Category Archives: Personal

The Thrill Of Gambling

In ninth grade, as an outgrowth of my fascination with sports, I learned the thrill of gambling. I learned that if you put a few dollars on a game, it immediately assumed great importance in your life. It filled you … Continue reading

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Heavy Petting

Do Jews talk about heavy petting? That was an obsession in my Christian childhood, how very wrong it was. Then I left the church at 18 and I never heard anything more about heavy petting. Are children these days sufficiently … Continue reading

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What If Rainy Walked Into Starbucks?

I had a solid morning of writing. Now I need some human connection. I’ll get some mint tea, veinte, for $2.45 and sit in the corner by myself and write. I got a couple of hours of good sleep with … Continue reading

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I Don’t Have A Problem That Can’t Be Solved With The Right Connections

When I was lost in the desert of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome in the early ’90s, I developed this conviction that if I stayed where I was (living with my parents), I would never get well. I had to connect with … Continue reading

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My GF Threw A Sticky Gob Of Peanut Butter At Me!

I normally fall for women who appear to have their lives more together than I do. I fall for doctors and lawyers and executives. I’m attracted to women with my father’s traits of iron will, determination, education, success, strength, juggling … Continue reading

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The Road To Wellville

This might be the best novel and movie about growing up in my home. My dad is a big health reformer and I’m a big rebel, just like the character George in the story who keeps saying to his dad, … Continue reading

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I Have Almost No Christmas Memories

It was not until I was 23 that I started thinking about converting to Judaism. I was sick that December of 1989 and living with my brother in Tannum Sands. I decided that month to become Jewish. That was the … Continue reading

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Blind-Sided By Love

I moved to America with my parents in May of 1977 (to Pacific Union College in the Napa Valley). One day that summer in the college pool, I was introduced to several of my future classmates including Sam*. Feeling anxious, … Continue reading

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What Keeps Me Orthodox

I moved to Los Angeles in March of 1994 and started going regularly to Aish Ha Torah (on Pico Blvd and Doheny Blvd). I quickly met people I admired such as Richard Horowitz, Rabbi Nachum Braverman, Sam Glaser, David Sacks, … Continue reading

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My Uncle Val Is Dead

My uncle Val (my dad’s older brother) has died at age 87, the same age his parents died (I lived in Australia then in 1984-1985 with my brother). My dad and his brother had an awful upbringing with a selfish … Continue reading

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