I discuss the weekly Torah portion with Rabbi Rabbs Mondays at 7:00 pm PDT on the rabbi’s cam and on YouTube. Facebook Fan Page.
This week we study Parashat Vayikra (Leviticus 1:1-5:26).
I discuss the weekly Torah portion with Rabbi Rabbs Mondays at 7:00 pm PDT on the rabbi’s cam and on YouTube. Facebook Fan Page.
This week we study Parashat Vayikra (Leviticus 1:1-5:26).
The story took over [Phil] Jacobs’s career in a way that surprised him. Tall and lanky with a softspoken manner, Jacobs, 58, still lives in Baltimore and is still married to his high school sweetheart. The Baltimore native and University of Maryland alumnus had worked for the Jewish Times company for 30 years, and while he “never wanted to cover Bubbie and Zaidy at the Gefilte Fish Ball,” he says from his new Rockville office at Washington Jewish Week, where he became editor in chief last summer, “I also didn’t expect this.”
“Standing Silent” depicts a community struggling to come to terms with a problem that, Jacobs says, has remained underreported for years and seems only recently to have attracted the attention of advocates and lawmakers.
There are no hard numbers to document the extent of the problem, but Elaine Witman, director of the Shofar Coalition, a nonprofit agency that provides services for victims of sexual and other abuse in the Baltimore area’s Jewish community, says the center is seeing an increase in the number of Jews coming forward to report abuse. In 2010, 67 people requested help for childhood sexual abuse from the coalition. That number nearly doubled in 2011, to 132 people, said Witman, who attributes the increase to Jacobs’s articles and the coalition’s efforts toreduce the shame that has kept the issue quiet for so long.
In November, Debbie Teller, a 40-year-old Brooklyn-based blogger, launched a Web site called “AD-KAN,” a Hebrew phrase used to make the point “enough is enough.”
“I wanted to reach out to people for so long, but [the sex-abuse scandal at] Penn State was what gave me the push to come forward,” said Teller, who said she was a victim of sexual abuse. Her site and others such as Jewish Community Watch — formerly Crown Heights Watch, which was launched in July 2011— are important resources for the Orthodox community, she said. Teller’s site is modeled on earlier Jewish watchdog sites, such as failedmessiah.com and theunorthodoxjew.blogspot.com. She hopes that together the sites will serve the same purpose as BishopAccountability.org, which listed accused abusers within the Catholic Church.
“We are breaking the silence in the frum [religious] community, and more people are getting online to tell their stories every day,” said Chaim Levin, 22, who was raised in the Chabad-Lubavitch community, an ultra-orthodox branch of Hasidic Judaism. Levin recently began blogging about the sexual abuse that he says he experienced at age 19 at an Orthodox Jewish counseling center in Jersey City. (The center — JONAH, or Jews Offering New Alternatives to Homosexuality — did not return calls or e-mail requests for comment.) Levin, who is now openly gay and no longer religious, still lives in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, which is the Hasidic movement’s headquarters.
Let’s hope that little Hazel’s setback with Baby Alexander Technique doesn’t impact her chances for the 2014 Olympics. A gold medal in Curling will look great on a pre-school resume.
Season 2, Episode 3: “Primary Care Giver” from The Slope on Vimeo.
In his third lecture for Torah in Motion on the R. Eliezer Berkovitz, professor Marc B. Shapiro says in 2010: “Berkovitz claims that Jewish law changes but the values stay the same. He believes in Biblical values that in prior eras were not able to be realized. But now we can. This is not reform, this is returning to the original intent of the Bible. We’re not updating Torah law to fit society. Only in modern times can we realize these values.”
“Chapter four of Not in Heaven: The Nature and Function of Halakha is called Halachah in Exile. Jewish law has developed for the diaspora. An example is the Sabbath. There’s always an assumption that there’s a goy around who can help out. What do you do if you’re in a village and there’s no non-Jew? Yeshaya Leibowitz says that all the Sabbath laws need to be rewritten. How do you run a Jewish country? Laws on the book are not adequate for a completely Jewish society. Rav Herzog, Rav Goren did not go this far but Berkovitz sees the problem.”
I discuss the weekly Torah portion with Rabbi Rabbs Mondays at 7:00 pm PDT on the rabbi’s cam and on YouTube. Facebook Fan Page.
This week we study Parashat Vayikra (Leviticus 1:1-5:26).
* Ancient Israel divided power between the king, the prophet and the priest. There’s no special role for the king in the sacrificial system.
* Reading this week’s Torah portion, I just want to throw up my hands and say, “What the hell?” It’s far removed from our modern sensibility.
