Mayor reveals romantic link with TV newscaster

Duke Helfand and Steve Hymon write in the Los Angeles Times:

In November 2005 — four months after he was sworn into office — Villaraigosa was seen one evening by a resident of the Sherman Oaks condominium complex where Salinas lived at the time.

Jean Rouda recalled pulling into the garage about 9 p.m. and seeing Villaraigosa standing alone and buzzing to get into the building. Rouda said she recognized the mayor and was surprised that he had no security guards and that there was no limousine parked nearby. She said she and her niece entered the lobby, where they encountered Villaraigosa, who was wearing a dress shirt and slacks, and was carrying bags of takeout food and a bottle of wine.

The two women and Villaraigosa got into the elevator. He extended his hand to Rouda and introduced himself as Antonio.

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Villaraigosa’s Media Affair

David Zahniser writes in the LA Weekly:

On Tuesday, the Los Angeles Daily News finally got confirmation of Villaraigosa’s romance with Salinas, a political reporter who had already dated former council President Alex Padilla, among others. Daily News reporter Beth Barrett, with help from an interpreter, brilliantly went to the most obvious source, Villaraigosa’s mother-in-law, who said that the mayor told his wife that questions about his missing wedding ring were “none of her business.”

And yet despite the salacious details, information about the timing of the romance remained frustratingly fuzzy. After all, the woman dating the mayor had, as a reporter, covered Villaraigosa during many of his high-profile endeavors: staking out a position on illegal immigration, showing up on the scene of a gang shooting and, perhaps most notably, attempting to take over the Los Angeles Unified School District.

Salinas made her biggest splash last year when, camera operator in tow, she got a rare peek at the stash of toilet brushes sent to Villaraigosa after he delivered his famous “We clean your toilets” speech to a crowd of immigrants.

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Mickey Kaus Writes: ‘Luke Ford 1: LA Times 0’

Kaus writes on Slate.com:

This may be a first: If you watch the third local news video linked on this LAT page** ("Mirthala Salinas reports Villaraigosa’s separation") you’ll see the news of Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa’s separation from his wife announced last month on Telemundo by the reporter/anchorwoman with whom he has been having an affair.***

**–The LAT is now at least playing catch-up after having blown the story, beaten by both a lone blogger and its less stuffy rival, the Daily News. …

***–Villaraigosa didn’t say exactly when his relationship with the Telemundo reporter "evolved" from "friendship," but it seems obvious from the Daily News account that it’s been highly evolved for some time (i.e., since months before the June separation and Salinas’ Telemundo report about it ). …

More: When Villaraigosa announced his marital trouble last month, the hapless LAT, in its traditional life-draining thumbsucker, listed Gary Hart as one of the politicians who emerged from personal scandal "with their careers largely intact, or enhanced." I’m sure ex-Sen. Hart, now a prestigious HuffPo blogger, will be happy to learn this. …

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Erotic Photographer David Hoffman – The Hard-On And The Heartbreak

I’ve often thought of devoting my life to sex trafficking but David Hoffman is the real deal.

I met David towards the end of 2002, just before he was to leave for Europe to sleep with beautiful women and rescue their oppressed sisters.

I got him some work writing for my prestigious internet operations at prices ranging up to $100 a story.

Hoffman calls me back July 3, 2007.

"I thought I would settle in Budapest but it turned out to be a s— hole. You can smell the sewage. It’s awful. The girls are stunning. Every one of them. At every bus stop, I thought I was in a fashion show."

Luke: "You went there to combat sex trafficking."

David: "That never went off. I couldn’t speak Russian or Czech. They’re not going to let me near the girls because they don’t know me. I would be reduced to some menial task.

"On the date I was supposed to start the job, January 1, 2005, I came down violently ill and was ill for months."

Luke: "Did you get much writing done in Europe?"

David: "Luke, I don’t write anymore. When two separate publishers for Murdergate! The Presidency, The U.S Government, and the Politics of Murder failed to keep promise on their contract, I became discouraged about writing. I’d worked on that book for two solid years. I tried like a bitch to get it published."

I read Hoffman’s magnum opus. It accuses both president Bushes of arranging various sinister murders, leaving me depressed about our prospects for democracy and fulfillment in this fallen world.

Luke: "It sounds like you’ve been battling depression."

David: "No, my friend, I’ve been battling suicidal depression. I had an attempt in March of 2004 in Portland and then a serious attempt in December 2005 in Prague. I took 100 ten milligram valiums and 100 ten milligram ambiens and I washed it down with a bottle of whiskey. It should’ve been enough to kill a horse. I didn’t even close my eyes."

Luke: "What’s at the bottom of your depression?"

David: "Loneliness."

Luke: "What’s at the bottom of the loneliness?"

