Reparations To Holocaust Survivors

Email: Listen to Barry Chamish and his guest Professor Yitzchak Kerem highlight to you the Sabbatean Frankist deviousness goings on with the currency owed to Holocaust survivors.

Yitzhak Kerem emails me: “I bashed not only Weisel and the Claims, but the stupid, idiotic, and tacky 2nd generation from LA! I talked about the pathetic ice cream social in Beverly Hills honoring Holocaust survivors, the Gala banquet celebrating Crystalnacht, and more. The moderator couldn’t believe people could be so senseless and unthoughtful!”

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Is is proper to celebrate when a wicked person dies?

I love this issue because it separates Torah scholars from pretend Torah scholars. Anyone who says that the Torah prevents us from celebrating the death of a terrorist is a pretend Torah scholar and a fool.

Most congregational rabbis have only a shallow grounding in Torah. So they are the ones saying we should not celebrate the death of Bin Laden. You less likely to find roshei yeshivot (the head of yeshivas) saying such nonsense. Check out the relevant lectures on yutorah.org such as this one by Rabbi Aryeh Leibowitz.

Rabbi Ari Kahn talks about the demise of Osama Bin Laden.

Rabbi: “I saw lots of handwringing.”

Rabbi Shmuel Herzfeld writes:

How does our religion teach us to respond to the death of a hated and evil man like Osama Bin Laden?
When hearing about the downfall of an enemy, the rabbis remind us of the verse from Proverbs:
“Do not rejoice when your enemy falls, and do not let your heart be glad when he stumbles.”
This is in line with the tradition that no matter how wicked our enemies are their destruction is not a cause for celebration. The Talmud tells us that “God does not rejoice with the fall of the wicked.” As the rabbinic teaching goes, as the Children of Israel were crossing the sea and the army of Pharaoh was drowning, God rebuked the angels for showing excessive joy. And to this day, our liturgy reflects that by limiting the psalms of joy that we recite to commemorate that event.
The reason for this muted celebration is twofold.
First there is recognition that even when our enemy falls, this does not signal an end to all our troubles. Just because one enemy or one army or one threat has been removed does not mean we are entirely safe.
Second, we must acknowledge that the destruction of the enemy did not necessarily arise from our own merits. We are perhaps not worthy of the good fortune that we have received and so we do not want to tempt God, as it were, or remind the Angel of Death of our own defects.
So our tradition is clear: Public rejoicing about the death of an enemy is inappropriate.
However, our tradition is also clear that it is appropriate to express deep gratitude when hearing about the death of Osama Bin Laden.
We should express gratitude to the Navy Seals who bravely killed him. We should express gratitude to all those who were involved in removing this horrible being from our world. And we should express gratitude to our Maker for removing a danger from our lives.

RABBI ARI KAHN SAYS: Rabbi Shmuel Herzfeld is a very nice man. He’s gotten attacked…because he decided to rename his shul when he became the rabbi there — the National Shul… Once you become the national shul, you become the spokesman for national Jews and you go on the radio…

Most of what he wrote is almost fair but he’s wrong.

The other person I’m going to pick on much more is Rabbi Shmuley Boteach because he deserves it much more. His website says he’s America’s rabbi.

Rabbi Boteach writes about the death of Osama Bin Laden.

Rabbi Shmuley Boteach also writes:

A few moments after hearing that the United States military had killed Osama bin Laden, I quickly tweeted congratulations to President Obama, the American military, and the American people for having neutralized this monster. I added a second tweet that quoted the Bible, “Do not rejoice when your enemy falls, and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles.” (Proverbs 24:17) I mentioned that Bin Laden’s death was not a cause for celebration or parades but rather a time for thanks and gratitude to G-d that evil had been rooted out and that innocents had been protected via the elimination of a cold-blooded killer intent on murdering the defenseless.

Within minutes my close friend Rosie O’Donnell tweeted to her followers, “Do rabbis condone violence – war – murder?”

