I was on my second date with this woman.
She said that she couldn’t figure me out. Most people she could figure them out immediately, but I was a mystery, and this compelled her attention. And despite my $45,000 in credit card debt, I was cruising for a third date.
To the extent I’ve had success with women, it’s because they found me interesting. When they figured me out, usually a few months into the relationship, then we were on to a whole new level of challenge, one I’ve usually failed.