David: "Failed careers which produces lack of self-esteem. A man has to be active to feel self-esteem. Of course, I’m getting older and going bald."

David spent eight months in a Prague prison for firing tear gas canisters at a man outside his Prague apartment who was "f—ing with my electricity."

"When he refused to undo the damage, I opened up on him at point-blank range and I gave him the whole clip of eight shots. I didn’t do any damage to him, but he called the police. He’s the criminal but I was arrested."

"I was kept in a 250-year old prison that had been used by the Nazis and the Communists. Of course not many people speak English."

"They like to arrest black people there. They are very racist. Occasionally I would get a Nigerian or an Algerian who spoke English and we’d make friends. We were locked in our cells 23 hours a day. I would call it a form of low-level torture. I had two nervous breakdowns. I had to be hospitalized. I was kicked. I was slapped. I was laughed at."

Luke: "How has your life been since you returned to the United States [six months ago]?"

David: "I’m suffering from post-traumatic-stress-disorder. For the first four months, I had nightmares every night that I was being sliced by razor blades or put through a machine that would grind me up. I could feel the pain. The dreams have stopped but I’m going to have to see a psychologist."

"I’ve been moving from place to place. It’s been horrible. First I went to San Francisco but I found you can’t go home again. San Francisco has changed radically. They’ve got a new mayor who took away the welfare from the homeless people. This guy [Gavin Newsome] was like a Rudy Giuliani. San Francisco has developed a nasty edge and it depressed me."

"I moved to Massachusetts, which sucks. I’m leaving in Peabody, near Salem. It’s white-trashy. People are fat and disgusting. There are a lot of hispanics. They’re generally nice. They’re just disgusting."

Luke: "How are things with your parents?"

David: "They’re about 90. They have Alzheimers. Did you ever try to have a lasting and intelligent conversation with somebody with Alzheimers? It’s tricky. They’re still sending me money because of my [Chronic Fatigue Syndrome] disabilities."

Luke: "Are you allowed to live in the same state as your father?"

David: "My older brother wrote me in prison asking me to come home to Maryland to help take care of mom and dad. So I get home and say OK. I love my parents. And my brother said no way are you living here. We got into a big fight. I haven’t spoken to him in months.

"My dad said, ‘No way are you living in Maryland. I don’t even want you in the state [or he will cut off David’s trust fund].’ I was like, ‘Ohmigod, where’s the love? Where’s the caring?’

"I called Jewish Family Services to see if they would intervene. My dad hung up on them. I even went to a priest. My dad told him to go to hell."

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Revealed: The other woman in Antonio Villaraigosa’s life

In April 2005, I also broke the story that what the Los Angeles City Hall journalists were chattering about but not printing was their widespread belief that then mayor James Hahn’s wife had left him for another woman.

Nobody paid any attention.

Beth Barrett writes July 3, 2007 for the Los Angeles Daily News:

After months of dodging questions about the breakup of his marriage, Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa acknowledged Monday that he is involved in a romantic relationship with television newswoman Mirthala Salinas.

…Back in January, the buzz of the mayor’s marital trouble reached a fever pitch, prompting Villaraigosa to give [Jim Newton, then chief of the Times’ city-county bureau] an interview at Getty House, calling the reports "absolutely not true" and adding, "We are not separated."

But when Corina raised the same question about her husband’s wedding ring, she got a very different answer.

Basically, he said it was none of her business, according to Corina’s 88-year-old mother, Manuela Raigosa.

"At first he said he didn’t want to talk about it," she said in Spanish during a telephone interview last week.

"When she approached him again, he said that they could stay in the house and he would move out (of Getty House) … and if they didn’t like it, he would leave."

For the sometimes rocky marriage of the mayor and his wife, who merged their surnames Villar and Raigosa when they married some 20 years ago, it was the beginning of the end.

Daniel Hernandez writes:

The news was "the get" of L.A. for 2007, with reporters at the L.A. Times, the Weekly, the DN, and certainly several others all clamoring to find enough sources who would confirm it. Congrats, as it were, to Beth Barrett. LAObserved has this good summary post. In any event, this is relevant because the mayor, by his own design, is as pop as Paris Hilton. And because there’s an obvious ethical line being crossed by both parties. Otherwise, it’s pretty sad.

I suspect that the mayor has been with Salinas for over a year, including time that she was covering him as a reporter.

I doubt that the mayor has had only one woman in his bed the past two years.

Eric Longabardi writes:

“She loves to have relationships with politicians,” one inside source at NBC tells ERSNews.com exclusively. “She’s a ‘power f***er!” This source also tells ERS News that Mayor Villaraigosa’s latest dalliance, Mirthala Salinas, a political reporter for NBC’s Telemundo is not the Mayor’s last. “He’s now dating one of the members of his LAPD protective detail,” this source revealed.

