Eroticized Rage

From Neil Strauss’s book The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships:

“The payoff of anger is mastery, control, or power,” Lorraine continues. “So the anger makes you feel better and one up. And when you use sex to restore power or feel better about yourself in a similar way, this is what’s known as eroticized rage.”

Eighty-eight percent of sex addicts, she tells, us, came from emotionally disengaged families. Seventy-seven percent came from rigid or strict families. And sixty-eight percent say their families were both distant and strict.

“Being overcontrolled as a child sets you up to lie as an adult,” she concludes. “So the theory of sex addiction is that when you feel out of control or disempowered, you sneak around and act out sexually to reestablish control and regain your sense of self.”

This is where she loses me. “Can you give a specific example?” I ask.

“Well, she replies, “what’s your story?”

“I cheated on my girlfriend.”

“Strict mother.”

“Yes.”

“Mom wasn’t emotionally available, so you’re taking out your dick and using it to look for love. And sex is healing the anger at Mom for not being available.”

“So I fuck other women to get back at my mom?”

“And to have an emotionally safe way of getting the affection, acceptance, and comfort you never got from Mom.”

“I don’t know. It felt like my mom was always there for me.”

“Was she there for you…or were you there for her?”

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Killing Drug Dealers Seems Like A Good Idea To Me

This leader of the Philippines sounds like Donald Trump.

REPORT: Nine more killed in Philippine ‘war on drugs’

MANILA: Nine people were killed overnight in the Philippines, authorities said Saturday, as police and suspected anti-drug vigilantes pushed ahead with President Rodrigo Duterte’s controversial war on crime.

Duterte won the May 9 election by a landslide, largely on a pledge to kill tens of thousands of drug dealers and other criminals, and has urged the police, civilians and even insurgents to help in the killings.

More than 100 suspects have been killed in the seven weeks since Duterte’s election.

One pre-dawn raid in the town of Matalam, about 900 kilometres south of Manila, left eight “drug personalities” dead on Saturday, including a woman, regional police spokesman Superintendent Romeo Galgo told reporters.

One other person was arrested on suspicion of drug offences, Galgo said, adding that three pistols and four grenades were found on the dead suspects.

In Manila, police said they found an unidentified dead man, his entire head wrapped in tape, on a poorly lit road late Friday. His torso was covered with a cardboard sign reading: “I am a Pusher”.

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USA Today: ‘Tech companies break silence on racial justice’

All of the major tech companies support the terror organization Black Lives Matter.

John Rivers tweets:

* If I was a White Googler, how could I feel safe when my company was openly supporting an Anti-White Terrorist Group like #BlackLivesMatter?

* If @google supported the KKK – every Black Employee would sue for a Hostile Work Environment. Whites can do the same for #BlackLivesMatter.

* I think @google supporting Anti-White Terrorists would create a Hostile Work Environment for their White Employees.

* Now that #BlackLivesMatter is murdering Whites in Racial Terror Attacks, why are @google, @twitter & @pandora supporting them?

* #BlackLivesMatter has killed more Whites in the past two years than the KKK has killed Blacks in the past twenty.

* The Left doesn’t argue White Racism. They just say – Everybody knows Whites are Racist. Now it’s your job to disprove it.

USA TODAY: SAN FRANCISCO — Silicon Valley leaders — who rarely speak out on racially charged issues — are breaking their silence. The question is: Will they do more than talk?

In a series of posts on social media that followed the shooting deaths of Philando Castile and Alton Sterling — black men killed in separate police encounters in the course of one day — some of the nation’s most influential technology companies lined up in support of racial justice with the #BlackLivesMatter hashtag.

• “We stand in solidarity with the fight for racial justice,” Google tweeted.

• “These tragedies must lead to action. We join the voices demanding racial justice now,” tweeted Twitter.

• Dropbox CEO Drew Houston tweeted, “What a terrible time for this country. #BlackLivesMatter” Through a spokeswoman, Houston said he tweeted because he and Dropbox care about these issues deeply.

​• Apple CEO Tim Cook tweeted, “Senseless killings this week remind us that justice is still out of reach for many.”

• “We join the millions mourning in Baton Rouge, Falcon Heights and Dallas and we stand with those committed to change around the world,” tweeted Microsoft.

• “The images we’ve seen this week are graphic and heartbreaking, and they shine a light on the fear that millions of members of our community live with every day,” Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg wrote on his Facebook page.

But while tech leaders have been strong with their words, actions have been absent.

Save for Google, which has contributed more than $5 million in grants to racial justice organizations the past year, most tech companies have taken few tangible steps to address the issue. That’s in contrast to how they’ve used their clout as sought-after employers and cash-rich companies to influence other issues, from bills that impact LGBTQ people to immigration reform.

