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Lana Del Rey’s New Album: Chemtrails Over the Country Club

Steve Sailer writes: “Singer Lana Del Rey has been triggering music critics for a decade for her pride in being a beautiful straight white American woman. But she’s so smart (philosophy major in college) and aesthetically gifted (both in terms of her overall shtick and, on this new album, in massive melodic hooks) that she’s gotten away with it so far.”

Comments:

* The criticism on Lana is not so much that she is a white or straight, but that she sings mostly about men, and often not in a condemning tone. If she sang about how oppressive and piggish men are, then there wouldn’t be a problem. The problem is that she sings about how she loves men, and how femininity is all about the chase of a man worth chasing. *That* is what pisses not only feminists, but all liberals and left-leaning people about her,

The big theme of Lana’s music is that the biggest thrill of femininity is to chase a man that you are in love with while he ignores you, and conquering his attention and affection. Needless to say, this pisses the Woke crowd to no end.

* “Del Rey”, isn’t that hispanic?

It’s Southern California 1920s glamor.

* Billie Eilish highly admires Del Rey. Eilish is another example of a musically gifted white female who writes somewhat depressive music. Her recent single, “my future”, opens with a series of jazz chords of the type you just don’t hear in current pop music.

In an interview, Billie’s brother said she wants everyone to like her and that has turned her into a woke liberal. A lot of wokeism is just a desire to conform, be popular and follow the crowd. There is no group that worries more about being popular than teenage girls, of which Billie is one.

This wokeism has mostly kept her out of trouble but not completely. Her last single, a Latin song sung in Spanish, caused her to be accused of engaging in cultural appropriation. There was a controversy after the just concluded Grammy awards about her winning Record of the Year over a black female rapper. The underlying premise of these complaints was that the black female rapper had a better song but lost because of racism. Billie is intelligent enough to realize this was going to happen and spent most of her acceptance speech profusely apologizing for winning.

* She herself has described her music, which I find unusually interesting for something that isn’t obviously interesting, as “Hollywood Sadcore.”

* a lot (most) of the current woke hatred is just envy – basically Sailer’s Law of Female Journalism applied to all of white society.

Most women don’t look at the aesthetic of Cardi B/Megan Thee Stallion and aspire to live that out, they look at the stuff like Del Rey’s album cover and imagine themselves in that picture, and the implied financial and relationship security behind it. But going full bore feminist doesn’t lend itself to that outcome – instead women are told they need to act like men in their approach to career and sex lives, and it makes them miserable, which they reframe as being ’empowered’.

As for men, our culture cannot admit that the white guy with the suburban house, wife, kids and dog is still the archetype of success, and a huge percentage of society has no shot of getting there, thus those that do or at least check most of these boxes are hated.

* She’s enormously talented musically and in her evocation of a nostalgic Americana.

I’m unsure where she’s going with the nostalgia. Is it a futile, defeated nostalgia for “an America that never existed”, or for an America that existed but is now dead?

Many of the young women she depicts are on the nihilistic life path of finding the world bland and without anything to believe in, partying and sensation seeking to escape the bland world, being hurt or mutilated or killed by glamorous but callous men, but wallowing in the hurt, because it’s the only thing that’s real and there’s nothing else to believe in.

I was listening to her for a long time before I watched her videos, which then reinforced my feeling of unease. She doesn’t look like a healthy or happy young woman.

* As she sort of humblebrag acknowledged in that little Instagram tiff she had last year, Lana has got a fairly wide open lane for her shtick since the median point of performative femininity in music today has settled somewhere between Billie Eilish’s schizoid asexuality and “WAP.” There’s an unmet demand for a woman who is actually reasonably pleasant to look at singing songs that are reasonably pleasant to listen to. Props to her for coming out of her attempted canceling last year though by refusing to back down or apologize. Props also to her for her productivity over the last decade. I appreciate musicians who can keep working consistently rather than getting burned out and/or lazy with success.

