I Am My Show

I’m realizing that my Youtube show (preparation, delivery and aftermath) is about 50% of my life, and deleting a show is like deleting a part of myself. When the shows goes badly, I feel bad. When the show goes well, I feel well.

My therapist years ago said I was inflexible, that I have a problem dealing with frustration, and that I cut people out of my life too easily rather than negotiate with them.

I’m getting feedback that I get way too wounded from conflict on the show.

I have more empathy today for hosts who routinely cut people out of their life publicly and putting them in his black book if he feels they are deliberately sabotaging his show or trying to hurt him (as opposed to disagreeing or criticizing).

It’s exhausting rounding up people for a show, getting their sound and video levels right, and keeping up an interesting discussion within Youtube’s increasingly narrow terms of service.

Usually cutting people out of your life is self-destructive. I would like to think I no longer cut people out of my life, that I may pause or reduce the relationship instead, and I try to remember that time heals all wounds.

I’ve put a great deal of effort into getting the technical aspects of my show right, but the number one factor deciding how many people will watch is the guests. The care and maintenance of guests and panelists determines the success of shows like mine. When the content of a show is a vigorous discussion, it is easy to fall out with people. Also, most people who have the time and inclination to go on a Youtube show are anti-social.

To the extent that I’ve succeeded in this regard, I owe it to:

* Living up to my word (includes punctuality).
* Finding topics of mutual interest.
* Being a generous host. Not trying to hog the mic. Not being afraid of allowing others to shine and allowing myself to fade into the background at times.
* Getting clarity on my values so I can make the tough decisions.
* Staying out of feuds. I don’t trash people.
* When I passionately disagree, I try to focus my disagreement on specific words and deeds rather than the totality of a person.
* My code of conduct.
* If the show makes money, after the first $200 a month for my expenses, I share it 50-50 with my guests.
* Courtesy and empathy

Regulars on my show have felt betrayed when I have:

* Changed my mind on key issues.
* Decided to take the show in a new direction.
* Decided to part ways.
* Have not listened carefully and not bothered to respond to their points.
* Allowed conversations and shows to get off track and lose coherence.
* When I have interrupted them for stupid reasons.
* Lack of courtesy and empathy
* When my comments violate their sense of decency
* Made them look bad, left them feeling sand-bagged

When I am operating the show, much of my mind is taken up by the mechanics of the show and I have much less space for developing thoughts and listening to my guests. I love going on Joseph Cotto’s show as a guest because I can concentrate solely on ideas.

I notice that when I’m running a show and talking to guests, I tend to lose my own thoughts if I listen carefully, and if I compose my own thoughts en media res, I don’t listen carefully. I notice on many of my shows, we all tend to prioritize the development of our own thoughts over listening to each other.

I notice that the most easy going guests tend to be the least reliable and that the most reliable people are the least easy going.

Every person you add to a show is potentially explosive. It is not uncommon that adding one new person drives away other regulars. So often I am thinking that I am adding to my show by bringing on someone new but in the end, what has been added does not add up to what was lost. It is very easy to lose something good and very hard to recapture it. Also, as you bring on new people, you not only add viewers, you also lose viewers.

I need to bring about five times my normal amount of conversational energy to a show or it falls flat.

When you bring a friend on the show, there’s a good chance you’ll blow up the friendship.

There are rarely permanent friends or allies on a show, only shifting alliances.

I’ve heard that a marriage needs at least a 4-1 ratio of positive interactions to negative to stay on track. It’s similar for hosting a regular panel. Once that ratio drops below 4:1, you’re in trouble.

The more important a panelist is for my show, the more tempting it is to squelch myself to get along but this lack of courage on my part eats away at the foundations of the show.

The best conversations are one on one. The more people you add to a conversation, the more shallow it gets.

“Dangerous content is the best content,” says a friend.

The more I hype the importance of what I am discussing, the more excitement I generate, the more engagement I get, just like football announcers hyping a game that’s 30-3 in the second quarter. The more intense my emotions, the more engagement, but this bad for me as a host and bad for you as a viewer. I get more money, fame and viewership the more I go in an anti-social directions. You want to tune into a show where the host says the story they are discussing is the most important event in your lifetime but 99% of the time, this is bad for you. 

Never try to pull someone out of hiding. What do wounded animals do when you try that? They bite you. It’s not their fault. It’s just their instinct.

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Be Not Afraid

Be not afraid is my motto. There’s no idea or book or fact or theory I am not willing to confront and analyze (though some I don’t think are productive uses of my time). I have no sacred cows. To borrow a perspective from AA, there’s no place we can’t go if we have a good reason for going there.

