How Can A Beta Male Change His Life?

From the Chateau:

For the extreme, for the beta male whose life is already in ruins and can’t do any worse, move to a new city, at least 1000 miles from your home. You don’t want it to be easy to go back. For the advanced version, move overseas. Everyone who knows you as a total skeezy loser is now gone, and you are free to tell people you are the man that you’ve always wanted to be. Since they don’t know any better, they take you at your word, while you act the part accordingly. Soon enough, you actually ARE this man, and you can’t believe everyone fell for it. You are now getting laid and have cool friends. Mission accomplished.

The downside is being far away from your old friends and your family. Some people are just homebodies and can’t hack it, and will cry every night if they’re not in the place they happened to grow up. Oh, well. There’s no such thing as a free lunch. Which do you want more, to stay in a comfortable social-poverty that will never change for the rest of your life, or make a radical change and start getting actual attractive women to willingly submit themselves to your every desire?

* Turn off your TV. All current TV and movies are propaganda meant to induce sheep like depressed isolation from others. Same goes for current music, most is super faggy beta shit. Same goes for porn, the eskimos are pushing hard to make us think that cuckold and interracial mandingo porn is what women want, and to make us feel like we aren’t good enough. Also the classics never go out of style for a reason, check out old (pre 1960) movies and books for your entertainment fix.

Socialize. Just go outside.

Game all girls. ALL. From 5 year olds to 80 year olds, even your mom and your sister. Good practice and they all enjoy it. They should be giggly when you come around.

Fuck yes to lifting. More testosterone and the gainz will give you confidence.

http://www.oldtimestrongman.com/strength-articles/iron-henry-rollins

Get a hobby. Just got a springer 1911, taking girls shooting is a great date demonstrates mastery and your outdoors being active.

* A badass haircut that shows style and assholery is the SS/fascist/Nazi cut. There are a few versions of it, but they are all distinctly for pure and handsome white males, which should warm your shitlord heart.

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* LBF, I’d put weightlifting no higher than #2. For immediacy & urgency, #1 is always going to be putting yourself into the DIRECT PHYSICAL PROXIMITY OF THE FEMALE OF THE SPECIES. You can’t get laid by your computer, but you can get laid with that cute nurse when you’re volunteering in the hospital on evening shift, or by that cute lifeguard at the swimming pool if you work for Parks & Recreation, or by that cute sales gal at the mall if you’re a security guard. DIRECT PHYSICAL PROXIMITY. Then once in their direct physical proximity, just start saying sh!znat like “Hello!” in a masculine voice.

* Good point about facial hair. When I’m on vacation I get tan and only shave once every three or four days. Girls stare at me from across the street, much more than when I’m pale and clean-shaven. Even if I eat a huge lunch that makes my gut stick out, they can’t look away.

You can take it too far though: after a week, stubble becomes a beard, and interest drops off a cliff. Wierd how it happens, but you can notice it. I can’t imagine how all these hipsters get any poon: they must be jerking off.

And don’t dress like a boy. A stylish shirt launches more gushes than six-pack abs. Wear a shirt with a collar, and trousers even in summer. Shorts and T-shirts are for when you’re changing your oil. If in doubt, ask yourself… WWDDW.

What would Don Draper wear?

In one episode he gets a 3am booty call and gets out of bed and puts on a suit.

Her (giggling): Do you sleep in that?

DD (stone-faced): I’m vain.

*Sex*

* Approach everyone. Once cuties start giving you attitude you’re on the right track.

* Embrace and live by the Platinum Rule – DO WHATEVER YOU REALLY WANT TO DO WHENEVER YOU WANT TO DO IT. Tattoo this on the inside of your forehead.

Now in the short term you may need to work up to be in a position to execute on the Platinum Rule, but that is living by the ethos of the rule. Go and live by it.

* “It’s amazing how much of this natural attitude is beaten out of young white boys via parents, church, society, school.”

You raise a good point. But as a father it is a trick to balance things right. I want to instill White values in my 9 year-old son without turning him into a docile beta with a herd mentality.

Hard work? Yes, I want to teach my son the value of putting his best effort into his endeavors, of a job well-done, of the satisfaction that comes from solving a difficult problem or building something from nothing.

Sacrifice? Yes, I want to teach my son that some sacrifices now will pay off later; the pain of getting hurt while training jujitsu, saving his money for something big and more expensive rather than blowing it on lots of little things right away, doing things for your family because you love them.

I’m trying to work in the appropriate dose of some jerk-boy mentality into my son’s upbringing, but it’s a tricky balance in my experience so far.

There is a time and place for ZFG, but “do whatever you want whenever you want to do it” isn’t a good lesson.

After all, I’m trying to raise a White man, not a nigger.

About Luke Ford

I've written five books (see Amazon.com). My work has been covered in the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, and on 60 Minutes. I teach Alexander Technique in Beverly Hills (Alexander90210.com).
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