* She is a very creative and talented artist and I am very glad she’s not my daughter.

* Lana del Ray is a hilarious stage name. It just steers straight into Hollywood regency era kitsch exoticism. It’s the name dashiell Hammett would give a studio bosses vaguely ethnic mistress whose real name would turn out to be Debrorah Westlake.

* Today I learned this woman was a philosophy major from New York who is reported to have had a drinking problem at the age of 15. Special.

* Steve’s influence is limited to lucky happenstance because Tucker Carlson’s show has become the most popular news show and the main people responsible for the content of the show are regular readers of this blog. Tucker, Mark Steyn, and the former top writer who Tucker fired are readers.

* Smart, highly creative women are not usually very easy to handle. Guys who want a house in the suburbs, kids and a dog should probably avoid them in favor of “common-sense” women.

But some of us can’t help ourselves.

* One of my favorite Lana moments came when she told world-renowned crazy shit-talker Azealia Banks to STF or she’d kick her ass.

THE LOS ANGELES TIMES Jan. 12, 2021:

More Lana Del Rey drama ensues after her diversity comments about new album art

Lana Del Rey’s Instagram posts of her upcoming album’s front and back covers have sparked yet another debate about the singer and her thoughts on race — a conversation that the “Summertime Sadness” artist appeared to be trying to get ahead of.

Pro tip: Saying your “best friends are rappers” isn’t likely to win over anyone when discussing race relations.

“There’s always turmoil and upheaval and in the midst of it- there’s always beautiful music too introducing my new album chemtrails over the country club,” Del Rey wrote Sunday on social media, posting the black-and-white album cover, featuring herself surrounded by 10 smiling women. Its back image shows Del Rey’s face peeking out from among the other women’s backs.

She followed up with a lengthy second statement that began, “I also want to say that with everything going on this year! And no this was not intended-these are my best friends, since you are asking today. And damn! As it happens when it comes to my amazing friends and this cover yes there are people of color on this records picture and that’s all I’ll say about that but thank you.”

The Los Angeles Mar. 18, 2021:

You can’t fire Lana Del Rey; she quits.

Months after a cascading series of attempted cancellations — here she was centering her white privilege; here she was wearing a mesh face mask in the middle of a pandemic; here she was insisting she’s obviously not racist because she’s had rappers for boyfriends — pop music’s most glamorous headline-maker is back with a riveting new album about exiting the limelight to find a simpler place where the haters can’t get her down.

Again and again on “Chemtrails Over the Country Club,” which dropped Thursday night, Del Rey sings of casting off her renown as though it were a heavy coat. She dreams of leaving Los Angeles, the adopted home that figured so prominently on 2019’s “Norman F— Rockwell!,” for “a little piece of heaven” in Arkansas or Nebraska. She describes doing the laundry and washing her hair with the kind of breathy sensuality she used to employ while singing about getting high by the beach.

…More than once in the past year, as she set flame to her accumulated goodwill, you could wonder if she actually knew what she was doing — that maybe her baffling moves were part of some larger creative project about the diseased American soul in the age of Donald Trump (whom, by the way, she appeared in a radio chat to absolve of his complicity in January’s Capitol riot).

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Why Do People Watch Livestreams?

I suspect the number one reason people watch is to connect. People don’t watch me because they care about me, they watch because they care about themselves and my livestream helps them better enjoy and understand their own lives. When I tell a story, nobody cares about my story except to the extent it helps them to better understand their own stories.

When you join a livestreaming community, you join a tribe. According to my video analytics, my audience is 98% male, 80% 25-44yo (about 15% are 44-54yo), 50% American and they also watch Keith Woods, Edward Dutton, and JF Gariepy.

According to this Quora thread:

* Live streaming clone is the evolution of live television. The reasons why live television made such a big impact was because it brought viewers up-to-date, informative and accessible content. Though it’s still popular, since online streaming, Television subscriptions have been in decline.