Assembly Speaker, Fabio Nunez, one of Villaraigosa’s best friends, also had an affair with Salinas from the summer of 2003 until after his swearing in as Assembly Speaker in February 2004. The Speaker’s office confirmed to ERSNews.com that while the Speaker was divorced from his wife Maria (they have since remarried), Nunez and Salinas had a romantic relationship. Salinas attended Nunez’s swearing in as Speaker of the Assembly. Sources also tell ERSNews.com that Salinas would regularly fly to Sacramento to see the Speaker. One insider at Telemundo said that “everybody in the newsroom knew all about it and management did nothing about it.”

Tabloid Baby speculates.

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Everyday Holiness

Saturday morning, I figured it would be just a one sefer service. So I walked off to shul with only Everyday Holiness by Alan Morinis in my sinful little hand.

The book didn’t look too exciting but I figured it would be morally improving.

As I moved through the first chapters, impatience began to take hold of me. There was nothing in here that was new. There was nothing that I hadn’t heard a dozen times from the pulpit. Why do people bother to write books if they don’t have something to say? Is it just for the ego trip of publishing a book?

I thought about the first two books of Rabbi Daniel Gordis. The guy is supposed to be brilliant but his first books contributed nothing. (Though I didn’t bother with his book on raising Jewish kids, I was thrilled by his work on Israel — If A Place Can Make You Cry. I say that if it took suicide bombers to explode Gordis out of his somnolent state, then that was a small price to pay for great writing. We’re talking art here, pal.)

I came home Saturday night in my typical mood of everyday hatred, but in tribute to the book on mussar I had just read, I put my feelings on hold and before I blogged anything, I emailed author Alan Morinis some questions.

I print them here:

* Why did you write it?

I wrote "Everyday Holiness" because the Mussar tradition is little known today, but it has a history of a millennium of exploration of human life that I believe is an enormously valuable resource to people living today. Underlying that motive is the fact that I became involved in learning and practicing Mussar myself as a spiritual path and practice, and I have seen the positive impact it has had on my life. I felt moved to make that same resource available to others.

* Where does it break new ground?

Though Mussar has a long history and is recorded in many books, many already translated into English, it is little known. So my book breaks new ground by opening the door to Mussar, a door that few have found before. Although it isn’t my perspective, but rather the paradigm of the tradition, it will be new to people to encounter how the Mussar teachers invite them to see their lives as a spiritual curriculum, already encountered and there to be mastered.

* Anything surprise you in the course of writing it?

Yes, how difficult it was to come up with a title. I have been learning and teaching the material for years, so that wasn’t much of a stretch, but the title! The thing about a title is that it is so brief that until you have it, you don’t have anything. I could spend hours listing possible titles and at the end of the period have nothing to show for it except names that I had eliminated. My publisher, wife and friends were all making lists. In the end, it just came to me as I sat in an office waiting to get a visa for a trip and there it was. I knew right away that it was right.

* What’s been the most interesting feedback you’ve received on it?

It’s a little too early for the kind of feedback I am looking for. Because Mussar is a practice, what I hope (and expect) is that people will read the book, undertake the practice, and then find that they have grown and changed in ways that make them want to get in touch with me. That change doesn’t happen overnight, and the book has been out for less than 2 months now.

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Why do the news media try to pass off the UK terrorists as ‘asians’?

Why not call them Middle Easteners or Muslims or something more exact than "asians"?

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Spoiling For A Fight: The Rise Of Eliot Spitzer

I just read this book by Brooke A. Masters and I don’t have a clue whether or not Spitzer is good for America. I can’t say I recommend the book. It’s awfully dull. I don’t understand why it got such good reviews.

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Pico-Robertson’s Shtibl Minyan

David Suissa writes:

For one thing, everyone chips in on everything. And I mean everythingthey take turns leading the prayers, reading from the Torah, making commentaries on the Torah portion of the week and, of course, setting up and cleaning up after the Kiddush.

That’s why they call it egalitarian. There are no presidents, no rabbis and no chazzans. Everyone’s equal. It’s sort of a structured free-for-all. If a decision needs to be made, it must be by consensus. You wonder how they still talk to each other.

When I visited, there were maybe 25 or 30 people in a nondescript, medium-sized conference room, which they rent from the Workmen’s Circle. There are long tables facing each other, a perfect setting for, say, a city council meeting in a tiny Midwestern town. But you quickly realize that you are in a shul, a serious shul. No one talks, everyone prays.

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Monty Python’s Guide To Prayer

"Let us praise God. Oh Lord, oooh you are so big. So absolutely huge. Gosh, we’re all really impressed down here I can tell you. Forgive us, O Lord, for this dreadful toadying and barefaced flattery. But you are so strong and, well, just so super. Fantastic. Amen." (Michael Palin as the chaplain in The Meaning of Life)

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