I’ve read Mein Kampf three times. My happiness and sanity was not in the least affected. There were nights I let the audio version play for eight hours as I drifted in and out of sleep. I was always struck by Adolf’s childish desire for a magic key to unlock how the world works.

I’ve read The Communist Manifesto and The Prince and other dangerous books. I was not scathed.

Chaim: “Luke, just food for thought about responsibility when it comes to others behavior. What about ‘Lifnay Iver Lo titen michshole’ Leviticus 19: 14. “Do not curse the deaf or put a stumbling block in front of the blind, but fear your God. I am the Lord.” Should we consider the blindness (maturity) discernability/wisdom/ propensity for bad behavior by our intended audience before introducing material to them?”

It’s a beautiful admonition. We should be heedful of our affect on other people, but we should not cross over to believing that we are responsible for their choices. We can’t control anyone but ourselves. The first thing I learned about in therapy was boundaries. Lack of them has been a lifelong problem. I instinctively want to take responsibility for stuff that is not my responsibility and shirk responsibility for stuff that is my responsibility. I’m still learning where I end and others begin, and I still feel the old tug to feel guilty and involved in stuff that is not mine.

I’ve long found it easier to get all wrapped up in the lives of others instead of taking charges of my own. I still have vestigial tugs of this dysfunction, an inner voice that keeps popping up, saying you should feel guilty over what you suggested to XYZ and how that didn’t work out for him, and my pre-frontal cortex bats that voice back down and says let go.

Pete: “What if the audience is a minor?”

If the audience is a minor, you still can’t control them. Parents can’t fully control a 2yo. Minors have less agency than adults in general (some smart 11yos have more agency than some low IQ adults will ever have) so we need to be more careful with them. If a 12yo decides to kill himself, that’s not usually the primary responsibility of his parents or his friends.

Chaim: “But the biblical injunction would find ethical fault with someone for let’s say inviting out a former alchoholic for a beer.”

There’s a world of difference between “ethical fault” and responsibility. If you knowingly invite an alcoholic for a drink, you don’t have responsibility for him. You have however exhibited an ethical fault.

Pete: “One question I do have for Luke: now that you’ve seen how someone with a PhD could respond to Mein Kampf, do you have any reservations about suggesting others study MK? Because it seems like there is empirical evidence that it is equivalent to suggesting someone try meth.”

No. Anyone who loses his mind after reading Mein Kampf has a pathology that the book becomes an excuse to exhibit. Without the Kampf, the pathology would simply exhibit itself in other ways.

Former Orthodox rabbi David Gruber told me in 2008: “A year and a half into my three year contract, I’d always been very liberal and skeptical. I’d always asked questions that other people didn’t ask and troubled by stuff that maybe didn’t trouble other people. I was pretty comfortable knocking those square pegs into round holes from time to time.

“Then something clicked. It was The Limits of Orthodox Theology by Dr. Marc Shapiro. He’d probably be devastated but what are you going to do?

[Marc Shapiro replies to my inquiry: “One never knows how people will be affected by what you write. But I would think that the book would show him that you can still be Torah observant and not have to be so strongly bound to dogma.”]

John: “The first wave of Norwegians to leave for America in any numbers were nonconformist Protestants. This because in the early 19th century it was illegal for a Norwegian to be anything but the Church of Norway. So all nonconformist Protestants were essentially bullied to leave. I still don’t think Melchy is an extremist. I just think Melchy is an eccentric, and like R. Spencer he thinks aloud on livestream. Which is a mistake if you work in academia. I don’t have any problems with people talking about in and out groups. Every age has its own dogmas though. The only man who participated in Charlottesville who I’ve gained respect for afterwards is Jason Kessler. I still don’t know how Jason Kessler’s legal battles is gonna go, but he at least made the effort.”

Chaim: “There is a list of banned books that I made some headway into. But they are all novels written in English like Ulysses, Lady Chatterly’s Lover, Jude The Obscure. I read Who Wrote the Bible? by Richard Elliot Friedman at age 20, and realized I was not orthodox, or modern orthodox, not just lapsed but I’d say the book changed me in a profound way. I don’t know if this ‘redpilling’ was socially beneficial at the time. I was never the same again, but appreciated the bible in a new way, perhaps even appreciated its genius more as the work of men. I wanted to read it and feel confident I could expose myself to its questions. So I disagree there Luke.”

Do you think anyone who wanted to stay frum would have gone off the derech after reading that? I don’t.

Chaim: “Torah u’madah can’t survive critical theory of the bible, and the mocking of the Wellhausen model from then on seemed to be that of an ignoramus.”