While on television, the content and accessibility are limited, on online streaming there is endless content accessible for free and with mobile devices. Even though viewers still have the time constraint on live streaming, it’s more flexible than on television. They can watch on their mobile phones and, most of the times, they can also watch the recorded of the live video later.

Beyond Live Television

One of the important reasons why live streaming is so important, for brands and individuals, is because of the level of interaction and engagement it offers. There is no other platform or marketing strategy allows for such an extent of interaction. Live streaming also has the highest rate of engagement for all types of contents.

The face to face live interaction brings your audience closer to you and opens a great communication channel. You can ask them questions to get to know them better and they can do the same. What’s more, when they interact with each other, it creates a sense of community and they will associate you with it.

3. The human aspect of Live Streaming

The genuine interaction that live streaming app clone allows and builds a relationship with viewers. Videos on demand simply can’t create the same feeling because there’s less room for viewers to identify with the presenters.

The fact of a live stream is actually live brings a human element to it. Anything can go wrong, at any time. If presenters make a mistake about something, viewers see the authenticity and identify with them. Unlike Live television News, where anchors seem stiff and emotionless. Why do you think people love to see them make mistakes on live TV? It humanizes them and it’s relatable.

4. Expand your reach as a brand or individual

One of the reasons why live tv streaming Php Script can help you reach more people is because platforms will favour live content. For example, if you go live on FB, the chance of your followers seeing it on their newsfeed is higher than if you share an image or a video on demand. YouTube will also favour live video on its searches, as will many other platforms.

5. Fastest growing industry

Online streaming is one of the fastest-growing industries. In fact, the live video streaming market is worth more than 30 billion dollars. It’s expected to be worth more than 70 billion dollars by 2021. More importantly, live video streaming is outgrowing video on demand. The year over year growth of live video is 113 per cent, while long videos on demand have grown 30% and short formats have grown only 9 per cent.

* Live Streaming is a real-time event. Whether it is a training session, a panel discussion, an interview or a product launch you become a participant of this show staying on your own location. You communicate with the presenter through Q&A and you can also take part in polling. You can watch live video streaming everywhere – on any location and on any device. There are no costs on venues and travels but you do attend this live event. So these compelling benefits of live streaming make people watch it and become a part of a live show.

FROM FINDAPSYCHOLOGIST.ORG:

Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other’s existence. Parasocial relationships are most common with celebrities, organizations (such as sports teams) or television stars.

Parasocial relationships expand the social network in a way that negates the chance of rejection and empowers individuals to model and identify with individuals of their choosing who naturally elicit an empathic response. For some, the one sided nature of the relationship is a relief from strained complementary relationships in their real life. Parasocial relationships are cultivated by the media to resemble face-to-face relationships. Over time, so many experiences are shared with John Daily or Justin Beiber or Jay-Z that we develop an intimacy and friendship with the ‘media user’ and feel that they know and understand us.

In the past, parasocial relationships occurred predominantly with television personas. Now, these relationships also occur between individuals and their favorite bloggers, social media users, and gamers. The nature and intimacy of parasocial relationships has also matured. Reality television allows viewers to share the most intimate and personal lives of television personas, and celebrities openly share their opinions and activities through various social media outlets such as twitter and Facebook.

Additionally, the Internet allows for 24-hour access to media users, and increased internet dependency may lead to increased parasocial interactions. While parasocial relationships still remain one-sided, they have transformed into more interactive environments, allowing individuals to communicate with their media personas, and increasing the intimacy and strength of the parasocial relationship.

Despite the one-sided nature of parasocial relationships, there are numerous similarities between these relationships and more traditional social relationships. Studies show parasocial relationships are voluntary, provide companionship, and are influenced by social attraction. Furthermore, viewers experience a connection with the media user and express feelings of affection, gratitude, longing, encouragement, and loyalty towards them.