* God runs the universe. He wants us to emulate him by making order out of chaos.
* Rabbi Berel Wein writes: “The details of kodshim as written in the Torah and, as expounded and expanded in the Mishna and Talmud, are like the mysterious formulae and equations used by physicists and chemistry professors that are unintelligible to the ordinary man on the street but nevertheless work and accomplish their stated functions and goals.”
I used to need reasons and explanations for everything. In my old age, I’m not as curious. I have more trust in Torah.
* It’s easy to talk about ethics and right and wrong and social policy with secularists, but it is usually hard to talk to them about holiness, the subject of this book of the Torah.
* You get close to that which you sacrifice for. How do you get close to God? I feel close to God at Yosemite and when I’m around holy people and studying Torah.
* It was easier to get close to God when you had the temple and the sacrifices.
* The sacrifices atone for sins against God, not for sins against man. You can’t buy God off for the rotten things you did to your neighbor.
* The Talmud states a couple of reasons for why Roman civilization should be praised. One of the reasons was that they did not marry men to men.
* Rabbi Wein writes: “The Talmud explicitly teaches us that only if a Kohain somehow resembles an angel of God in his behavior and deportment, would people come to study Torah from his mouth and sense the true holiness of the Temple. The task that was placed on the Kohanim was not one of mere rote service in the Temple. It was rather the challenge to be exemplary in behavior, a role model for others, and a teacher of Torah to Israel by deed as well as by word, which would define the true Kohain.”
The Jews are to be priests to the world just as the Cohenim are to be priests to the Jews.
When a Gentile priest walks by in distinctive religious garb, it does have an affect on the world. People speak differently and act differently when a priest is around.
* Do animals have rights? Not in a Torah view. Animals don’t have moral obligations. Animals are here to serve man. The Torah cares about how animals are treated (4th commandment that animals must rest on the Sabbath).
* A great Jewish novel is Portnoy’s Complaint by Philip Roth. The protagonist’s job is as the human right’s commissioner for New York City. The novel is mainly about the guy’s sex life, but despite his constant plooking of shiksas, he’s preoccupied with moral issues. Even this horny hebe still tries to do good.
From Wikipedia: On the first page of the novel, one finds this clinical definition of “Portnoy’s Complaint”, as if taken from a manual on sexual dysfunction:
Portnoy’s Complaint: A disorder in which strongly felt ethical and altruistic impulses are perpetually warring with extreme sexual longings, often of a perverse nature…
The publication of the novel caused a major controversy in American public discourse. The two aspects that evoked such outrage were its explicit and candid treatment about sexuality and obscenities, including detailed depiction of masturbation, which was revolutionary in the late 1960s; and the irreverent portrait of Jewish identity. It sparked an uproar in the Jewish community, even among New York intellectuals such as Irving Howe and Diana Trilling.
In his third lecture for Torah in Motion on the R. Eliezer Berkovitz, professor Marc B. Shapiro says in 2010: “Today Hebrew Theological College wouldn’t even allow Eliezer Berkovitz to speak. If you look at a list of their speakers, they wouldn’t. Berkovitz was a leading figure there and today he wouldn’t be allowed in.”
“In 1964, the Skokie yeshiva (aka Hebrew Theological College) held a banquet at Purim or Hanukkah. Rabbi Chaim Zimmerman, the rosh yeshiva, a genius of geniuses who drove a sports car, is speaking. All the rabbis are on the dais, including Eliezer Berkovitz. In his talk, Rabbi Zimmerman calls Eliezer Berkovitz a heretic. Berkovitz becomes so angry that he picks up a plate and throws it. It smashes into pieces.”
“It created an enormous controversy. The two weren’t going to be speaking anymore. The yeshiva was thrown into a conundrum. The next day, the yeshiva fired Chaim Zimmerman for publicly insulting Eliezer Berkovitz. That allows Rav Ahron Soloveitchik to come to Skokie. Later Rav Ahron would have his own problems with Skokie and be forced to leave. He started holding shiur (lecture) on the lawn. Another big controversy. They haven’t had such good luck with their roshei yeshiva.”
“So what issue did Chaim Zimmerman have with Berkovitz? It was the issue everyone had. It wasn’t with his theology. It was his view of the halachic (Jewish law) process. Tied in with this was his refusal to be tied down by the gadolim. He had a great sense of confidence.”
“When Reb Moshe Feinstein was referred to as one of the gadolim (great ones), Eliezer Berkovitz replied, ‘If he’s a gadol, I’m a gadol also.’ Very similar to Nathan Kamenetsky.”