Orthodox Judaism is the most powerful social model for Jewish life. Every other form of Jewish identity pales in comparison.

Pete: “The media bears responsibility too though. There is shared responsibility. People go there whole lives with repressed pathologies. Why help bring them it to the surface? I mean… who is inciting all these blacks to violence? Who is pushing false narratives of black victimhood on tv? Does Mein Kampf have a lesson for us here? Are there parallels?”

Nobody is rioting whose morals would preclude it. The only looters are those who want to loot and the media gives them blessing.

Chaim: “The enzyme metaphor is useful. It speeds up but does not cause a chemical reaction.”

“What if you gave an STD to someone?”

You harmed someone but the party that chooses to participate in sex with you bears some responsibility for their choice. If you give your wife an STD, that’s terrible and that’s on you, but it is also the price she paid for staying married to you despite your dysfunction and thus she chose to expose herself to a man who makes poor choices. If she had it all together, she would not have been with this man in the first place. Like attracts like. Yes, he gave her an STD, but this did not occur in a vacuum.

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LAT: As peaceful protests continue, LAPD budget could be cut by up to $150 million to reinvest in communities of color

LA mayor Eric Garcetti’s father Gil Garcetti let OJ Simpson get away with murder by moving the case to downtown Los Angeles. His son Eric takes a knee before the people looting the city. Now he wants to take away $150 million from law enforcement and give it to groups who fuel rioting.

Eric Garcetti threatened jail for people who dared to walk on the beach during the lockdown but he encourages these mass protests. Maybe Dennis Prager is right that the LA mayor and California governor are power mad and unhinged.

I like many things about our mayor. I like his calm demeanor, his understated sense of humor, and his grace. Lacking sufficient knowledge, I did not oppose or support the Covid-19 lockdown. I was willing to give the mayor and governor the benefit of the doubt on their Covid-19 response. Now I don’t know any positive way of looking at their Covid-19 choices given that they threw away everything they previously stood for when BLM (Black Lives Matter) came calling.

As for this media fetishization with “peaceful protests”, the riots and looting could not occur as extensively without the cover of these “peaceful protests.” The “peaceful protests” enable the looting and violence. They are a necessary pre-condition for the violence. And yet hundreds of corporations and Democratic politicians support BLM, which is a domestic terrorist group.

The Los Angeles Times described the protests yesterday as “peaceful.” Here’s an example of this “peaceful protest” from the afternoon of June 3:

From the Los Angeles Times:

As protests over police brutality and the death of George Floyd stretched into a sixth day, Los Angeles officials said Wednesday that they will look to cut $100 million to $150 million from the city’s police budget as part of a broader effort to reinvest more dollars into the black community.

In all, Mayor Eric Garcetti pledged that the city would “identify $250 million in cuts so we can invest in jobs, in health, in education and in healing,” especially in the city’s black community “as well as communities of color and women and people who have been left behind.”

Stand your ground doesn’t just apply to the use of guns. It’s a good philosophy for life when you consistently do the right thing.

Ashley Rae Goldenberg writes:

Here Are The Companies That Support Antifa, Black Lives Matter, and Want You Dead