Just as relational maintenance is important in sustaining a relationship with our real life friends and family, relational maintenance also occurs in parasocial relationships through events such as weekly viewings of Keeping Up with the Kardashians. Blogs and social media sites, such as Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram, increase the ease with which viewers can express their feelings. Parasocial relationships are popular within these online communities, and this may be due to the increased sense of “knowing” the personas, or the perception of parasocial interactions as having a high reward and no chance of rejection.

Historically, parasocial relationships were viewed as pathological and a symptom of loneliness, isolation and social anxieties. However, one study found there was no correlation between loneliness and the intensity of viewers’ parasocial relationship with onscreen characters. Other research has decreased the stigma of such relationships and led clinicians to believe that such relationships can broaden one’s social network rather than restrict it.

Parasocial relationships are important to viewers, and in many ways advantageous because of the support that the viewer gains from the relationship. Many seriously ill people find afternoons with Oprah or Ellen the one chance in the day to see a friend without stress and gain strength from their relationship with the hostess.

Individuals with parasocial relationships often express appreciation towards their favorite personas for helping them to get through tough times. Additionally, some viewers perceive the personas as helping to significantly shape their own identity. The support that parasocial relationships provide is of substantial value to the viewers that engage in them, and with new social media techniques, these relationships are a viable way to expand individuals’ social networks.

NEIL PATEL BLOGS that online live viewers are more likely to feel excitement, immediacy and connection.

This 2017 paper from China says:

Proposed by Tajfel and Turner (1979), social identity theory posits that people hold various social identities along with their individual identities. It is assumed that our self-concepts are partially defined by certain social groups where we obtain the sense of oneness or belongingness, as well as involving values (Ashforth & Mael, 1989).

Hence, people tend to classify themselves into various social categories that they identify with, and develop social identifications which depict the oneness or belongingness to certain social categories (Ashforth & Mael, 1989). This social identification process is mainly served as a self-defining way to achieve self-consistency, selfesteem, and self-enhancement (Bhattacharya & Sen, 2003). In consequence, to maintain their favored social identities, people’s
deep identifications with groups, organizations or other human aggregates lead to in-group favoritism and corresponding results such as enhanced commitment, intragroup cohesion, product and service preference, and group support behaviors…

H1. Identification with an audience group is positively related to continuous watching intention.

we construct the audience group identification as psychological attachment, emotional and social bonds a member shares within an audience group (Algesheimer et al., 2005; Füller, Matzler, & Hoppe, 2008; Hall-Phillips et al., 2016). Users from the same audience group interact with each other mainly via text-based dialogues (Hamilton et al., 2014). During their communication, audiences can exchange their ideas and thoughts about streams, broadcasters, and even issues unrelated to stream contents. Meanwhile, audiences will subtly deliver their identity-related information and perceive others’ identities in a form of collective group identity. In consequence, a member may identify with other audiences if he/she perceives the fit of values and beliefs between the group and him/herself. According to Keh and Xie (2009), identification is effective in promoting commitment to long-term relationship maintenances. Badrinarayanan et al. (2015) also indicate that identification with other members will lead to sustained participation and interaction on virtual
communities. Therefore, we infer that, with the increased identification of audience group, a member will feel stronger attachment to the group and choose to maintain their intragroup connections by continuous watching.

H1. Identification with an audience group is positively related to continuous watching intention…

Live video streaming service distinguishes itself from other social media forms via the existence of broadcasters/streamers (Smith et al., 2013). Accordingly, the individual-based identification aspect is manifested as identification with broadcasters on live streaming platforms. Kelman (1961) defines this kind of identification with an
individual as “classical identification” which means a person “attempts to be like or actually to be the other person”, and desires to “appease, emulate, and vicariously gain the qualities of others”.