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Facebook Supports Terrorist Organization Black Lives Matter

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Report: At Facebook’s headquarters in Menlo Park, California, the social media company replaced its “Welcome to Facebook” signage with a “Black Lives Matter” solidarity message.

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James Woods: Do you stand for #LawEnforcementOfficers assassinated in the line of duty by #racists? #DallasPoliceShootings

All the corporations backing the terrorist organization Black Lives Matter must be made to feel the heat.

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Politico: An Unfair Tragedy for Unlucky Dallas

Comments at Steve Sailer:

* Funny how the unfair or misleading characterizations, like City of Hate, always come from some abstract force and never an identifiable interested party.

* Systemic racism is apparently an insoluble issue according to the Left, considering we’ve been dealing with it for over 50 years, so the only logical conclusion is segregation right?

* Well I guess Dallas has had the bad luck of having nuts motivated by left-wing ideology commit atrocities there twice in 53 years.

* Never forget the 0.6%

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* If you go back 20 plus years ago you had Patrick Buchanan preaching against free trade, unnecessary intervention and mass immigration. In other words he was against what would become the invade-the-world-invite-the-world-in-hock-to-the-world policy the RINOs and democrats have pushed.

The GOP base swallowed the bait and Buchanan was blasted in the media and shunned by the GOP. However, after 20 plus years the fruits of these policies have been shown to be quite sour. The GOP base has finally realized that the RINOs say one thing during a campaign, but once the election is over, govern differently.

So what has probably caused the powers that be to lose control over the past few years is that their base has come to realize that they will never do what they promise, and what they actually do is detrimental to their standard of living.

Unfortunately Buchanan was not able to convince people of this twenty years ago.

* How does a guy go bankrupt? Slowly at first and then all at once.

How does a paradigm change? Slowly at first and then all at once.

That’s why it took 20 years for the internet to finally begin breaking the PTB’s grip on the mic.

* I typically define “hate” (as popularly used) as “the act of whites attempting to defend themselves and their interests.”

* Dallas-Fort Worth is kind of, sort of the capital of Red State America.

* Twenty years ago, when I worked in advertising, I spent ten days in Dallas shooting some commercials. The copywriter (15 years my junior) and I visited the Book Depository Museum, which was interesting, but beyond that there didn’t seem to be much to do except go to restaurants and bars. Having noticed the high percentage of beautiful women everywhere we went, the writer turned to me and said, “Harry, you know a lot more about history than I do. Exactly when was it that the mayor of Dallas kicked out all the fat chicks?”

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‘Trump leads the 1st InfantREEEEEE in storming the beaches of California.’

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Obama’s Orientation

Tweet: > 3-seat couch
> 2 grown men sit practically on top of each other
Sexual orientation confirmed.

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Washington Post: “Dallas Had Finally Shaken the Nickname ‘City of Hate'”

Who came up with the idea that Dallas is the city of hate?

Why does having a black police chief automatically make a city less hateful? Are black men the ultimate cleanser of hatred?

Comments at Steve Sailer:

* If I were going to nickname a city “The City of Hate” I’d probably select the city with the highest violent crime rate. As it is, I’m quite certain that city would be firmly controlled by the Democratic Party, and we all know what the city’s demographics would look like.

* The Dallas-Fort Worth Metroplex is more or less the biggest Red State metropolitan area, so its existence chafes.

* It says something about the the DC elite that the shooting of 5 cops by a deranged black man instantly reminds them of the JFK assassination.

Oswald – not only was a communist – but he lived in 22 different locations during his short life. He lived in Dallas but he wasn’t in any way a Texan.

* If I recall correctly, Dallas in 1963 was a major area for the John Birch Society, and the left blamed them and the MIC for the JFK assassination. Oliver Stone’s film alleges something like this.

The preferences of NYC media liberals influence a large amount of our written history, the 60s Dallas was much more Middle America than the 2016 Dallas is, and worse it was Southern.

* It is amazing that, assuming Oswald was the killer, Dallas has been blamed by the media for all these years. It would be one thing if someone believed that Oswald was a patsy and that the Dallas Birchers and racists actually killed Kennedy. But most of these media outlets state that Oswald was the killer. Well if Oswald was the killer, then the assassination had nothing to do with the Birchers and other reactionaries that apparently resided in Dallas in 1963.

Right now I am watching the media seemingly run interference for BLM to exonerate them for this massacre. If they can make right-wing republicans in Dallas guilty of the JFK assassination which was committed by their polar opposite, then I suppose BLM is going to end up OK. I would hope that in 2016 the media would not be able to control the narrative like they did in 1963.

BTW, just think if this massacre had happened at a Tea Party or Trump event. The fact that BLM hasn’t been broken up and banned is testament to how hard the media is pulling for them.