The exchange between me and Rosie sparked a huge debate over Twitter. It’s an important debate and I want to clarify my position as well as offer the Jewish values take on bin Laden’s death.

…But nowhere in the Bible, or anywhere in Jewish literature, is there
any justification for celebrating the taking of a life, however
necessary, and Proverbs 24 expressly forbids it. “Do not rejoice when
your enemy falls, and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles.”
Although the Jews have suffered more than most, the stubborn refusal
to celebrate the demise of our enemies, or any military triumph, has
been the hallmark of Jewish history.

Rabbi Kahn: How authoritative are these midrashim when we have other sources?

The conclusion of the Gemara (Talmud) is that God causes us to have joy [when the wicked die]. The Gemara wants us to realize that from God’s perspective, the world is imperfect. God is like a parent who has to discipline his kid. It does not bring Him great joy.

The Gemara says we do not celebrate Hallel on the seventh day of Pesach…because we in effect celebrate the same day seven times on Pesach. The days are not distinguished in terms of the sacrifices on Pesach. On the seventh day of Succot, you’re bringing a new korban (offering). The Gemara says nothing about those who drowned in the Sea of Reeds.

I give more weight to an early Gemara than a late midrash.

If somebody is wicked in the eyes of God and man, then you can rejoice in their death.

Here is somebody [Osama Bin Laden] who wants to destroy the state of Israel and to kill as many Jews as possible and killed thousands of innocent people. This makes him evil in the eyes of God and man. Therefore, to celebrate his death is justified.

Somebody who’s killed innocent people and is hell-bent on killing more innocent people and that person is neutralized, you say baruch HaShem. You are allowed to be happy. It is this attempt to be America’s rabbi, to be the national synagogue, to explain Judaism in a politically correct way, causes someone to misinterpret Judaism.

The problem is making these sweeping statements about the Jewish tradition. Learn the Jewish tradition and then speak about it.

How should you go about celebrating the death of a wicked man is a more subtle point.

According to the Rambam and the Shulchan Aruch, Jews should celebrate the death of non-observant Jews and heretics (though few if any rabbis would hold by this today).

Rambam Avel 1:10
רמב”ם הלכות אבל פרק א

הלכה י
כל הפורשין מדרכי צבור והם האנשים שפרקו עול המצות מעל צוארן ואין נכללין
בכלל ישראל בעשיית המצות ובכבוד המועדות וישיבת בתי כנסיות ובתי מדרשות
אלא הרי הן כבני חורין לעצמן [כשאר האומות] וכן האפיקורוסין [והמומרים]
והמוסרין כל אלו אין מתאבלין עליהן, אלא אחיהם ושאר קרוביהם לובשין לבנים
ומתעטפים לבנים ואוכלים ושותים ושמחים שהרי אבדו שונאיו של הקדוש ברוך
הוא, ועליהם הכתוב אומר הלא משנאיך ה’ אשנא.

Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deyah 345:5

שולחן ערוך יורה דעה הלכות אבילות סימן שמה סעיף ה

כל הפורשים מדרכי צבור, והם האנשים שפרקו עול המצות מעל צוארם, ואין
נכללים בכלל ישראל בעשייתם, ובכבוד המועדות וישיבת בתי כנסיות ובתי
מדרשות, אלא הרי הם כבני חורין לעצמן כשאר האומות, וכן המומרים והמוסרים,
כל אלו אין אוננים (ג) ואין מתאבלים עליהם, אלא אחיהם ושאר קרוביהם ח
לובשים לבנים ומתעטפים לבנים ואוכלים ושותים ט ושמחים. הגה: ז] הפורש מן
הצבור ולא רצה לשאת עמהם במסים וארנוניות, מתאבלים עליו (תשו’ רשב”א סי’
תשס”ג) ח] אבל אין שאר בני העיר צריכים לבטל ממלאכתן בשבילו לעסוק עמו
(כן משמע בנ”י סוף מ”ק).

