or people ignoring you might not even know they’re doing it. They may not have received your message, might have been on vacation, or just haven’t had time to respond. “It’s hard to know what they were thinking. But it doesn’t really matter. From your perspective, you are perceiving that you’re ignored and excluded, and it has its effects on you, whether or not it was intended to be that way,” Williams says. That sensation of being invisible feels so bad because it threatens some basic human psychological needs. And it works quickly. In experiments, Williams and his team watched what happened when some people were left out of a virtual ball-tossing game with strangers—about as low-stakes an ostracism scenario as you can imagine. They saw that those people being ignored reported elevated feelings of sadness and anger after just a few minutes.

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NYMAG: Where Is the Republican Soul-searching for Getting COVID Wrong? Fauci is at least answering some hard questions.

Jonathan Chait writes May 2, 2023:

Conservatives got COVID extremely wrong. Where is the accountability? Where is the course correction? The answer is that they don’t exist, because the conservative movement is incapable of engaging in them…

Donald Trump threatened to fire Dr. Nancy Messonnier, a top CDC official, for telling reporters in February 2020 that the virus would likely spread to the United States. Trump insisted that month that China was “getting it under control more and more, that the United States had just 15 people [with COVID], and the 15 within a couple of days is going to be down to close to zero.” He repeated over and over: “Just stay calm. It will go away.” (March 10). “It’s going to go away, hopefully at the end of the month. And, if not, hopefully it will be soon after that.” (March 31). “It is going to go away. It is going away.” (April 3). “I always say, even without it [a vaccine], it goes away.” (June 16). And on and on…

But even highly respectable conservative intellectuals made utterly absurd claims about the pandemic’s likely death toll. Hoover Institute scholar Richard Epstein predicted COVID would kill just 500 Americans, before correcting a small computational error and revising the prediction to 5,000 (still a gross underestimate, as more than a million Americans have perished from COVID-19).

In March 2020, the Journal ran an op-ed arguing that the standard models of the projected COVID death toll were “too high by orders of magnitude,” proposing the actual death toll would be 20,000 or perhaps 40,000. The prominent voodoo economist Kevin Hassett created a model that persuaded White House staff that COVID deaths would drop to zero by mid-May 2020.

The wishful delusion that COVID posed barely any serious health risk produced other delusions. Hydroxychloroquine would cure it! The vaccines were unnecessary or even harmful! These errors were the product of ingrained mental pathologies on the right, which is why a figure like Hassett is now merrily assuring Republicans that defaulting on the national debt would be no big deal.

Far from examining the epistemic bubble that produced these bizarre beliefs, conservatives have coalesced around them. Trump is now running away from Operation Warp Speed, because it constitutes a political liability for him. Ron DeSantis, the Journal’s preferred candidate, has turned the anti-vaccine movement into a powerful wedge against Trump. DeSantis has appeared with and promoted anti-vaxxers and recruited an idiosyncratic vaccine skeptic, Joseph Ladapo, to run his state’s health department. Florida is “affirmatively against” providing the COVID-19 vaccine to children, making it the only state to adopt such a position. Ladapo recently altered a study to exaggerate the risks of the vaccine.

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Time: I Tried to Cure My Burnout. Here’s What Happened

Jamie Ducharme writes:

Their burnout symptoms improved, but it wasn’t necessarily the food that made the difference—it was support. “We have so many shared experiences and so many stressors that are in common, and yet physicians will often feel like, Well, I can’t talk to anybody about this,” West says. Bringing people together to share their experiences can help.

West believes there are other reasons the program worked: it was easy for people to join, since they had to eat anyway, and the hospital made meals free for study participants. “The individual needs to contribute something, and the organization needs to contribute something,” West says. That two-sided approach helps people feel supported and valued by their organization, which can go a long way toward easing some of the bitterness and cynicism that accompany burnout.

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SMH: Barry Humphries is a reminder that we should laugh the phrase ‘read the room’ out of existence

David Free writes:

First, notice that we’re talking about the room. The definite article seems important. Nobody has accused Humphries of forgetting how to read a room. Comedians prize the ability to read the rooms they perform in. To lose that knack would indeed be a calamity.

But unless they’re abject hacks, comedians don’t read a room so they can overhaul their entire act on the spot, and tell the room exactly what it wants to hear. All good performers give audiences part of what they want, but push back against them too. Only by challenging an audience can you make it think, and maybe even change a few minds.

The injunction to read the room is more sweeping and less negotiable. It implies that the whole world is one big room now. There are no walls anymore, no discrete theatres or intimate audiences. Apparently, we’re now meant to gauge the mood of the entire planet before venturing a joke or opinion about anything.

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Last Call at the Hotel Imperial: The Reporters Who Took on a World at War

From the LROB:

[Dorothy] Thompson’s friend the historian Stephen Graubard said ‘she was like a great ship left stranded on the beach after the tide had gone out.’ She continued to write and to publish – usually about the downfall of American morality – but her influence was never what it had been. Before the US entered the war, one of her columns had refuted Lindbergh’s claim that Jews controlled the American press. She had carefully listed the owners of major newspapers, syndicates, chains – all goyim (one exception, the New York Times, was ‘Jewish-owned’, she allowed, ‘but has an overwhelmingly gentile editorial board’). She insisted that ‘if every American Jew died tomorrow it would not make the slightest difference’ to the ‘policy’ of the press. But when she no longer commanded an audience of millions, she knew whom to blame. She wrote to Rebecca West: ‘Jews … ruthless[ly] exploit you when they can, and especially exploit your feelings of sympathy and charity, and kick you all the harder in the teeth if you cease to be of use to them, or draw back a little on being exploited.’ There’s probably a lesson in that; her younger self would have made a column out of it.

