Jews Running Scams

I don’t think Jews are any more dishonest than other people, but I have found pockets of Jewish life (from secular to Orthodox) that are cool with running scams.

Jews who are the most invested in the greater society are the least likely to run such scams, but Jews who feel no connection to their Gentile nation have the least compunction about ripping off others.

I met a lot of secular Jews in the porn industry, many of them Israeli, who felt no loyalty to the wider society and this enabled them to make pornography with few qualms.

I’ve encountered some Orthodox Jews who similarly feel no connection to the wider Gentile society and thus they feel little compunction about ripping off the goyim.

Almost all Orthodox rabbis would condemn publicly this dishonesty but many would turn a blind eye to it privately. I think that Modern Orthodox Jews tend to feel more connection to the wider society than traditional Orthodox Jews and thus they may be less likely to run these scams. Modern Orthodox Jews tend to be in the professions like law, medicine, accounting, dentistry, etc and these professions have ethics codes and it is harder to run scams than when you are in business.

All of Pico-Robertson’s Modern Orthodox rabbis (from Kanefsky to Muskin to Topp) have high ethical standards and expect the same from their congregants, both in public and in private behavior. No Modern Orthodox rabbi in Pico-Robertson would give a private hechsher (permission) for cheating in business.

I suspect that running scams is more common in Hasidic life than in Modern Orthodox life. I’m not sure about the non-Hasidic traditional Orthodox. I suspect that the Lithuanian-style Orthodox are less likely to run scams than the Hasidim.

A mitnagdic Orthodox rabbi tells me: “That’s another reason for the scams — class differences. We tend to overlook these differences but they explain a lot of the behavioral differences, rather than religious beliefs. The upper class non-Chasidic Orthodox don’t push shady real estate deals.”

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Do You Behave Better On Your Own Or When You’re With Others?

Hanging out with Rabbi Rabbs on Shabbos, he read to me a few sentences from Rabbi Avigdor Miller who said that you should spend as much time as possible on your own so that you are not dragged down morally by the people around you.

On Sunday morning, I went to a shiur by a Hasidic rebbe teaching Tanya. He said, “Why do we [Orthodox Jews] spend so much time with each other? It is to cut down on sin. When you’re around other people, you’re going to generally behave with more dignity (even if you’re secular and you are hanging out with other secularists). Tzadikim (righteous) don’t degenerate when they’re on their own, but most people do.”

I side with the rebbe. I know that I tend to get weirder as I get more isolated and this weird behavior increases my isolation and my anger, which tends to further degrade my behavior.

From a tremendously entertaining book, Rabbi Avigdor Miller Speaks, Volume I: Marriage, Children, Shabbos and Loving Hashem, pages 237-238:

Is there anything wrong with listening to a non-Jewish radio talk show host that has a conservative and right-wing perspective on life?

It’s certainly better than listening to a liberal. However, it is important to know that even a non-Jew of sterling character does not possess an outlook on life that is in anyway compatible with a proper Torah perspective. He makes light of that which we deem sacred and his values are foreign to our own. The truth is, the less association that you have with non-Jews, the better off you will be.

…As a rule, the more time one spends alone, the better off he will be. Of course, if one can spend time with tzaddikim (righteous) then he will certainly be well off, as there is no greater company than a tzaddik. Otherwise, however, one should attempt to live a life of solitude, and to do so is a very great achievement.

…Savor the moments that you find yourself alone… You’ll find that these moments present very real opportunities for growth and character development. For experience testifies to the fact that the more time one spends in the company of others, the more likely he is to fall under their influence. You’ll begin to act like they act and eventually think like they do as well.

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Dennis Prager Has Sleep Apnea

On his radio show April 18, Dennis Prager said: “In my career of 30 years as a broadcaster, I’ve only had one physician on repeatedly. I had to have experience with that person and have a dramatic improvement in my health.”

“I’ve had guidance in heart matters from a brilliant cardiac surgeon, Michael Richman.”

“Dr Avi Avishaaya has had an impact on my life so extraordinary that I asked him to come on.”

“People laugh at it [sleep apnea]. Oh, so I snore… The issue is that you are affected by the oxygen that goes to your brain. You wake up constantly.”