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I Fear Life Is Passing Me By

As I was blogging away tonight with my thoughts on the movie Casino Jack, I got a text asking: “Are you at the BINA event?”

I didn’t even know there was a BINA event tonight. I love BINA events. Everything they do is first class and they attract a lot of hotties.

So I sit in front of my computer listening to John Denver sing “Annie’s Song” and I ask you again — is life passing me by? Life is at the BINA events celebrating Yom Ha’atzmaut (Israeli Independence Day). Truth be told, I did nothing this year to celebrate Yom Ha’atzmaut.

I start my days with cold showers and brisk 30-minute walks followed by three hours of Alexander Technique. If I have anything left after that, it’s a bonus.

I’m a great energy conserver. I hope I do something wonderful with it one day.

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Unbroken By Laura Hillebrand

I’m finishing up this new book about a WWII prisoner of the Japanese and it reminds me that Japan was every bit the moral equal of the Nazis.

Unlike Germany, however, Japan has not come to grips with its savagery.

Germans get educated in school about the Holocaust but the Japanese system skips over Japanese atrocities.

For all its flaws, Judeo-Christian English-speaking civilization remains the best hope for humanity.

The New York Times book review says:

While only one in 100 Americans captured in Europe died, nearly one in three perished in Japanese captivity. But like John McCain a generation later, Zamperini had a special status: as a former Olympian, he was a valuable propaganda tool, too precious to kill. But his celebrity also made him very tempting to torture. First in the Pacific and later in Japan, he was subjected to an unrelenting regime of assaults: humiliation, starvation, medical experiments, slave labor and disease. A succession of sadistic guards topped by a psychopathic sadist named Mutsuhiro Watanabe, a k a the Bird, derived a special, almost orgiastic pleasure from beating him.

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Casino Jack

I enjoyed this new film about disgraced lobbyist Jack Abramoff. It reminded me of myself.

Like Jack, I converted to Orthodox Judaism (he was born Jewish but came to Orthodoxy later in life) but simultaneously yearned to be a big shot in the wider world. Like Jack, I got high from success and became lost in my own grandiosity, countenancing behaviors and beliefs contrary to my religion.

Like Jack, I’m pretty shaky on ethics. I often feel like I’m above the law. In fact, crossing boundaries can be exciting. “The rules don’t apply to you,” a friend once said to me bitterly.

Like Jack, I don’t think anything he did is so terrible. He exploited Indian tribes? Only to the extent that they allowed themselves to be exploited. If I went up to you and asked you to pay me $30 million to lobby on your behalf, and you paid me, then you’d be a damn fool and I’d have a lot of chutzpah.

The worst thing Jack did in my view, and the worst thing I’ve done, is to present myself to the world as an Orthodox Jew and then to flagrantly violate those standards. Screw people, fine, in the normal ways that ordinary people screw each other all the time, OK, but don’t wear a yarmulke while you do it.

This reminds me of a Jewish prostitute I interviewed years ago who talked about doing threesomes with another pro and a Reform rabbi. She said he felt funny about wearing a yarmulke during their liasons.

Jack called the Indians he represented “troglodytes” and “monkeys.”

He made these remarks in private. I don’t think they’re so terrible. There’s a big difference between public and private. Jack did not go on TV and call his clients “monkeys.” He said it in private. We all say things in private that would look bad if made public, just as we all defecate in private but if this was shown to the world on the CBS Evening News, it would look shocking.

Jack moved in the world of politics and lobbying. It’s hard to be a saint and to be successful in politics and lobbying, just as nice guys don’t tend to succeed in professional football. He has to be judged against the world he worked in.

I remember working in construction and my Christian bosses would call me “dick sniff.” They admitted that such remarks did not live up the highest standards of the New Testament but they pointed out that the Apostle Paul never worked in construction.

The main thing that separates me from Jack Abramoff is that I’ve never had his level of success. If I ever did, I can totally see myself flaming out the same way or worse.

