Category Archives: Addiction

Never Married Orthodox Jew – You’ve Got An Intimacy Disorder

If you’re an Orthodox Jew and you’re not married by age 28, barring some hideous deformity, you are 98% likely to have an intimacy disorder (usually expressed in men through porn addiction and in women through the acquisition of pets).

Posted in Addiction, Orthodoxy | Comments Off on Never Married Orthodox Jew – You’ve Got An Intimacy Disorder

The Case Against Masturbation

More than two months ago, I gave up masturbation. (About 16 years ago, I gave up promiscuity and about two years ago, I gave up porn and any kind of visual aid to masturbation.) In 1990-1991, I gave it up … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Personal, Sex | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on The Case Against Masturbation

Luke Ford Shabbaton At Westwood Jewish Center – Shabbos Lunch Speech

* Define good * Christian vs Jewish views * At 22, I noticed older people were kinder than younger people * Psychological/addiction obstacles to goodness * Belief in God and a transcendent moral code * A set of daily practices … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Personal | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Luke Ford Shabbaton At Westwood Jewish Center – Shabbos Lunch Speech

12 Steps – Spirituality In Place Of Reality?

Joe emails: It seems to me that hanging out at 12 step meetings is of diminishing returns for the rational mind. I suppose the first few times you go, you get some rush thinking, wow, it is not just me … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Torah | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on 12 Steps – Spirituality In Place Of Reality?

Spirituality Vs Religion

I notice that a lot of people these days describe themselves as spiritual rather than religious. I’ve always been suspicious of spirituality. I’ve always had contempt for most people who talk about it. Spirituality has usually struck me as cheap … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Personal | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Spirituality Vs Religion

Filling That Big Hole Inside

From TheFix: Find me a woman who hasn’t been 13th stepped—successfully or unsuccessfully—and I’ll show you a post-menopausal nun or a tragic case of facial acne. Old-timers have been seducing newcomers ever since Bill Wilson started the tradition in the … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction | Comments Off on Filling That Big Hole Inside

Sexual Predators At AA Meetings

I’ve noticed that many addicts, be it to alcohol or drugs or porn, can get sober through 12-step meetings but turn quickly into sexual predators when given half a chance. There’s no good thing that can’t be perverted. Not Orthodox … Continue reading

Posted in Abuse, Addiction | Tagged , , , , , | Comments Off on Sexual Predators At AA Meetings

Shais Taub – The Recovery Rabbi

Rabbi Shais Taub tells TheFix: Addicts have the existential pain many of us do, but they feel it more acutely. Normal people have the luxury of being able to live in a state of spiritual laxity and get away with … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Rabbis | Comments Off on Shais Taub – The Recovery Rabbi

Under-Earners Anonymous

A lot of people call me a f***-up. One woman I dated called me a chronic under-achiever. I’ve never earned more than $50,000 in a year. From TheFix: For those eye-rolling readers ready to dismiss compulsive under-earning as yet another … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction | Comments Off on Under-Earners Anonymous

What Really Killed Andrew Breitbart?

I think this article is on to something. I knew Andrew well. He was a big drinker. He was up on the drug habits of many people in our life. He talked about encountering journalists high on cocaine. From The … Continue reading

Posted in Addiction, Andrew Breitbart | Comments Off on What Really Killed Andrew Breitbart?