Companies defending the rioters:
23andme: https://archive.is/Mjbwk
72andSunny: https://archive.is/B1x7Y
Abbey Road Studios: https://archive.is/AJlrg
The Academy (the Oscars): https://archive.is/cNRYf
Activision Blizzard: https://archive.is/qfRJ1
Adidas: https://archive.is/ezQ22
Airbnb: https://archive.is/GmMjl
Alaska Airlines: https://archive.is/wnICf
Amazon: https://archive.is/lBR4u
American Airlines: https://archive.is/XBwhw
American Express: https://archive.is/kzWXa
American Apparel: https://archive.is/ETfYw
Apple Music: https://archive.is/cj97E
Astro Gaming: https://archive.is/9aWhf
AT&T: https://archive.is/OzC04
Atlantic Records: https://archive.is/65QQq
AWS: https://archive.is/NXNAG
AXE: https://archive.is/Xpxhw
Barnes & Noble: https://archive.is/PCPKn
Bank of America: https://archive.is/FH1O0
Bergdorf Goodman: https://archive.is/nQiPA
Bethesda: https://archive.is/2xeNE
Ben & Jerry’s: https://archive.is/BqHRv
Billboard: https://archive.is/Ruuv8
BMW: https://archive.is/lRN51
Boost Mobile: https://archive.is/pLnAf
Bratz: https://archive.is/vOA1d
Bungie: https://archive.is/81KHV
Burberry: https://archive.is/ha0jP
Call of Duty: https://archive.is/DEJA6
Capcom: https://archive.is/S1BgN
Capitol Records: https://archive.is/jeUpY
Canada Goose: https://archive.is/y2nLo
Cisco: https://archive.is/fNvdP
Citigroup: https://archive.is/36fkF
Conde Nast: https://archive.is/ChMdI
Converse: https://archive.is//sKjmg
Crunchyroll: https://archive.is/q7Ucj
CW: https://archive.is/JumZU
CVS: https://archive.is/DbBSV
Dell: https://archive.is/IeI9j
Degree: https://archive.is/SItaW
Devolver Digital: https://archive.is/xcaEH
DIRECTV: https://archive.is/hhBG4
Discord: https://archive.is/hGtDw
Disney: https://archive.is/wldfM
Doritos: https://archive.is/nLHv0
DoorDash: https://archive.is/vhTW2
Doulingo: https://archive.is/v9Wpk
E! News: https://archive.is/3PJyz
EA: https://archive.is/92ALS
Eight Sleep: https://archive.is/IiV7n
ESPN: https://archive.is/1I5Tf
FedEx: https://archive.is/kKVJp
Fender: https://archive.is/OGjBM
Formula 1: https://archive.is/FCpBG
FOX: https://archive.is/p2BvT
Frosted Mini Wheats: https://archive.is/vrEYN
Funimation: https://archive.is/sfN8E
GameSpot: https://archive.is/zEkO3
Gibson: https://archive.is/qJYZY
Goldman Sachs: https://archive.is/TA2h0
GoFundMe: https://archive.is/Be0fJ
Google: https://archive.is/DK2T8
Gorilla Glue: https://archive.is/0R9ya
Grindr: https://archive.is/Z6KcW
Harry’s: https://archive.is/mE4NN
HBO: https://archive.is/oiUyY
HBO Max: https://archive.is/LGsPt
Help Scout: https://archive.is//D8DCs
Hershey’s: https://archive.is/ZQ5zD
H&M: https://archive.is/A9ONJ
HP: https://archive.is/BO2tc
Hulu: https://archive.is/4CyO2
Humble Bundle: https://archive.is/YXDb6
IBM: https://archive.is/ij3Q1
Indiegogo: https://archive.is/jrDZk
itch.io: https://archive.is/UTsTi
Intel: https://archive.is/93D5q
IKEA: https://archive.is/piwcs
ITV: https://archive.is/yD1pS
Kickstarter: https://archive.is/0zwng
Lego: https://archive.is/UKFhD
Levi’s: https://archive.is/KizLO
LinkedIn: https://archive.is/sX5zb
L’Oreal Paris: https://archive.is/Jfelo
Logitech: https://archive.is/vf6J7
Lululemon: https://archive.is/rjCRV
Louis Vuitton: https://archive.is/nGZe8
Lyft: https://archive.is/UXl3k
Madden NFL 20: https://archive.is/CTUoi
Marvel Entertainment: https://archive.is/Ptup6
MATTEL: https://archive.is/bvsqN
McAfee: https://archive.is/IGXA1
McDonald’s: https://archive.is/jOZ65
Mercedes Benz: https://archive.is/bs8y6
Metropolitan Opera: https://archive.fo/wecQ2
Microsoft: https://archive.is/A7Vjv
Napster: https://archive.is/fVY1s
NASCAR: https://archive.is/LG2hU
Netflix: https://archive.is/UVSEr
NFL: https://archive.is/G4yq4
NHL: https://archive.is/lYbyG
Niantic: https://archive.is/UdKYR
Nickelodeon: https://archive.is/JWSPQ
Nike: https://archive.is/UXYBy
Nintendo: https://archive.is/5UOjp
Nordstrom: https://archive.is/A7mUU
North Face: https://archive.is/rq1Cb
Old Spice: https://archive.is/1UK5d
Paramount Pictures: https://archive.is/ixXHd
Paramount Network: https://archive.is/BCAX3
Patreon: https://archive.is/wzfM5
Peloton: https://archive.is/d36k7
Playstation: https://archive.is/52Vvl
Pokemon: https://archive.is/p9zuP
Popeye’s Chicken: https://archive.is/CzlHd
Pop-Tarts: https://archive.is/8cMGG
Porsche: https://archive.is/VrmlZ
Pringles: https://archive.is/1WpA1
Procter & Gamble: https://archive.is/JSMO4
Reddit: https://archive.is/H09M8
Red Lobster: https://archive.is/aIUyy
Reebok: https://archive.is/v0nat
Reese’s: https://archive.is/Rc4pJ
Rice Krispies: https://archive.is/U4Zn9
Riot Games: https://archive.is/2XH97
Salesforce: https://archive.is/t1qZB
Sanofi: https://archive.is//ErmGO
Scholastic: https://archive.is/fFmX3
Sesame Street: https://archive.is/5he9K
Showtime: https://archive.is/YTPVw
Slack: https://archive.is/gF9ym
Sephora: https://archive.is/Gm7Rc
Skillshare: https://archive.is/JX5em
Snap: https://archive.is/HcGGQ
Snapchat: https://archive.is/5reL4
State Street: https://archive.is/gnqt0
Sony: https://archive.is/1PtlU
Spotify: https://archive.is/ufTeo
Square Enix: https://archive.is/qmPIX
STARZ: https://archive.is/eQ4YG
Starbucks: https://archive.is/EENlS
Star Wars: https://archive.is/xnSgt
Subway: https://archive.is/D5F8H
Taco Bell: https://archive.is/LLY9l
Target: https://archive.is/YoIrO
TBS: https://archive.is/N0QhU
Tesco: https://archive.is/hZS7B
Thatgamecompany: https://archive.is/7po1C
TikTok: https://archive.is/bt2vy
Timberland: https://archive.is/HZtxv
Tinder: https://archive.is/YaY2y
TMobile: https://archive.is//KB2lG
Twitch: https://archive.is/DAmR5
Twitter: https://archive.is/auIgi
Ubisoft: https://archive.is/0qMff
Uber: https://archive.is/RrScn
UnitedHealth Group: https://archive.is/rzQXF
Vans: https://archive.is/5nYag
Verizon: https://archive.is/hPZoJ
VERSACE: https://archive.is/wWsxK
Vevo: https://archive.is/MVtrR
Via: https://archive.is/fFIvU
ViacomCBS: https://archive.is/uCGXy
Virgin Records: https://archive.is/QiykN
Virta: https://archive.is/7e9KT
VIZ: https://archive.is/eMuIW
Warner Bros https://archive.is/F1Tqn
Warner Records: https://archive.is/Mm6qb
Wendy’s: https://archive.is/7X4Nu
XBox: https://archive.is/6zdVS
YouTube: https://archive.is/5qz6a
Zildijian: https://archive.fo/o6Tqi