I liked the bit in the movie about a vengeful ex-girlfriend assisting federal investigators. In my experience, most women can fight dirty in relationships in ways that ordinary guys would never consider. Few guys would dob their ex-girlfriend in to law enforcement because she was unfaithful, but many women would do that to their ex-husbands or ex-boyfriends if they had cheated.

I know a ton of men whose adult kids no longer speak to them because these men have remarried. And I wager that in all of these instances, it’s the ex-wife who has poisoned the kids and turned them against their father.

I suspect that in divorces, the men are far less likely to try to turn the kids against the mother than the other way round.

Men are used to competition. They thrive on it. They understand fighting hard but fighting within the rules. Women tend to dislike competition but when forced into it, they hold by few if any rules.

Another thing I have in common with Jack Abramoff is that I know a lot of disreputable people. I’m cool with being on friendly terms with scum because my career as a writer depends on it. If I only hung out with good people, wow, I can’t even imagine it. As a writer, I have to hang out with everybody, and most of the time, it is bad people who make the news.

Still, I don’t want scum in my real life. I’m cool with having superficially friendly relations with them, but I don’t want them close.

I don’t like mixing friends from the various parts of my life. Facebook is changing that however. It forces me to be more unified. I have a lot of low-life friends on Facebook, but sometimes their number depresses me and I start purging them.

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Depressed Men Watch Too Much TV Instead Of Working Hard!

Watch the whole show!

From Monday night:

Luke: “I’ve got a theory on why we watch so much sports. It’s because we don’t have enough going on with our lives. If we were absorbed in our career or absorbed in our family… If we were absorbed in our shul. If we were flourishing, we wouldn’t care so much about sports. Because we both have this underlying depression, we look for the instant lift. I know that there’s this one exciting thing going on today, it’s this game tonight.”

The rabbi laughs.

Luke: “Sports are these little highs that help us get through life. We get highs from sports that we can’t get from our regular lives. In our mundane lives, we’re depressed. When we can get absorbed in sports or a movie, we can leave our mundane depressed lives. Oh, this is exciting. This is what life could be if I only had more going on.”

Rabbi Rabbs: “There are a lot of people who are married with a lot going on in their lives who are also involved in sports.”

Luke: “The people who are most involved in sports tend to be the most depressed. People who are leading happy healthy normal lives don’t paint their faces to go to sporting events. The more time you devote to sports, the more unhappy you are. I don’t know if it is necessarily causal. It may be just a symptom. Unhappy people want to escape from their lives.”

“Unhappy men love to latch on to a sports team and they project on to that team all the qualities that they wish they had in their own lives, such as to be a winner. They lose their identity into that of their sports team, like some people do with religion. I don’t matter. All that matters is Torah, Christ, the Dodgers, etc.”

“By contrast, the people with the most going on in their lives are the least likely to be heavily involved in sports.”

Rabbi: “If you’re working your ass off, you don’t watch TV.”

Luke: “When you’re life is going good as a guy, you’re going to be thinking primarily about your career. You’re going to be fantasizing about — how can I make more money? How can I be more successful?”

Rabbi: “Really? I was never like that. I’ve never been the guy trying to make a million dollars. I was the guy who was always asking — what’s the least I have to do so I can get by? That’s why I went into being a Unix admin.”

“When you were the Unix guy, everybody kissed your ass because there wasn’t enough of us to go around. We’d just sit around and do nothing all day until there was a Unix problem once a week. We’d come in. We’d fix it. Then we’d just sit there and jerk off on the internet for the 40 hours a week we were at work. It was nothing. It was a joke and I was comfortable with that.”

“I had no interest in managing other people.”

“Just leave me alone! I just want to check my email and watch Youtubes all day.”

Luke: “What do you fantasize about, rabbi?”

Rabbi: “Having a wife by the time I’m 50 and having a $1,000 a month coming in.”

