Is Donald Trump a Misogynist?

Dennis Prager writes: You have to marvel at the ease with which our fellow Americans who call themselves progressive label those with whom they differ as sexist, intolerant, xenophobic, homophobic, Islamophobic, racist and bigoted.
I always wonder: Do they believe it? Or do they say it because they lack intellectual arguments?
I have come to believe that both are true. As a student of the left since graduate school at the Harriman Institute at Columbia University’s School of International and Public Affairs, I am more aware than most people of how old and ubiquitous this mode of attack is. Since Josef Stalin got away with calling Leon Trotsky a fascist — Trotsky, the father of the Bolshevik Revolution (along with Vladimir Lenin) and the founder of the Red Army — the left has relied on defaming its opponents. And whatever it says often enough it comes to believe.
Moreover, the libel list never ends. The left may not produce liberty or prosperity, but it does produce labels. We now have “misogynist” and “transphobic,” for example. In every single area where the left differs from the right, it assigns a label to the right.
This brings us to the constant charge that President-elect Donald Trump is a misogynist, a hater of women.
Like the other charges against him and those who voted for him, it is repeated so often — by every liberal columnist and commentator; by CNN, MSNBC, The New York Times, the Washington Post, the Los Angeles Times and every other left-wing newspaper; and by all the left-wing Christian and Jewish clergy — that people just assume it to be so.
Amazingly, there is little, if any, evidence to support the charge. The evidence supports charges of insensitivity, boorishness, crassness, immaturity and verbal impulsivity. But not misogyny.
Take the most infamous of the alleged proofs of Trump’s misogyny: the 2005 recording of a private conversation between Trump and “Access Hollywood” host Billy Bush in which Trump said: “I’m automatically attracted to beautiful (women) — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star they let you do it. You can do anything. … Grab them by the p—-. You can do anything.”
Why does that demonstrate misogyny? How is that hatred of women?
It’s crass, juvenile, sexually aggressive, improper, etc. But in what way does it demonstrate hatred of women?
It doesn’t.
In fact, in his professional life, as reported during the campaign by the Washington Post, Trump was known for hiring women for the highest positions in the American real estate industry. Read the Post’s Nov. 24, 2015, piece, “Donald Trump, a champion of women? His female employees think so.”
Other proofs of Trump’s misogyny are his insulting statements toward women. But for every one of those one can point to insulting comments he made toward men. Remember “Lyin’ Ted” and “Little Marco” and his devastating put-downs of Jeb Bush? And nothing he has said to women is as bad as what he said during the campaign about Dr. Ben Carson, calling him incurably pathological and comparing him to a child molester.
So why do so many women — and men — call Trump a misogynist?
Because he has so often described women in sexual terms. Because, as the charge goes, he “objectifies” women.
Now, before responding to that, it is worth noting that this clearly disturbs college-educated women and men far more than it does those who did not attend college, which either means the college-educated are wiser on this matter, or the non-college-educated are wiser.
As in most matters, my position is that college makes most people less wise. You have to go to college to think that men who see women they find attractive as sex objects hate women. Throughout history, women understood that men sexually objectify women, that this is male nature and has nothing — repeat, nothing — to do with hatred. Only the well-educated equate sexual objectification with hatred.
If sexually objectifying women makes men haters of women, then gay men hate men, because gay men sexually objectify men exactly the same way heterosexual men objectify women.
If you have a problem with this — and I can understand why people do — you need to take it up with God or Charles Darwin. But this is how male sexual nature works: It objectifies the object of its sexual attraction — male or female.
The good news is that every healthy male is capable of both respecting women and sexually objectifying them. Even Donald Trump.

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UCLA Daily Bruin: Submission: SJP-hosted film screening endorses attempt to normalize anti-Semitism

Daily Bruin:

Students for Justice in Palestine at UCLA hosted its widely advertised screening of “The Occupation of the American Mind” on Wednesday, followed by a discussion with executive producer Sut Jhally and an appearance by famed Pink Floyd musician Roger Waters. The purpose of the film is to warn viewers that somehow, unbeknownst to them, they have become casualties of Israel’s public relations war in the United States.

More specifically, “The Occupation of the American Mind” alleges that Israel manipulates the minds of politicians and ordinary Americans by turning American media outlets into well-oiled propaganda machines. By exerting their influence through the “Israel lobby in America,” conniving Zionists have managed to divert attention from “apartheid” and “genocide,” and instead, rewrite a tale of victimhood by dramatizing the storyline of Jewish oppression.

The film is an intellectualization of the centuries-old anti-Semitic conspiracy theory that a group of powerful, manipulative and domination-obsessed Jews have gained control of politics and media through a combination of wealth, power, influence and deceit. The film asserts that through sheer mendacity and careful scheming, Jews concocted stories of suffering, when in reality, they were the true oppressors.

By choosing to screen this film, Students for Justice in Palestine has unabashedly endorsed and legitimized this perception of the Jewish people. One is left to wonder: What conclusion is the campus community left to draw from this event? Are we so distanced from the shadows of history that we are unable to detect echoes of anti-Semitic conspiracy when it is brought to our very doorstep?

The attempt to normalize anti-Semitism by conditioning it to the times is an old – and unfortunately effective – strategy. For generations, Jewish people have been accused of conspiring to control the media, the economy, the government and other social institutions. It was articulated in “The Protocols of the Elders of Zion” in the 1900s, in “Mein Kampf” in the 1920s and it is echoed in this film in 2016.

