Category Archives: Abuse

Jewish Community Watch Keeps An Eye On Predators

Almost all of the significant efforts against child abuse in the Jewish community have come from the laity, not the rabbis. Assistant Los Angeles District Attorney Benny Forer writes: Dear Jewish Community Watch, I am writing this letter to express … Continue reading

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My Fear Of Abandonment

How do you react when people start backing away? I tend to freak out. Even if I make no outward sign of being traumatized, my thinking becomes obsessed with solely the looming abandonment. My work and writing suffer. I can’t … Continue reading

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An Open Letter To R. Manis Friedman

JewishJournal.com reports: Rabbi Manis Friedman, a prominent rabbi from the Hasidic Chabad Lubavitch movement who appeared in a video recently posted on YouTube minimizing the harm caused by sexual molestation, has apologized for what he called his “completely inappropriate use … Continue reading

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Death Row Inmate Michael Flinner

From NCTimes.com, Oct. 23, 2003: EL CAJON – A landscaper who took out a $500,000 insurance policy on his fiancee and an ex-employee he hired to kill her were convicted today of murder and special circumstances that could lead to … Continue reading

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Child Molester Posters All Over LINK

There are posters all over the LINK shul today warning about some alleged child molester named “Eli XXXXX”, and then listing “lukeford.com” as the source for more information. I haven’t had anything to do with lukeford.com since 2001 and I … Continue reading

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How many plooks till you’re out?

I would never have a rabbi who’s once committed adultery, once slipped with a congregant, once molested a child. Once and you’re out. You should go sell insurance. But Orthodox Judaism tends to be forgiving. Molest kids, get arrested for … Continue reading

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How Come You Never See A Hispanic Panhandler?

How come you never see Latinos or Asians begging for money on the streets? Do these groups have less mental illness and crippling addiction than the norm? Or do these groups simply take better care of their own? When I … Continue reading

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Sexual Predators At AA Meetings

I’ve noticed that many addicts, be it to alcohol or drugs or porn, can get sober through 12-step meetings but turn quickly into sexual predators when given half a chance. There’s no good thing that can’t be perverted. Not Orthodox … Continue reading

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14yo Los Angeles Yeshiva Student Pleads Guilty To Raping His Younger Sisters

The kid took the plea deal just before the case went to trial. The kids at yeshiva knew about this abuse months before the adults found out.

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Rubashkin Revenge: Ethical Certificates at Center of Dispute

The Jewish Journal reports: About eight months ago, when Katsuji Tanabe agreed to display the Tav HaYosher certificate in the window of his one-year-old restaurant on Pico Boulevard, the head chef and owner of Mexikosher knew that the “ethical seal,” … Continue reading

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