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Drew Brees Apologizes For ‘Insensitive’ Comments on Kneeling During Anthem: ‘I Stand With the Black Community’

It takes great courage to be outside the consensus in your field.

Report:

New Orleans Saints quarterback Drew Brees apologized on Thursday for opposing kneeling during the national anthem amid nationwide protests over the death of George Floyd.

Brees faced heavy criticism on Wednesday over comments he made during an interview with Yahoo, where he said about kneeling, “I will never agree with anybody disrespecting the flag of the United States of America or our country.”

In an Instagram post on Thursday, Brees wrote, “I would like to apologize to my friends, teammates, the City of New Orleans, the black community, NFL community and anyone I hurt with my comments yesterday. In speaking with some of you, it breaks my heart to know the pain I have caused.”

In other words, please don’t hurt me.

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Most News Is Unimportant

On a scale of 1-10, with 1 representing reality TV and 10 representing nuclear cataclysm, I think of Covid-19 as a 7 (I think before it is done it will likely take away millions of years of quality of life from Americans), these riots as a 3, and Russiagate and impeachment proceedings against Donald Trump as a 1.

The longer these riots go on, the better they will be for Trump’s re-election and for Republican prospects.

I notice that the more time I spend watching the news and listening to talk radio, the more unhappy I get because these mediums have a formula that enraging people promotes engagement. Enraging posts on social media get more engagement.

Dennis Prager talks about America being in a non-shooting civil war. This is exciting rhetoric. It makes you want to tune in to his show. It elevates his importance because when you buy his analysis, you want more of it because the things he talks about are life and death.

I think this particular analysis is largely bogus. We are nowhere close to a civil war, shooting or non-shooting. People of different politics get along about as well as they ever did (according to some surveys while other surveys show a significant deterioration).

If these riots presaged something awful for America, the stock market would reflect that. It doesn’t. The stock market has held steady during these riots and even gone up.

I don’t think Covid-19 will wreck America. The stock market is at about 85% of its record high. The smart money does not bet we have disaster looming.

The formula for success in many fields, including media, is often to do things that are socially destructive.

Reddit: “I am a news reporter at a conservative radio station. This is part of a document my boss asked me to read.”