That is not to say that all criticism of Israel is anti-Semitic. Critique of Israeli policy can be legitimate and productive, and should not be conflated with prejudice. Freedom of speech, academic freedom and viewpoint neutrality are not issues that are new to our campus community. Students for Justice in Palestine has the constitutional right to screen this film – and whether we like it or not, our student fees might have been used via student government programming funds to help pay for the event.

However, rather than initiate a constructive dialogue about the role of the media in this conflict, The Occupation of the American Mind devotes its energy to flirting with and perpetuating anti-Semitic conspiracy theories. Our interest in writing this piece is not to silence the viewpoints put forth by the film. Rather than silencing voices, our goal is to combat “bad speech” with constructive speech. Along with their right to screen this film comes our moral responsibility to call it what it is: inflammatory, anti-Semitic propaganda.

The movie is eager to position itself as an expose of one-sided propaganda, but employs the very tactics it seeks to condemn. It is so willing to nurture dissidence that it ironically forgets to invite that very concept of debate into its own movie.

Goy: The premise of antisemitism in that article is so hyperbolized. I want to compare it to science: where no questions are bad questions. With antisemitism, there are so many off limits questions. If you ask if there is a disproportionately influential lobby for Israel in America (compared to the Argentine lobby, say) then they write up an article about how you’ve “dredged up paranoid fantasies about an international cabal based on the false and disproven Elders of Zion mythology.” Makes me wonder who the *real* author of EoZ was.

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Underearning Thinking – Hoping Others Will Take Care Of You

It is good to read the 12 Symptoms of Underearning, not so much to understand the disease, but to learn to spot it in your own life.

1. Time Indifference – We put off what must be done and do not use our time to support our own vision and further our own goals.

2. Idea Deflection –We compulsively reject ideas that could expand our lives or careers, and increase our profitability.

3. Compulsive Need to Prove – Although we have demonstrated competence in our jobs or business, we are driven by a need to re-prove our worth and value.

4. Clinging to Useless Possessions – We hold onto possessions that no longer serve our needs, such as threadbare clothing or broken appliances.

5. Exertion/Exhaustion – We habitually overwork, become exhausted, then under-work or cease work completely.

6. Giving Away Our Time – We compulsively volunteer for various causes, or give away our services without charge, when there is no clear benefit.

7. Undervaluing and Under-pricing – We undervalue our abilities and services and fear asking for increases in compensation or for what the market will bear.

8. Isolation – We choose to work alone when it might serve us much better to have co-workers, associates, or employees.

9. Physical Ailments – Sometimes, out of fear of being larger or exposed, we experience physical ailments.

10. Misplaced Guilt or Shame – We feel uneasy when asking for or being given what we need or what we are owed.

11. Not Following Up – We do not follow up on opportunities, leads, or jobs that could be profitable. We begin many projects and tasks but often do not complete them.

12. Stability Boredom – We create unnecessary conflict with co-workers, supervisors and clients, generating problems that result in financial distress.

I’ve had more than my share of success in life but I’ve not been able to sustain prosperity. I qualify for this program.

I suspect that everybody had some lack in childhood that haunts them through adulthood. For me, growing up in foster care for my first four years, it has left me with tendencies to insecure attachment, and for an insatiable thirst for attention and nurturing. Several girlfriends have said to me, “You just want someone to take care of you.” I remember one girlfriend in particular would get worn out from spending the weekend with me because I was just so needy. Well, now that I think about it, I’m sure many of them were worn out by my neediness. At first, it probably spoke to their desire to nurture, but then it became tiresome.

In the weeks before my collapse into Chronic Fatigue Syndrome in February of 1988, I walked around bent over, with a class schedule of 27 units at Sierra Community College and nearly a fulltime job as a gardener, and under the strain, I kept muttering to myself, “I’m gonna break through or I’m gonna break down. Either way I’ll get the love that I need.”

That’s classic under-earning thinking.

Another example is feeling so tired that you hope to get into an accident so you can rest for a few days.

Last week I was immobilized by back spasms for a couple of days. Ninety eight percent of me hated that, but 2% of me felt, well, at least now I’ll get the nurturing and care that I need.

I suspect this type of thinking has played a factor in my many collapses over the course of my life (with my family bailing me out most of the time).

Every time I’ve fallen in love, it’s been with a fantasy. I wonder if I am capable of loving a real person.

I know I can be sailing along fine, and then if one prop under my life gets kicked out or disturbed, I’m dying to porn or to act out in other ways.

I want to love God. I have such a distant relationship with Him. I treat Him like a necessary evil.

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Really Inspiring Stuff

This I can tell you with confidence. When a Jewish leader begins his (OR HER!!!) position with, “Jews know what it means to […]” you can be sure it’s going to be a top quality statement from an inspirational, non-partisan leader.

NYT: Jonathan Greenblatt, the chief executive of the Anti-Defamation League, said in a recent interview: “Jews know what it means to be identified and tagged, to be registered and pulled aside[…]”

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The Alt-Right Rabbi

Well, I don’t know if he is a rabbi, but his Twitter handle says he is. Without a doubt, he is interesting.

Here are some of his recent tweets:

* Non-observance among Jews proves to be the cause rather than the cure for anti-Semitism.

* Jews should be as inconspicuous as possible and require no special representation in the various nations to which they have been scattered.

* The Jews cannot be absorbed by the State. The Jews are a problem which political wisdom affords no solution. #AssimilationForDummies

* You may be a #cuckservative if Trump’s language scares you more than Hillary Clinton’s borderless world, endless wars & amnesty for invaders [a retweet of Counter-Currents]

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