“I realized something was happening when I, who have a massive amount of energy, my eyes were starting to shut while I was driving. I realized something was awry here. I knew it had something to do with this.”

“I took Dr. Avishaaya’s test at home. I’d already done it at some other place. They gave me a CPAP machine. I thought I was being water-boarded. I took the machine off and left the place at 4 a.m. I said I’d rather have sleep apnea than this torture device.”

“This man has invented a device that is effortless. The moment I put it on, I felt terrific because it [Auto Titration CPAP machine] works according to your own breathing. And now I sleep like a baby.”

“I’d gasp for air 71 times an hour. The test is at home. This is another genius thing this man has invented.”

“Wherever I go in the world, a few weeks ago I went to Australia, and I did it on the airplane. I plugged it in.”

“I never yawn now and I only get five-and-a-half hours to six hours sleep.”

“I kept waking up at night but now I never wake up.”

“I don’t easily get scared. This is worth worrying about. I can’t use a regular CPAP machine. I was even thinking of jaw surgery.”

“The quality of your life changes. People wake up so often because they can’t breathe right.”

“I use this thing every night. The first night I had this thing on my nose, I was so quiet, my wife got up in the middle of the night… and she bent over to see if I was living. Happily, she would sleep through my breathing obstructions and snoring, but if she got up, she heard it.”

“Dr, what causes this?”

Dr: “About 70-80% of patients with sleep apnea are obese.”

“Your airway get constricted so that your throat gets constricted as you gain weight.”

Dennis: “My bad luck. I’m not obese and I still got it.”

“It didn’t affect my work but it did affect times of non-work and when I started to see my eyes closing while driving, obviously nothing happened, I would catch myself, luckily I knew of this man, I took the home test, and he solved it in one night.”

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The New Square Fire-Bomber Got Half the Prison Sentence That Had Been Planned — Because the Victim Asked for Leniency

This week’s top stories from the Jewish world: Teenage hasid sentenced to seven years in prison for an arson attack of a fellow Skverer hasid; Jewish day school nurse allowed to proceed with lawsuit alleging she was fired for reporting abuse of a student; West Bank settlement rabbi in hot water for racist comments about Ethiopian Jews; an Ethiopian Hebrew congregation in Harlem takes the spotlight in a new documentary; and basketball start Jordan Farmar tells TJC about his Jewish roots.

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Ever Done The Passover Seder By Yourself?

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When God Sends You A Woman For Passover

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The Power Of Profit

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Baseball, Dennis and the French

This is a terrific new movie available to purchase on the website.

Baseball, Dennis & the French tells the true story of Paul Croshaw, longtime liberal activist and connoisseur of French films, who amazed his family, friends and himself by becoming a churchgoing, conservative Christian after years of listening to nationally syndicated radio host Dennis Prager.

The film’s background story is a miracle on a baseball field when Paul was 12. Through archival film footage, photos, home movies and re-enactments, this unique feature documentary recreates Paul’s story as a dramatic counterpoint to Dennis’s forceful, on-camera words giving the rational arguments for a God and the consequences to America if we become a secularized Country.

The film traces Dennis’ influence on Paul’s journey from the ball field to his career as a liberal activist and skeptic, then to belief in God and in a Judeo-Christian America, and finally to faith in a personal God. The final act portrays the logical end of Paul’s quest as he parts with Dennis to discover, on his own, the culmination of the Bible’s plan of salvation. And Dennis, “thrilled that this Jew has helped Paul find his Christian faith,” steps aside with his most poignant observation: “Only in America!”

Watching the film tonight, I felt great kinship with its director. We apparently discovered Dennis Prager at around the same time — on KABC radio in Los Angeles around August, 1988, and Dennis went on to change our lives. Paul became a Christian while I converted to Orthodox Judaism.

I share with Paul a great love for Dennis and a desire to spread his ideas. I don’t write much on this score because my lurid life disgraces any values I espouse.

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Why Be Religious?

Joe the Orthodox Jew emails: God let the human mind develop to the point where it can challenge the divine. It has probably gone way too far at this point.

Think about it, take any story in the torah, especially the rites of passage in Genesis, and except for the massive famine in Egypt and joseph’s omniscience as to the future (in my mind the most important story in all the Bible), all of them could have been successfully negotiated by use of any one or more of the Engine, the Bomb, or the iPhone.