* Obama supporters were very militant in 2012, in case you have forgotten. All the Obama presidency has accomplished is that it has made black people more militant in their attitudes, as though every POTUS from now on should be black.

* I’ve never heard anyone call Dallas the “City of Hate” before. The city itself has been highly minority for decades, though. Whites moved to the suburbs, you know the drill.

* When I was a little kid I used to think Dallas was a blondetopia because of the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders. But as I got older I found out Dallas is just another typical big American city.

* If any American city deserves the title “City of Hate,” it would be Washington, D.C. It was there in 1865 that President Lincoln was shot by John Wilkes Booth, resulting in his death, and where President Garfield was shot and killed in 1881 and where an assassination attempt was made on President Truman in 1950 and where President Reagan was shot by John Hinckley in 1981. A distant runnerup would be Buffalo, NY where President McKinley was assassinated. An even more distant runnerup would be Miami, Florida where an assassination attempt was made on President-elect Franklin Roosevelt in 1933. Even more distant in the standings would be Milwaukee, Wisconsin where former President Theodore Roosevelt was shot while running again in 1912. Clearly, Washington, D.C. stands head and shoulders above other American cities in the category of hate: two successful assassinations and two unsuccessful attempted assassinations. D.C. has Dallas beat by a mile.

* A lot of important limousine Liberals reside in Washington DC, so it can’t be and never will be the city of hate. Not a lot of important limousine Liberals reside in Dallas. Most Liberals in Dallas are working class NAMs.

* I’m 48 years old, lived in Texas for 8 years, and I also am unaware that Dallas was nicknamed the “city of hate.” Closest I’ve come to hearing this was Chris Matthews a few years ago blaming JFK’s assassination by “marxist-leninist” Lee Harvey Oswald on the right-wing environment in TX at that time.

* I guess Los Angeles is a “City of Hate” too, as Bobby Kennedy was assassinated there, likewise New York (Malcolm X). Oakland (Marcus Foster) and San Francisco (Harvey Milk) too.

So many Cities of Hate.

* Google Ngram of “dallas” and “city of hate”

The term “city of hate” is basically a flatline at zero.

NY Times Ngram (Chronicle) of “city of hate”

Basically, seven or eight one-time mentions, only one of which was after the Kennedy assassination, sometime in the mid-1970s, so unlikely to be correlated with the assassination.

Shorter version: Wesley Lowery and the Washington Post are lying through their teeth.

Or, in other words, situation normal.

* Stock market bottomed out in March 2009 when the Obama Administration signaled they would not nationalize the US banking system. Most of the crash of 2008-2009 resulted from investor apprehension regarding how Obama would respond to the recession.

* Bond prices don’t lie. Check out current prices, they’re lower than when the market was tanking during the last crisis. We just need a catalyst. I’m betting on Deutsche Bank failure. They’re up to around 30 trillion in shitty derivative exposure. That can’t continue.
That’s the lede that’s being buried right now. Can’t understand why, since it’s a massive economic bomb like no other about to plaster the EU, that will reverberate throughout the world, but I guess that’s showbiz. Surprise and dread creates more clicks.

* What’s amazing to me is that they haven’t tried to connect this to Trump (yet). If you use enough crazy logic (and that’s the only kind they know) then Trump creates climate of hate which spreads to Dallas which causes police shootings.

The other interesting thing is that unlike Orlando, this has not lead to more “ban guns” talk. I guess disarming black people is not a big seller on the left. Also the fact that the guy used something that looked sort of like an old fashioned hunting rifle (although in fact an old Soviet military design) made it harder to call it an “assault rifle”.

* The Texas beauty ideal is the “beauty queen” look where it is expected that you put some effort into your looks and you are not required to make the fakery look “natural” – the fact that your appearance obviously took some work to achieve is considered a plus – you are willing to put in the work that is needed to succeed. Any cowboy would know that to win a blue ribbon at the fair, you can’t just pick a muddy steer up off the range and haul it directly to the show, you’ve got to put a lot of effort into making it look good first.

* Conspiracy theorists like to make a big deal of the word “allegedly” on the plaque. It’s also good for business – the rumor is that the street vendors on the plaza are the ones who keep scratching around the word to highlight it. All it means is that Oswald was never tried and convicted in a court of law.