Identification with a person is similar to identification with a group (Ashforth & Mael, 1989). However, personal identification incorporates other essences including liking and admiration, perceived similarity, attitudes and beliefs adoption (Basil, 1996; Brown & de Matviuk, 2010; Brown, 2015; Katz & Liebes, 1990). Accordingly, a viewer’s identification with a broadcaster takes place when a viewer takes a broadcaster as self-referential in belief, personality, competence, and other aspects.

According to recent studies on personal identifications, people tend to regard identified individuals as role model, and incline to maintain reciprocal relationships…

* Identification with a broadcaster is positively related to continuous watching intention.

…parasocial interaction is described as an illusive sense of mutual awareness and intimacy with media personas (e.g. celebrities, news hosts, characters). People believe they are engaged in a face-to-face interaction without technical possibility of reciprocal communication (Houlberg, 1984). People in parasocial relationship often report the feeling of
intimacy and closeness and define media personas as “real friends” (Stern, Russell, & Russell, 2007; Xiang, Zheng, Lee, & Zhao, 2016). In turn, this friendship-like relationship will increase personal attachment, relationship investment, and loyalty toward media figures (Labrecque, 2014; Xiang et al., 2016). Recently, studies have expand the scope of parasocial interaction from mass media into online context (e.g. Labrecque, 2014; Powell, Richmond, & Williams, 2011), especially in social media practices such as micro-blogs and Social Network Sites (e.g. Cohen & Tyler, 2016; Lee & Oh, 2012).

Interactions on live streaming platforms may possess the characteristic of parasocial interaction. The nature of social media implies viewers can follow another’s statues without reciprocal responsibility (Hargittai & Litt, 2011). However, the sense of parasocial interaction can be triggered if media performers perceive the existence of audiences, and adapt the conversational style or body gestures to create an illusion of two-sided communication (Dibble, Hartmann, & Rosaen, 2016). Broadcasters can adopt an interactive style in terms of addressing questions, show gratitude to praises, and self-disclosure in practice. Consequently, viewers who experience parasocial interactions may regard streamers as intimate
friends because they pay attention to viewers’ suggestions and care for the viewers’ feelings. Studies have suggested that viewers are inclined to be more emotionally attached to and identified with media personas that provide richer experience of parasocial interaction (Brown & Basil, 2010; Brown, 2015; Frederick, Lim, Clavio, & Walsh, 2012). In the same vein, we infer that experience of parasocial interaction a viewer perceived may increase the identification with the broadcaster

* H3. Experience of parasocial interaction is positively related to broadcaster identification.

Self-congruity is another factor that may influence broadcaster identification. Introduced by Sirgy (1982), self-congruity is defined as the extent to which the images of an object and a person are perceived as matching. People prefer to consume brands possessing the personalities which are compatible with their own self-concepts.

On one hand, a person tries to behave in a way which is consistent with his/her actual self-image and for self-expression; on the other hand, he/she also expect to build up ideal self-image that potentially extend and enhance his/her real self (Kressmann et al., 2006). These dual aspects of self-congruity are defined as actual self-congruity and ideal self-congruity (Sirgy, 1982). In marketing domain, recent studies have widely applied self-congruity concept to explain customer-brand relationship, brand attitudes, brand loyalty, and consequent purchase intention (Aguirre-Rodriguez, Boveda-Lambie, & Miniard, 2015; Koo, Cho, & Kim, 2014; Roy & Rabbanee, 2015).

Meanwhile, the application of self-congruity has been extended from brand research to more general referents such as media personas (e.g. celebrities, bloggers) (Boon & Lomore, 2001; Thomson, 2006; Wang, Hsu, Huang, & Chen, 2015).

