What Happened To Her Relationship Status On FB?

I’ve wasted a lot of time in therapy talking about my hopes for various women simply based on the fact that they removed their relationship status from Facebook and I hoped that meant they were ready for me to swoop in, but it’s never rolled that way.

If a woman has left her relationship, then I understand her removing that status from her Facebook “About” profile, but what confuses me is when women stay in relationships but remove that info from Facebook. Why? Does she hope that by giving the appearance of availability, she’ll raise her escorting rates? Or have more room to flirt her way ahead? Is she doing it to punish her boyfriend or husband? I suspect that’s the main reason. I think the main reason we do anything, or pretty close to the main reason, is to hurt people.

What does it mean when a woman removes her relationship status from Facebook? One day she’s married, the next day there’s no mention of that. One day she’s in a relationship, the next day that status is removed. I’m not talking about changing status from in a relationship to single, etc, but simply the removal of any relationship status while her real life relationship remains. ‪#‎confused‬

I wish I could pull off a mullet again. Then women wouldn’t mess with me like this.

I’ve wasted a lot of time at parties chatting up women who turned out to be married. Sometimes I’d invest an hour in a woman and we’d be in her car and I’m firing on all verbal cylinders, giving her my A-game, and as I lean over and place my hand on her knee, she tells me she’s married. I’ve taken a girl out on a date to shul and as we’re outside in the night looking at the scenery and my arm is going around her waist, she then tells me that she’s married. #confused

About Luke Ford

I've written five books (see Amazon.com). My work has been covered in the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, and on 60 Minutes. I teach Alexander Technique in Beverly Hills (Alexander90210.com).
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