Luke: “You’re not afraid that you’re aiming too high?”

Rabbi: “I just want the minimum stuff to get by. I’m perfectly content to do this show once a week.”

“My fiance was anorexic. She weighed 95 pounds. She was 5’7″.”

Luke: “Did you think, oh, she’s got the body of an 11-year old boy? That’s hot for me. That’s how I like it.”

Rabbi: “She had the body of an Auschwitz survivor.”

Luke: “Do you think you fetishize the Holocaust and are looking to marry someone who looks like a Holocaust survivor?”

Rabbi: “No. She didn’t start out like that.”

Luke: “Did you shave her head and make her wear striped pajamas? And play commandant and Jewish slavewoman?”

Rabbi: “She was 18. I was 45.”

Luke: “I like my girlfriends to dress like therapists and to sit across from me and to ask therapeutic questions until I can’t take it anymore.”

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The Poisoning Of A Shrink’s Mind

Dennis Prager writes: If your sister were among the nearly 3,000 people murdered in the World Trade Center on 9/11, how would you react to Osama Bin Laden’s death? More specifically, if you were to write an opinion piece on the subject for a major newspaper, what would you most want to communicate?
One would think that anyone who had lost a loved one on 9/11 would write about bin Laden’s guilt, about evil and about experiencing some degree of moral and emotional satisfaction that the loved one’s murderer had been killed by American forces.
But not Robert Klitzman, a professor of psychiatry at Columbia University. He had other, more pressing, things to say.
Two days after bin Laden was killed, Klitzman wrote an opinion piece for the New York Times reflecting on his sister Karen’s death on 9/11. While acknowledging that bin Laden “more than anyone else had caused my sister’s death” and noting that he is “glad” that bin Laden “was now at the bottom of the sea,” Klitzman directed his rage and blame elsewhere.
The main focus of his passion was to blame the United States for arousing the hatred of Muslims (including those who murdered his sister) and for arousing the hatred of “the rest of the world” as well.
Klitzman writes: “When the members of Al Qaeda attacked on 9/11, Americans wondered, ‘Why do they hate us so much?’ Many here believe they dislike us for our ‘freedom,’ but I think otherwise.
“There are lessons we have not yet learned. I feel Karen would share my concerns that underlying forces of greed and hate persevere. American imperialism, corporate avarice, abuses of our power abroad and our historical support of corrupt dictators like Hosni Mubarak have created an abhorrence of us that, unfortunately, persists. We need to recognize how the rest of the world sees us, and figure out how to change that. Until we do that, more Osama bin Ladens will arise, and more innocent people like my sister will die.”
In the course of my lifetime, I have read surely many thousands of columns. And as I read those with which I differ as often as I do those with which I agree, many have annoyed, some even angered me.
But I do not recall reading a column that I considered as reprehensible as Klitzman’s. What other word can describe a brother using the killing of his sister’s murderer to badmouth America and hold it ultimately responsible for her death?
Asking what America did to elicit the hatred of Muslim terrorists is morally equivalent to asking what Jews did to arouse Nazi hatred, what blacks did to cause whites to lynch them, what Ukrainians did to arouse Stalin’s hatred or what Tibetans did to incite China’s hateful treatment of them.

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Parashat Behar (Leviticus 25:1-26:2)

I discuss the weekly Torah portion with Rabbi Rabbs every Monday at 7pm PST on my live cam and on YouTube.

This week’s we study Parashat Behar (Leviticus 25:1-26:2).

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My Cholesterol Is Under Control

From my tests this morning:

Component Your result Standard range Units
CHOLESTEROL 196 <200 mg/dL TRIGLYCERIDE 153 <150 mg/dL HDL 37 >/=40 mg/dL
LDL CALCULATED 128 <100 mg/dL CHOLESTEROL/HIGH DENSITY LIPOPROTEIN 5.3 <5.0GLUCOSE, FASTING 90 70 - 99 mg/dLALT (ALANINE AMINOTRANSFERASE) SERUM 53 <41 units/L

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Returning To Life

From DonnaBurstyn.com:

The first time he attempted suicide, he was ten years old. His parents had divorced. His father was a classic hippie. His mother was more reserved. He came from an Orthodox yeshiva-going family but his mother and aunt chose a different path and disappointed his father terribly.