Live streaming activities provide immediate opportunities and solid technical support for self-expression (Tang et al., 2016). Broadcasters can manage their own self-images directly in various ways such as articulating their interests and attitudes to life, showing talents or skills. According to social identity theory, identification processes as a two step self-defining way to first preserve integrity of self image, and later to reach selfenhancement and self-esteem (Bhattacharya & Sen, 2003; Tajfel & Turner, 1979). On one hand, the aspiration for self-consistency of viewers can be satisfied if they perceive attitude similarity and like-mindedness of streamers, thus creating the sense of actual selfcongruity. On the other hand, the need for self-esteem can be possibly appeased when viewers reflect their ideal selves. Viewers may worship broadcasters and regard them as role models, if the broadcasters possess special skills and abilities, or have achieved goals that the viewers are pursuing. Several studies also imply that self-congruity affects relationship persistence, and leads to identification with referents (Tuskej et al., 2013; Wang et al., 2015).
Drawing on these findings, we infer that a viewer’s perceptions of actual and ideal self-congruity toward a broadcaster on live streaming platforms will increase his/her identification with the broadcaster.

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What Happens To Your Face As You Age?

I notice my face sagging. So what’s ahead?

Google says:

The appearance of the face and neck typically changes with age. Loss of muscle tone and thinning skin gives the face a flabby or drooping appearance. In some people, sagging jowls may create the look of a double chin.

Your skin also dries out and the underlying layer of fat shrinks so that your face no longer has a plump, smooth surface. To some extent, wrinkles cannot be avoided. However, sun exposure and cigarette smoking are likely to make them develop more quickly. The number and size of blotches and dark spots on the face increase as well. These pigment changes are largely due to sun exposure.

Missing teeth and receding gums change the appearance of the mouth, so your lips may look shrunken. Loss of bone mass in the jaw reduces the size of the lower face and makes your forehead, nose, and mouth more pronounced. Your nose may also lengthen slightly.

The ears may lengthen in some people (probably caused by cartilage growth). Men may develop hair in their ears that becomes longer, coarser, and more noticeable as they age. Ear wax becomes drier because there are fewer wax glands in the ears and they produce less oil. The hardened ear wax can block the ear canal and affect your ability to hear.

Eyebrows and eyelashes turn gray. As in other parts of the face, the skin around the eyes gets wrinkles, creating crow’s feet at the side of the eyes.

Fat from the eyelids settles into the eye sockets. This can make your eyes look sunken. The lower eyelids can slacken and bags can develop under your eyes. Weakening of the muscle that supports the upper eyelid can make the eyelids droop. This may limit vision.

The outer surface of the eye (cornea) may develop a grayish-white ring. The colored portion of the eye (iris) loses pigment, making most very elderly people appear to have gray or light blue eyes.

From Facial aging trajectories: A common shape pattern in male and female faces is disrupted after menopause: “Age‐related facial shape change was similar in both sexes until around age 50, at which time the female aging trajectory turned sharply. The overall magnitude of facial shape change (aging rate) was higher in women than men, especially in early postmenopause. Aging was generally associated with a flatter face, sagged soft tissue (“broken” jawline), deeper nasolabial folds, smaller visible areas of the eyes, thinner lips, and longer nose and ears. In postmenopausal women, facial aging was best predicted by the years since last menstruation and mainly attributable to bone resorption in the mandible.”

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Coast of Dreams: California on the Edge, 1990-2003

Kevin Starr writes in this 2004 book:

* Equally insulting was the parallel notion that Latino immigrants, especially those coming from Mexico, were not only burdening American society, but also were lowering its tone. Worse, the argument ran, they were most likely unassimilable, nor not worth the social cost of bringing up to speed. …California…had no need for the continuing influx of low-skilled, poorly educated immigrants from Mexico…

* As early as 2020, the population of California would reach 47.5 million… [In 2019, the population reached 39.5 million.]

* The white people who in D.J. Waldie’s memoir were dressing in the 1950s in coat and tie on Sundays, their children in starched pinafores or short pants and flat caps, were by the 1990s covered in tattoos, wearing T-shirts and jeans, the men in long hair and earrings, the young people tending to slobdom or punk.

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