I got question from a friend:
Where is the middle ground between money hungry bitch & G-dless tramp? Perhaps that’s where we choose to settle? But then again, if we so tightly feel the grips of “settling,” then how would that strike perfection?
However, it seems as if a select few exist to have it all, blending both pristine physical and spiritual realms here as mortals on Earth.
Or does it just “seem” that way? Can a dream girl be a reality?
Women are biologically programmed to seek security and esteem in the eyes of their peers, just as men are biologically programmed to want to spread their seed around. A woman primarily wanting a man who will provide and protect is normal, natural and healthy, just as a man wants a wife who will keep herself looking good.
No, a dream girl can never be a reality. We locked in to seek in a romantic partner somebody who will arouse our deepest pains from childhood and then we hope to heal these pains through our partner. If you were abandoned in childhood, you will choose someone who abandons you. If you were threatened in childhood, you will choose a partner who threatens you. If you had an unhealthy relationship with your opposite sex parent in childhood, you will seek a partner who will allow you to recreate that.