1. Abraham having to sacrifice Isaac, much easier of a challenge with a remote controlled buzz saw and the angel would only have had to cut off the power supply. Kind of like sonny’s advice to Michael, killing someone point blank is much easier than from a mile away, you get your suit dirty.

2. Jacob leaving to Padan Aram. With a car, it is a one day trip.

3. Joseph having to find his brothers and being left in a pit. With the iPhone (concealed in his person), he would not have gotten lost, and he could have texted to help when thrown in the pit.

4. The jews in Egypt. Those ten plagues were wholly unnecessary if Moses had a suitcase nuclear bomb – it would not have been the first borns.

Mind you, none of this disproves gods existence, but it makes it easier to say who needs a god. The argument now is that no scientist can explain creation ex nihilo, but there is no proof that god is the only person that can do that. To say that there is an intelligent designer so as to deify nature, well, nature and the cosmos are a mess. The universe is barely habitable, most life forms do not have the longevity of a Pontiac, and no religion can possibly justify the amount of blood being spilled in the defense of religion.

I choose to play it safe and observe the laws because there might just be something in the next life. But, other than that, I have no answer as to why people do not observe Judaism or other religions

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Speak of the devil, and ye shall hear the rustle of his wings

Greg Leake responds to last night’s Torah Talk: Hi Luke and Rabbs,
Rabbs, I want to make a small qualification in respect to my pejorative characterization of the frum community in Dallas.

As you know, four months ago I was living in the Orthodox Jewish neighborhood of Dallas. It was about one-half Orthodox Jews and the other half goys of different religions and secular stripes.

It was not just me who felt the Orthodox Jews were unfriendly. In fact, a large number of goys had gotten their noses bent out of shape over the stand-offishness and snootiness of the Orthodox community. Had it just been my opinion, I would not have said anything.

However, I have also said that inevitably in a mixed neighborhood of this sort one does eventually make some friendships. And the Jews I had friendships with were very warm and cordial as far as they went.

Furthermore, as I have also mentioned, one Jewish guy I had a conversation with about all this told me that the attitude was not because they were Orthodox Jews, but because there were so many immigrants from New York filling up this neighborhood. I was told by one Orthodox Jew that the other Jews treated them in the same unfriendly way. In fact, they went to their rabbi and discussed this factor, complaining that Jews were supposed to be “salt and light” and objected to the unfriendliness that they saw in the community. Moreover, the rabbi agreed and sort of threw up his hands. (I was also on friendly terms with the rabbi.)

So it wasn’t just me, and it wasn’t just goys. And I suspect that this Orthodox guy who pointed out what we were really seeing was New York City attitude contrasted with our usual expectations of southern hospitaltity.

Luke, you might have something in your discussion in respect to the busy-ness of Orthodox Jews. I do understand that if you combine the ordinary get-ahead rat race with a huge number of religious obligations you’re not going to have a lot of time for hanging out. It could be that it is an addition reason for what we saw as unfriendliness.

I didn’t realize, Luke, about this extensive credit card debt. If the debt is on more than one credit card, the financial guys say that you should retire the smaller debt first. Probably you already know this. If you can knock the smaller one out, then finally you have eliminated one altogether, which gives you a little more maneuvering room.

Rabbs, I’m sorry your girlfriend had to go back to Scotland. I was sort of hoping that she would talk about what it’s like to be an Orthodox Jew in Glasgow compared to LA… is it easier, hard, differences in dotting i’s and crossing t’s..? You can tell her that she has some goy fans in Texas. If she visits again I will try to throw you a little dinero for MexiKosher or some other culinary entertainment.

I hate to re-open an old controversy, but I’m afraid the idea that dinosaurs do not exist is simply not going to fly.

Here is a picture of me rebuking a T Rex and explaining to him that an actual rabbi says he is not supposed to exist and therefore he needs to stop acting like he has a presence in our time and space.

We call him Luke. He’s a troublemaker, gets high on fermented apples and then falls over and crushes the farm animals. We only hope and pray that he either realized that he does not exist or listens to reason.

These 2 non-existent critters showed up on our doorstep down here in ‘Dillon’. Rabbs, we’ll give you the pick of the first litter — do you want a male or a female?

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