The Lund Talk Radio Stylebook Page 4 of 50

To succeed, a talk show host must perpetuate the notion that his or her listeners are victims, and the host is the vehicle by which they can become empowered. The host frames virtually every issue in us-versus-them terms. There has to be a bad guy against whom the host will emphatically defend those loyal listeners.

The enemy can be a politician — either a Democratic officeholder or, in rare cases where no Democrat is convenient to blame, it can be a “RINO” (a “Republican In Name Only,” who is deemed not conservative enough. It can be the cold cruel government bureaucracy. More often than not, however, the enemy is the “mainstream media…”

Forget any notion, however, that radio talk shows are supposed to be fair, evenhanded discussions featuring a diversity of opinions. The Fairness Doctrine, which required this, was repealed 20 years ago. So talk shows can be, and are, all about the host’s opinions, analyses and general worldview. Programmers learned long ago that benign conversations led by hosts who present all sides of an issue don’t attract large audiences.

This excerpt seems to come from a longer essay reprinted on Alternet:

To begin with, talk show hosts such as Charlie Sykes – one of the best in the business – are popular and powerful because they appeal to a segment of the population that feels disenfranchised and even victimized by the media. These people believe the media are predominantly staffed by and consistently reflect the views of social liberals. This view is by now so long-held and deep-rooted, it has evolved into part of virtually every conservative’s DNA.

To succeed, a talk show host must perpetuate the notion that his or her listeners are victims, and the host is the vehicle by which they can become empowered. The host frames virtually every issue in us-versus-them terms. There has to be a bad guy against whom the host will emphatically defend those loyal listeners.

This enemy can be a politician – either a Democratic officeholder or, in rare cases where no Democrat is convenient to blame, it can be a “RINO” (a “Republican In Name Only,” who is deemed not conservative enough). It can be the cold, cruel government bureaucracy. More often than not, however, the enemy is the “mainstream media” – local or national, print or broadcast.

Sometimes, it can even be their own station’s news director. One year, Charlie targeted me because I had instructed my midday news anchor to report the Wimbledon tennis results, even though the matches wouldn’t be telecast until much later in the day. Charlie gave out my phone number and e-mail address on the air. I was flooded with hate mail, nasty messages, and even one death threat from a federal law enforcement agent whom I knew to be a big Charlie fan.

In the talk radio business, this concept, which must be mastered to be successful, is called “differentiating” yourself from the rest of the media. It is a brilliant marketing tactic that has also helped Fox News Channel thrive. “We report, you decide” and “Fair and Balanced” are more than just savvy slogans. They are code words signaling that only Fox will report the news in a way conservatives see as objective and truthful.

Forget any notion, however, that radio talk shows are supposed to be fair, evenhanded discussions featuring a diversity of opinions. The Fairness Doctrine, which required this, was repealed 20 years ago. So talk shows can be, and are, all about the host’s opinions, analyses and general worldview. Programmers learned long ago that benign conversations led by hosts who present all sides of an issue don’t attract large audiences. That’s why Kathleen Dunn was forced out at WTMJ in the early ’90s and why Jim and Andee were replaced in the mid-’90s by Dr. Laura. Pointed and provocative are what win.

There is no way to win a disagreement with Charlie Sykes. Calls from listeners who disagree with him don’t get on the air if the show’s producer, who generally does the screening, fears they might make Charlie look bad…

One entire group that rarely gets on the air are the elderly callers – unless they have something extraordinary to say. Sadly, that doesn’t happen often. The theory is that old-sounding callers help produce old-skewing audiences. The target demo is 25 to 54, not 65 and older…

The stereotyped liberal view of the talk radio audience is that it’s a lot of angry, uneducated white men. In fact, the audience is far more diverse. Many are businesspeople, doctors, lawyers, academics, clergy, or soccer moms and dads. Talk show fans are not stupid. They will detect an obvious phony. The best hosts sincerely believe everything they say. Their passion is real. Their arguments have been carefully crafted in a manner they know will be meaningful to the audience, and that validates the views these folks were already thinking.

Yet while talk show audiences aren’t being led like lemmings to a certain conclusion, they can be carefully prodded into agreement with the Republican views of the day.

Conservative talk show hosts would receive daily talking points e-mails from the Bush White House, the Republican National Committee and, during election years, GOP campaign operations. They’re not called talking points, but that’s what they are. I know, because I received them, too. During my time at WTMJ, Charlie would generally mine the e-mails, then couch the daily message in his own words. Midday talker Jeff Wagner would be more likely to rely on them verbatim. But neither used them in their entirety, or every single day.