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One Orthodox Jew’s Journey Through Darkness

Menachem Green went blind in his 20s.

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Anyone Who Is Not Us

Depending on your disposition and your situation, knowing about anyone in your vicinity who is not part of your in-group can be important.

I converted to Orthodox Judaism and I learned that there are some mysteries in this way of life that are only available to those in the dance, and this dance can only soar if everyone around you is Orthodox and in the dance.

I don’t see anything inherently bad about such an interest in safety. It’s usually adaptive, meaning it helps us survive. People and animals usually feel safest when they are with their own kind.

Some people, however, find this creepy. They want us to transcend our base needs for in-groups and out-groups. In some situations, this elevated universalist response is the more adaptive response. Other times, it is the more dangerous response.

The situation is king.

Wired magazine reports in its May 2023 issue:

A video showed Hikvision cameras pointed at tourists climbing the thousands of stone steps leading to the famous peak. Piano music played as a narrator explained, in Mandarin with English subtitles, that the cameras were there “to identify all visitors to ensure the safety of all.” The video cut to a shot of a computer screen, and Honovich hit pause. He saw a zoomed-in view of one visitor’s face. Below it was data that the camera’s AI had inferred. Honovich downloaded the video and took screenshots of the computer screen, for safekeeping.

Later, with the help of a translator, he scrutinized every bit of text on that screen. One set of characters, the translator explained, suggested each visitor was automatically sorted into categories: age, sex, wearing glasses, smiling. When Honovich pointed at the fifth category and asked, “What’s this?” the translator replied, “minority.” Honovich pressed: “Are you sure?” The translator confirmed there was no other way to read it.

Honovich was shocked. In his many years in the industry, he’d never seen a surveillance company set out to automatically detect racial minorities. The feature seemed completely unethical to him, and he immediately wondered how China might use it against the Uyghur people, a mostly Muslim ethnic minority group, in the province of Xinjiang. Honovich had seen reports trickling out in the West of Uyghurs being subjected to constrictive surveillance and mass detentions. Clicking through the AI Summit website, Honovich couldn’t tell whether Chinese authorities were using this technology to oppress minorities, but he saw that danger coalescing.

…IN DECEMBER 2020, an IPVM employee made a blockbuster discovery. The reporter, who keeps his identity secret because of the harassment some IPVMers get for their controversial work, discovered that Huawei and a Chinese AI unicorn called Megvii had tested a literal “Uyghur alarm”: The system used AI to analyze people’s faces, and if it determined that a passerby was Uyghur, it could send an alert to authorities. At the time, Huawei wasn’t publicly known to be participating in China’s racial surveillance system. IPVM partnered with two Washington Post tech reporters to get the information out.

The Post published an article on the same day as IPVM and credited the security outfit with the discovery. Dozens of publications picked up the story. For the first time, an IPVM report was national news. Reacting to the Post report, US senator Ben Sasse from Nebraska said, “While Huawei sells contracts with fancy talk about connecting people around the world, they’re working to send Uyghurs to torture camps in China.” Senator Marco Rubio from Florida tweeted, “The sick people at @Huawei developing software to recognize the faces of #Uighur Muslims & alert the communist government of #China.”

If you are freaking out about your security, why would you not want to know about any stranger entering your turf?

Sometimes safety is the number one priority for a group, and that frequently means a readiness to oppress others. Nothing good happens with individuals or groups until they feel safe.

I’ve been watching the great Netflix documentary series Chimp Empire. It says that chimps are out closest animal ancestor. They’re apparently highly territorial, always looking to expand their territory while keeping close watching on outsiders intruding. When a group catches a chimp from another group alone, they kill him. When rival gangs of chimps meet, the weaker group runs away.

Pork Pie is a chimp in the main group who gets isolated and slaughtered in the heart of his own group’s territory. I suspect he would have appreciated surveillance technology that notified him that out-group chimps were near. If he had something like that, he might still be alive.

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NYT: Fox Gambled With Its Future. Tucker Carlson Can Still Take Down the House. (4-28-23)

01:00 Why Ted Cruz won’t run again for president
02:00 NYT on Tucker’s trajectory, https://www.nytimes.com/2023/04/28/opinion/tucker-carlson-fox.html
04:00 Steve Bannon sent Chuck Johnson out to the Chabad rabbis and the Alt Right
19:00 Ron DeSantis praises Israel
24:00 Chuck Johnson says Michael Wolff is close to the Russians
25:00 RS and Chuck long for Steve Bannon to go to prison
47:30 Chuck says Obama is gay
56:00 Fired Tucker Carlson producer: Misogyny and bullying ‘trickles down from the top’, https://www.npr.org/2023/04/28/1172584447/tucker-carlson-firing-misogyny-abuse-fox-news-abby-grossberg
1:06:00 Journalists are degenerates, and cheap dates
1:09:50 Dennis Prager’s commitment to honesty

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