This father is still alive in his nineties. He’s outlived two of his kids.

He once looked at me in the eyes and he said, ‘Those of us in the camps who were nice, didn’t survive.’

I heard him loud and clear. He was not one of the nice ones.

He married into a tight family. Several sisters survived the Holocaust together and formed a community. His wife was the most quiet. They raised two daughters. No one was close. The kids thought they raised themselves. By the time they were teens, the parents had divorced. The family was devastated and embarrassed.

Everyone married for the wrong reasons, such as to please grandpa. No one found love. From grandpa, there wasn’t much love, just a lot of strict love. The younger generation didn’t want all the rules. They wanted the love and the meals and the conversation. That was something he couldn’t do. His wife was so depressed that she would often show up to the table and not say a word. The daughters were raised with a mentally ill mother and a father who survived the Holocaust and at age 94 is still doing everything himself, going to shul three times a day and saying the mourner’s kaddish.

One of his daughters had no kids. She’s in her sixties. I don’t know if she’s gay or straight.

My client’s mother died around age 50 to cancer. That was the same year he married his wife and everything went against them. He didn’t have training to be married. He was a yeshiva bachur (student). She was a baal teshuva from another country. A beautiful woman. They had great intentions but little in common.

When his mother died, she left an inheritance. They bought a house and tried to create a home and failed. They tried for seven years to have children. They tried for seven years to find things of common interest. The husband was unable to find employment so he sat around with time on his hands. She got several teaching jobs. She was exhausted when she came home and looking for his support. And it wasn’t there.

So when he was driving across country with the little he had collected after his divorce, she kept the house, he stopped at his grandfather’s house to unload the van. His father and grandfather with their strong accents said, ‘This is all you have? Your mother left you an inheritance and this is all you have? You’re going to let her keep the house.’

My client felt guilty. He felt he took her child-bearing years and there was no way to pay for it. He still struggles with it. Perhaps he deserves some of his inheritance back?

As he grows, he decides who he is. He develops backbone. He’s not grandpa. He’s not an ultra-Orthodox Jew. He keeps the Sabbath and the dietary laws. That’s more than enough for him.

I’m often asked by young couples, what happens when I go through a journey and my husband goes through a different journey? Does that mean our marriage is threatened? If you don’t let your spouse grow, you’ll have an unhappy marriage because they won’t reach their potential.

If his growth is watching online porn and putting personal ads out there, clearly that is not in the best interests of the marriage. Let’s say one person develops an interest in astronomy and the other in cooking. If they don’t go with each other to the classes, maybe they will find other people in those classes that they have more in common with. Will this threaten the marriage? They’ll have to work that out together.

As my client spoke to me, he poked and pulled at the hairs in his beard and ate them. He’s unable to defecate like a regular person. He has to go to the hospital. He holds everything in.

It’s taken a long time for him to trust me.

We work together two or three times a week on a reduced scale. When I met him, the thought of working was incomprehensible. He got a respectable job.

Last Yom Kippur was the last day he wanted to be on earth. He boxed up and gave away everything he had. Then he rethought and kept living.

That was six months ago.

On another note, I have a client who when he sees me, he folds his hands in prayer position and says, “Teacher!” And I fold my hands in prayer position and say, “Teacher!”

I know it is not popular in today’s age to have equality with one’s therapist but I feel comfortable with it. I’m comfortable with being a mirror, hearing the things people say and throwing it back at them and seeing if it makes sense for them.

I meet a new teacher every day. I am open to being open. I thought I was for many years and I was not. It’s not as easy as it sounds.

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