Charlie and Jeff would also check what other conservative talk show hosts around the country were saying. Rush Limbaugh’s Web site was checked at least once daily. Atlanta-based nationally syndicated talker Neal Boortz was another popular choice. Select conservative blogs were also perused.

A smart talk show host will, from time to time, disagree publicly with a Republican president, the Republican Party, or some conservative doctrine. (President Bush’s disastrous choice of Harriet Miers for the Supreme Court was one such example.) But these disagreements are strategically chosen to prove the host is an independent thinker, without appreciably harming the president or party. This is not to suggest that hosts don’t genuinely disagree with the conservative line at times. They do, more often than you might think. But they usually keep it to themselves.

One of the things that makes a talk show host good – especially hosts of the caliber of Sykes – is that his or her arguments seem so solid. You fundamentally disagree with the host, yet can’t refute the argument because it sounds so airtight. The host has built a strong case with lots of supporting facts.

Generally speaking, though, those facts have been selectively chosen because they support the host’s preconceived opinion, or can be interpreted to seem as if they do. In their frustration, some talk show critics accuse hosts of fabricating facts. Wrong. Hosts do gather evidence, but in a way that modifies the old Joe Friday maxim: “Just the facts that I can use to make my case, ma’am.”

Hint: The more talk show hosts squawk about something – the louder their voice, the greater their emotion, the more effusive their arguments – the more they’re worried about the issue. For example, talk show hosts eagerly participated in the 2004 Swift Boating of John Kerry because they really feared he was going to win. This is a common talk show tactic: If you lack compelling arguments in favor of your candidate or point of view, attack the other side. These attacks often rely on two key rhetorical devices, which I call You Know What Would Happen If and The Preemptive Strike.

Using the first strategy, a host will describe something a liberal has said or done that conservatives disagree with, but for which the liberal has not been widely criticized, and then say, “You know what would happen if a conservative had said (or done) that? He (or she) would have been filleted by the ‘liberal media.’ ” This is particularly effective because it’s a two-fer, simultaneously reinforcing the notion that conservatives are victims and that “liberals” are the enemy.

The second strategy, The Preemptive Strike, is used when a host knows that news reflecting poorly on conservative dogma is about to break or become more widespread. When news of the alleged massacre at Haditha first trickled out in the summer of 2006, not even Iraq War chest-thumper Charlie Sykes would defend the U.S. Marines accused of killing innocent civilians in the Iraqi village. So he spent lots of air time criticizing how the “mainstream media” was sure to sensationalize the story in the coming weeks. Charlie would kill the messengers before any message had even been delivered.

Good talk show hosts can get their listeners so lathered up that they truly can change public policy. They can inspire like-minded folks to flood the phone lines and e-mail inboxes of aldermen, county supervisors, legislators and federal lawmakers. They can inspire their followers to vote for candidates the hosts prefer. How? By pounding away on an issue or candidate, hour after hour, day after day. Hosts will extol the virtues of the favored candidate or, more likely, exploit whatever Achilles heel the other candidate might have. Influencing elections is more likely to occur at the local rather than national level, but that still gives talk radio power.

By the way, here’s a way to prognosticate elections just by listening to talk shows: Except in presidential elections, when they will always carry water for the Republican nominee, conservative hosts won’t hurt their credibility by backing candidates they think can’t win. So if they’re uncharacteristically tepid, or even silent, about a particular race, that means the Democrat has a good chance of winning. Nor will hosts spend their credibility on an issue where they know they disagree with listeners. Charlie, for example, told me just before I left TMJ that Wisconsin’s 2006 anti-gay marriage amendment was misguided. But he knew his followers would likely vote for it in droves. So he declined to speak out directly against it.

This brings us to perhaps the most ironic thing about most talk show hosts. Though they may savage politicians and others they oppose, they fear criticism or critiques of any kind. They can dish it out, but they can’t take it.

One day during a very bad snowstorm, I walked into the studio during a commercial break and suggested to Charlie that he start talking about it rather than whatever conservative topic he’d been discussing. Charlie assumed, as he usually did in such situations, that I was being critical of his topic. In reaction, he unplugged his head phones, stood up and told me that I might as well take over the show because he wasn’t going to change his topic. I was able to quickly strike a bargain before the end of the break. He agreed to take a few calls about the storm, but if it didn’t a strike a nerve with callers, he could return to his original topic.

The snowstorm was the topic of the rest of his show that day. And afterward, Charlie came to my office and admitted I’d been right. But we would go through scenarios such as this many times through the years.