Marc Shapiro published here R. Eliezer Berkovitz’s ruling on a Jew going into a church.
Letter of Rav Eliezer Berkovitz, 1984 (to be published
by Dr. Marc Shapiro in Millin Havivin)
אגרת הר’ אליעזר ברקוביץ
And if one were concerned about the beauty, etc. of the
churches – there is no question that the Jewish people
have already conquered the desire for avodah zara many
generations ago. In particular this is true regarding
Christianity, from which we have suffered over hundreds
of years – it is obvious that the vast majority of the people
do not feel even a hint of an inclination in its direction.
The situation was completely different in the Middle
Ages. Jews at that time were under constant pressure
from the Church to convert. Through conversion to
Christianity they would have been able to escape
persecution and killings. In such a situation, it was
possible to understand that Jews in those days who visited
churches would have been – even unwittingly – exposed
to constant seduction, and similarly there was a concern
that they would be influenced by the glory and wealth of
the Church.
Today the situation is completely different. It is only a
tiny minority of the Jews who find any value in
Christianity, for example, the terrible group “Jews for
Jesus” in the United States. Jews today are not influenced
at all from the glory and the icons in the churches. It is
exactly that glory and all that is connected to it in modern
life that is an abomination to them…
Marc: “Emmanuel Jacobvitz, the former Chief Rabbi of Great Britain, would go to various chuches with the approval of his Beit Din (Jewish law court) and to various ceremonies. The Lockerbie disaster [memorial] was in a church and Jacobvitz went there.”
“The Chief Rabbi of Poland went to a church [for the memorial of the late president of Poland — a great friend of the Jews — who died in a plane crash in 2010]. There’s no question that you can find a heter (permission) for something like this, but not for the average person, but for the official representative of the Jewish community.”
“Berkovitz hated Christianity. Unfairly, I think. He argues that if you are going in to look at the art work, it is permitted for a Jew to enter a church. Perhaps because he hated Christianity so much he did not think that any Jew could find anything attractive in Christian theology.”
In his books (Not in Heaven: The Nature and Function of Halakha (1983) and HaHalakha, Koha V’Tafkida (1981) [Hebrew] – expanded version of Not in Heaven), Eliezer Berkovitz argues that today’s rabbis don’t show the same ethical sensitivity of previous generations of rabbis.”
“There was a symposium in Judaism magazine. Robert Gordis (a thinker in Conservative Judaism) publishes an essay on the halachic process. What’s more interesting than Gordis’s essay are the responses from the Orthodox. You have J. David Bleich, as only Bleich can do, totally denying everything that Gordis says, putting forth a vision of halacha that no one in history has ever agreed with. Bleich is this legal-positivist. His vision of Jewish law is so incomprehensible. Then you have people on the [Orthodox] left like Emmanuel Rackman who agree with Robert Gordis. Immanuel Jacobvitz agrees with Gordis but argues that we no longer have the authority to change Jewish law. Chaim Soloveitchik is clearly in agreement with Gordis’s understanding.”
“If you look at volumes one and four of Bleich’s Contemporary Halachic Problems, not only does he attack people to the left, he also attacks those to the right. He says policy considerations don’t affect Jewish law. Everything is done according to the system.”
In his third lecture for Torah in Motion on the Chatam Sofer, professor Marc B. Shapiro says:
“A new volume of Igrot Moshe (questions asked of Reb Moshe Feinstein) appeared over the summer.
“First, chosen mishpat five, he’s asked in 1969 if Jews should express opposition to the death penalty. He writes no! We have to respect the laws of this country. It’s a country of kindness. We have to pray for its success. We do not have to teach our children to criticize things going on in the country. We just have to teach them Torah. Why should they concern themselves with government policy?
“I can’t imagine anyone today having this opinion. We assume we’re citizens and if we want to protest, that’s our right as Americans.”
“Reb Moshe feels that he’s a guest. I can’t imagine anyone growing up in America having this perception. We even have haredi people running for political office.”
In his third lecture for Torah in Motion on the R. Eliezer Berkovitz, professor Marc B. Shapiro says in 2010: “One of you wants to know if I have read the new biography of Rav Yosef Shalom Elyashiv.
“This is an interesting and unusual book. The ethos in the haredi world is different from what we think is normal.
“I’m going to read you some things here that are stated as praise and things to be admired. I’m certain that everyone listening, no matter what community you are from, will be shocked. I don’t know anyone who’s read this book and his opinion of Rav Elyashiv has been raised.
