To separate the wheat from the chaff on Tinder, my first question is always, “Have you read any good books lately?” So far I’ve had four interesting online conversations but no dates. I’m searching 18-40yo within ten miles.
I’m not asking that question because I want to discuss books with girls. I ask the question to winnow people out. Those who aren’t interested in the question are not ones I can spend time with because they bore me.
I have never been with a woman who did not enjoy reading books. Even the porn stars I dated love to read books.
I love it that all these people who’ve never used Tinder are coming out of the woodwork to instruct me that Tinder is a hook-up app.
Tinder is a form of technology like a phone or a fax. It is what you make of it. Why are all these people instructing me about Tinder when they’ve never used it? There’s just a vibe I give out that I’m stupid, please set me straight.
I only click on white girls. I’ve talked to four girls so far and all have been smart and accomplished, so smart that they have not gone out with me yet.