I didn’t get the vibe from the Book Depository Museum that they were pushing the conspiracy theory. In fact, once you see the setup, it seems like Oswald had an easy shot and didn’t need co-conspirators, any more than Micah needed help to shoot a full dozen cops with a similar weapon. In my mind’s eye, “Dealey Plaza” was a vast plain like Tiananmen Square and the Grassy Knoll was like the Sheep Meadow of Central Park. But when you see it in real life, the whole thing is a slightly glorified highway off ramp, the Grassy Knoll is the size of a road shoulder and Oswald was 80 yards away from Kennedy, whose car was moving at a crawl because it had just made a sharp turn at a street intersection. The plaza is right at the edge of the downtown grid and the whole thing is on a small urban scale (like the small city that Dallas was in 1963).

* I just noticed the top-rated comment under Ross Douthat’s column at the NYT says that. It essentially screams “it’s because of you, and people like you, we’re in this mess!”. I think the the crisis of faith and desperation has hit everyone: from the NYT subscribers having trouble enjoying their birdwatching and biscotti, to the Black Lives Matter foot soldier enraged that he didn’t get his share during the Obama years.

It wasn’t supposed to be like this. The Mocha Messiah was going to make it all okay. It isn’t okay at all and that means someone around here prevented the magic from happening.

* Where is this mythical place where they have “good government” in a large, highly diverse and racially polarized country? You can have “good government” to some extent in a small place like Denmark with a homogenous population that is constrained by shared societal norms, but the US is nothing like Denmark. Rather we are increasingly like Venezuela – that’s what big government would end up looking like here.

* Blacks are loyal Democrats but were not super excited by Hillary who is after all an old cracker lady who ran against Obama – she doesn’t even have Bill’s “honorary black” status. So it was important to do something to stir up the black base and get the high turnout that is key to swinging states like PA. In a good year (in which 110% of black voters vote) Philadelphia puts the Democrats hundreds of thousands of votes ahead before the first white vote is counted (not in sequence – Philadelphia comes in late, depending on how many votes are needed to turn the election – there’s no point in committing more crimes than are absolutely necessary). This makes winning the whole state a LOT easier – it’s like playing golf with a handicap or the ability to take lots of mulligans (Bill’s favorite way of playing golf).

The media machine has so far done a good job of putting just the right spin on the Texas shootings, which as Obama told us have NOTHING to do with BLM or what he and Hillary have been preaching. But it may be a long hot summer and these things have a way of spinning out of control – you may want to provoke a “peaceful demonstration” (one in which only a couple of 7-11s get looted) but end up with a large riot. In Philadelphia and many other big cities there has been an urban renaissance where parts of the city have been won back from black criminality, but a few riots could make those areas off limits to whites once more. This would have to have an impact on nice white ladies whose kids have purchased a condo downtown or maybe she is an empty nester/divorced and has moved back downtown herself. Instead of some abstract “Isn’t that awful what the police are doing to innocent blacks”, you are now speaking directly to her bank account.

* The WaPo article, and one earlier by a different author, prove your point, that the Dallas PD went all soft and all social justicey under its black police chief (cops killed his own son back in 2010 when he was in a shootout with cops), and the local undertow therefore took the Dallas cops for easy marks.

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#KeepDancingOrlando

What kills me is that I can’t find one critical news story about this atrocity. All of the top 20 Google results were similarly positive.

Comment: Here is an official video release from the Orlando Police Department 2 weeks after the “Most deadliest, single-shooter terrorist incident in the history of the U.S.” I want to warn you now, the tone is somewhat somber and depressing, most depressing is the choice of music, and it’s lyrics that they selected to go with a gay, nightclub shooting.”

Again, this is an official video, two weeks after the incident, as confirmed by the youtube channel, not a hoax.

Published on Jul 1, 2016: Sheriff Demings and the Men and Women of the Orange County Sheriff’s Office hope your enjoy this video.
Recently, we were invited to participate in the #KeepDancingOrlando challenge, which came about as a way to channel positive energy and honor the 49 Victims of the Pulse tragedy by dancing in tribute to their memories.
The response for dancers was overwhelming.
We remain Orlando United; Keep Dancing Orlando!!

COMMENTS AT YOUTUBE:

* wow! who knew treason could be so fun

* Know this, you will be judged by God for your actions on this earth. Nobody will escape. So repent now while you still have breath, or keep Dancing and laughing and mocking, it’s your choice.

* What a bunch of deceiving, fraudulent, lying, corny pansies

* What on earth did I just watch ?????? Is this the ‘new normal’ ????

* is this why police recruits are required to have a low IQ score?

* I suppose this ought to feel like an affront to those who died in Orlando, but because gay culture often seems to revel in the trivial and the trashy it can’t help but feel like this response is not all that inappropriate.

In any case a culture that promotes the idea of equality and equivalence between heterosexual and homosexual relationships is fundamentally unserious, so even if gays are offended they should probably just accept that the kind of country that will legalise gay marriage is also the kind of country that will respond to massacres with Whitney Houston tunes. Overall it’s still a pretty big win for them.

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