Another tense moment arose when the Harley-Davidson 100th anniversary was captivating the community – and our on-air coverage – in 2003, but Charlie wanted to talk about school choice for seemingly the 100,000th time. He literally threw a fit, off the air and on, belittling other hosts, the news department and station management for devoting resources to Harley’s 100th coverage. “The Green House” newsman Phil Cianciola countered that afternoon with a joke about Charlie riding a Harley wearing loafers. Charlie complained to management about Phil and wouldn’t speak civilly about him in my presence again.

Hosts are most dangerous when someone they’ve targeted for criticism tries to return the fire. It is foolish to enter into a dispute with someone who has a 50,000-watt radio transmitter at his or her disposal and feels cornered. Oh, and calling a host names – “right-winger,” “fascist,” “radio squawker,” etc. – merely plays into his or her hands. This allows a host like Sykes to portray himself as a victim of the “left-wing spin machine,” and will leave his listeners, who also feel victimized, dying to support him. In essence, the host will mount a Hillary Rodham Clinton “vast right-wing conspiracy” attack in reverse.

A conservative emulating Hillary? Yep. A great talk show host is like a great college debater, capable of arguing either side of any issue in a logical, thorough and convincing manner. This skill ensures their continuing success regardless of which political party is in power. For example:

• In the talk show world, the line-item veto was the most effective way to control government spending when Ronald Reagan was president; it was a violation of the separation of powers after President Clinton took office.

• Perjury was a heinous crime when Clinton was accused of lying under oath about his extramarital activities. But when Scooter Libby, Vice President Dick Cheney’s top aide, was charged with lying under oath, it was the prosecutor who had committed an egregious act by charging Libby with perjury.

• “Activist judges” are the scourge of the earth when they rule it is unconstitutional to deny same-sex couples the rights heterosexuals receive. But judicial activism is needed to stop the husband of a woman in a persistent vegetative state – say Terri Schiavo – from removing her feeding tube to end her suffering.

To amuse myself while listening to a talk show, I would ask myself what the host would say if the situation were reversed. What if alleged D.C. Madam client Sen. David Vitter had been a Democrat? Would the reaction of talk show hosts have been so quiet you could hear crickets chirping? Hardly.

Or what if former Rep. Mark Foley had been a Democrat? Would his pedophile-like tendencies have been excused as a “prank” or mere “overfriendly e-mails?” Not on the life of your teenage son.

Suppose Al Gore was president and ordered an invasion of Iraq without an exit strategy. Suppose this had led to the deaths of more than 4,000 U.S. troops and actually made that part of the world less stable. Would talk show hosts have dismissed criticism of that war as unpatriotic? No chance.

Or imagine that John Kerry had been president during Hurricane Katrina and that his administration’s rescue and rebuilding effort had been horribly botched. Would talk show hosts have branded him a great president? Of course not.

It was Katrina, finally, that made me truly see the light. Until then, 10 years into my time at TMJ, while I might have disagreed with some stands the hosts took, I did think there were grounds for their constant criticism of the media. I had convinced myself that the national media had an intrinsic bias that was, at the very least, geographical if not ideological, to which talk radio could provide an alternative.

Then along came the worst natural disaster in U.S. history. Journalists risked their lives to save others as the storm hit the Gulf Coast. Afterward, journalists endured the stench and the filth to chronicle the events for a stunned world. Then they documented the monumental government incompetence for an outraged nation. These journalists became voices for the voiceless victims, pressing government officials to get help to those who needed it.

Yet, while New Orleans residents were still screaming for help from the rooftops of their flooded homes, journalists were targeted by talk show hosts, Charlie and Wagner among them. Not the government, but journalists. Stories detailing the federal government’s obvious slowness and inefficiency were part of an “angry left” conspiracy, they said. Talk show hosts who used e-mailed talking points from the conservative spin machine proclaimed the Katrina stories were part of a liberal “media template.” The irony would have been laughable if the story wasn’t so serious.

…I had seen and helped foster the transformation of AM radio and the rise of conservative hosts. They have a power that is unlikely to decline.

Their rise was also helped by liberals whose ideology, after all, emphasizes tolerance. Their friendly toleration of talk radio merely gave the hosts more credibility. Yet an attitude of intolerance was probably worse: It made the liberals look hypocritical, giving ammunition to talk show hosts who used it with great skill.

But the key reason talk radio succeeds is because its hosts can exploit the fears and perceived victimization of a large swath of conservative-leaning listeners. And they feel victimized because many liberals and moderates have ignored or trivialized their concerns and have stereotyped these Americans as uncaring curmudgeons.

Because of that, there will always be listeners who believe that Charlie Sykes, Jeff Wagner and their compatriots are the only members of the media who truly care about them.

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