Dan emails:
1. The quality of the girls you shoot for is less important than the quality of the men who are your competition.
2. It is not the girls who are rejecting you, but the more desirable men who are out-competing you.
3. Your focus should be self-improvement, which will improve your standing against the male competition. Working out, increasing your income, learning skills all play a role.
4. Go to a place where you are in competitive standing relative to the men around you. A schoolteacher, for example, will not be successful in Silicon Valley. A welder or mechanic should find a place where his skills are in the highest demand as to maximize his profit from them.
5. Studies show that happiness is most strongly based on a person’s standing relative to those around him. If, after maximizing your efforts in following rules 3 and 4, you are still not competitive, move to a place like Paraguay or Thailand.