“His reputation for 60 years has been as a stern person, a dour person. There’s one picture of him with a smile, as opposed to Shlomo Zalman Auerbach, who’s all smiles. Rav Elyashiv is not a people person. The book says he’s very shy.
“You don’t come away from this book thinking of him as a tzaddik (righteous man). This book is clear that he doesn’t do chesed (kindness). His whole life is spent in learning and the only chesed he can do is to take shylas (questions).
“I see the Rav Elyashiv’s behavior as completely dysfunctional. He has no relationship with his children.
“From pg. 62, his daughter says our father could not distinguish us by our names. He couldn’t identify us. He didn’t have any time to play with his children. Only motzi Shabbos he’d go for a walk. That was the only time during the week that he’d talk to the children.
“He never once had simple conversations with his children or with his wife. If you look at biographies of Shlomo Zalman Auerbach, it’s the reverse. He loved to converse. He made people feel special.
“If something was needed, Rav Elyashiv would say what to do. He never went anywhere with his wife. He’d speak to his sons sometimes to see what they were learning but he would not speak to his daughters.
“His daughters say, you don’t talk to your father. Do not disturb him.
“All he does is learn.”
“When the children come to visit, they visit the mother. They have no relationship with the father.”
“He was able to overcome all emotion. When his daughter dies, he puts down the volume of choshen mishpat (business laws) and picks up a volume on the laws of mourning.
“There’s a story of him getting angry with someone because the driver was late and a minute was wasted.”
“This book is advertised as hagiography. They could never translate this because even American haredim would be shocked.”
“You can’t say this comes from learning. It comes from a personality that is uncomfortable around people.”
“If anyone is interested in reading a strange gadolim book, this is the one.”
“I’m not sure this is so similar to the Vilna Gaon as to the stories Rav Soloveitchik tells about his grandfather (not Rav Chaim).”
“How can you say a father not having a relationship with his children is a Torah value? I don’t think this leads people to admiration. This book does a terrible disservice to his reputation.”
“Some members of Rav Elyashiv’s family protested the book and other members of the family think this is just fine.”
“Rav Ovadiah Yosef is a people person. The real biography needs to be written of how Rav Elyashiv, who isn’t a people person, was able to assume this position of authority.”
“Rav Shach was also a people person.”
“I can’t think of any other gadolim who wanted no human relationships.”
“Tzvi Weinman made Rav Elyashiv famous. Tzvi Weinman was involved in terrible cases of divorce. Rav Elyashiv tells him, ‘Anything that doesn’t effect you personally, don’t let if affect you. Act like me. These things are meaningless.’ Rav Elyashiv is saying you shouldn’t have any emotional connection.
“There are some psakim (rabbinic rulings) where you see this. There’s one in particularly that I won’t make public. R. David Bleich says he also won’t make this public because it will bring disrepute on Judaism. It’s about how to treat people with AIDS.”
Marc B. Shapiro emails me: “It is also the case that Israelis approach these matters differently than American haredim. What Israeli haredim often admire, is a turn-off for the typical American haredi. I have a collection of stories of haredi gedolim that appear in Israeli books but would never appear in English translation simply because it would be distressing for American haredim to see what these gedolim did and thought.”
In his first lecture for Torah in Motion on the Chatam Sofer, professor Marc B. Shapiro says: “The Chatam Sofer permitted using an umbrella [already opened] on the Sabbath within the eruv. I don’t know anyone who follows this psak (rabbinic ruling) today. The Chatam Sofer is not an extremist.”
“Today if you carry an umbrella on the Sabbath, I don’t think you’re permitted to be a witness at a wedding.”
“I know a haredi posek who says it is permitted to use an umbrella on Shabbos but tells people not to do it.”
“The Chatam Sofer says the Sabbath ends earlier than anyone says today.”
“Reb Moshe [Feinstein] forbade liquid soap on Shabbos but no one in his own family followed him.”
The Chatam Sofer began lecturing publicly at age 13. Early on, he declared his grandfather was wrong on something. His father slapped him and rebuked him for chutzpah.
The Chatam Sofer’s mentor, R. Nathan Adler, told him to have nothing to do with his father again. From that day on, the Chatam Sofer never spoke to his father. He treated his father with respect but never spoke to him. The Chatam Sofer went to live with Nathan Adler.
The Chatam Sofer did not marry until he was 25. Prior to that, to keep his hormones under control, he engaged in blood-letting.
During that time in Frankfurt, yeshiva students did not marry until about age 30.
The Chatam Sofer did not see his mother after he left Frankfurt with R. Nathan Adler. He could not leave because his yeshiva students would be without a Torah teacher if he left and teaching Torah is more important than visiting your mom.